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I Tend to Have "Friends" Who Use Me

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    Not So Much Anymore

    I guess that's what happens when you're a natural care-giver like me. I just want everyone to be safe, fed, sheltered, and happy. I often over-give of myself to make that happen, and sometimes it bites me in the ***, but as I grow older, I'm learning how to set better boundaries...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    "we Should Hang Out At The Weekend!"

    That's what my friend said to me, and I'll admit, I was thrilled that I was being noticed by a friend for once. (Oh and if you're this friend reading this, don't bother telling me on facebook that you're not like this. I've known you too long, love).And then it turns out that she...
    NamiKat NamiKat 16-17 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    It's Odd...

    ...but as I look back over the years I've had quite a few "friends" who totally took advantage of me and used me. Claimed to be my best friend in the world but always made me feel like crap about myself, all the while I'm babysitting their kids for free or taking out...
    TheLibrarian TheLibrarian 36-40, F Feb 23, 2008

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    Expendable By All

    The title says it all. My only purpose in life seems to be for everyone I encounter to use me. I'm 19 and going into my sophomore year of college. Ever since I was considered smart by everyone in high school, I've been an academic asset to "friends." People who haven't spoken to...
    AlwaysUsed AlwaysUsed 18-21 Jul 5, 2012

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    Use Me, Yes They Do, Why I Tolerate It

    This story goes back 17 years to the present.  Honestly if I'd rather be dead than to have to live my life without friends.  Unfortunately I haven't been able to make friends with the Average Joe type.  The only kind of people that I've been able to make friends...
    lawnmowrman lawnmowrman 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    Hello,I've tried a couple of dating sites,and I'm not at all impressed,nobody is who they say they are. I guess I should of realised this, the people I know who use these sites are...
    deg1965 deg1965 46-50, M 5 hrs ago

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    I myself, have no clue what to do with my life. I finished year 12 last year and even then, whenever a peer would ask me questions like "what do you want to study in university...
    breesworld breesworld 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Woke up needing to go but I drank a few cups of coffee instead! Going to hold all day!
    singledaddyofone singledaddyofone 22-25, M 16 hrs ago

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    After experiencing a year of university, I have broadened my perspective and social circle a lot more. It's made me realise many things; several things being some people will never...
    turtlemonster turtlemonster 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    There is this girl who came into my life a year ago and I was lonely and confided EVERYTHING to her. I told her who I was mad at, who I wanted to be friends with, who to watch out...
    AMIAROM AMIAROM 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Someone control my bladder??
    AnonGirl77777777 AnonGirl77777777 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have to pee so badly right now, I can't hold it in
    dreamerx14 dreamerx14 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Woke up desperate to pee! Anybody want to chat and control me??
    N2p1987 N2p1987 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I don't have a bf but I am Bipolar and I don't like the stigma people put on it
    krazkcatlady3085 krazkcatlady3085 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    To all the women who have children and who want to be parents in the future, teach your sons that women don't owe them a ******* thing.
    MissQueenB MissQueenB 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Honestly I think the whole idea is a cesspool for the mentally weak. The latest greatest idea that is Tinder which was meant for speed dating has now become a McDonald's drive thru...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    ...i used to do everything they wanted me to do, except have friends. when i started talking to guys to meet them as friends back when i was 25, 10 years ago, i started going out...
    sunriseinmyeyes sunriseinmyeyes 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I’ve been friends with benefits with this guy, recently, whom I’ve noticed weird things about. But then again I might be paranoid, and it’s all fine. First red flag: We...
    Masquerade91 Masquerade91 22-25, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I do wanna go just yet! Please make me hold it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Has anybody experience a crippling anxiety? First, I should tell you that I am asian and live in Southeast Asia. I live in a village to boot. Not in the city. Therefore, life in...
    kiBraziki kiBraziki 18-21, F a week ago

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    I love my wife dearly. On many levels, she and I are perfect for one another. Since I found her, I don't even see other women the same way that I used to.That being said, I have a...
    Stepdadoutside Stepdadoutside 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Don't have to pee yet, but gonna start holding now.. Who wants to join?
    WettingStacy WettingStacy 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I've had to pee super bad since 8 pm it's 9:22 pm now who wants me to hold it?
    BladderControler BladderControler 16-17, F Feb 2

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    Ok..not my whole life, Thank God. My dad kicked her out when I was 15, with good cause. She was horrible and I don't miss her. I don't know where she is or if she is even still...
    LuvinKitty LuvinKitty 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I am here asking for advice, I met my twin flame through work. Both of us females & bisexual - she had a girlfriend, I had a boyfriend. I could tell you the full back story of how...
    Tan4190 Tan4190 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Hi there!! I'm here to share some of my experiences and how I feel as a freshman of Temple University, who try fight through the loneliness in her life here in Pennsylvania, US...
    angelofthelight angelofthelight 18-21, F Jan 31

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    Anyone want to make me hold?Message me!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 30

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    who wants to talk about anime
    experiencedowner experiencedowner 18-21, M Jan 29

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    I used to get drunk a lot (when younger) but I never needed it to have fun, I can have fun sober, in fact I'm quite jumpy and with a tendency to be joking all the time (to the...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Jan 29

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    Have been since noon. I've really got to go. How much longer should I hold?
    secretleaker secretleaker 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    :) thanks to EP - I know this 'kink' exists! I'm not sure how 'into it' I am... But was thinking of all of you who enjoy it when I was on a walk yesterday! Didn't want to be...
    Nipper66 Nipper66 46-50, F 13 Responses Jan 29

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Jan 29

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    That moment when you realize that your entire social life is online... My "friends" in real life don't care about me. They'll say that they do and sure, they'll talk to me if I...
    Whobody Whobody 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I had never really met a person who had made me question everything about myself-my job, the way I view my relationships with my family, the way I view myself, my anxiety, my...
    sweetsexxylexy sweetsexxylexy 22-25, F Jan 28

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    Well... Actually I had a dream about a coworker. I walked in the Backdoor of our building and it was dark inside. I knew he had walked in right in front of me so I called out his...
    PinkDimples76 PinkDimples76 36-40 1 Response Jan 28

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    Today she showed up at my house at 6 am. She had walked from her house where she lives with my dad (about a mile away). It was about 20 F. She was wearing a coat and asked if her...
    nonolover nonolover 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    my sister is transitioning into a man. she has changed her name , removed her breasts and on hormones . I don't know what to call her .. she's not my brother ... my brother passed...
    challengerway challengerway 41-45, F Jan 26

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    My experience started with an accidental meeting with a cd prior to my ever going a thought about the lifestyle. I have always adored and respected the ladies and still do. My last...
    imacd4me imacd4me 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    Look, I don't hate anyone. It may seem as if me and/or my profile is nothing but anti-theism and anti-religion, but that's not what I'm mainly about. Yes, I'm an anti-theist, but...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    So I sold some used underwear on Craigslist once. I needed extra money and wondered if it would work. It did. Some guy named William bought like $60 worth. I made them extra dirty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 23

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    Who wants to be a friend with some benefits?