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I Tend to Have "Friends" Who Use Me

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    Not So Much Anymore

    I guess that's what happens when you're a natural care-giver like me. I just want everyone to be safe, fed, sheltered, and happy. I often over-give of myself to make that happen, and sometimes it bites me in the ***, but as I grow older, I'm learning how to set better boundaries...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    "we Should Hang Out At The Weekend!"

    That's what my friend said to me, and I'll admit, I was thrilled that I was being noticed by a friend for once. (Oh and if you're this friend reading this, don't bother telling me on facebook that you're not like this. I've known you too long, love).And then it turns out that she...
    NamiKat NamiKat 16-17 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    Use Me, Yes They Do, Why I Tolerate It

    This story goes back 17 years to the present.  Honestly if I'd rather be dead than to have to live my life without friends.  Unfortunately I haven't been able to make friends with the Average Joe type.  The only kind of people that I've been able to make friends...
    lawnmowrman lawnmowrman 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    It's Odd...

    ...but as I look back over the years I've had quite a few "friends" who totally took advantage of me and used me. Claimed to be my best friend in the world but always made me feel like crap about myself, all the while I'm babysitting their kids for free or taking out...
    TheLibrarian TheLibrarian 36-40, F Feb 23, 2008

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    Expendable By All

    The title says it all. My only purpose in life seems to be for everyone I encounter to use me. I'm 19 and going into my sophomore year of college. Ever since I was considered smart by everyone in high school, I've been an academic asset to "friends." People who haven't spoken to...
    AlwaysUsed AlwaysUsed 18-21 Jul 5, 2012

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    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
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    xmarshallx11 xmarshallx11 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Yep and they're mostly from my previous forum. Funny cause I used to think they're better than my friends who can actually see me in person. They understand me, at least I think...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 1 Response Apr 6

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    "Replacement" may as well be my name since that's what I am. No one bothers with me unless they need something from me. They use me shamelessly and then stuff me into the corner to...
    damedesu damedesu 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My mother is amazing! Her sister ( my auntie) was diagnosed with a brain tumour and it was awful my family has already been struggling. It was tough on everyone especially her...
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    I wish I could break down in tears in front of my parents, especially my dad, so that they could see how their insults and verbally abusive tendencies take a toll on my sanity. I...
    Haylay Haylay 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I guess it's my fault. I moved around a lot as a kid and found it difficult to make friends, especially being a socially awkward ISTJ. I was never the popular "New Kid" or...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Ananananan12 Ananananan12 22-25 Apr 4

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    Some times I think you're an ******* but I know you really aren't. I just feel like I'm annoying you, that's why I try not to text you. I just don't want you to leave me alone. I...
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    UpsideTown UpsideTown 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Would love to have a gf that makes a mess in her panties and pulls them down so I can take her in her messy holes.
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    I am in such a sad situatioin, i have a new boyfriend after a long time being single.He is a nice guy,full of potential but he drinks so much.He says football,beer and friends go...
    TINALI TINALI 31-35 1 Response Apr 8

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    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It's been a whole year since DDay(discovery day). I will never forget the sequence of events that happened that weekend or the things that transpired that day.
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    She doesn't love me because I remind her too much of my father. I haven't spoken a word to here within the last six months besides a merry Christmas text. I didn't get a "Happy...
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    factsarefacts factsarefacts 26-30 Apr 7

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    Puppyprint Puppyprint 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My friend never touched a piano until last week when we got him a keyboard. He doesn't know sheet music and is learning by ear. Within the past week he has already learned 3 songs...
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    noconcerns noconcerns 18-21, F 19 Responses Mar 25

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    We're very sad today because our sweetest basset hound puppy named Lily got parvo and we don't know if she'll gonna make it. The other night I went out and they push the gate and...
    chinab3280 chinab3280 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    to add to my last post, my sisters name is first and middle name is Mary Elizabeth, I don't know her birthday
    xmarshallx11 xmarshallx11 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Am I wrong for wanting her to quit the only thing that brings her happiness? It's hard having a mom that loses her mind for fun, she says "it's my medicine" But obviously she's not...
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F Mar 30

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    BlackDaisee BlackDaisee 18-21, F Apr 4

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    It's not easy but... It's worth it!!! Do yourself a favor and let go of the pain caused by those suckers!
    mamachi mamachi 26-30, F Apr 4

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