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I Tend to Have "Friends" Who Use Me

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    Expendable By All - The title says it all. My only purpose in life seems to be for everyone I encounter to use me. I'm 19 and going into my sophomore year of college. Ever since I...
    AlwaysUsed AlwaysUsed 18-21 Jul 5, 2012

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    Not So Much Anymore - I guess that's what happens when you're a natural care-giver like me. I just want everyone to be safe, fed, sheltered, and happy. I often over-give of myself...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    It's Odd... - ...but as I look back over the years I've had quite a few "friends" who totally took advantage of me and used me. Claimed to be my best friend in the world...
    TheLibrarian TheLibrarian 36-40, F Feb 23, 2008

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    "we Should Hang Out At The Weekend!" - That's what my friend said to me, and I'll admit, I was thrilled that I was being noticed by a friend for once. (Oh and if you're...
    NamiKat NamiKat 16-17 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    Use Me, Yes They Do, Why I Tolerate It - This story goes back 17 years to the present.  Honestly if I'd rather be dead than to have to live my life without friends. ...
    lawnmowrman lawnmowrman 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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