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I Tend To Place People On Pedestals

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    Twice Guilty Now Innocent

    I used to be so very guilty of putting people up on pedestals, it was one of the more atrocious crimes one could ever commit. Especially when in the heat of the love, I ended up painfully blind to very real faults and I vowed to cease doing that. I can't do that anymore because...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Well At Least One Lady

    Put her on a pedestal to elevate her and show her how beautiful and wonderful she really is.   She doesn't keep me low long for she elevates me up as well.
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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