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I Tend To Place People On Pedestals

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    Twice Guilty Now Innocent - I used to be so very guilty of putting people up on pedestals, it was one of the more atrocious crimes one could ever commit. Especially when in the...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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