I Tend To Place People On Pedestals

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    Well At Least One Lady

    Put her on a pedestal to elevate her and show her how beautiful and wonderful she really is.   She doesn't keep me low long for she elevates me up as well.
    mtvlm mtvlm
    41-45, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2012

    I place them way higher

    than I should. It's how I show I care. Then eventually I see who they really are. when they fall from that pedestal it's the worst feeling in the world to me. I guess because that's when I realize they aren't who I thought they were but I still try to keep fighting for it.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    Once I let you in my life you can do no wrong.

    ...until you do me wrong then you are equivalent to the Anti Christ and the Devil is a lie .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    .....I can't help it,

    it is what we borderlines do in order for you to be "considered" good in our eyes
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2015

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