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I The Older I Get The More I Realise What I Loser I Am

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    Okay With It

    I suppose to the outside world, I might seem to be a loser. Just finishing college now at 28, full of debt, long history of mental illness only recently resolved (thank you, ECT!), bunch of dead-end jobs I couldn't even stay at, a kid I can't even care for properly (day care...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Rather, *was*

    What a ***** I used to be! I always had to put everyone down, I treated everyone like crap, and I was even worse to myself. All I did was fight, talk sh*t, and complain.I still catch myself slipping in that direction occasionally, but I put myself in check ASAP!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 14, 2011

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    Three Years Gone

    And that's only here..since I've been in Wisconsin, I've worked one job and that was so stressful I talked to a pharmacist in the back room, and explained in tears(and I don't cry in front of strangers) how it was too stressful there and I couldn't keep up. I had already gotten...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21, 2010

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    Last One To Realize

    Let me tell you about myself. I am smart, attractive, sweet, and I have a decent body. I am not Angelina Jolie but men have found me attractive. Here is what people don't see. I have incredibly low-self esteem, self confidence. I have always had this problem of not feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 2, 2012

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    Life is hard if you are a loser.

    I was allways a loser. Since my school years i spend my days alone. From 1 grade to 7 grade i had 2 best friends. But after i moved out from my mother country as i was 14 to another country, i stopped having good friends. I tried so hard i could to get friends but i allways...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I Will Always Be A Loser

    So mom told me i snore gosh what is left now can i become any worse what a Loser i am With every passing day life is becoming worse All the hopes and dreams i secure turn out to be a lie Do you have any idea how being a Loser feels......................
    aloserlikeme aloserlikeme 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    A lot of you guys who add me seem to only add me cause I said I liked older guys, but if you read the post and the post that explains it you will see why I said that. I'm not some...
    WoundedDreamer WoundedDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Anywhere from the same age as me to about eight years older than me I think is perfect. I love having a more experienced man about. Not an old man, just older than me. What would...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    What if, I made that move... What if I've done something different. What if? Back in high school, I met this girl. I was in ESL, and so was she, the first day she came in she...
    Roy186 Roy186 18-21, M Jun 30

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    I do... For you I wish I was more than what I am now because I know I can never be what you truly want and I am so scared you'll leave me for someone for actually deserves you...
    KawaiiMushmew KawaiiMushmew 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am more than what you know or could think
    kam878 kam878 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I am what you'd call top heavy. In a society where *** is where it's at I don't get looked at if ever. But one group seem to still love the top heavy girls....skeezy older men. I...
    isodole isodole 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    I don't know why, but I seem to get along with people older then me easily, more than the people that are around my own age. Well, at least I think so.
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    You know what my fellow losers can become friends and guess what even if we are losers we can rise above and be the coolest peeps you have ever seen so my fellow losers show you...
    birdroks birdroks 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I'm a 45 year old loser that still lives with his mother. I not only hate my life right now, I hated it yesterday, the day before that, 40 years ago, and will hate it tomorrow and...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M Jul 8

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    I remember the first time I realised masculinity existed. The first time I realised men were men and not just Uncles or Dads or Brothers. I was 7 and watching an old James Bond...
    LoveSophia LoveSophia 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Intelligence and worldly wisdom is more attractive than outlook
    hisamedusssa hisamedusssa 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    i now see why people do that. i've always thought it only happens in books and movies to help the plot along. you know, Tom needs to see a tree that reminds him of one in his...
    experiencedyetunprepared experiencedyetunprepared 16-17, F Jul 8

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    I'm 23 & a loser. I don't have a job, a unfaithful husband and soon to be losing our house. I feel like my friends look at me and think "what a loser!" I've been in community...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm a LOSERRR. But who cares? We can all be losers together and we can make a Loser club for all those kids who feel alone even when they're surrounded by people at the lunch table...
    DepressedButWellDressed DepressedButWellDressed 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    ^ this is true but I mean like the limit is 4 years older hahahaha xD
    kath12321 kath12321 13-15, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    i like older guys who are hairy and hot or fat. my Skype is ninjawer
    Ninja6677 Ninja6677 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    I have had much younger girls interested in me and it just makes life so wonderful. I like older ladies too.
    MikeUK MikeUK 51-55 8 hrs ago

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    My dads 65th birthday is today. My oldest brother is actually 42...they are the reason why I feel older than I am
    kaps105 kaps105 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have a severe crush on one of my old friends mothers. I knew her when i was bery young but i met her again recently and she's all i can think about. She is widowed and i don't...
    James9456 James9456 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I would love to chat with a younger girl and be her dad or just an older male friend that is open and talk about anything. Preferably kinky and/or 'dirty' stuff that we've done or...
    lovabletnguy lovabletnguy 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    I have recently graduated from Uni. I was there for 3 years. I loved my first 2 years. I had a miserable time in 3rd year, but now its all done I am looking back with regret at the...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I've always been attracted to older men ever since I was a little kid. After having experiences with younger men, I no longer have any interest in dating younger men and never will...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    Or so says my mom because she thinks I hangout with losers. Apparently because I hangout with people who are into body modification. And it makes me a loser because I am into body...
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yup.. not worried at all, since I am all sexy *feels cocky* :P No, actually it is not about being sexy, I just think that I look younger than my age anyway, so it will take longer...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm 22 years old and I feel like I've been wasting the early part of my adult life. I graduated from high school in 2011 and began attending a community college during the fall of...
    Loser92 Loser92 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm totally big loser! Never be wanted never be loved never be kissed .i know I'm not good enough but only thing I ask just a nice person like me back.did I ask to much? I'm 27 now...
    allnotmine allnotmine 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    This is a thought. I need to make this thought reality. This was the worst period in my life. I was just lost and confused. I didn't have any purpose. I saw inspiring movies, but...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I think that attraction to an older guy has always been there, I've liked the older guys in highschool for example when I was 14-15 in my 3-4th year at highschool and I never...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I felt & still have scars . I feel like a loser . Most people I meet leave me . & Also I'm insecure about my looks . I sometimes feel like nothing . I want to improve my...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Jun 25

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    If you read my previous post, you'd know i was cheated on. I remember those dark days when i felt everything was getting out of control, my emotions were just everywhere. I was sad...
    Ambiguoustruth Ambiguoustruth 22-25 Jun 29

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    Who wanta to be my loser sponser? Message me or heart this and ill message u
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I'm a 17 years old boy. I have been confused about my sexuality for about 2 years, and I still am. There are two weird sides to this story. I was 15 when I first started to feel...
    WillsWill WillsWill 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Read my profile- profiler of a loser. Nobody wants to do with me, nobody care. People come and go and they hurt me. Now i decided to delete some "friends" who doesnt write and i...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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