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I The Older I Get The More I Realise What I Loser I Am

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    Okay With It

    I suppose to the outside world, I might seem to be a loser. Just finishing college now at 28, full of debt, long history of mental illness only recently resolved (thank you, ECT!), bunch of dead-end jobs I couldn't even stay at, a kid I can't even care for properly (day care...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Rather, *was*

    What a ***** I used to be! I always had to put everyone down, I treated everyone like crap, and I was even worse to myself. All I did was fight, talk sh*t, and complain.I still catch myself slipping in that direction occasionally, but I put myself in check ASAP!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 14, 2011

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    I Will Always Be A Loser

    So mom told me i snore gosh what is left now can i become any worse what a Loser i am With every passing day life is becoming worse All the hopes and dreams i secure turn out to be a lie Do you have any idea how being a Loser feels......................
    apersonlikeme apersonlikeme 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Last One To Realize

    Let me tell you about myself. I am smart, attractive, sweet, and I have a decent body. I am not Angelina Jolie but men have found me attractive. Here is what people don't see. I have incredibly low-self esteem, self confidence. I have always had this problem of not feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 2, 2012

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    Three Years Gone

    And that's only here..since I've been in Wisconsin, I've worked one job and that was so stressful I talked to a pharmacist in the back room, and explained in tears(and I don't cry in front of strangers) how it was too stressful there and I couldn't keep up. I had already gotten...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21, 2010

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    Older, more experienced men are the best... I'm still young, and it's lovely to have a man who can help me figure out how to be better in bed and try new things with me and **** me...
    KittyCunt KittyCunt 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    My dad slapped my sister so hard that she almost went to the ground... She didn't want my mother or me to do anything. My mom also didn't want me getting angry because he would...
    Runaway1995 Runaway1995 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    SO I was typing how to stop being a loser and found this site. Most people were speaking of why they are a loser and I didn't see anything on how to change. I do want to change. I...
    Overit1 Overit1 36-40, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Everyone acts like young = dumb and inexperienced. They act like every older guy will manipulate a young girl who goes after older guys. They act like every young girl is naive and...
    babynymphette babynymphette 18-21, F 21 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My life has never been easy, but honestly no ones is. we all have had struggles and been through so much, that made us who we are today. My father left when I was 3, my mother...
    lisa82688 lisa82688 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Dad just came back in my room and went "how come the weekend you have a sleep over you always want to skip the following Monday? " I never realised I do that and I only skip...
    KXTb KXTb 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Earlier this year I ended up having a very unlikely friendship with a mutual friend who was much older than me. I don't know how it happened and I didn't expect it to but he was so...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    I am a loser, I am a great loser and I am the biggest loser of this planet. Nothing happened in my life what I wanted. Still I hope that something better will happen. But nothing...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I started liking older men when I was about 13 years old. I felt confused about it because at the same time I enjoyed thinking about older men but I felt guilty about it because I...
    Birdy666 Birdy666 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    ive always thought about an older guys touching my C lit
    KidInk1996 KidInk1996 18-21 3 hrs ago

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    im 28 despite what my profile says idk it just seems like people in their mid 30s late 30s 40s they all treat mental illness with the old ''its an excuse'' or ''snap out of it...
    poopmaster1960 poopmaster1960 51-55, T 1 Response 38 mins ago

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    im 28 despite what my profile says idk it just seems like people in their mid 30s late 30s 40s they all treat mental illness with the old ''its an excuse'' or ''snap out of it...
    poopmaster1960 poopmaster1960 51-55, T 38 mins ago

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    This World Needs Mending I have come to realise that this world is in great need of fixing ,and it will take more than a elastoplast to do this.What has happened to consideration...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 11

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    I used to have a few, and I never used to see myself as weird and awkward, just sort of wonderfully strange. People have never gravitated toward me like to others, but I could...
    WonderingOfTheSoul WonderingOfTheSoul 18-21 Apr 13

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    My experience constitutes as a question as well because all though I'm experiencing something new, I have questions along the way. I am girl and a junior in high school, who has a...
    nikki47 nikki47 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I was in an unhappy marriage, we lost a son 22 years ago and had a daughter straight after. But our marriage took a nose dive, but we managed to live harmoniously for another 14...
    lifesabitchagain lifesabitchagain 61-65, M Mar 27

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    I was in an unhappy marriage, we lost a son 22 years ago and had a daughter straight after. But our marriage took a nose dive, but we managed to live harmoniously for another 14...
    lifesabitchagain lifesabitchagain 61-65, M Mar 27

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    So I was sitting in the break room talking to a friend in Spanish about my weekend and this older Caucasian woman walks in automatically pissed and says to me "Speak English! I...
    Aliceinwonderland87 Aliceinwonderland87 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Today I woke up thinking about what I want out of life. I realized that I have put myself in an awful situation in a relationship in my life. I have compromised what I believe in...
    Hockeyplayer56 Hockeyplayer56 46-50, M 16 hrs ago

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    my life is never easy, my parents are finding out more of me by the week. I am not of what I used to be, but that makes me stronger of what I am, and so are my friends.
    jackhack101 jackhack101 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Love older guys since they have more of an idea what will or will not turn a woman on. Young, immature men think that having $$$$=women chasing you. A good woman has her own...
    Islndgirl Islndgirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm going to SMILE like nothing's wrong, PRETEND like everything's all right, ACT like its all perfect, even though inside it really hurts!!!It really hurts when you expected so...
    syedanazia syedanazia 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Let me start off by saying that i'm not into dating older guys - but I came to ask a question to the girls who are. How old was your father when you were born? How old is he now...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I’m apologizing in advance because this experience is going to take a few minutes to read. I have to however start to process what happened in some way and I’m trying...
    SensualPassionbbw SensualPassionbbw 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    i will always be a loser and im proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    JolenaMartins JolenaMartins 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Society programs us. Healthy shows vanish. Truthful shows vanish. Or get altered. But what is human. If animals are more humane than us.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 12 hrs ago

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    sometimes I don't wanna even move I wanna lay on the cold hard ground and just wait for it to take me in. I'll shake from crying so bad I can't feel my legs. I feel so alone and...
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am 24 but I feel comfortable and at ease talking to people who are older than me. Maybe because I can able to converse with them with any mature and decent topics. I usually get...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I realised that nobody knows what their zodiac sign means I don't know what mine means either so we are all in the same boat people
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I'm gonna come right out and say I have been a sexual deviant even before I was introduced to alternative substances. Ever since I saw my mother's wedding dress for the first time...
    Melissa11520 Melissa11520 41-45 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Yes, I am quite young... I am like 15.But I feel like I am quite mature for my age. But my parents think otherwise. I donĀ“t know what to say to that. Maybe they are right, but...
    LivingDeadGirl2000 LivingDeadGirl2000 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 30

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    I personally love older men because they are much more experienced and they know what they are doing And they know what to expect when it comes to getting intimate
    BabyKitten14 BabyKitten14 13-15, F 13 Responses Mar 31

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    And I don't mean like 20's or 30's either. I don't know what my deal is but I just find older men so much more attractive. I have a teacher in his 50's and I have a huge crush on...
    AttachmentIssues AttachmentIssues 16-17, F 8 Responses Apr 4

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    I come on here and read so many things, I am trying to get more involved with writing as well, but part of me feels I shouldn't reach out and offer friendship, because I am a bit...
    MrPerditus MrPerditus 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    What is it about older men that makes me want more???
    littleblondieuk littleblondieuk 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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