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I The Older I Get The More I Realise What I Loser I Am

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    Okay With It

    I suppose to the outside world, I might seem to be a loser. Just finishing college now at 28, full of debt, long history of mental illness only recently resolved (thank you, ECT!), bunch of dead-end jobs I couldn't even stay at, a kid I can't even care for properly (day care...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Three Years Gone

    And that's only here..since I've been in Wisconsin, I've worked one job and that was so stressful I talked to a pharmacist in the back room, and explained in tears(and I don't cry in front of strangers) how it was too stressful there and I couldn't keep up. I had already gotten...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21, 2010

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    Rather, *was*

    What a ***** I used to be! I always had to put everyone down, I treated everyone like crap, and I was even worse to myself. All I did was fight, talk sh*t, and complain.I still catch myself slipping in that direction occasionally, but I put myself in check ASAP!
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 14, 2011

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    I Will Always Be A Loser

    So mom told me i snore gosh what is left now can i become any worse what a Loser i am With every passing day life is becoming worse All the hopes and dreams i secure turn out to be a lie Do you have any idea how being a Loser feels......................
    aloserlikeme aloserlikeme 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    Last One To Realize

    Let me tell you about myself. I am smart, attractive, sweet, and I have a decent body. I am not Angelina Jolie but men have found me attractive. Here is what people don't see. I have incredibly low-self esteem, self confidence. I have always had this problem of not feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 2, 2012

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    probably:) who knows..it's better to consider yourself a loser initially than to become one because of stupid self-confidence...
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