I The Other Woman

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    Question. I know what MM means

    and what H and W stand for. But I have yet to figure out what AP stand for. SO. Significant other AP- another partner?
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2014

    Just read this interest story on Huff Post.

    http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6220364
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    I'm confused. I think I woke up one day

    and fell out of love. How did this happen? His wife came back from being out of the country for 3 months. (Saturday) I knew we could not see each other as much as we were. As soon as she arrived almost all text and email came to a stop. I knew that was going to happen. He...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014

    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate at City...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch
    22-25
    Jun 2, 2011

    I'm in a spot where I don't know

    which way to go. MM's wife is due to come back home in April. She has been out of the country since the end of December. When she gets back she might be moving to NY. She wants to be closer to her grandkids. She has talked about divorce but has not filed. He doesn't want to...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2015

    I lie in bed crying because my feeling are

    so strong for the one I love, (I haven't loved in over 20 yrs) but i can't show it, I feel if I do it may push him away for he has feelings for another, not real sure where I stand beside second, I wish I knew how he felt about me. My mind tells me to move on but i hang on hope...
    Needtoknow73 Needtoknow73
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 29

    I saw MM on Sunday. Most of the time we get

    together it's either at my apartment or when W is out of town at his place. We live about 45 minutes away from each other. If he meets me at my apartment it's about two hours going to and from for him to see me. Sunday he asked me to drive to his town and get a motel. So we...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Dec 29, 2014

    Is it bad for me to not want to be with my

    family on Thanksgiving? I would rather sit at home and wait on MM. I will get to see him that night. Back ground: I have only been divorced for seven months. My ex-husband will be at my family's house. I know we can be in the same room together. I just don't want to be...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Nov 22, 2014

    I got to spend 4 hours with my MM on Sunday.

    It was nice to spend that much time with him. Since W is back in town our time together has been limited. I told him Sunday, I didn't want to be alone for the rest of my life. I would love to be with him. She keeps talking about divorce but has not gone through with it...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Dec 8, 2014

    Ok is it just me or is it common

    for most....I get sooo turned on when my mm talks dirty to me while making love. The dirtier his mouth gets he hotter I get....I mean seriously the "oh fu$k me baby....harder harder" gets me all the time and his moaning makes me climax so hard....his low sexual voice wispearing...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014

    I'm so in love. It is amazing feeling to know

    what true love feel like. I was on my way to met him for supper and a movie. Talked to him a few times during the day. Spent the night with him twice last week but he was too tried to want to do any thing. He is 66 years old. I over looked it. When he is up to it, the sex is...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Nov 25, 2014

    *update* London based Research... Are You Interested?

    Following my previous posts about research regarding the other woman I am now conducting a quick survey which i would be grateful if you could take a few minutes to complete: Survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/BPY22CT Also, for any other women/men who were or are interested...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch
    22-25
    Jun 14, 2012

    I know he loves me. He has told me

    and shows me all the time that he loves me but I still wonder. Every now and then I really start to question it. I have been the last couple of days. Today I had to drive to his town to see a sick friend. I then stop off at MM favorite coffee store to get him a GC for...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2014

    I wonder if he will be my one day?

    I know he loves me. The way he holds me. I can feel it in his touch. I know he thinks of me just as much as I think of him. He will text me though out the day. He will sneak out of the room to call me. The little things he will say or do for me. April is when I will...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Dec 26, 2014

    After 10 Years Together...

    Been with my MM 10 years. During the first 7 he insisted he'd never leave his family. When we broke up after 7 years, we couldn't stay apart and decided to have a future together. We started working on a 3-yr plan for him to extract himself from his marriage until the youngest...
    10years 10years
    41-45, F
    13 Responses May 22, 2010

    I Am The Other Woman

    I am having an affair. Neither of us are married, he has been with his girlfriend for 2 years and me with my boyfriend for 10. I have been seeing him for 3 months, but I think I am starting to fall in love with him. I believe that love has no time frame. I can't stop thinking...
    2beloved 2beloved
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2012

    Will be leaving tomorrow

    for FL. My MM invited me to go with on a business trip. I'm all packed ready to go. Will get to spend the night with him. ( wife is out of the country) 3 days with him. He will be busy some but not too bad. I plan on knitting and taken it easy. On Saturday, we are going to a...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    Mar 11, 2015

    I am no longer the ow

    but when I was it was the best feeling in the world. Its better that he chose his son over me but of still hurts. Of anyone wants the whole story let me know and I'll post it.
    hopelessromantic9613 hopelessromantic9613
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014

    I love my mm. It will be 2 years

    since I started seeing him. Even from the very beginning after we said we loved each other, the little things he does. If I have one of those day when I start to doubt how much he cares for me. I will get a text, a call or an email from him telling me he loves me. If I can't...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2015

    July is coming. His W is due back to town then.

    She will only be here for 2 weeks. I told him he had until that time to let me know one way or the other. Meanwhile the wait is driving me nuts. He has not hinted to one way or the other. I try not to talk about it, but it's hard for me to keep my month shut. Last night I...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2015

    There are so many women on here

    that profess to be "the other woman", that stocks of "the woman" must be running short. I think that's why I can't find a date. Damn!!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 18, 2014

    New to EP and need someone

    who is in the same situation as me. None of my friends know who I'm "with" and need someone to talk to. Met MM 1 month ago-he told me he was seperated. Fell hard for him, bc he is everything that I want in a man. Open, affectionate, easy to talk to, appears to be a good dad...
    dpatte15 dpatte15
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    Well in my case I fell in love with the other

    woman ....... And its the kind of love that only happens once, sometime twice in a lifetime. We dated for a year as I had to be certain. Then she dumped me 7 weeks ago. Never had this happen and I understand the idea to keep busy but it's impossible. Now I am rich, in shape...
    Golfer504 Golfer504
    56-60, M
    Dec 18, 2014

    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some London, UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch
    22-25
    Sep 2, 2011

    Crazy Me!!!

    yes..its true that im very much inlove with a married man..!!! but he is separated with his wife without divorce so he is still married!!! how come???? do u know why..?? he makes me feel that im very special to him.. - he cares for me a lot - he give me the importance that i...
    kathy02 kathy02
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2013

    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate at...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch
    22-25
    Jan 2, 2011

    Today was a great day.

    ..went grocery shopping with mm and then went to the park. Things got a little heated and I was so turned in that he reached in his pants and unzipped his jeans and allowed me to stroke him ever so slowly. We giggled like two teenagers and ran into the bush bent me over and...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    I lie in bed crying because my feeling are

    so strong for the one I love, (I haven't loved in over 20 yrs) but i can't show it, I feel if I do it may push him away for he has feelings for another, not real sure where I stand beside second, I wish I knew how he felt about me. My mind tells me to move on but i hang on hope...
    Needtoknow73 Needtoknow73
    41-45, F
    Feb 29

    I Was The Other Woman ..... And Its Over..and So Am I!

    I was once a very successful career woman and a divroced mum and 2 kids.... Until i met a married man who was a colleague of mine... We found each other attracted to each others by intellect, humor and chemistry simply clicked.. He was so sensitve thoughtful and tender .. And i...
    Witerose Witerose
    41-45
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    I Cant Stand (some Women)

    I just had to speak my peace I cant stand some women they have no respect for them selves or any one else for that matter They just get involved with married men and dont care about the damage they are inflicting on innocent women and kids How dare they! Who do they think they...
    nync333 nync333
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Dec 16, 2008

    I'm struggling with needing a promise from MM.

    A promise that if he could he would make me his wife- or at least his GF/ live in GF. And I know, if he could he would. But I need to hear it. I need or want a ring. I keep thinking that is shallow of me. It's just a ring with no meaning. Maybe because I have been married...
    yori1983 yori1983
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2015
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