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I Think A Connection Matters

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,649 People

    Should i cut off all the people

    that I don't click? So i don't have to pathetically wait and so that they could be only with the people they click?
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses Jul 5, 2015

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    I miss having a deep connection with someone.

    Someone who checks in daily to say hello and they're thinking of you; someone who can "feel" when something is wrong or "feel" you thinking of them. I'm hoping this is the year! It will be a year of change I feel it :) and it's all good!
    xTenderHeartx xTenderHeartx 36-40, F Jan 4

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    A connection isn't for the sake of your own

    pleasure. It's meant for the two of you in your own special relationship.
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    it matters so much yet it sucks

    when you have one with a person you cant have
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 2, 2015

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    Human connection it's the reason

    why we are all here. No matter how successful we are. How many degrees we may obtain. The cars and house, a fat bank account. Without human connection. Its all null and void. Humanity without connection. Is excruciating.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

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    Pretty much idiotic not to know connection is

    the key to any monogamous long term relationship.  Marriage without connection would be pretty much insane.However, I'm beginning to wonder if humans don't need some connections beyond that.  I don't think it's any exaggeration to say that's what the majority of EP is...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 11 Responses May 16, 2015

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    I have a serious relationship with my wi-fi.

    ... you could say we have a connection....
    LiquidSunshine1 LiquidSunshine1 46-50, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Something deep and meaningful.

    The kind that is hard to describe to others who may not have ever felt it, or who may not be open to something so powerful, and in turn, leaves you vulnerable. These kind of connections I believe are what matter most in life. They can be life changing in a positive or negative...
    xTenderHeartx xTenderHeartx 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2015

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    What do you most connect with?

    Why? How has it served it's purpose in your life? In the life of others?
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Ok so I'm in a situation here

    so all my life Americans have given me crap cus in Mexican ( don't care anymore ) now honestly there is this wonderful girl and I'm her bff now and she's American it don't bother me but my family and friends don't like her cus she's American but like not all Americans r bad and...
    Bennythebull7 Bennythebull7 13-15, M Dec 26, 2015

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    The connection of two souls is what life comes

    down to in any friendship or relationship. Everything else is meaningless if the two souls aren't in sync.
    Johnny050 Johnny050 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 21, 2015

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    Yes it does... all the time.

    Can't sustain any kind of relationship without it.
    StubbornTiger StubbornTiger 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2015

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    I know of your desire

    for me and your instinctual pull to me, and it makes me feel so sexy and attractive. You know my affection for you is so honest and true, yet you are also the focus of my deepest fantasies which have become increasingly naughty and sexy. You are the one I want, you're my...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F Aug 14, 2015

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    I won't add anyone without first chatting

    for a bit...There has to be some sort of connection, otherwise what's the point!
    Angelkind Angelkind 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    Without communication there's no relationship.

    Without respect there's no love. Without trust there's no reason to continue. The Love cycle so connection is really matters.
    ElleFrancene ElleFrancene 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    ever try to hit yr head to the wall?

    it feels exactly like that if there's no connection!
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 1 Response Apr 30, 2015

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    It sure does. And although over the past years

    I have been looking (in vain) for a connection as part of a romantic relationship, after getting burned yet again (roll eyes) I have decided to shift the focus. Connection is still very important, but what I really want to manifest this year and further into the future is just...
    elevating elevating 36-40, F Jan 2, 2015

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    There's no relief from the torture of a heart

    ripped to shreds. A desire to trust and be safely vulnerable puts you in a position to be harmed and only the sincere desire to love and be loved can cause a person to be so foolish. So trusting. To give yourself totally and unequivocally to someone, not even allowing the...
    Unsupervised777 Unsupervised777 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2015

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    In any kind of ships,

    it matters.. the reason why we can love with all our heart.. the reason why words are nt needed and trying so hard is nt required.. I rarely give myself half heartedly.. either I put everything I could possibly put or I put nothing at all.. nada.. it needs one to recognize one...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M Jun 25, 2015

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    Words don't need to be said.

    There's a buzzer inside that senses and rings when you meet the right person!
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 46-50, M May 24, 2015

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    "It's yr lost!", she said.

    . oh my dear,you hve no idea what I hve treasured inside in order to love..and I'm grateful I didn't waste it on something that was never been mine..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M May 6, 2015

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    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2015

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    It matters a lot to me.

    I don't like when guys ask me out when they know nothing about me. I don't want to be someone's girlfriend just because they don't want to be alone. I want to be someone's girlfriend because they like me as a person and actually give a damn about me.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F Nov 3, 2015

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    Believe it or not, looks,

    a nice body, and money alone will not always seal the deal for some people. I've met people with all three and they just didn't do it for me. If I can't sit down and have a decent conversation with a person, joke around, and be myself then it doesn't matter what they look like...
    PricelessJourney PricelessJourney 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    You ever just feel the bitterness of loneliness

    and just want to connect with someone? It feels so real right now. Just a touch, a sense of feeling, a smile, a hug, a moment together. Just anything to feel there and alive and with you. With somebody.
    Fretboard225 Fretboard225 18-21, M Jan 17, 2015

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    I feel like you are in love with me,

    but am trying to 'unlove' me. It's like you don't even want to be in love with me, but you just can't help it so you put up with me just for now. When you said you didn't care about when we have a baby, and whether we have a baby or not, I was devastated. A baby, is a love...
    charicealpaca charicealpaca 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    Feeling you. Where do we go from here.

    I can't have you so I'm stuck. It's like being stuck between a rock and a hard place. Live and enjoy is all you say. How can I do that when you have my heart and you don't even care about it? How can I live and enjoy when I'm still in love with you? How can I have fun with...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade 22-25, F Aug 3, 2015

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    it I amazing when u find the one,

    and you were not even looking, grown cynical and had faith restored, a person that changes your life, in your head constantly, thank you for showing me something I did not think exited TASRB!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 13, 2015

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    The people on EP I want to thank you

    for your emotional support regarding my girlfriend it has brought tears to my eyes the kindness you have shown please except my sincere thanks for your kind words
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20, 2015

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    Especially if you're into making friendships

    online, definitely need a connection.
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F Oct 31, 2015

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    I don't want the whole world to want me.

    ..I just want the one that I want to want me.
    HappyGirlJenny HappyGirlJenny 41-45, F 1 Response May 16, 2015

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    dragoneyes35 dragoneyes35 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    There is something humbling about someone

    completely trusting you, regardless of the fact that you have not known each other for long. It makes you feel like you've been deemed worthy of a precious gift. It makes you feel treasured. And it makes you want to reciprocate. Trust is a powerful thing - it can make even...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    I tottaly agree if there is no connection there

    is no point of a relationship, I don't fall for this if we work on it we will feel love carp.
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 22-25 Nov 3, 2015

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    There seem to be a lot of really nasty people

    on EP. Like, 40 to 50%. That's high.
    virginialady virginialady 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 3, 2015

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    Is there a trick to chemistry?

    I have chemistry with so few yet I know more married people than single people. Are they luckier or am I missing something here?
    HappyGirlJenny HappyGirlJenny 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2015

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    I have discovered that it is good to just talk

    to someone the first day at least, oh and when I say talk...I mean actually Speak to the person, that's the best way to really connect, you can Hear it in their voice. You can't Fake things they will hear it in your voice, the True you is there for them to see, that's where the...
    manofintegrity manofintegrity 56-60, M 1 Response a week ago

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    No chemistry = no affinity = no

    relationship It's quite simple, but only if you make it that way. It may not be all black and white, but it's always either yes or no. You either have something with them or don't.
    MissEurydice MissEurydice 18-21, F Aug 3, 2015

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    It doesn´t have to be a full one,

    just having mind set on same subjects, or sharing same nice feelings can lead to a wonderful sincere understanding...it takes two and both fully concentrated on each other..
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F Oct 8, 2015

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    Oh surely do the spark start there!

    And add of all the ingredients bam make it easier to get to know each other. :-) hey just saying, sometimes works sometimes don't, but its wort to try.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 14, 2015

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    I always thought that I was difficult person to

    read people that have known me all my life can't tell my emotions or how I'm feeling, then you come along and you can even tell how I am feeling by my message I type to you and all this after only 5 months we definitely have a connection on a level I didn't think existed.
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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