I Think a Woman Should Never Hit a Man

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    However!!!

    I don't think that we should hit anyone, man or woman.  I think we should treat each other with respect. With that said however I do believe in self defense and if someone hits you and you feel the need to defend yourself, you should do so, no matter what gender. I will...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Aug 24, 2009

    if man is abusing you then sure hit him,

    kick him in his balls but for that you should be strong. otherwise he can hit you back and get more hurt than him. if you are not strong then take hell of law.
    minnieandyou minnieandyou
    26-30, F
    Mar 8

    Violence Has No Place In A Relationship!

    My first wife would often become frustrated when she did not have full control of a situation. Her frustration almost always ended in violence. I finally told her that if she hit me again, I would hit her back! I had no intentions of hitting her but was tired of being hit. Once...
    AnIrishwarrior AnIrishwarrior
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2011

    Shame On Me

    I did once, when I was 18. I hit him with one of those metal cans they put cookies in at Christmastime. He threatened me, that's why. I should have just left instead of sinking to my father's level. I will never hit anyone again unless they hit me first. This is a mistake I feel...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2010

    It Works Both Ways!

    We are all so outraged, and rightly so, when we here about a woman being beaten by a man, of them living in abusive relationships and we question why they would return to their abusers; and whilst we can never turly know what goes on in a relationship, there are many men who also...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    Dec 5, 2011

    I Agree

    If your man is behaving badly. Tell him and not hit him.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2011

    There are exceptions

    for a woman hitting a man, and exceptions for a man hitting a woman. Like self defense. Obviously you should hit someone who's endangering you. Whether it's a man or a woman. And, I actually punched a guy in the face for calling me the C word a few years ago. I also had a...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    22-25, F
    Apr 4, 2015

    True

    only if a man never hits a woman none of the sexes is entitled to that, of course  
    Thought1 Thought1
    22-25
    Sep 6, 2009

    Your Children Are Watching You

    I think people would be surprised at the numbers that experience this.  Battered Men!  My heart goes out to them.  Violence knows no sex, anyone could be carrying it!  For some reason it is even more difficult on the children than the opposite is.  Daddies are supposed to be...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Dec 11, 2011

    I tend to get angry really quickly

    but I think that's just asking for trouble . Stay in a women's place unless you really wanna be treated like a man.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2015

    I just think it's stupid

    that people think it's ok for women to hit men but it's unacceptable for men to hit women. I think that if a woman's gonna hit a guy she better expect to be hit right back
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    No Reason For It

    Just as it is wrong for a man to hit a woman,the same applies. Violence has no gender,age,sexuality,religion,etc. It is still abusive.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 13, 2009

    By the Same Token,

    I think it should be highly unacceptable for countries to use nuclear weapons on one another too.  ;-) Okay, Brothers and Sisters, WHO is it that is feeling justified in hitting other people??  Crazy.
    sensuouswaves sensuouswaves
    46-50, M
    Aug 25, 2009

    I would like to know

    why it is socially unacceptable for a man to hit a woman, but women hit men without as much as a slap on the wrist. Is it because women aren't as strong as men? Regardless of gender a hit is a hit.. I know I don't hit like a ***** so why is it okay for me to go upside a mans...
    Blissfullyintoxicating Blissfullyintoxicating
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    Here Is Why

    I was 17, it was my birthday and I was not excited, I was terrified! I was not going to be getting any gifts or eating cake, I was leaving for boot camp! Army Infantry training. Years later I am married to a psycho who punches me in the mouth so hard that she knocks out my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Apr 6, 2011

    Violence Is Wrong, Whoever The Perpetrator

    Man on woman, woman on man, woman on woman, man on man, adult on child, it's all wrong. Around two in five victims of domestic abuse are men. Around 28% of women have experienced domestic abuse, and around 16% of men. These figures, of course, are based on reported cases, so...
    mizzen123 mizzen123
    46-50, M
    Apr 6, 2011

    Never

        i think a women should never hit a man . i am very sensative and it hurts alot when a women hits me .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2009

    If you have the courage to hit me.

    I will hit you. Just because your a girl doesn't mean you can just hit me. Hit me like a man. I'll make you man.
    Ezra921 Ezra921
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    Abuse is abuse no matter

    where it comes from.
    Suada117 Suada117
    26-30, F
    Jan 22

    It Goes Both Ways!

    Man no hit woman, woman no hit man. Why the hate?
    otad12 otad12
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2009
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