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I Think About Being With Another Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 89 People

    Don't Understand Myself

    I really REALLY love my girlfriend ... why the hell am I thinking of betraying her with that man EVERY DAY? I miss him more than her and I want to be together with him. But I love her as well. Don't understand myself...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2007

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    So Do I

    I think about every morn, noon and night.
    KenWX KenWX 61-65, M Aug 24, 2011

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    I Am So Satisfied With My Man ...

    I am so satisfied with my man i don't have time for anything else.
    annabelle annabelle 36-40, F Dec 24, 2006

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    Doesn't Every One..?

    I love my fiance.  But I've always had various daydreams - or even real dreams - about sleeping with other men.  It is something that has become more prevalent since he cheated on me last year, but it's something that always comes and goes.  When my sex life is...
    Chanteuse1984 Chanteuse1984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2007

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    Me Too

    Love to feel the warmth of his body, the texture of his skin, hear the beat of his heart as my ear presses against his chest, smell his manly aroma next to me, his stubble against my skin, his stiff **** pressing against me and feel the security of his arms round me.
    yfronts36 yfronts36 41-45, M Feb 29, 2012

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    Who Will Be The First And When?

    I think about being with another man for years and its building up for exciting things. I'm a sensuous, sexy, good-looking middle age male. Tall, slender and I'm looking for my first time making love with a man. Mmm. Kiss me. Holding me. Touching me and the feeling is intense...
    justbtwnUandme justbtwnUandme 51-55, M May 30, 2013

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    Who Will Be First And When!!!

    I think about being with another man for years and its building up for exciting things. I'm a sensuous, sexy, good-looking middle age male. Tall, slender and I'm looking for my first time making love with a man. Mmm. Kiss me. Holding me. Touching me and the feeling is intense...
    justbtwnUandme justbtwnUandme 51-55, M May 30, 2013

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    I Have Been With 3 and Still T...

    I have been with 3  differnat men and still think of being with 2 of them and 1 I havent even been with but would love the opportunity
    sassywoman sassywoman 31-35, F Apr 10, 2007

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    I Dont Want Ne Man, They Will ...

    i dont want ne man, they will just end up hurting me so i dont take the chance.
    lilhellbunny lilhellbunny 22-25, F Dec 24, 2006

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    Not Really Though

    sometimes i have a really dark fantasy bout being with a man, mainly because im not gay and it seems like totally the wrong thing to do. I just like doing things that challenge the way i think and feel
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    I Don’t Just Think About It...

    I do it—many times!I am quite comfortable with myself being attracted to both genders, but the vast majority of my sexual experiences are with men.Earlier in life, I labeled myself as gay, because I had not experienced sex with a woman. When I did, I found that I could no...
    NakedDriver NakedDriver 56-60, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Lately

      Okay, here's the deal. I am going to be totally honest here and say that I am not completely certain what I am. I have identified for years as bisexual, and have always accepted that. My wife of 11 years knows, I told her on our first date. Lately however, I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 4, 2010

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    I Get So Hot When I Think About It I Have To,...:)

    I am approaching the age where you start to feel old but I haven't loved a man before and I don't know how to meet one or even approach it. I want to make love to him not just have sex. I want to feel , kiss and taste everywhere and everything I think about like this I can't help...
    justbtwnUandme justbtwnUandme 51-55, M May 28, 2013

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    When..

    when am I going to meet another gay man,that starts with friendship first.Sex may or may not result,I just want a gay friend.
    kweerminer2 kweerminer2 51-55 Jun 11, 2013

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
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    Would love to find a friend with benefits situation. Not interested in having my significant other. As a matter of fact I think it might be a welcomed relief to not have to worry...
    ria972 ria972 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    sh3rylanne sh3rylanne 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I never knew what love was until I fell in it with him, did I ever really love my husband? I love him now yes but was I ever in love with him? I dont think I was and it couldn't...
    katharine8891 katharine8891 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My husband has been abusive for 21 yrs. We've been married for 18. He has a friend that expressed a interest in me 2 yrs ago and I've been seeing him ever since. He is so sweet and...
    ginahunt3 ginahunt3 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am so curious to be with a gay cute bottom I want to be with someone right now I want to experience what would a gay bottom takes control I'm a curious person very especially...
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    It's something I would wanna do at least once in my life.
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    I don't know it's something I would wanna do at least once
    Poiro787 Poiro787 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Anyone in the Long Island area wanna chat?
    schumy schumy 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Okay in theory yes I suppose I can guess why they do. However in practise I can't for the life of me, understand how a loving man could be happy doing this? Nor how a wife could be...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    My girlfriend is pregnant, potentially with another man's baby. She regrets the mistake, but we had an agreement for her to explore what was out there. She needed final validation...
    MediPhil MediPhil 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 9

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    We are married for 1.5 years. My wife a bengali sexy lady who loves sex very much. After a long nagging i hav managed my wife to get her shared with another man. I wanna try. If u...
    smazumder1984 smazumder1984 26-30, M 11 Responses Jul 14

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    I can't stop thinking about you and how I want to be in your arms and then lean over to your chest and then creep down to your pants and watch you get hard and I want to slip my...
    SaraRose0616 SaraRose0616 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    The movie After The Fall is one of my favorite movies. It is about a young woman who competes in a horse competition and has a horrible fall that renders her paralyzed. I am...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    It is good, but sets us apart sometimes. And there is something named the curse of knowgled. (wiki it) Example 1. I havent played World of warcraft for a long long time. And...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 months. It started off as all relationships do. All nice and loving. Now he screams at me , calls me names, and just recently...
    jon0517 jon0517 36-40, F Jul 2

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    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend. He means everythjng to me. My family hates me and treats me like crap every day. There's nonstop screaming and yelling and name calling...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I cant stop thinking about this fuking girl first in school we never talked i just made her laugh alot cuss she sat in front of my desk. I walked home wit her sat in lunch wit her...
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M Jul 21

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    Do you ever feel really awful about being sad. Like...I know that so many people are struggling through things that are so much worse and I'm getting teared up over this one thing...
    AnnaRose46 AnnaRose46 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    It must be so enjoyable to be on a walking trail with another naked person. Nothing sexual 0 just pure enjoyment of being in nature as nature intended us to be - NAKED
    wantonwanker wantonwanker 61-65, M Jul 3

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    Well, I started highschool, I am much more mature than the rest of the high school. I just keep to myself and focus on the future, I've had an unbelievable past for someone of 15...
    DreamLurker DreamLurker 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I really like the thought of being with a woman, something about women we are such sexy mysterious creatures, i think all women are beautiful but I lean more towards the ones with...
    Rdh1211 Rdh1211 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    God I love being with Tyler <3 I cherish everyday I have with him. He's amazing, I love everything about him. He's funny, he's smart , he's caring, he understands me and he's...
    Meganrosee Meganrosee 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Big Mac from McDonald's...I always think about you, you bring so much happiness to my life..and to my tastebuds. Even though you are served with fries, it has always been you who I...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I try to imagine how him taking me into his arms would feel. Could I find myself safe with my head on his chest and his arms tangled around my body with his hands resting gently on...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I can't sleep and thinking about you. I want to believe that long distance relationship can work. But when I'm always talking on skype with you is make me happy, inside sad. I feel...
    vinxgaza vinxgaza 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want to be with another girl so badly... I want soft skin under my fingers and gentle breath on my neck. I want sweet kisses on my lips and her body wrapped around mine... I want...
    kaykoi kaykoi 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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