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I Think About Cheating On My Husband

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    I have been married to my husband

    for 10 years. The first 8 years of our marriage he partied, drank and cheated. The last time it happened he promised he will change. And he has! I t has been two years has not had a sip of alcohol, no outings alone and has been a great dad to our children. The problem now is...
    hellokeetee hellokeetee 36-40, F 11 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    My husband and I have been married

    for 6 years. Were both in our early & mid 20s (married young) and have two children under 3.. We never have sex. I stay home a the kids all day which I love being a stay at home mom but I'm always lonely. I never go out . My husband does not appreciate anything I do bc he says I...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I have been married for 10 years

    and met my husband when I was 18. He wasn't my first but he was a person I experienced a lot of first with. During the time we started dating he already had three children. And while we were dating 2 more children by other women. Despite these complications I stayed with him...
    sally0882 sally0882 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    I love my husband but sometimes I feel like I

    would be happier else where.
    KristenPaige7 KristenPaige7 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 4, 2015

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    I need advice help!!!

    Okay So i have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. Will probably end up marring him. But I'm never in the mood to have sex with him. For some reason my ex of 2 years has been popping g up in my dreams. I want to meet up and have sex with him. I know it's wrong but...
    bluejay765 bluejay765 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 26

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    I Cheated and Will Probably Do It Again

    I cheated on my husband.  What started out as fun and flirty emails from a co-worker turned into us meeting up after work.  We have been together on 3 different occasions.  I do love my husband, but, I miss just sleeping with whoever I want to.  Before I was...
    Coral Coral 31-35, F 138 Responses Apr 25, 2007

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    No Guilt....what Is Wrong With Me????

    I admit it. I cheated on my husband numerous times with my ex boyfriend. I always felt that him and I had a connection, but let it go when he broke up with me. we both moved on then his girlfriend cheated on him, he was heartbroken, called me up and one thing led to another and...
    amity amity 18-21, F 11 Responses May 11, 2007

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    I don't know what it is,

    I don't understand why after 22years I'm just not feeling sexy and desirable with my husband. I find myself dwelling on being with another man. Big and Strong unlike my current husband who is about 6' 180 I find myself desiring a much larger man with arms that easily pick me up...
    sensualsusan sensualsusan 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 7, 2015

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    I have a date tomorrow with a man

    that my husband hates.
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 50 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    I wish I didn't, I love him deeply,

    but the thrill is just not there anymore .... I think about it constantly. I wish he understood how much more I need from him, how much more I need from life! I think I got together with him too young. Now I am regretting missing out on the crazy fun years that should be young...
    septemberiscoming septemberiscoming 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 29, 2015

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    neeraj2 neeraj2 26-30, M Jun 29, 2015

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    I have been married since 1993,

    for the last two years, I am looking for someone to cheat with, but I don't want to just cheat I want to have an ongoing affair with someone.
    Colinda5712 Colinda5712 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    This is a story 10 years in the making.

    10 years ago, I met the son of my mother's friend. He had a g/f (wife now - and she was there that night) and I had a b/f (husband now - he was not there). The second the son and I laid eyes on each other, it was like the world disappeared. There was an intense desire that...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 13, 2014

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    Finally Caved.

    I know I'm going to get a ton of s&*% for this but I have to get it off my chest. I just recently married my husband this last fall. He is super fantastic. I love him for everything that he is. We have a great time together. Buuuut, the sex is not that great. I am not...
    fancypants2222 fancypants2222 26-30, F 75 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    I'm So Wrong, Right...

    So we're aren't married, we have no kids together, both been married before, both been cheated on, so why the hell do I want this. Been together almost 6 years, and I love him with every fiber of my being. Lately though, like the last year our sex life sucks. I always initiate...
    Bonch82 Bonch82 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I am so Lonely. I love my husband very much,

    but I need, like and want sex. He is 13 yrs older than me, and he doesn'e seem to want as much sex as I do. I have found him pleasuring himself to ****, and when we do have sex, he has to watch **** while being with me. I feel unattractive and unwanted. I have tried to talk to...
    LonelyShyGirl LonelyShyGirl 36-40, F 21 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Its would be better to have some one you

    and your husband and not cheat
    dcarrigan67 dcarrigan67 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    neeraj2 neeraj2 26-30, M Jun 28, 2015

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    I don't only think it.

    ..I did it...with someone "I've always wondered about.."sexually" that is. I love my husband to bits....we have a great relationship, friends first then incredible lovers, the love making we have is good even out of this world. I'm a very open person, I tell him everything. So...
    jackedup1 jackedup1 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 8, 2015

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    After being with him

    for more than 10 years, the sex is almost non-existence, both of us are lazy to work on impressing each other, taking us for granted. My husband says he can't live without me, but he is not doing anything to make me feel I'm desired. I can't help but think how nice it will feel...
    surfiehall surfiehall 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    I would like to get you thoughts I was going

    to meet my girlfriend at a party well I found out that there was a guy that was going to be there that I did not like so I called my girlfriend and told her I was not going to go she had already left with some friends and had no way to leave at the party the guy I don't like...
    Aj03051980 Aj03051980 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    I would like to get your advice my wife has

    been getting calls from a guy she works with late at night like 11 pm she gets the call and goes to the other room for a hour or so and then comes back to bed she has changed her lunch brake to when he goes to lunch and all she talks about when she gets home is this guy should I...
    Jp030580 Jp030580 31-35, M 12 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    I hate cheating , I didn't ever think

    that I could be a cheater but it happened !!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2015

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    Girls night out last Saturday.

    Met a gorgeous black man that rocked my world. Gave him my number in a tequila fueled moment of weakness....
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    moitiemort moitiemort 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 10, 2015

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    Aj03051980 Aj03051980 18-21, M Nov 24, 2015

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    I Didn't "Steal" Your Husband

    It honestly makes me laugh when you imply someone is trying to steal your husband. Think about this as you say it to me. To say someone is attempting to "steal" him would imply he's being forcefully taken against his will. Your husband wants me. He is attracted to me and the...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    Not Feeling Guilty At All......why?

    Been married 8 yrs and living with him for 12 yrs  I just cheated a few weeks ago, and I feel no guilt what so ever.  I feel guilty for not feeling guilty, if that makes any sense.  It was with an old fling from high school, and I want more!  But we live...
    greenfairy greenfairy 31-35, F 53 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Anyone interested in being a pen pal?

    Ideally, a woman in her 40s or 50s (I'm 49) but any age would be okay.
    whtinind whtinind 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 28, 2015

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    Is it cheating when it's stuff you don't do

    with your husband? Like my husband doesn't go down on me. So if another guy did that, is that still cheating? I'm sure it is and I'm just trying to rationalize the fact that I have decided to cheat on my husband.
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Oct 2, 2015

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    So I met this guy a few times,

    no sex yet. There's been aggressive kissing, fondling, etc. The opportunity is rare to see each other. The plan is to see each other tomorrow, and I'm ridiculously excited. I'm wondering when the remorse will come. I'm really just average and have regular values and morals..I...
    redpelican7 redpelican7 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2015

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    Brand new to experience project.

    Just signed up while commuting so pic to come. . A friend mentioned it. This site is crazy, exciting too. Single recently divorced successful guy in the Boston area. Believe me. I know what a loveless marriage is. Ex cheated and it actually worked out for her ended up with the...
    duckdog39 duckdog39 46-50, M Jan 26

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    New here... Not sure

    if I just have issues... I'm not content and I constantly think about the fun, beginning stages of another relationship. The flirting, kissing etc.
    Serena1974 Serena1974 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    My husband and I have been married

    for 2 years, together for 5, and we have two toddlers. I knew from our first date that I wanted to marry him and I've always felt like he is my soulmate... He gets me completely and we bring out the best in each other. But over the last year he has begun working an extremely...
    unefillejolie unefillejolie 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 10, 2015

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    I think I want to cheat on my husband he makes

    me feel worthless and I can't do anything right. I just don't want to cheat on him with another man I want to cheat on with a woman.
    arecee arecee 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 29, 2015

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    Cheating Guilt Free

    I recently started cheating on my husband of 3 years. Been together for 6. Anyway, I also have no guilt really, but Im starting to become really emotionally attached to the man I am cheating with. He is also married. I know, I know... We are both doing this because there is a...
    grantnme grantnme 41-45 32 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    I Loved My Fantasy

    it starts with an instantĀ messengerĀ i got in my PC. i met a guy who was around 100 miles away from my home. i used to chat when my husband was away. by the way i work part time for consulting firm and generally work on computers so it was easy to talk to him at office as well...
    jenniash jenniash 36-40, F 22 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Read This First!!! Stop Friending Me based On This Group

    This is not directed toward anyone in my circle, so please forgive me... BUT...To all of you creepy men who try to friend women simply because they are in this group: DON'T BOTHER WITH ME!!! I joined this group because I THINK about cheating on my husband, not because I am...
    prbcrn79 prbcrn79 31-35, F 16 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    Desperatehousewife1986 Desperatehousewife1986 26-30, F 24 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    I Want A Younger Guy

    Ive been married for 6 years but been with hubby for 11 years.Ever since pretty well the day we got married our sex life died.All of a sudden he couldnt get me off any more and just got less and less sex cause i couldnt be bothered.I joined a few chat sites and ive had quite afew...
    ozychik69 ozychik69 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    On The Brink

    I've been married for 16 years and have 2 teenage children. I've been with my husband and only my husband for the past 19 years. We've talked about swinging and an open marriage but he is much more cautious than me. I recently had surgery and told him he needed to find a...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Cheating With A Married Man

    I have been married to my husband for 4 years.  I do love my husband but I am not in love with him.  He doesn't believe in divorce so we just go on about our lives.  I met a police officer that lives near me and who is also married.  I have known him for a...
    hardworkinmom hardworkinmom 26-30, F 48 Responses May 7, 2010

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