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I Think About Cheating On My Husband

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    Faithful Lover

    I am married fo 27 long years and all through this time I have remained faithful to her through good and bad times.Sometimes it is wonderful ,sometimes sad, some happy, some sad...but always full of joy.May women eyed me before but I didn't give in even though sometimes my wife...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    New here... Not sure

    if I just have issues... I'm not content and I constantly think about the fun, beginning stages of another relationship. The flirting, kissing etc.
    Serena1974 Serena1974 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 22

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    On The Brink

    I've been married for 16 years and have 2 teenage children. I've been with my husband and only my husband for the past 19 years. We've talked about swinging and an open marriage but he is much more cautious than me. I recently had surgery and told him he needed to find a...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    No Guilt....what Is Wrong With Me????

    I admit it. I cheated on my husband numerous times with my ex boyfriend. I always felt that him and I had a connection, but let it go when he broke up with me. we both moved on then his girlfriend cheated on him, he was heartbroken, called me up and one thing led to another and...
    amity amity 21-25, F 9 Responses May 11, 2007

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    Struggling Bad

    Hi... I am 24, and was married three years ago. I have been completely faithful to my husband... but lately, I feel so unfulfilled, I have started fantasizing about cheating on him. I sought out an ex (the one I was with when I met my current husband...)a few weeks ago and we...
    wannagonnamaybenot wannagonnamaybenot 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    I Loved My Fantasy

    it starts with an instant messenger i got in my PC. i met a guy who was around 100 miles away from my home. i used to chat when my husband was away. by the way i work part time for consulting firm and generally work on computers so it was easy to talk to him at office as well...
    jenniash jenniash 36-40, F 21 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    I Cheated and Will Probably Do It Again

    I cheated on my husband.  What started out as fun and flirty emails from a co-worker turned into us meeting up after work.  We have been together on 3 different occasions.  I do love my husband, but, I miss just sleeping with whoever I want to.  Before I was...
    Coral Coral 31-35, F 146 Responses Apr 25, 2007

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    Read This First!!! Stop Friending Me based On This Group

    This is not directed toward anyone in my circle, so please forgive me... BUT...To all of you creepy men who try to friend women simply because they are in this group: DON'T BOTHER WITH ME!!! I joined this group because I THINK about cheating on my husband, not because I am...
    prbcrn79 prbcrn79 31-35, F 14 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    I am so Lonely. I love my husband very much,

    but I need, like and want sex. He is 13 yrs older than me, and he doesn'e seem to want as much sex as I do. I have found him pleasuring himself to ****, and when we do have sex, he has to watch **** while being with me. I feel unattractive and unwanted. I have tried to talk to...
    LonelyShyGirl LonelyShyGirl 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    In Need To Please!!

    I'm a lesbian who has fallen in love and been with my girlfriend for two years but I have known her for six years. She is and always has been my best friend..my lover...my everything. I love everything about her but one thing.... She does not allow me or anyone to touch or go...
    sumthinelse sumthinelse 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I'm So Wrong, Right...

    So we're aren't married, we have no kids together, both been married before, both been cheated on, so why the hell do I want this. Been together almost 6 years, and I love him with every fiber of my being. Lately though, like the last year our sex life sucks. I always initiate...
    Bonch82 Bonch82 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for just under a year. At the start of our relationship it was lovely and everything you expect it to be, but of course theres always ups and downs and something always has to come inbetween your relationship at some point. Not too long into ou relationship, i found some emails...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 16

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    I Can Help.

    I've known a lot of women seeking betrayal and I can be tempted to help. Or I can counsel If that is what you prefer.
    draganaeros draganaeros 22-25, M Nov 27, 2013

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    Am Cheating On Him.

    I've been married for five yrs to a man who can not satisfy me sexual. During my single days,i enjoyed hanging out with bad boys, I MEAN THE REBEL TYPES, who knows how to make a womanfeel good and i will usually  sleep with any hot and  sexy guy any day and any time. Now that i...
    slowlyhot slowlyhot 26-30 7 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Married 40yo Malaysian Chinese Wife

    i just met the massuer again..things is getting out of control.each time i see him, i get turn on by his goodlook and tough body...i willing to let him do me witout condom...
    zoltrixoyc8 zoltrixoyc8 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    My Fiance Is Deployed...

    I've been engaged for about 4 months. In the beginning everything was so perfect and we were so excited to get our lives started. Everything happened so quick. A month after we got engaged, he deployed. The conversations started to get less and less. Not in quantity, but quality...
    MyLifeisThisXOXO MyLifeisThisXOXO 18-21, F 20 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Cheating With A Married Man

    I have been married to my husband for 4 years.  I do love my husband but I am not in love with him.  He doesn't believe in divorce so we just go on about our lives.  I met a police officer that lives near me and who is also married.  I have known him for a...
    hardworkinmom hardworkinmom 26-30, F 45 Responses May 7, 2010

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    I never understand people

    who cheat. Just LEAVE for Christ sakes. Forget about the other person... You're only wasting your OWN time cheating. Why stay some where you're unhappy. I don't get it.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Special Delivery

    I happen to work construction in the oil fields of northern Canada. There's not many people that can truly relate to what it's like unless they have experienced it first hand. During lunch hours, discussions will break out about all sorts of topics. Ranging from the inane to...
    blindsniper blindsniper 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2013

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    My Husband Cheated On Me--With Women, Men And Hookers. Revenge Time!

    Been married for 11 years. We have 3 kids between 8 and 14. He confessed to cheating on me with the following: a crazy woman who was older, uglier, and fatter; a hermaphrodite that had done jail time for child molestation; a crippled gay guy; and at least 2 hookers. After getting...
    hostilitina hostilitina 41-45, F 14 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    Sexless Marraige, So Why Not?

    I think about cheating on my husband all the time. Like, everyday. I know our "marraige" is over. There is nothing left. No hugs, no kissing, no sex. I have never been a touchy feely type person but i do love sex. I can't go without it. My husband has made me go without it for a...
    Myheavyhearthurts Myheavyhearthurts 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Why Not Just Leave!!

    I never understand why people cheat if your not Happy why not just leave I don't understand it and I don't mean to disrespect anyone I just don't see the point in cheating on someone
    CountryBaby22 CountryBaby22 22-25, F 5 Responses May 17, 2013

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    Not Fullfilled

    my husband does not fullfill me sexually at all. we've been separated for a while and my drive has gone to new heights (atleast from what I was used to) there is nothing like bad sex. I want and NEED more. he don't listen and lets his pride get in the way of pleasing me...boy o...
    shallowdeep shallowdeep 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Not Feeling Guilty At All......why?

    Been married 8 yrs and living with him for 12 yrs  I just cheated a few weeks ago, and I feel no guilt what so ever.  I feel guilty for not feeling guilty, if that makes any sense.  It was with an old fling from high school, and I want more!  But we live...
    greenfairy greenfairy 31-35, F 52 Responses May 3, 2007

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    I Just Have To Be Honest Because I Think There Is A Solution That We All Refuse To Admit!

    This shouldn't take long to say. In the past there was always someone to give the bride away. Now this is just tradition, but the natural one to give the bride away was the father and now this is no longer the case. Why was it the father's job? Because it was with his...
    Realove4u Realove4u 46-50, M 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    I Want A Younger Guy

    Ive been married for 6 years but been with hubby for 11 years.Ever since pretty well the day we got married our sex life died.All of a sudden he couldnt get me off any more and just got less and less sex cause i couldnt be bothered.I joined a few chat sites and ive had quite afew...
    ozychik69 ozychik69 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Really Want To!!!

    I have really been thinking about cheating on my husband with a guy who is also in a relationship. Right now all we do is exchange flirty texts. I really want to but we can't find the right time. I can't stop thinking about this other guy. I just turned 30& came to the...
    Snesssss Snesssss 26-30 10 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Mix Messages

    I am enagged and is set to get married in October. My fianc'e seems to think its okay i to talk to other woemn through text mesages. The messages and pictures are very inapporiate. He seems to feel that since he is not sleeping with these women then its okay. I TOTALLY disagree...
    mommie4u mommie4u 31-35, F 15 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Okay, So Older Men Aren't Half Bad Either

    This story is in honor of my British friend, who lives in Arizona, and is currently caring for a friend who is ill. Through all of this, he maintains a wicked wit, and is sexy on top of that. Now, those of you who know how much I love younger men, and they love me, might wonder...
    runnerinatl runnerinatl 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I Did Cheat On Mine

    i lived in jackson and i met this man who lived like 2 houses down from me and we met and became good friends  one night i went rideing with him . note my husband was left at home i told him i was goingto walk to  the store  and i met this man at the mailbox ...
    queenpin queenpin 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 19, 2006

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    Best Friends

    I just met my fiancees best friend for the first time in our 3 year relationship. He was out of the country for a few years and I was conveniently away for business every time he visited. My fiancee and I have had issues attempting infidelity and we've caught each other. My...
    2tango2 2tango2 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Women Sholdn't Be Denied

     No man can completely satisfy a woman so she is either going to be frustrated to some degree or seek out other partners. i see nothing wrong with you dating other men and if the chemistry is right having a sexual relationship. If you have opportunities with guys at work or...
    NYSubbyguy NYSubbyguy 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    7 Year Itch????

    Guys - I'm getting the 7 year itch. A local doctor has actually taken a large interest in me, texts me, flirts with me and we went out for coffee by ending up walking for 3 hours and talking. My marriage is a front to keep our 3 kids in a family with a loveless marriage. I...
    fialadarwin fialadarwin 31-35, F 14 Responses May 11, 2013

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    I Didn't "Steal" Your Husband

    It honestly makes me laugh when you imply someone is trying to steal your husband. Think about this as you say it to me. To say someone is attempting to "steal" him would imply he's being forcefully taken against his will. Your husband wants me. He is attracted to me and the...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    You Looking For An Affair

    Im look for a discreet affair my girl and I haven't done anything in months. I stay in Escondido ca
    makingmoneyfast3131 makingmoneyfast3131 22-25, M Jul 29, 2013

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    Should I Cheat My Hubby?

    Well at work i really like a manager and have been flirting With him. I love hubby but im starting to feel more attached to my boss. Hubby Will have no clue if i cheat on him. What u all recommend?
    Lat6969 Lat6969 36-40, F 27 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I Am Thinking About Cheating On My Husband.

    How to cheat on your husband and get away with it? Also, not feel guilty afterwards? Last, how do you still remain the same person without giving any type of suspensions? Can someone please help me??? Thanks.
    Free2mesoon Free2mesoon 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    New Friend

    I got put in a mental hospital by my husband and this physco physiocrat it's. It was awful! I wasn't even mentally I'll. Anyway, something good came out of it, Chad. What an amazing young man! He has helped me in so many ways. He helped me escape from my husband on e and for all...
    runnerinatl runnerinatl 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I have been married for 10 years

    and met my husband when I was 18. He wasn't my first but he was a person I experienced a lot of first with. During the time we started dating he already had three children. And while we were dating 2 more children by other women. Despite these complications I stayed with him...
    sally0882 sally0882 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Help

    I love my husband. But i think about being with another man. I have only been with my husband never anyone else. I married him when i was 16. Now that i am 20 i wonder i there some one else out there who fits with me better. I know he loves me but, he sometimes treats me bad...
    tonia10148 tonia10148 19-21, F 24 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    Stay Or Leave

    I've been with my husband for 5 years. We have a two year old son. My husband is 7 years older than me. Two years out of the five years we've been together he was unemployed and in those two years did nothing to better himself. I've been the good partner and tried to encourage...
    BellaLaJa BellaLaJa 26-30 13 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Days Like Today I Want To Even More!!!

    Okay so after being married forever all I ask from my husband is a little attention, but instead I get ignored!! He rushes out of the house to go to work barely kisses me if he does at all. If I call or txt I never get an answer back. So it's days like today I really want someone...
    jaelita jaelita 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    Finally Caved.

    I know I'm going to get a ton of s&*% for this but I have to get it off my chest. I just recently married my husband this last fall. He is super fantastic. I love him for everything that he is. We have a great time together. Buuuut, the sex is not that great. I am not...
    fancypants2222 fancypants2222 26-30, F 75 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Same Story Different Man

    Yes my husband still a jerk , an just a few days ago my college friend .. Friended me on facbk , my husband totally hates him because he knows that I have history with this guy an we always will .. He's what the call in the movies the one that got away , he knows me inside an out...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Dream Of Another Man

    My husband is a good man but a sh**ty husband. He always criticizes me, and never compliments me. He doesn't kiss or hug me and I always have to initiate sex. I'm tired of begging for attention. I have dreams and fantasies of his hot friend (he's also married). He's always been...
    Careri0277 Careri0277 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    I've Done It Again I

    I've met someone on ep an this time we're from the same state an we only live an hour apart ,That makes it really confusing for me the thing is I'm married , but I'm starting to really like the guy he makes me feel special , an not in the dirty way . We started off as friends...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 26 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Cheating Guilt Free

    I recently started cheating on my husband of 3 years. Been together for 6. Anyway, I also have no guilt really, but Im starting to become really emotionally attached to the man I am cheating with. He is also married. I know, I know... We are both doing this because there is a...
    grantnme grantnme 41-45 33 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    In Need Of Guidance

    Ok so i had an affair a while back that laster 3 yrs and a few months ago was found out and stoppe talkin to the other guy. Well he started hitting me up again and said he wants me back and that i was the one who really made him happy and he still loves me and that he is a...
    Pandabear83 Pandabear83 31-35, F 10 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Ashley Madison

    Having tried this site in the past, I wonder how many women who are having affairs use the site and what they think of it. I live in the Northern Virginia area and feel that for the most part AM is a lot of work for a man, and that ultimately, it's not worth it. The one time it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    So I have a boyfriend and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Well I'm not thinking about a particular one, more like reminiscing about my single life. I'm good being married but damn I really did it up when I was single. I had so much fun...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship for four years. I used to be such a nice girl I was mistreated by him for a while. Now I'm not excusing myself but he is a good guy, too, but I met...
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I can't stop thinking about a guy I barely know- He works with my mum and I've seen him in the pub a few times too. Since my uncle is dating his mum, I was quite keen on knowing...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't even know where to start, I just wish I could just stop thinking about my future assuming I even have one. I stay thinking about what I'm going to do with my life and what...
    Unlucky242 Unlucky242 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    It was a chance encounter. It was only a chance encounter 294 days ago, but I cannot get him out of mind. On a whim, I took a trip up north last summer. At the last minute I wasn...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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