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I Think About Cheating On My Husband

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    Help - I love my husband. But i think about being with another man. I have only been with my husband never anyone else. I married him when i was 16. Now that i am 20 i wonder i...
    tonia10148 tonia10148 19-21, F 24 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    Special Delivery - I happen to work construction in the oil fields of northern Canada. There's not many people that can truly relate to what it's like unless they have experienced...
    blindsniper blindsniper 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2013

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    Ashley Madison - Having tried this site in the past, I wonder how many women who are having affairs use the site and what they think of it. I live in the Northern Virginia area and...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    7 Year Itch???? - Guys - I'm getting the 7 year itch. A local doctor has actually taken a large interest in me, texts me, flirts with me and we went out for coffee by ending up...
    fialadarwin fialadarwin 31-35, F 14 Responses May 11, 2013

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    I've Done It Again I - I've met someone on ep an this time we're from the same state an we only live an hour apart ,That makes it really confusing for me the thing is I'm married...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 26 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I'm So Wrong, Right... - So we're aren't married, we have no kids together, both been married before, both been cheated on, so why the hell do I want this. Been together almost 6...
    Bonch82 Bonch82 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Cheating Guilt Free - I recently started cheating on my husband of 3 years. Been together for 6. Anyway, I also have no guilt really, but Im starting to become really emotionally...
    grantnme grantnme 41-45 33 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    Same Story Different Man - Yes my husband still a jerk , an just a few days ago my college friend .. Friended me on facbk , my husband totally hates him because he knows that I...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    New Friend - I got put in a mental hospital by my husband and this physco physiocrat it's. It was awful! I wasn't even mentally I'll. Anyway, something good came out of it, Chad...
    runnerinatl runnerinatl 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Sexless Marraige, So Why Not? - I think about cheating on my husband all the time. Like, everyday. I know our "marraige" is over. There is nothing left. No hugs, no kissing, no sex...
    Myheavyhearthurts Myheavyhearthurts 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Why Not Just Leave!! - I never understand why people cheat if your not Happy why not just leave I don't understand it and I don't mean to disrespect anyone I just don't see the...
    CountryBaby22 CountryBaby22 22-25, F 5 Responses May 17, 2013

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    Best Friends - I just met my fiancees best friend for the first time in our 3 year relationship. He was out of the country for a few years and I was conveniently away for business...
    2tango2 2tango2 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Married 40yo Malaysian Chinese Wife - i just met the massuer again..things is getting out of control.each time i see him, i get turn on by his goodlook and tough body...i willing...
    zoltrixoyc8 zoltrixoyc8 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I Want A Younger Guy - Ive been married for 6 years but been with hubby for 11 years.Ever since pretty well the day we got married our sex life died.All of a sudden he couldnt get...
    ozychik69 ozychik69 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Cheating With A Married Man - I have been married to my husband for 4 years.  I do love my husband but I am not in love with him.  He doesn't believe in divorce so we...
    hardworkinmom hardworkinmom 26-30, F 45 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Am Cheating On Him. - I've been married for five yrs to a man who can not satisfy me sexual. During my single days,i enjoyed hanging out with bad boys, I MEAN THE REBEL TYPES, who...
    slowlyhot slowlyhot 26-30 7 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    My Fiance Is Deployed... - I've been engaged for about 4 months. In the beginning everything was so perfect and we were so excited to get our lives started. Everything happened so...
    MyLifeisThisXOXO MyLifeisThisXOXO 18-21, F 20 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I Am Thinking About Cheating On My Husband. - How to cheat on your husband and get away with it? Also, not feel guilty afterwards? Last, how do you still remain the same person...
    Free2mesoon Free2mesoon 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    On The Brink - I've been married for 16 years and have 2 teenage children. I've been with my husband and only my husband for the past 19 years. We've talked about swinging and an...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Dream Of Another Man - My husband is a good man but a sh**ty husband. He always criticizes me, and never compliments me. He doesn't kiss or hug me and I always have to initiate sex...
    Careri0277 Careri0277 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    Really Want To!!! - I have really been thinking about cheating on my husband with a guy who is also in a relationship. Right now all we do is exchange flirty texts. I really want...
    Snesssss Snesssss 26-30 10 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Faithful Lover - I am married fo 27 long years and all through this time I have remained faithful to her through good and bad times.Sometimes it is wonderful ,sometimes sad, some...
    faithfullover faithfullover 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    I have been married for 10 years and met my husband when I was 18. He wasn't my first but he was a person I experienced a lot of first with. During the time we started dating he...
    sally0882 sally0882 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    My Husband Cheated On Me--With Women, Men And Hookers. Revenge Time! - Been married for 11 years. We have 3 kids between 8 and 14. He confessed to cheating on me with the following...
    hostilitina hostilitina 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    Finally Caved. - I know I'm going to get a ton of s&*% for this but I have to get it off my chest. I just recently married my husband this last fall. He is super fantastic. I...
    fancypants2222 fancypants2222 26-30, F 75 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Mix Messages - I am enagged and is set to get married in October. My fianc'e seems to think its okay i to talk to other woemn through text mesages. The messages and pictures are...
    mommie4u mommie4u 31-35, F 15 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Days Like Today I Want To Even More!!! - Okay so after being married forever all I ask from my husband is a little attention, but instead I get ignored!! He rushes out of the house...
    jaelita jaelita 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    In Need Of Guidance - Ok so i had an affair a while back that laster 3 yrs and a few months ago was found out and stoppe talkin to the other guy. Well he started hitting me up...
    Pandabear83 Pandabear83 31-35, F 10 Responses May 23, 2013

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    I Cheated and Will Probably Do It Again - I cheated on my husband.  What started out as fun and flirty emails from a co-worker turned into us meeting up after work.  We...
    Coral Coral 31-35, F 146 Responses Apr 25, 2007

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    I Just Have To Be Honest Because I Think There Is A Solution That We All Refuse To Admit! - This shouldn't take long to say. In the past there was always someone to give the bride...
    Realove4u Realove4u 46-50, M 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    New here... Not sure if I just have issues... I'm not content and I constantly think about the fun, beginning stages of another relationship. The flirting, kissing etc.
    Serena1974 Serena1974 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 22

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    No Guilt....what Is Wrong With Me???? - I admit it. I cheated on my husband numerous times with my ex boyfriend. I always felt that him and I had a connection, but let it go when...
    amity amity 21-25, F 9 Responses May 11, 2007

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    Struggling Bad - Hi... I am 24, and was married three years ago. I have been completely faithful to my husband... but lately, I feel so unfulfilled, I have started fantasizing...
    wannagonnamaybenot wannagonnamaybenot 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    I Did Cheat On Mine - i lived in jackson and i met this man who lived like 2 houses down from me and we met and became good friends  one night i went rideing with him . note...
    queenpin queenpin 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 19, 2006

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    I never understand people who cheat. Just LEAVE for Christ sakes. Forget about the other person... You're only wasting your OWN time cheating. Why stay some where you're unhappy...
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Okay, So Older Men Aren't Half Bad Either - This story is in honor of my British friend, who lives in Arizona, and is currently caring for a friend who is ill. Through all of this...
    runnerinatl runnerinatl 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Women Sholdn't Be Denied -  No man can completely satisfy a woman so she is either going to be frustrated to some degree or seek out other partners. i see nothing wrong with you...
    NYSubbyguy NYSubbyguy 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    Not Fullfilled - my husband does not fullfill me sexually at all. we've been separated for a while and my drive has gone to new heights (atleast from what I was used to) there is...
    shallowdeep shallowdeep 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I Loved My Fantasy - it starts with an instant messenger i got in my PC. i met a guy who was around 100 miles away from my home. i used to chat when my husband was away. by the...
    jenniash jenniash 36-40, F 21 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    I Didn't "Steal" Your Husband - It honestly makes me laugh when you imply someone is trying to steal your husband. Think about this as you say it to me. To say someone is...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I have been with my boyfriend for just under a year. At the start of our relationship it was lovely and everything you expect it to be, but of course theres always ups and downs...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 16

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    Should I Cheat My Hubby? - Well at work i really like a manager and have been flirting With him. I love hubby but im starting to feel more attached to my boss. Hubby Will have no...
    Lat6969 Lat6969 36-40, F 27 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Not Feeling Guilty At All......why? - Been married 8 yrs and living with him for 12 yrs  I just cheated a few weeks ago, and I feel no guilt what so ever.  I feel guilty...
    greenfairy greenfairy 31-35, F 52 Responses May 3, 2007

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    I am so Lonely. I love my husband very much, but I need, like and want sex. He is 13 yrs older than me, and he doesn'e seem to want as much sex as I do. I have found him pleasuring...
    LonelyShyGirl LonelyShyGirl 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Stay Or Leave - I've been with my husband for 5 years. We have a two year old son. My husband is 7 years older than me. Two years out of the five years we've been together he was...
    BellaLaJa BellaLaJa 26-30 13 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Read This First!!! Stop Friending Me based On This Group - This is not directed toward anyone in my circle, so please forgive me... BUT...To all of you creepy men who try to...
    prbcrn79 prbcrn79 31-35, F 14 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    In Need To Please!! - I'm a lesbian who has fallen in love and been with my girlfriend for two years but I have known her for six years. She is and always has been my best friend...
    sumthinelse sumthinelse 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I Can Help. - I've known a lot of women seeking betrayal and I can be tempted to help. Or I can counsel If that is what you prefer.
    draganaeros draganaeros 22-25, M Nov 27, 2013

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    You Looking For An Affair - Im look for a discreet affair my girl and I haven't done anything in months. I stay in Escondido ca
    makingmoneyfast3131 makingmoneyfast3131 22-25, M Jul 29, 2013

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