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I Think About Cheating On My Husband

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    Read This First!!! Stop Friending Me based On This Group

    This is not directed toward anyone in my circle, so please forgive me... BUT...To all of you creepy men who try to friend women simply because they are in this group: DON'T BOTHER WITH ME!!! I joined this group because I THINK about cheating on my husband, not because I am...
    prbcrn79 prbcrn79 31-35, F 16 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    :))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    http://vimeo.com/68729699 Good one for you girls
    trilo2 trilo2 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    You're only human some times we need other

    people to give us what we desire hey I'm Chris :)
    kerw94 kerw94 18-21, M Jul 7

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    I've Done It Again I

    I've met someone on ep an this time we're from the same state an we only live an hour apart ,That makes it really confusing for me the thing is I'm married , but I'm starting to really like the guy he makes me feel special , an not in the dirty way . We started off as friends...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 23 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    The Picture That Changed My Life

    Rachael’s Eyes “All I have are the choices I make, and I choose her, come what may” - Matt Damon as David Norris in The Adjustment Bureau In the opening chapter, I made reference to a girl named Rachael, a girl who has changed my life for the better, a girl who has...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Jul 22, 2013

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    Not Fullfilled

    my husband does not fullfill me sexually at all. we've been separated for a while and my drive has gone to new heights (atleast from what I was used to) there is nothing like bad sex. I want and NEED more. he don't listen and lets his pride get in the way of pleasing me...boy o...
    shallowdeep shallowdeep 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Sexless Marraige, So Why Not?

    I think about cheating on my husband all the time. Like, everyday. I know our "marraige" is over. There is nothing left. No hugs, no kissing, no sex. I have never been a touchy feely type person but i do love sex. I can't go without it. My husband has made me go without it for a...
    Myheavyhearthurts Myheavyhearthurts 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    At Least I Know Where Things Stand.

    My husband is aware of the first time that I cheated, which I admit was a stupid mistake...but prob. not for the reasons many would assume. Anyhow, I have cheated one other time, since that initial infidelity, that so far my husband has not discovered, as well as some flirtatious...
    allthatglitterz79 allthatglitterz79 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 4, 2012

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    I Cheated and Will Probably Do It Again

    I cheated on my husband.  What started out as fun and flirty emails from a co-worker turned into us meeting up after work.  We have been together on 3 different occasions.  I do love my husband, but, I miss just sleeping with whoever I want to.  Before I was...
    Coral Coral 31-35, F 140 Responses Apr 25, 2007

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    I have been married to my husband

    for 10 years. The first 8 years of our marriage he partied, drank and cheated. The last time it happened he promised he will change. And he has! I t has been two years has not had a sip of alcohol, no outings alone and has been a great dad to our children. The problem now is...
    hellokeetee hellokeetee 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    Free at Last Well, your faith was strong

    but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya And she tied you to the kitchen chair She broke your throne and cut your hair And from your lips she drew, “Hallelujah” Hallelujah, Hallelujah Hallelujah, Hallelujah - K.D...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Jan 7

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    Not Feeling Guilty At All......why?

    Been married 8 yrs and living with him for 12 yrs  I just cheated a few weeks ago, and I feel no guilt what so ever.  I feel guilty for not feeling guilty, if that makes any sense.  It was with an old fling from high school, and I want more!  But we live...
    greenfairy greenfairy 31-35, F 51 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Just ticked into my 30's,

    I talk to women all the time, mostly in work who are married and unhappy. A few years back I slept with one of the who had actually split from her husband but now are back together. I think it did her the world of good. We are still mates and joke about that night. Inbox me if...
    r2theo2theb r2theo2theb 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Women Sholdn't Be Denied

     No man can completely satisfy a woman so she is either going to be frustrated to some degree or seek out other partners. i see nothing wrong with you dating other men and if the chemistry is right having a sexual relationship. If you have opportunities with guys at work or...
    NYSubbyguy NYSubbyguy 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    I have a date tomorrow with a man

    that my husband hates.
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 56 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm So Wrong, Right...

    So we're aren't married, we have no kids together, both been married before, both been cheated on, so why the hell do I want this. Been together almost 6 years, and I love him with every fiber of my being. Lately though, like the last year our sex life sucks. I always initiate...
    Bonch82 Bonch82 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I feel so bad but this thought nearly consumes

    me. I'm just so tired of not having an emotional connection with him no matter how hard I try or plead. BUT I will not get involved with someone who has a good relationship so don't lead me on.
    Sparkle20 Sparkle20 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 15

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    I Loved My Fantasy

    it starts with an instant messenger i got in my PC. i met a guy who was around 100 miles away from my home. i used to chat when my husband was away. by the way i work part time for consulting firm and generally work on computers so it was easy to talk to him at office as well...
    jenniash jenniash 36-40, F 21 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    You Looking For An Affair

    Im look for a discreet affair my girl and I haven't done anything in months. I stay in Escondido ca
    makingmoneyfast3131 makingmoneyfast3131 22-25, M Jul 29, 2013

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    Cheating Guilt Free

    I recently started cheating on my husband of 3 years. Been together for 6. Anyway, I also have no guilt really, but Im starting to become really emotionally attached to the man I am cheating with. He is also married. I know, I know... We are both doing this because there is a...
    grantnme grantnme 41-45 32 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    I Want A Younger Guy

    Ive been married for 6 years but been with hubby for 11 years.Ever since pretty well the day we got married our sex life died.All of a sudden he couldnt get me off any more and just got less and less sex cause i couldnt be bothered.I joined a few chat sites and ive had quite afew...
    ozychik69 ozychik69 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Finally Caved.

    I know I'm going to get a ton of s&*% for this but I have to get it off my chest. I just recently married my husband this last fall. He is super fantastic. I love him for everything that he is. We have a great time together. Buuuut, the sex is not that great. I am not...
    fancypants2222 fancypants2222 26-30, F 75 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    I Can Help.

    I've known a lot of women seeking betrayal and I can be tempted to help. Or I can counsel If that is what you prefer.
    draganaeros draganaeros 22-25, M Nov 27, 2013

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    Dream Of Another Man

    My husband is a good man but a sh**ty husband. He always criticizes me, and never compliments me. He doesn't kiss or hug me and I always have to initiate sex. I'm tired of begging for attention. I have dreams and fantasies of his hot friend (he's also married). He's always been...
    Careri0277 Careri0277 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    I never understand people

    who cheat. Just LEAVE for Christ sakes. Forget about the other person... You're only wasting your OWN time cheating. Why stay some where you're unhappy. I don't get it.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    No Guilt....what Is Wrong With Me????

    I admit it. I cheated on my husband numerous times with my ex boyfriend. I always felt that him and I had a connection, but let it go when he broke up with me. we both moved on then his girlfriend cheated on him, he was heartbroken, called me up and one thing led to another and...
    amity amity 21-25, F 10 Responses May 11, 2007

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    My Husband Cheated On Me--With Women, Men And Hookers. Revenge Time!

    Been married for 11 years. We have 3 kids between 8 and 14. He confessed to cheating on me with the following: a crazy woman who was older, uglier, and fatter; a hermaphrodite that had done jail time for child molestation; a crippled gay guy; and at least 2 hookers. After getting...
    hostilitina hostilitina 41-45, F 15 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    I Didn't "Steal" Your Husband

    It honestly makes me laugh when you imply someone is trying to steal your husband. Think about this as you say it to me. To say someone is attempting to "steal" him would imply he's being forcefully taken against his will. Your husband wants me. He is attracted to me and the...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for just under a year. At the start of our relationship it was lovely and everything you expect it to be, but of course theres always ups and downs and something always has to come inbetween your relationship at some point. Not too long into ou relationship, i found some emails...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 16

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    I am so Lonely. I love my husband very much,

    but I need, like and want sex. He is 13 yrs older than me, and he doesn'e seem to want as much sex as I do. I have found him pleasuring himself to ****, and when we do have sex, he has to watch **** while being with me. I feel unattractive and unwanted. I have tried to talk to...
    LonelyShyGirl LonelyShyGirl 36-40, F 18 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    On The Brink

    I've been married for 16 years and have 2 teenage children. I've been with my husband and only my husband for the past 19 years. We've talked about swinging and an open marriage but he is much more cautious than me. I recently had surgery and told him he needed to find a...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 21 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Girls night out last Saturday.

    Met a gorgeous black man that rocked my world. Gave him my number in a tequila fueled moment of weakness....
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    I have been married for 10 years

    and met my husband when I was 18. He wasn't my first but he was a person I experienced a lot of first with. During the time we started dating he already had three children. And while we were dating 2 more children by other women. Despite these complications I stayed with him...
    sally0882 sally0882 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    New here... Not sure

    if I just have issues... I'm not content and I constantly think about the fun, beginning stages of another relationship. The flirting, kissing etc.
    Serena1974 Serena1974 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 22

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    After being with him

    for more than 10 years, the sex is almost non-existence, both of us are lazy to work on impressing each other, taking us for granted. My husband says he can't live without me, but he is not doing anything to make me feel I'm desired. I can't help but think how nice it will feel...
    surfiehall surfiehall 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 21

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    Cheating With A Married Man

    I have been married to my husband for 4 years.  I do love my husband but I am not in love with him.  He doesn't believe in divorce so we just go on about our lives.  I met a police officer that lives near me and who is also married.  I have known him for a...
    hardworkinmom hardworkinmom 26-30, F 46 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Three Months of Heaven

    for Justin John Kinsella: Is this heaven? Ray Kinsella: It's Iowa. John Kinsella: Iowa? I could have sworn this was heaven. [John starts to walk away] Ray Kinsella: Is there a heaven? John Kinsella: Oh yeah. It's the place where dreams come true. - Field of Dreams On...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Special Delivery

    I happen to work construction in the oil fields of northern Canada. There's not many people that can truly relate to what it's like unless they have experienced it first hand. During lunch hours, discussions will break out about all sorts of topics. Ranging from the inane to...
    blindsniper blindsniper 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    He did it to me again!

    Why can this man hold my gaze and make me forget I am married? He is on vacation this week, and spending time with his kids. I have chickens, and figured out I had over 31 dozen eggs this weekend. So I texted my friends and said you need to come get some eggs! I brought 3...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Okay, So Older Men Aren't Half Bad Either

    This story is in honor of my British friend, who lives in Arizona, and is currently caring for a friend who is ill. Through all of this, he maintains a wicked wit, and is sexy on top of that. Now, those of you who know how much I love younger men, and they love me, might wonder...
    runnerinatl runnerinatl 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Days Like Today I Want To Even More!!!

    Okay so after being married forever all I ask from my husband is a little attention, but instead I get ignored!! He rushes out of the house to go to work barely kisses me if he does at all. If I call or txt I never get an answer back. So it's days like today I really want someone...
    jaelita jaelita 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    Am Cheating On Him.

    I've been married for five yrs to a man who can not satisfy me sexual. During my single days,i enjoyed hanging out with bad boys, I MEAN THE REBEL TYPES, who knows how to make a womanfeel good and i will usually  sleep with any hot and  sexy guy any day and any time. Now that i...
    slowlyhot slowlyhot 26-30 7 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Stay Or Leave

    I've been with my husband for 5 years. We have a two year old son. My husband is 7 years older than me. Two years out of the five years we've been together he was unemployed and in those two years did nothing to better himself. I've been the good partner and tried to encourage...
    BellaLaJa BellaLaJa 26-30 14 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    This is a story 10 years in the making.

    10 years ago, I met the son of my mother's friend. He had a g/f (wife now - and she was there that night) and I had a b/f (husband now - he was not there). The second the son and I laid eyes on each other, it was like the world disappeared. There was an intense desire that...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 13

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    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 27

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    Same Story Different Man

    Yes my husband still a jerk , an just a few days ago my college friend .. Friended me on facbk , my husband totally hates him because he knows that I have history with this guy an we always will .. He's what the call in the movies the one that got away , he knows me inside an out...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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