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I Think About Having An Affair

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    I think about the excitement. The raw passion of animals in heat. Longing for a release from the everyday reality of life. The secret life that belongs to only you. No worries of...
    aprilsums aprilsums 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 13

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    This is the 3rd time i reconnect with the one person i cant get over. He was my first boyfriend my first love my first kiss and the first guy i ever had sex with (this was at 14...
    MunecaTrizte MunecaTrizte 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I spent a lot of time thinking about having an affair ...... My husband who I thought I could be true to while he is in prison.... Has turned into a venomous jerk abusive and nasty...
    TrueBecca TrueBecca 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 21

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    My wife is asleep and every single night I think about having an affair , I'm 27 years old and I know she cheated on me so I have thought about doing the same to her , sex life has...
    nick214486 nick214486 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 17

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    Thinking About It - we've only been married for about 4 years but i am miserable. My husband is so verbally abusive and tells me i'm dumb, i'm getting fat etc. He doesn't work and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    There is someone I have worked with for over 10 years. She is funny, fiery and gorgeous. She is a really great friend and I love being around her. I sometimes drunk txt and she...
    smartini smartini 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 16

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    I Would Realy Love An Affair..... - I would realy love an affair... to have a boy/girlfriend nobody knows about....I love secrets.
    linda linda 21-25, F 104 Responses Feb 22, 2007

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    I've had one night stands not even knowing their name or where they're from, but I want a full on affair with the same person. Someone in the same situation. Knowing if I pass them...
    andy8669 andy8669 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I love sex. Not always with my husband. I love thinking about it, talking about it, and doing it. I am a very sexual woman who "loves" her husband but doesn't like him much. I have...
    Houzofsex Houzofsex 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    His anger issues have just pushed me away - each time he gets more angry I drift further and further away. I'm done with making my entire existence revolve around how to please him...
    Luckylotus013 Luckylotus013 26-30, F 25 Responses Mar 13

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    My husband wants me to get into **** & he works & I don't. I'm just a housewife! I use to work @ a ***** club & he didn't mind. He always wanted me to go to work. He says my...
    Animallover69 Animallover69 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 11

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    Still Recommend It But Use Caution - I've been seeing the other man for about three months now. We still see each other for lunch mostly or after work. We go to a secluded area...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    The Paradox Of Marriage - So after all I ask myself, who doesn´t think about having an affair, except for those people with an extremely low sex-drive or those few who seem to...
    Jaypanther Jaypanther 36-40, F 24 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    I think I want to cheat. I love the person I am with but I need something more.. Can someone talk to me ??
    runaway03105 runaway03105 22-25, F 35 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I feel neglected ,controlled and unable to stay focused . I find myself questioning myself
    brownsugar2014 brownsugar2014 46-50, F 7 Responses Feb 17

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    I think about having an affair with a woman. A deliciously sensual torrid affair. I want to be passionately caressed and kissed, everywhere. I want for us to become fluent in one...
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Seeking Anal -                        Being married , I have a want for Anal sex and my husband finds it disgusting. and will not try at all.   I seek men...
    mrsmarleen mrsmarleen 61-65, F 90 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    Before You Cheat -   BEFORE YOU CHEAT....let me tell you my story of my husband going on a similar group or even this group looking for a woman willing to have sex with him...
    internetsluts internetsluts 46-50 102 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    I've never had an affair but I've fantasize about it. I miss the feeling of getting to know someone for the first time, the newness of a relationship. I love my husband and I love...
    girlygirlyNurse girlygirlyNurse 31-35, F 19 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I think about it constantly..but I just feel dirty and disgusted with myself for even thinking about it..
    iDntCurr iDntCurr 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 12

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    Last Night - Last night was probably the best nights in a long time ..... Well since NYE...... I went out with a couple that are friends of mine. My oldest daughter babysits...
    southernbelle93126 southernbelle93126 36-40, F 14 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I have been sexless for almost 4 year snow. My husband doesn't have any desire to at least please me. I am fed up for always being like this. I'm tired and cannot take to be...
    Yojj13 Yojj13 31-35, F 32 Responses Jan 6

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    And I'm not even in a relationship wow what does that say
    rachelle1972 rachelle1972 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    I think about it, but I quickly erase the thought.
    Hazelsapphire Hazelsapphire 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    I am going through a separation, divorce is going to take a while, and I have a long term relationship but it is long distance. I am commited to the relationship, and have no...
    Hotcocoa15 Hotcocoa15 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I always wonder where I could meet attractive people - when I'm single. I'm successful, fit, attractive. It seems like there aren't any men that are a good match for me out there?
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I Wish.. - it has been 20 years...everyone see me as a happy mum/wife with 3 beautiful kids... but deep down inside only i know whats the true story behind my life.. i have to...
    enchantingjade enchantingjade 36-40 12 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    I think about having an affair because I can see how he looks at other women I notice a change in his behavior and how he acts rude towards me he antagonizes me , ignores me He...
    uanni uanni 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 19

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    I think about starting an affair with a married man everyday. It's wrong on an ethics standpoint, not even going into morality and religion. But he just makes me think about it, it...
    porfavor porfavor 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    So this is where it sucks.....I've been seeing my other guy for over nine months now. I am very much in love with him. I know your not suppose to do that in an affair but I am...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    A Chance To Cheat - When I had or still have the chance to cheat on my husband. I thought I would go forward with it till I felt guilty. I started to think my husband has been...
    hiswife12 hiswife12 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    I never had a relationship but I have deep feelings for this guy since high school. I know he has a longtime girlfriend. I had feelings for him (over 10 years) before he got with...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think I might have already cheated. I have never had a chat like that. It turned me on so much. My husband has been turning me down and making me feel like wanting sex is wrong...
    beautifly917 beautifly917 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 20

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    I really would like not to think about an affair but given my current situation with a sexless marriage and no relief in sight (you can read all about it in the 'I Live in a...
    lookingforanswers1 lookingforanswers1 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    Ugh it's so frustrating not being able to quench my sexual thirst. I've tried everything with her. It just sucks. If she doesn't want to enjoy the satisfaction I can give her...
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 27

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    I am happy with my man, but he works different shifts each month. We are having a baby in 6 months and I spend time home alone a lot. Lately I am thinking/fantasizing about having...
    Innocent85 Innocent85 26-30, F 21 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Something Very New I don't think about having an affair anymore, I'm having one. Its been one of the best experiences of my life. I forgot what it felt like to have a man want...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    No Thinking About It Anymore ..... It'S Done - Ladies Night always tends to bring out a crowd of people at our local bar. My girlfriends and I decided to go last Wednesday night...
    southernbelle93126 southernbelle93126 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    I wish I could be on a site like this and be honest, without all the pervs...sheesh
    LauraTm504 LauraTm504 31-35, F 49 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    A Line Crossed - My best friend invited me to go out with her last night to "just get a couple of drinks" ..... with the 2 of us .... there's NEVER just a "couple of drinks" lol...
    southernbelle93126 southernbelle93126 36-40, F 14 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    The Truth Hurts - I have lived with a man who shows little to no intimacy. He does nothing to try and make me happy. Or does and only returns to the same person he was. I know we...
    saltyorsweet saltyorsweet 31-35, F 17 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I Do.. - Every time one ends. LOL!
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 17 Responses May 3, 2013

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    I think about this a lot. Living in a sexless marriage with a refuser husband is hard. It's sad feeling this alone when he is laying right next to me.
    Eclipsedheart Eclipsedheart 41-45, F 16 Responses Feb 26

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    I have been married for 6 years now and working with my co worker for 1 1/2. So it's weird that just now I'm starting to have these thoughts. My thoughts just started the other...
    eyes4you2 eyes4you2 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I am only 2 months out of my last affair and slowly getting back on my feet. I think I need more time really, but I miss being in a relationship so much. There is nothing like...
    Stormie01 Stormie01 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I know it's so wrong but I can't help but think about it.
    ocmomof4 ocmomof4 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 15

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    Both of us are married, me happily and he seems so too, obviously interested in each other (lingering contact, flirtatious smiles), but we haven't talked yet. Connected through our...
    boobsandboots boobsandboots 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 29

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    I had an affair before with a married man but i ended it. Left him because the relationship was just impossible as we live in the same village and apparently we are in the same...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 31

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    After so many years I think it's about time now what does one do one definitely takes care of a situation that needs to be addressed immediately and I think at this point I think...
    Marv063 Marv063 66-70, M 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I Know I Am Selfish - I have thought about this long before I could admit to myself that our marriage is not getting any better. I have tried total commitment. I denied myself of...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 32 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    I don't trust girls anymore. This site gave me so much new insight on you guys. But I guess this is how humans work so it's only natural. Wanting someone to yourself is greedy...
    liquescent liquescent 18-21 3 Responses Mar 27