I Think About Having An Affair

I am definitely looking to having an affair. 7 years into my lonely marriage, I discovered that my husband is incapable of meaning ful type of communication. He finds conversing with my tortuous and draining. I used to take it...

Every time one ends. LOL!

My wife had an appointment with her OBGYN today. Just a normal checkup during pregnancy although this was one of the ultrasound visits. Baby is fine and healthy. No worries about the baby whatsoever. Wife is fine and healthy except...

As you can tell by my title remorseful refusing wife, I'm the one that had low sexual desire and didn't provide for my husbands needs.

I would like to tell you and say right off an affair is the worst thing you could do to your family...

Everyday i think of having an affair but sometimes i feel that having an affair is not a good thing i never had an affair in my whole life and i will never have because no girl loves me so i should never think of having an affair i dont...

So after all I ask myself, who doesn´t think about having an affair, except for those people with an extremely low sex-drive or those few who seem to have found the perfect match. This leads me to wonder why marriage is still such an...

My best friend invited me to go out with her last night to "just get a couple of drinks" ..... with the 2 of us .... there's NEVER just a "couple of drinks" lol.....

She texted me & said she was waiting for me at the restaurant's...

BEFORE YOU CHEAT....let me tell you my story of my husband going on a similar group or even this group looking for a woman willing to have sex with him. He found such a woman who was willing to cheat on her husband . I can't...

I'll try and keep this as short as possible and if any guys especially could answer this, that'd be great:
My question is, when men in their late 30s/early 40s have been in a relationship for a good number of years, end even have...

Can someone explain to me how you can cheat and not have plans to leave your spouse. Does the emotions of what your doing to your spouse every get to you. And I'm not judging anyone I'm just asking.

now entering 12th year of mostly sexless marraige, after lots of reaching out, acting out, NOTHING HAS CHANGED

I so desperately wanna believe that someday my marraige can be different than this sexless initmateless reality....and I...

I have thought about this long before I could admit to myself that our marriage is not getting any better. I have tried total commitment. I denied myself of the glory of what women should have under the blessings of marriage. But I...

I previously wrote a story about how I was concerned about the fact that my partner may be attracted to a gorgeous 20-year-old intern in his office, who was recruited not that long ago. I gave some examples and asked if they sounded...

I think about having an affair all the time. When you haven't had sex in 5 years it does become center of your mind. But having an affair is great if all parties are okay with it other wise its a disaster in the making.

I married my husband 4 years ago ( 2nd marriage for me. 1st for him - at age 48 - red flag perhaps?? lol). I thought he was perfect... he came across as perfect.... and life was wonderful and I had no expectation that it would...

                       Being married , I have a want for Anal sex and my husband finds it disgusting. and will not try at all.   I seek men that will be willing to have anal sex with me but will not want regular...

I decided to take an offer I couldn't refuse last night. A gentleman had been asking me "out" for awhile now, but since I'm still technically married I do not feel it is appropriate to go out in my small quite gossiping town ;).

I...

I would realy love an affair... to have a boy/girlfriend nobody knows about....I love secrets.

Well, Let me first say I found this site desperately searching for help/strength to get out of an affair I had been having for almost two years with a married man. I have successfully done this and want to share my feelings and...