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I Think About Having An Affair

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    11 years of marriage

    and 3 kids later, I have lost that "being in love" feeling with my husband. I stay, for now, because of my kids. If it weren't for them I would be long gone. I crave intimacy but not with him. I have been having dreams of being with other men. If I could experience again...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Apr 29, 2015

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    I swore I never would.

    ....but I am so lonely. The desire to touch and be touched is so intense it is crippling.
    SouthernSweetness11 SouthernSweetness11 46-50, F 26 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Going To Have An Affair

    I am definitely looking to having an affair. 7 years into my lonely marriage, I discovered that my husband is incapable of meaning ful type of communication. He finds conversing with my tortuous and draining. I used to take it personally, but now I understand about...
    survivor23 survivor23 36-40, F 130 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    I've been married for 18+ years now.

    We married young. My wife and I have been through a lot so I do love her, but she's the only women I've slept with. I really want to know what it's like to be with another woman. I've made small attempts, but I'm not really a ladies man so I haven't been able to make anything...
    deived deived 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2015

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    Is it only me who finds the thought of having

    an affair with a married man so sexy?
    monstermunch22x monstermunch22x 18-21, F 23 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah I am, today is the day.

    I'm meeting up with someone today, she is traveling 2 hours to get here. I'm pretty keen and excited. Hope it's all worth it
    gav1983 gav1983 26-30, M 8 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    I'm a married, educated black female

    and I've been having an affair with a divorced 47 y/o white male. We met online started out as friends just someone to help with my loneliness. He was always attentive we laughed and joked together we realized that we were an hour apart he asked if I wanted to meet for dinner I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 47 Responses May 22, 2015

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    Iamarunner Iamarunner 41-45, F 23 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    skyeccaa skyeccaa 26-30, F Jan 10

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    Before You Cheat

      BEFORE YOU CHEAT....let me tell you my story of my husband going on a similar group or even this group looking for a woman willing to have sex with him. He found such a woman who was willing to cheat on her husband . I can't tell you the excruciating pain and mind...
    internetsluts internetsluts 46-50 103 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    I'm craving an emotional online affair,

    is that what it's called lol? I don't want to cheat on my husband, but id like to fulfill my needs as a woman of feeling desired. I'd like to sexually tease someone who actually enjoys it, unlike my husband. I am only 5 lbs over weight from my pre pregnancy body, and last time I...
    Sarahi7 Sarahi7 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 21, 2015

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    I Know I Am Selfish

    I have thought about this long before I could admit to myself that our marriage is not getting any better. I have tried total commitment. I denied myself of the glory of what women should have under the blessings of marriage. But I just can't be happy with a man i don't have...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 32 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    I really want to find a older man

    who would love to have an affair with a younger woman who absolutely loves risky sex
    high09611 high09611 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 2

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    I've been married nine years; right

    now we're both in our late 40s. Early in our dating relationship I saw signs of responsibility issues - random broken dates, missing work, etc but in the throes of infatuation those things usually get ignored. Early into our marriage, my wife had a bit of a mental breakdown...
    VanHagar VanHagar 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    Well im divorced and thinking about having an

    affair with a married woman i dont exactly know why though
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2015

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    No Thinking About It Anymore ..... It'S Done

    Ladies Night always tends to bring out a crowd of people at our local bar. My girlfriends and I decided to go last Wednesday night to let our hair down and enjoy a night out on the town.  It was hot and muggy.  I decided to wear a tank top with a pair of tight blue jeans.  We...
    southernbelle93126 southernbelle93126 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    I have an opportunity to have an affair

    and feel desired and wanted for a moment. I'm torn. On the one hand, I haven't felt needed, wanted or loved in any way from my wife in years and even one night would make me feel alive. On the other hand, I know it's wrong. I'm torn because I've repeatedly told my wife I'm...
    bgood79 bgood79 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    I went to a school reunion recently

    and met up with a girl who is always very friendly to me. My wife is very jealous of her and has been insisting for some time that she fancies me and wants to have an affair with me. i was very unsure but after quite a bit of drink I asked her if she fancied me. She told me that...
    dermydoc dermydoc 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    Toronto? I don't know why,

    but I feel unsatisfied with my current life and would like to experiment with someone new. Anyone in Toronto?
    untouchable1986 untouchable1986 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2015

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    Seeking Anal

                           Being married , I have a want for Anal sex and my husband finds it disgusting. and will not try at all.   I seek men that will be willing to have anal sex with me but will not want regular sex, for that is for my husband.   I have a...
    mrsmarleen mrsmarleen 61-65, F 89 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    I'm a 21 year old college student who's in a

    relationship with a boy who isn't satisfying my needs. I don't want anything serious, just a hot OLDER man to show me what I'm missing. I'm veeeery open to being told what to do.
    audrey67 audrey67 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 21

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    Ladies and its with your man !

    !! If you cant take care of business at home and your man needs to use EP to flirt, chat ect with women, well look out im going to get him
    ExtremeNext ExtremeNext 26-30 78 Responses Feb 10, 2015

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    It's not that I want to have an affair with a

    married man but it's just so tempting. We reconnected after a long time and just recently started all this sexual flirting, mostly by text. I respect the sanctity of marriage. I know it's wrong for every reason in the book....but finally, after a long dry spell, someone "cares...
    storeymouse8 storeymouse8 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 21, 2015

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    Hi are the any fun busty ladies reading this

    thread wanna chat? If so fancy messaging me back?
    teddyboylovesboobs teddyboylovesboobs 41-45, M Feb 1

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    OriginalBarbie OriginalBarbie 18-21, F 39 Responses Oct 19, 2015

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    Almost had one..very close!

    Still think about it!
    Fishfugazi Fishfugazi 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2015

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    hihisweetypie hihisweetypie 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I love sex. Not always with my husband.

    I love thinking about it, talking about it, and doing it. I am a very sexual woman who "loves" her husband but doesn't like him much. I have had sex with several men during our 7 year marriage. I travel for work and I am always looking for the next guy. I don't know why I do...
    Houzofsex Houzofsex 41-45, F 12 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    deived deived 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2015

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    I hope I never actually do have an affair,

    but I find the concept very stimulating.
    DevilDog71 DevilDog71 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 13, 2015

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    I've Been Through It, You Don't Want To Do It........

    As you can tell by my title remorseful refusing wife, I'm the one that had low sexual desire and didn't provide for my husbands needs. I would like to tell you and say right off an affair is the worst thing you could do to your family. You will not think about or even realize...
    RRRW RRRW 46-50, F 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    I'm a married 37m and I posted an ad on CL

    for a physical sexually based relationship. A 21 year old college student responded and we have clicked very well. I can't help but wonder if she really knows what she is getting into. She gets back from winter break next week and then we have to decide if we are going to do...
    Summitfun Summitfun 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    well not in surprise az.

    no women here have them
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 1

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    I Do..

    Every time one ends. LOL!
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 14 Responses May 3, 2013

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    No. I'm not. But I wanted to say

    that people on here disgust me. Save ONE specific scenario in which there is literally no way out, I personally find it beyond selfish and deplorable for people to step out on their chosen mate. YOU chose them. Why not leave them if you're unhappy? Because you want your cake...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 71 Responses Feb 9, 2015

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    Is it just me or most of the people

    who want to have an affair are male? Is it a flaw in our gender or are we just being lead by our desires and fantasies? Where is a good place to find someone for an affair? How do you let people know (discreetly) that you are looking to cheat? I think women have an easier...
    mlihere mlihere 46-50, M 46 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa 26-30, F Dec 25, 2015

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    hihisweetypie hihisweetypie 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I'm thinking of bringing another woman into the

    bedroom as my partners 40th birthday present
    lemonadelaide lemonadelaide 26-30, F 13 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    It's not that my marriage is bad

    or my hubby is bad in bed, I just crave something exciting and I just imagine having a fling with someone would be such a thrill!
    sallypaige sallypaige 26-30, F 154 Responses Jan 28, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Janecc11aa Janecc11aa 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2015

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    I think about having an affair all of the time.

    I need the passion and the excitement that I'm missing. I've had a couple of very short experiences in the past and I was left extremely disappointed.
    Lucca9 Lucca9 41-45, F 53 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I have been sexless for almost 4 year snow.

    My husband doesn't have any desire to at least please me. I am fed up for always being like this. I'm tired and cannot take to be ignored, neglected and abandoned. I'm thinking to have someone who will treat me special and provide everything I need.
    Yojj13 Yojj13 31-35, F 22 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    She drives me nuts frequently

    and the flight reflex kicks in. Not that I'd have anywhere to go anyway.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 20, 2015

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    I Think About It But...

    I don't think I'll do it. I don't think I'm capable of doing this to my husband. But I think about it all the time. I feel bad, because I know I'm lucky that my husband is still very attracted to me even after having two kids. But I'm not attracted to him anymore. I'm bored...
    Maritzi Maritzi 31-35, F 19 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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