I Think Actions Speak Louder Than Words

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    I've always believed

    that actions are a better indicator of a person than their words. Words are easier to fabricate than actions (although both can be). Words are much more easily susceptible to being twisted whereas actions are often more spur of the moment/impulsive. I've personally...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity
    18-21
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

    I have written a number of experiences in my

    8-ish months of being on EP; some angry, many sad, some controversial. One controversial story I posted was under the heading "I Think About Cheating On My Husband". The responses to that experience vary widely, but several people commented that I was "sick". Implying I'm...
    MommaBella MommaBella
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2014

    Iether its good or bad So lets start with the

    action. Shall we? Jimmy: hey dad Dad: Hey son Jimmy: I....I..... Dad: its okay son. whatever it is, Ill forgive you. Jimmy: I took your car for a walk. I think its broken. Dad: Come here son... Jimmy: *slowly steps forward* Dad grabs a shovel and and dig a hole in the backyard...
    ZardaF5 ZardaF5
    26-30, M
    Oct 19, 2015

    Her

    Throws a good old fashioned fit! Stomps my feet like a little girl. Screams and throws her stuff. Mother effing biatch!!!!!
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2013

    Some people are so good with words.

    There are a lot that will say the rights words at the right time but it's always the actions that matter. I judge through actions not words. 👍👍
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    May 24, 2014

    "I'm know she's wiser

    than you and more than you'll ever be! Go hang with punk ***** like you, party all night, get on welfare and be a baby mama " "Got to be a hood rat with your mentality" "Go find some brains" ... And yet I'm the racist one?? I think someone needs to check yourselves.
    JustThatLesbionn JustThatLesbionn
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 17, 2014

    Said Another Way....

    I have a mentor that says it this way, "What you do speaks so loudly, what you say i can not hear!" I love listening to him, he has learned so much and has a unique way of taking out of the box to look at things just enough different to learn too. :)
    czywidow7217 czywidow7217
    56-60, F
    Jun 7, 2013

    After the week I've had,

    I can see who my true friends are. It's been a really rough and draining week, emotionally, mentally and physically. It's hard because I'm so different from my friends it seems. If one of my friends, or my friends parents were in pain or danger, I would be checking in daily to...
    xTenderHeartx xTenderHeartx
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015

    I can tell if someone cares

    for me whether they are in my life on or offline because they consciously show it. They notice when I am not around for a while, they miss me while I'm away, they pick up things about me the average person wouldn't and can therefore tell when something is wrong. They actively...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink
    22-25, F
    May 15, 2014

    I believe how u act towards a person says more

    about how u feel than what you're saying
    angelwings12341 angelwings12341
    16-17, F
    Feb 4, 2014

    Why I Picked My Username

    My user name symbolizes where I an headed in my quest for self enrichment and building my life in the way I dream and desire it to be. And that I will rise up n over any obstacle or chalenge. I am ready for big,better, amazing outcomes!!
    upnover upnover
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2013

    Show Me

    Dont tell me you love me --- Show me you love me DD
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 8, 2013

    I tend to judge people only

    after they act rather then based on just their words. This means I give them the benefit of the doubt, and leaves me vulnerable. But, it also helps me to make a better decision about a person'a character.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 26, 2014

    The Best Way To Predict The Future Is To Create It

    This is a statement I have always believed and tried to live by, actions will always speak louder than words. I am not one to talk about something, and if I do then I am going to do it, without a doubt. Life is for the people who are willing to go and grab it, not the ones who...
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2013

    Words can be such easy things to say.

    When its time to stand by your words. Well that is when we find out exactly what we are made of.
    TKD1 TKD1
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2014

    Well, it's time for me to stop dwelling on

    what's happened so I'll be working on a new story. I'm not sure which subject I will chose but there are many to choose from. Some are mine but others have come from fellow epers. I hope you enjoy my new work. :)
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 25, 2014
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    May 24, 2014

    I was looking at posts about people being an

    empathic..... and some posts saying it refers to feeling others pain. Yet it seems some in this experience , according to some of their stories, dont appear to have much sympathy toward people. So .....to me ....being empathetic ......yet having no sympathy .....seems pretty...
    Slinkyfun Slinkyfun
    51-55, F
    Mar 1

    Totally Agree !

    Seriously though ...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore
    31-35, F
    18 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    Actions will always speak louder

    than words. People can say whatever they want, but if their actions don't show it then their words mean nothing really.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    Jan 30, 2015

    Ok the new year is approaching like a jet on

    the runway! So here's the deal,so many years have came and went and I keep telling myself"oh gosh I can not let this next year start and end the same way the others. The discouragement,self loathing whiner has got to go!!! I keep thinking to myself oh my job,i cant keep up on...
    upnover upnover
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2013

    Take action to say Hi!

    !! Otherwise just don't regret when you get home, good luck guys and girls.
    BigBunBigLife BigBunBigLife
    18-21, M
    May 23, 2014

    I firmly believe that actions DO speak louder

    than words. In MY opinion....What you do or do NOT do, are a direct result of your thoughts and a conscious decision, to either act or not. No matter the circumstance, how you react is YOUR decision and you are responsible for it. I don't buy into the excuses of I didn't mean to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    Always Have Always Will

    I have always thought this, I have always understood this, I have rarely acted in accordance with my beliefs....now why is this?
    loudn loudn
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 27, 2013

    Say as you do and do

    as you say. Bottom line. Actions mean more then words sometimes. Granted words are nice but deserve action behind them.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 17, 2015

    Yet most never notice the small things.

    Only when they are gone, do we reminisce.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence
    16-17, M
    Oct 5, 2015

    I hate so talk before I do something.

    Because I get jittery and I really wanna move. So simply put, I don't talk about it. I just do it. When my friends need help in something I don't talk to them, I just help. When they have problems or are depressed, I don't talk, I hit them on the head and say cheer up. Then I go...
    SparksFly66 SparksFly66
    16-17, F
    Apr 21, 2014

    Showing Somebody You Care.

    When did it become bad, for people to show another that they care about them? I don't mean, saying, I love you or I care about you. I believe in showing the person(s). Do something nice for the person you care about everyday.
    dirk0783 dirk0783
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2013

    One thing I find with this site you think you

    have made a connection with somebody and you wait for a message n wait n wait n wait but a message back never happens even though u been having banter with them, people do like getting spontaneous messages now and again ...... Like hi how you or how's your day going or can't...
    teddyboylovesboobs teddyboylovesboobs
    41-45, M
    Oct 5, 2015

    Please give me clue or advice

    for this matter.. (Long story short) I met up with this guy and we had fun and After the met up and he drop me home, he texted me and he said he still want to meet me.. And then I said I had fun too.. And then the next day we chatting and everything is good.. And he said he...
    heartandbrain heartandbrain
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    I cannot stress enough how true this is.

    Don't get me wrong, words can have a wonderful affect on people but actions stay a lot longer with someone vs unproven words.
    aLadywithoutaclue aLadywithoutaclue
    26-30, F
    Apr 20, 2015

    A Doer Of Your Words

    It's always better to do what you say you'll do and you won't have to question whether or not someone can trust you.
    built4comfort built4comfort
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 18, 2013

    Why is it that some people have to be

    so mean? There are good people too of course. Then there are those who act nice but aren't. They suck you into their lies. They make you feel safe then cut you deep. It's appalling that these people prey on the lonely and insecure. Even more so the emotions released are a blend...
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2014

    Loved this poem found on Twitter: If you stay,

    stay forever If you go, do it today. If you change, change for the better. If you talk, mean what you say. Today has been a pretty darn good day. I had today off & spent a fair portion of the day conversing with someone who makes me smile. I'm thankful for this person, this...
    MommaBella MommaBella
    31-35, F
    Feb 17, 2014

    Talking is easy. It is the actions

    which are difficult. I would rather have one strong, beautiful gesture, than a thousand spoken words.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 1, 2015

    They Really Do.

    A promise can be broken just as fast as it was made. Words mean something but it the actions behind the words that mean more. I have always said it's the little things that matter the most. you can say something but showing it is always better and gets your point across better...
    stamp24 stamp24
    22-25, F
    Jan 29, 2013

    People who have a constant bad demeanor towards

    others of different cultures or who have something unique in them need to learn that just because people have there own way about them does not give them the right to abuse others privately or openly. These selfishly ignorant people may believe the world reflects around them...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 23

    I'm in love with a mm.

    I'm married as well. We were together for 8 years and prior to that we were the best of friends. We were coworkers for 16 years. I sat within 5 feet of him every day. We laughed together, cried together, celebrated together. He's the only man that has ever loved me. Truly loved...
    Youdontphaseme Youdontphaseme
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    Show Me Don'T Tell Me

    I have always been like this. It has nothing to do with the fact my husband's actions have always meant he hated me. Before all that, it was the same. I have never been affected by sweet talk, compliments and praise.It just doesn't resonate with me. Not sure why, even in college...
    soulrunher soulrunher
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    All my life people have told me

    that they love me, or was my friend, or would always be there for me but that wasn't always true. I think that if your going to have the balls to say stuff like that to my face and have me believe it then you provide the goods to back it up. It's as simple as that!
    LovelyDreamer76 LovelyDreamer76
    18-21, F
    Feb 20, 2014

    I believe action speak louder

    than words because just cause u say it doesn't change anything but when you actually do something about it it's better and people would take u more serious cause I'm tired of hearing promises after promise I'm so over my head that I say F it and say do what u want I'm tired of...
    jncbeauty jncbeauty
    22-25, F
    Jun 20, 2014

    A lot of people tend to promise something

    but like what other people say.. "All promises are made to be broken." So do his promises that's why I never trust words. The last time I believed in those, I got fooled.
    BarbieChan BarbieChan
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2014

    One of the hardest things to do in life is walk

    away from someone you love. But sometimes they give you no choice. Love is not about how much you can say “I love you” but about how much you prove it’s true, falling for someone’s actions not their words. I love the words I love the affirmation but your...
    alwayswantingmore78 alwayswantingmore78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    I believed what a man's words told me about him.

    I fell in love with him and he with me. We spent the last nearly two weeks together at his home. He just drove "us" back to my home, ostensibly so that I could take care of things in order to become his ... I don't even know what. When he'd put all of my luggage in the cart...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 10, 2014
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