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I Think Bdsm Can Be Healthy

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    hi every body i am sadist i live in egypt .

    some ppl here do not know what bdsm mean and others know about bdsm but just think thats disease and bdsmers are murders or criminals and some mad people .may be tv some times make the imagination of the people so high and unlimited .so its whole misunderstanding .if your gf...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 23, 2014

    Cages : Www.sevdasub.blogspot.com

    Cages   There are all sorts of different cages, they all serve a purpose. I will write what I know, I am not an expert. BIRD CAGES: These are used in play, in a BDSM relationship, they are used for a short time.  They are constructed of wire mesh and a...
    owmerofsevdaslave2 owmerofsevdaslave2
    41-45, M
    Jan 13, 2013

    How Important Is Obedience To A Master/ Mistress

    It seems to me, in my opinion, not many slaves/subs seem to know what obedience is any more. Seems to me that the majority of slave/subs are obedient to the point when they are asked to carry out a task they don't want to do and prevaricate as much as they can. In recent...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 16, 2012

    Bdsm Can Be Extremely Heathy

    There will always be those who get into BDSM for the wrong reason. There are always predators and there will always be broken bottoms who do little more then create drama but generally for those called to this sort of thing it is wonderful and fulfilling. I have found that most...
    foxshadow foxshadow
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Nov 12, 2011

    A Thank You!

    I am not an eloquent speaker let alone writer. Please be patient with me. I feel compelled to say “Thank You” to special few. Those of you know who you are. I did not realize how much an online friendship could mean to me. I found a Father, a Friend, a Lover, and a Dominant...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 24, 2011

    Any Advice for An Inexperienced Dom taking On An Experienced Sub?

    i have been researching taking on the role of a dom over a sub i have been friends with for awhile. ive decided i definately want to take on this responsibility. any advice for handling a sub with all the experience? i know this can cause problems.
    siggy53551 siggy53551
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

    Absolutely

    After more then 2 decades involved with bdsm and D/s, it seems quite obvious that most people have a ying/yang personality:  some sub, some dom; some sadist, some masochist, some male, some female.  But most people, fearing that societal norms will disapprove, stay...
    parkslopeluver parkslopeluver
    61-65, M
    Mar 31, 2010

    I Think Bdsm Can Be Healthy

    bdsm is healthy. The role of a submissive and a dominant partner is sexual fulfillment. It is practiced as a way to get closer to the spouse. I don't find it wrong at all. Bondage empathizes trust and limits.Both partners must have two elements to engage in bdsm roles. For...
    dave0903 dave0903
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2010

    At First....

    At first, I thought it was really weird that I was into this sort of thing.  But the more I watch it and read up on it the more I want to do it.  I'm already talking to this one girl about and she said that she would love to be my slave for the weekend (I think she has...
    rorschach246 rorschach246
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 25, 2009

    In Trust...

    As with everything, the relationship depends on the individual. To me, being a submissive, I only submit to someone that I trust completely, that I know will cherish me and protect me yet delight in knowing how far the exploration of intensity can be made. It cannot exist...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2009

    As a Domme, of Course I Do...

    My boys and girls are Mine, because they feel safe with Me. I do not harm them in any way, but give them the guidance and agreed discipline they desire. When I was Pro, My cards said "Mistress ____, sensual psychologist and Guardian".
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2009

    All In Moderation...

    ...as long as it isn't what you base your relationship on, then it can be healthy. A little extra kink in and out of the bedroom does wonders for your complexion, and sex-life
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    20 Responses Jan 9, 2009

    Can, Not Will.

    I joined this group because I believe what the group title says, but I have delayed writing here longer than for most groups I join, because I think this is a touchy subject, and I fear to be misinterpreted. First, let me say that anything two mature, consenting adults choose to...
    EBunbury EBunbury
    46-50, M
    12 Responses Jun 7, 2008

    If It's What You're Into

    if you like that kind of thing, then yes, it's very healthy. and if you do like it, then it's unhalthy to deny, supress, or ignore it. especially the Dom/sub aspect.
    AngelaDark AngelaDark
    31-35, F
    May 13, 2008
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