I Think Being Gay Is Okay

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    Just be whoever you are.

    I accept everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, race, and the list goes on. Being gay is just who you are. You cant change it. I dont understand the conversion therapy- which is where a bunch of religious people pray over people who like the same gender, or other techniques...
    IkIlLeDyOuRsOuLaNdAtEiT IkIlLeDyOuRsOuLaNdAtEiT
    16-17, F
    Mar 19

    Be my guest. What you like is what you like.

    What bothers me though is how some people just NEED to make sure everyone knows they're gay. If I can't shove religion down people's throats then gays shouldn't shove their preferences down mine. I am totally cool with gays. I know this one kid who when I first met was full on...
    Alvathe35th Alvathe35th
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2013

    It's Okay.

    A wise trans sexual once told me that is great to be straight, but its ok to be gay.
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    9 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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