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I Think Children Need Love And Don't Deserve To Be Hurt

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    Vengeful Children Need Love, Too

    Revenge is an action taken in reaction to real or imagined hurts. Children seeking revenge lash out. They may ignore, reject, gossip, exclude, swear, call names, lie, cheat, steal, or be physically aggressive. They are not bad kids. They are hurt kids reacting in the only way...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Oct 25, 2010

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    Parents

    Children deserve love from their parents and parents should take all the steps to protect them from the outside world.  there's some parents who thinks because they're adult and kids should listen to them, they try to control their kids by verbal, emotional and physical...
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    Children Don't Deserve Being Hurt

    All children should and need being loved.  Doing this, they will have an amazing childhood which they'll bring it on into their adulthood.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    The World Is Already Bad Enough

    Kids should be able to be kids. To grow up in a loving environment. Punished when they did something wrong but not with hitting them.
    Kadya Kadya 41-45 Apr 10, 2011

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    When he's 4 he will try to climb up on your lap

    and want you to play. But you'll be too busy playing on your Xbox When he's 6 he will throw his new football you got him for a present But you'll be too involved in the game on TV to even notice. When he's 10 he'll come up asking for help with his homework. But you'll be too...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M May 5

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    When Children Hurt Themselves

    I was talking with my daughters and the subject of "cutting" came up.They told me so many of their friends females and males young and old are into cutting themselves.I asked why and they told me to feel the pain. What keeps anyone from seeing the scars? They cut places on...
    Lizzy2046 Lizzy2046 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    In Moderation

    I do agree, they don't need to be hurt physically. But a child does need to get his feelings hurt, at least once. That way he'll know "john doe" hurt my feelings, but life went on. I got over it-time didn't stop, the world didn't stop spinning..i handled it..one way or another...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    Not Just Children

    Everyone deserves love and no one deserves to be hurt no more than people should be allowed to hurt others. Children are no exception.
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

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    The Title Speaks For Itself!

    I just wonder what people really think when they have children, and decide to basically ruin their childhood. Whether it is physically, emotionally, or just abandon them. Why would you ever want to hurt something that is fragile, can't protect itself, and needs nurturing and...
    DraygenD DraygenD 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    A Childhood Scar That Remains...

    Brief moments come in your life often,when the mind's eye gently courses through the river of your past.Those moments could be either joyful or present a mixed bag.For me,life in childhood was a true checker board of experiences.With a typical middle-class setting,boyhood had a...
    primnpropah primnpropah 41-45 1 Response Jul 22, 2012

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    I Think Killing Children Is Wrong - Even In War

    The shameful actions of my country bring tears to my eyes, the shameful murders of tens of thousands, maybe even hundreds of thousands of children on our planet for the greed of a few evil men is the worse thing that can happen to the human race. How can we sit by and do...
    LeisaWolf LeisaWolf 51-55, F 3 Responses May 8, 2010

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    Laughter Is The Language Of The World

    Close your eyes and imagine seeing a child laughing-you hear their innocent giggles and laughter, you see their wide smile with the hint of a twinkle in their eyes.Underneath it all, could be pain, anguish, abuse.What monster could ever inflict pain on a child, whether it be...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2012

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    Love A Child

    Children need love to help them grow into adults who will be able to give and show love to others. Not be violent and abusive to others. No one will ever have a child that's perfect the child will need guided by a spat on the behind or talked to or time out which ever way works...
    Lizzy2046 Lizzy2046 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    No Soul

    I can't imagine what kind of a monster one would have to be to physically abuse a child. I have looked into the eyes of said monster and can tell you they come in all shapes sizes and colors though. I just think that to abuse a child mentally or physically, you have to be a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    I hide behind a trick, a harmless mask, but wait some things can be quick to turn into a disagreeable task. You better watch your back because some secrets could lead to an...
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    I love you and you don't even know. I encouraged you to do better, to move on and to focus on yourself cause you are too good for her. I really meant what I said that "You deserve...
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    No, they're not screwed. No, they don't "don't deserve me." No, they weren't abusive. Harsh maybe, but no, never abusive. But looking at them, I am gripped with a fear for my life...
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    I thought making a second account would be a fresh start, but instead, it feels like I've split myself into two. I didn't want him to track my pain, but I love that account. I have...
    NastasyaFilippovna NastasyaFilippovna 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 24

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    Nothing frustrates me more than being told I will change my mind when I "get old enough" or "meet the right man." These things imply that as an adult I am still not fully capable...
    charmyxd charmyxd 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    in case I removed you please don't be offended, I want to limit my circle to ppl I talk to, there is no other reason so please don't feel hurt.
    sbenveniste sbenveniste 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    I don't really know how to socialize or understand why people do the things they do. I was outside having a cig talking to an acquaintance about smoking. He mentioned loving a cig...
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    Whenever people compliment me on, well, anything really. I'm left surprised, and kind of confused. I guess it's because I don't expect to many compliments to come my way. I expect...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 26 mins ago

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    No I don't and I can do very well without them, or "fair weather" as they call. I've frequently put myself out for certain people. I'll go clubbing on your birthday with you even...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    But it is. Everyday I wake up I think about my past. I can't move forward mentally. My brain is so consumed with my past self (childhood). I experienced so many trials as a kid...
    forestchild forestchild 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    My daughter has een married to a 'man' for a few years now and they have a 4 year old boy. My grandson is an awesome kiddo. Loves football,baseball....any sports. He has no fear...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 26

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    In some respects, I am quite a traditionalistic person. I have morals, I respect others, I am kind and would help anyone if I could. These are all things that I was taught...
    simplynickstill simplynickstill 36-40, M Oct 26

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    UNCONDITIONAL? I don't believe in loving someone totally 'unconditionally'. How can there be absolutely no conditions? How?? The closest kind of love I could see fitting...
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 27 Responses Oct 30

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    We met, I'm not even sure how. He is an inch shorter than me. Normally I'd be turned off. But I fell hard and fast for him. I thought he was soooo gorgeous. I'd get lost in his...
    alwayswantingmore78 alwayswantingmore78 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 15

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    I try to hold on to good things and hope for the best, not the worse. But lately my walls are crumbling down on me. I'm so lost and confused. Not sure who is real, and who's...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have a few suggestions for people in every nation in this world: 1) Plan your families. Make sure you have some sort of a job or a way to make money or have access to some...
    CayucosBeach CayucosBeach 46-50, M Oct 25

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    This experience has come about from a recent conversation I was having with someone on here. It started fairly late last night, so I didn't get a chance to respond. To his...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 31

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    I'm a girl and I have two best friends. A girl and a boy best friend. Me and my girl best friend have been together longer than I have been with my guy best friend. I have a...
    Synthia4Ever Synthia4Ever 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Trust. I think we must establish some kind of a coalitons fighting agains all of those pervets. Especially I can say we must fight against perverts engaged in an every profession...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 6 Responses Nov 8

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    I've been married for 13 years. My wife has put on weight since our last child (he is 11). Because of her weight and fitness we can not make love successfully. It's been probably...
    crossvilledavis crossvilledavis 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I have been this way for as long as I can remember. My life has only ever had snippets of definite direction. You might think I would be used to it by now, but no. There are times...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 3

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    I'm 21, and all I want is to get my tubes tied. I hate that so many people only see me as a baby making machine, and I hate that my life apparently means nothing if I don't have...
    spiffyoctopus spiffyoctopus 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 29

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    I don't get people one minute they are on your side supposedly protecting you from everything they care about you so much but the minute you do something they don't like just...
    dvinemarie dvinemarie 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    Today I saw him in the same car he used to take me to the beach, the first man who made me feel beautiful, wanted, appreciated, worthy and that I deserved to be loved. But he wasn...
    almasolitaria312 almasolitaria312 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't tell me you love me. You don't know me you can't love something you don't know anything about. So please don't think you love me because you don't love me but you love what...
    mymindsalivingnightmare mymindsalivingnightmare 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    I feel like I am. :( He's replying to my texts in less than a sentence he use to reply with a whole paragraph. He use to call when he said he would but now leaves me waiting weeks...
    Justbeingmeok Justbeingmeok 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I am trying to stop hating my boyfriend. We have been together almost 6 years and we have both hurt each other a ton. I am prone to hateful outbursts toward him and then I hate...
    altabe43 altabe43 36-40, F Nov 15

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    Let me start with a letter I wrote to "D" just tonight, and set the stage for where this tumultuous last 3 weeks has already put me... "I hope u can understand why I am writing...
    peachesftw0320 peachesftw0320 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    I waited almost an entire month to contact him. I finally send him a positive message, asking if we could talk, and he read it on the app we talked on that night. I waited 6 days...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I reached out to an old friend, things ended on a sour note between us, through no fault of my own. I have since moved on in life and I'm extremely happy 😊 I guess I just...
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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