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I Think Chivalry Is Alive and Well

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    This Is Just Natural ...

    ... for me. I do many chivelrous things without thinking about them. I will always hold doors for others and I let a woman proceed me. The one thing I need to work on is paying attention to when a lady enters a room. This is so I can stand and show her some respect.
    kowpoke61 kowpoke61 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    Is Chivalry Sexist?

    After a year of living with my boyfriend, I'm certain chivalry is alive and well. But after hearing a lot of viewpoints on the matter, I've begun to think to myself: is it sexist? Having grown up on Disney movies I think it was ingrained in me that chivalry is the way it's...
    rainandhayl rainandhayl 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    My Alien Calvary

    Angel cakes and an idle - queen burning up the dice - The pretty lies and the wanted feelings - I wish that I didn't know Narcissism ! Fake, hardly unlikely ! But it was pretty as I look at the fingerprints . Madness, he was defiantly driven, of what they didn't have of a...
    NimN NimN 26-30, F Nov 14, 2013

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    Not Dead

    Chivalry is not dead, for those of you who say it is, your just not looking hard enough. I take pride in being a chivalrus man, and i think that now a days alot not all but alot of women dont really believe in it or look for it. now there are some who do, and they are smart for...
    Jwolf1342 Jwolf1342 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    Chivalry Is Alive

    .............just well beaten.
    TEMPOLTON TEMPOLTON 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    I Know It Is

    Chivalry is rare but is still very alive. My grandmother & grandfather instilled basic old fashioned values in me that are totally ingrained into my being. From basic acts like opening doors & pulling out the chair, to fighting to defend a woman's honor (I have the...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 26 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    I Hope To See It With My Own Eyes

    I hear about chivalry a lot on EP and see some stories, I've never been on the receiving myself in the real world, do you have to be a certain type of girl or woman to being it out in a guy? Is it only reserved for ones who seem ladylike? Or more vulnerable than the average...
    cristabella cristabella 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    Difficult To Receive

    Not all women are fond of chivalry, and I understand it completely. One might feel offended or think she is treated like a weakling that can't even carry her own groceries.I used to have hard time with men or boys who treat women as 'ladies', doing the traditional chivalry stuff...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence 18-21, F Jan 29, 2010

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    Nick

    The last school I worked at was an all boys catholic school, used to be private, used to be grammer, has a repuation for being posh and is a good old fashioned rugby school. I remember on one of my first days there, I was trying to get through the door but the boys were all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    I Am a Chivalry Person :)

    I am a chivalry person, even if i see it in movies it feels so right. I would have made a good knight...maybe i was one in past lives :) But now, i always try to help if someone is in trouble and i cant stand unjustice...i hate it...and there is so much of it in these days. I...
    AwakingDreamer AwakingDreamer 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Think It's Alive, But Not Well

    Today on my way to work, i got stuck in the apron at the driveway and the road itself.  Wouldn't you know 50/11 people passed and 2 of them honked their horns as though i like being stuck there not able to open my door or move the car.  I just sit there with the hazards...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    A Gentleman

    i always fall for a gentleman.... age does not matter...
    Helen33 Helen33 31-35, F 21 Responses May 14, 2013

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    YEPPER Still Alive

    I love when even figuratively a man comes to my rescue.  Recently in my life I have experienced a lot of this chivalry.   I have a lot of male friends and sometimes when they perceive that someone is trying to hurt me they move to get between me and that...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses May 8, 2008

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    Knights Of The Modern Day Era

    Not only do I believe in Chivalry, but along with that I am also striving to become an ordained Knight within a specific fraternal ecclesiastical Order that has been established to fight against the "Dragons" of today's sociey amongst our community and to better...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    MY Hero

    I  have  always  wanted   someone   to  be  there   for  me . Especially    when    I  am  in trouble    I  have  found   many  people ...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 3 Responses May 9, 2008

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    I Never

    believed  it until I met my husband.
    sassee1 sassee1 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2008

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    Chivalry

    Well chivalry cannot die as long as I and my sons are alive.It is explained about my sons in other stories.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    Being a Woman, I Am a White Knight Too

    I think there are still left some white knights in this world.  People who KNOW. People who keep the true values.  
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 8 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    for me, love is a suitjacket in an over

    air-conditioned room.. when I'm freezing and other women are putting the dinner napkins over thier arms to try to keep themselves warm, and my man puts his jacket over my shoulders, just the gesture is enough to warm my heart. now granted... it is not jumping in front of a...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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