Submission can conjure up different meanings for different people but I find it to be a beautiful thing.
To trust in your partner enough to give him or her control is almost a freedom that he or she will take care of your needs not just physically but mentally as well.
I find it very refreshing. Being in a relationship where a true man shows his dominance over me. Not in a negative or a demeaning way, but in a controlling way. A man who knows what he wants and knows how to get it. I enjoy men who lead the way for their mates to follow. Sex is...
You can't see an aspect of your life and try to ignore it and hope it goes away. If you are dominant person, you should be that person. Find a submissive partner who wants to be that person. Anything else is going to feel unnatural, will never be totally fulfilling and will...
I've recently (as in the last couple of weeks) begun training a new online sub, a young woman who approached me here on EP. And by "new" I don't just mean we're new to each other. This 20-year-old sub is very much a novice w/ D/s play, both in RL and online.
My husband and I have been going back and forth on his strong desire/demand for me to be submissive. I've tried but had been fighting him on this. Finally, he started to spank me three times a day followed by my giving oral sex to him on my knees. By establishing...
I want to learn to submitReading stories of it intrigued and added the logs to the flames that was lit yrs agoWith A crawl and a leash i was turned oncurious per-say a dominant male maybe funBut nothing furtherCouple years later i subdued myself by choice it truly was not the...
Three words that hold a lot of meaning in a Dom/sub relationship. Doms and subs both, what are some of the things that you do to play Safe, Sane, and Consensual. A few of mine are as follows:
Dom/sub relationships can get very intense at times during play. We should always play...
Hello. I am Ally. The sub of my Master Davis. He asked me to write and post this as part of my ongoing training. Any comments you have I will gladly respond to. Respectfully submitted.
As a woman it is our purpose to serve men. God made us out of their rib, so we serve their...
I have had many questions on as to what happened after i split with Kraven my old Master...I have since found a new one and his name is Jeremy. I love him very much and he not only treats me as his slave but also as his lover. I'm not saying life as his slave is easy because...
Genuine: What Do You Want? Who And What Are You?
Written on September 16th, 2012
Genuine: What do you want? Who and what are you?
A recent Dom posted some things about ‘needing’. It important for us to...
My Master was having a Super Bowl Party. It was about two months after he had put my first collar on me, honoring me as his toy and possession. I was 19 at the time and had been dancing in his club for two years. As the only white girl who was working and entertaining steadily...
I read SirSecret's story "The Need" EP Link
and like all his stories it totally struck a chord with me. But this one went deeper then usual and I wanted to talk about it's meaning and how it felt from my own standpoint.
Hubs and I have been told many times that we really aren't...
Being completely submissive to someone, has more or less been a foreign concept to me, I explored it and felt scared for the last year, or intimidated/scared of the Dom(s) who I'd spoken to. I was beginning to think that all Dom's were out to degrade and hurt women. Granted I do...
When a couple enters into a domination and submission relationship, most would assume that the dominant partner is the one who has control. The Dom is looking for control and the sub is looking to give up control. But the submissive partner has a lot more control than most would...
Ever since reaching puberty and developing my sexuality I've been attracted to older men but never understood why. I thought I was an oddity. I realise now it is not just older men I'm interested in but men with a powerful presence and an unassuming air of confidence. Usually age...
Within the confines of a healthy and respected adult relationship dominance and submission can be healthy. I am not speaking about those who lack common sense and want to dominate someone just to get off on being cruel to someone. I am talking about an mutually accepted...
life. We do not use any sort of punishment or humiliation. I am not a masochist and he is not interested in sadistic pleasure.
I have asked him to lead me, guide me, make many requests for how i can better serve him. he still words those requests as questions and uses the...
I've been battling the idea of a Dominant that I read on the net and thinking about what's the reality of it all. I came across this charter and this gives a real goal to strive for.
"The Imperfect Dominant’s Charter
I will **** up, more than once. On at least one of those...
PART-1He was 40 years my senior. He was my first Dominant male experience. He was married to a woman he deeply loved. He was terribly honest from the onset that I was to be no more then an occasional sexual partner and traveling companion for him. He did not want to risk scandal...
term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. Gold however, will stand up to most acids. The ‘Acid Test’ was an easy way for people to make sure they had a real nugget of gold and not a lump of the ‘fool’s’ variety. In the same way, these...
These are some guidelines that I have developed over the years. Some are meant to be a bit humorous, I think that one should be able to laugh a little bit and not take themselves too seriously. Please understand, these are only one man's humble opinion on what governs me.
What scares her, is the thrill
The abandoning of will
That I'd crawl inside her mind
And use it … what I find
What thrills her is the fear
That I might hold her here
Keep her wanderin thoughts for me
Like the other things she needs
I think of her … drink from her...
I would like to hear from all the ladies who get off on being used and abused, dominated, degraded, and humiliated. I want to know details. And, tell me what gets you off about it...
Do you want to be tied spread eagle face up, or *** in the air face down?
When you say raped...
We met one sunny afternoon in Grand Army Plaza around the fountain. New York is a great place to be in early summer, and there is no more pleasant place to spend some leisure time than listening to the wonderful variety of music that is often provided free in the city's public...
I am generally a 'two each his own' sort of gal, but I can't help but feel a pang when I hear someone say, "I have no rights". So I am going to make an assertion that there is a difference between power and rights. It may be semantics, but I would rather talk the same...
When D/s isn't healthy, it tends to be abuse and ceases to be D/s. It's a parody. It's a lie. It's 50 Shades of Why-Do-People-Still-Idolize-That-Book. It's the only time I'll say there is such thing as real dominance and real submission: when it's not abuse and when it's...
my naked skin
Hey there, I really appreciate all the posts I see online about dominant/submissive and healthy sexual dynamics. I'm writing in hopes of getting advice on how to find such a woman. Any help you can give will be greatly appreciated.
I'm dominant and only connect properly at an...
1.ruling, governing, or controlling; having or exerting authority or influence: dominant in the chain of command.
2.occupying or being in a commanding or elevated position.
3.predominant; main; major; chief: Corn is the dominant crop of Iowa.
my mistress. Begging you to take use of my humble male body and mind. Yours to use and abuse, to be treated as your property, to command as you wish.
Naked and helpless I kneel down before you, wishing to serve you, worship you to the best of my abilities.
Naked and helpless I...
the room dark, except for the flames
of the fire mesmerizing me
as I try to push through the fear
and will myself to step forward
I am there of my own choice
Every step I have made deliberately,
with careful thought
I sought this out, to surrender
I don't know what This is about me. This feeling I get. Sometimes well almost always I just need my husband/sir. He started many many years ago (maybe 12) calling it "being needy" I get a little whiney and just need to cuddle and lay with him. I don't like to...
I’d like to set the record straight.
I WANT to win this argument discussion. I NEED to see you’ll stick to your guns.
I WANT you to pretend you didn’t see me roll my eyes. I NEED you to not put up with it.
I WANT you to not mention that I forgot my cell phone again. I...
To those on the outside looking in, they see you kneeling and misunderstand your position.
They hear you call out, “Master!”, and apply the filters of their ignorance and inexperience.
They see your training and call it cruel.
But you know the truth they can not see. You...
About five years ago, my husband and I became interested in BDSM. Specifically, Dominant/submissive relationships. After doing some reading, my initial reaction to the whole submissive concept was one of disgust. What self respecting woman would allow herself to be...
as a Dom take? Or if you are a Sub, what kind of role does your Daddy, Master, or Sir take?
My Daddy is a Nurturer most of the time but will take on the controller or disciplinarian role when warranted.
My Sir has been discussing ways for us to live healthier lifestyles. He wants us to be in the best shape we have ever been, so that the time we have left together on this earth is a long, healthy and prosperous one.
I have been going to Weight Watchers since June 2012 and by...
On a business trip to Zambia last week, I was greeted by an enthusiastic young Dutch lady, who was managing the hotel I was staying in. She had been on the job only a few weeks, and she was all smiles and laughs, and very friendly and polite. Even though she had taken up a...
I believe that it is instinctual for males to want to protect and provide and to create a family... these drives lead most men to be more domanite in a relationship. I believe wemon have an instinct to nurtuer and love and to care for the family and the home... this tends to...