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I Think Emotional Support And Sex Go Together

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 105 People

    Sometimes, You Just Need Someone

    There are times in life, which I think we all experience, in which sex can be a healing mechanism. Whether it be a really bad day, a loss of a loved one, the overwhleming feeling of hopelnessess, having someone love you, need you, have you, take you during sex can heal the...
    YourBadGirl YourBadGirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    Do Not Enjoy The Term "friend zone"

    I really don't want to shame anyone for not feeling attracted but the point of the post was not to shame those who have done this to me but to make my intentions clear.... if you have to talk yourself into being attracted then it's a terrible relationship but often if a guy does...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    Sacred Sex

    Q: Could you please tell me what sacred sex is all about? Kari: Well, in a nut shell, it is connecting to deeper levels of energy, subtle levels, and feeling them move and mix within you and your lover. It is not about the simple thrill of causing your genitals to clench! As you...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 22, 2013

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    Can't Split The Two (rewritten)

    If you're vulnerable around me, you can pretty much make a safe bet that that's going to be a turn on of some variety. It's not that I pity you at all. It's that you came to me for your problems.    I can't split emotional support and sex. They are forever associated with me...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    i think smart guys are very sexy. i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
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    Please don't bore me! Think, ask, learn .. It's very sexy :)
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    I have always had a fantasy of locking eyes with a pregnant woman in public. Striking up a conversation and taking her back to my place for some wild kinky once in a lifetime sex...
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    Looking for sexual conversation and maybe more.
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    Sexy girls are offenly smart an sharp I has serious bold conversation wid smart girls ...😃😄😃😄😃😄😄
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    What's not sexy about a woman's body doing what it was born to do.
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    I believe that being intelligent and not just a smartass is sexy*•* I adore smart people! <3
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    All i need to say is: kate beckinsale in Underworld is the ******* sexiest vampire ever!
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    A man with a brain makes my heart skip a beat.
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Hmmm, well I have a M.A. In Chinese a History and a Ph.D in Modern British History. Not sure that makes me smart but it sure pays the bills. ;)
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    aunty *** shaking i like it
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    I am attracted to people who are smart
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Intelligent men is a huge plus Makes them hotter. :)
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    Smart people turn me on. No matter the gender lol
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    Short kind of funny story for those of us married for years.. So my wife of 34 years comes downstairs after taking a shower and putting on her black under ware. She's in fairly...
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    After not seeing my friend for 3 weeks we finally got together! I needed it so bad! Yes, I'm in a f'ed up situation but hey, we have great sex together so sometimes you just have...
    Nellyd76 Nellyd76 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I think knowing about sex is extremely important. I am sexually active. I protect myself with birth control pills. I don't use condoms for two reasons. The first being that my...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I'm 17 and a virgin and all I think about is sex, not loving someone and having sex because I don't think I'm able to love but just meaningless sex. I don't know why this fills my...
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    I NEED SEX! ALL I THINK OF IS SEX SEX SEX.
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    Hi guys! I would love to hear if anyone else has been through something similar or would love to hear your thoughts on this! Ok, so I have always been emotionally unavailable due...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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