Sometimes, You Just Need Someone - There are times in life, which I think we all experience, in which sex can be a healing mechanism. Whether it be a really bad day, a loss of a loved one, the overwhleming feeling of hopelnessess, having someone love you, need you, have you, take...
YourBadGirl 1 Response 3 May 5
Do Not Enjoy The Term "friend zone" - I really don't want to shame anyone for not feeling attracted but the point of the post was not to shame those who have done this to me but to make my intentions clear.... if you have to talk yourself into being attracted then it's...
ManifestoOfThePhoenix 1 Response 1 Sep 28, 2012
Sacred Sex - Q: Could you please tell me what sacred sex is all about? Kari: Well, in a nut shell, it is connecting to deeper levels of energy, subtle levels, and feeling them move and mix within you and your lover. It is not about the simple thrill of causing your genitals to...
zeeva70 0 Jun 22
Can't Split The Two (rewritten) - If you're vulnerable around me, you can pretty much make a safe bet that that's going to be a turn on of some variety. It's not that I pity you at all. It's that you came to me for your problems. I can't split emotional support and sex...
ManifestoOfThePhoenix 4 Responses 5 Jan 14, 2012
Dating A Nurse - In the few nurses I have come to know through friendship and dating, I have found to be extremly sexual. Especially when they come togeather as a group after working hours, I think it must be a release from the stress of the job. Has anyone else had similar...
Tbsfunny 0 Nov 25
Hey guys. I just wanted some advice for this kind of tricky situation. Im a 17 year old guy and i'm extremely attracted to my mom's sister--my aunt. She is 47-48. She's beautiful. I dream about having sexual encounters with her often. She's never been married and told me a few...
Doggy1102 0 a week ago
I personally love intelligent men. Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
sdx3 12 Responses 11 a week ago
I drive my boyfriends Audi A4 3.2. It's sexy. Black on black interior. All leather. It's grey with black tinted windows all the way around with Oregon plates. I feel sexy in this car but, I hate when it stops due to its electrical problem! 😩
ohwee12 1 Response 0 20 hours ago
They Are Fantastic. - And of course, sexy. I <3 redheaded women!
mrjonesmcr 0 Nov 25
They are sexy. All of them. Their rarity make them even more appealing!
burt666 1 Response 0 Nov 29
Have u met those dumbass girls who try to act dumb like its cute... don't u just want to say STUPID IS NOT SEXY so quit your **** and if you're really that dumb read a F*cking book !!!
Kissanrse 5 Nov 30
Guys that use big words is very attractive or have glasses and is shy I have no idea why but smart guys are way more attractive to me then those blonde tanned idiots I mean there hit but not sexy:p
russluvsu17 0 Dec 2
Yeah I just find it hot, idk know why but to be honest, the girl is still just as sexy to me pregnant
Colton94 1 Dec 2
Smart is ******* sexy it's make me hard once I look at a smart naught girl (;
LiamPhilly 1 Dec 2
One Of The Most Beautiful Things In This Life - I love babies more than anything! Not toddlers, not kids, but babies. I think it is extremely beautiful when a husband and wife are expecting. I cannot wait to have one of my own with the right man who will love his children and and...
Plurlife 2 Responses 4 Nov 12
I think smart people are attractive and even people who aren't as smart..I mean as long as you are trying. I can't stand people who are dumb for no reason..
sugarplum56 1 Response 2 23 hours ago
What I Want - Can't stand someone who plays dum, huge turnoff
oakleyC3 1 Response 1 Nov 19
Tattoo - Just got my new tattoo it took 6 hrs and I love it its a phynix down my left arm with smoke and looks so good :)
Sammyboyyyy 1 Response 0 Nov 23
I Do Enjoy Conversation - Lets start with this... I completely blame it on this new generation. It? It is the dreadful thing called texting. I'm really glad they have came up with ways to communicate with friends and loved ones. Texting though, all in itself has ruined the word...
browncoal 4 Responses 7 Nov 23
Sharing Pictures Of My Girlfriend - I like to share them and when guys get off on her I would prefer to trade my gf is my profile picture hit me up on kik jsoul1193. You send first so I no ur for real.
jsoul93 0 Nov 25
Why? - I don't understand why males are intimidated by me? I can't help that I don't take **** from anybody, I can't help that I'm a strong, confident, independent woman who strives for success, and that seems to **** people off. Why?
AnajhaeR 2 Responses 1 Nov 25
I'M Brunette! - And I have curls! I don't find my curls attractive but i do have them
AnajhaeR 1 Response 1 Nov 25
I Don't Know Why. - Every pregnant woman seems to glow and be more beautiful with every week.
draganaeros 1 Nov 27
When ever I chat to a smart girl I find I can be more open and love to get cheeky and be a fool
jameel459 1 Response 3 Nov 28
A Woman's Fulfilment - For all women the purest physiological fulfilment is motherhood. It is the middle phase of the three phases of a woman's life. There is nothing yuck about it! It is purely natural.
aoutdouze 1 Response 4 Nov 29
Nothing is more unattractive than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who...
cherryBloosom95 10 Responses 13 Dec 1
I love redheads. Lucy Collett, Ariel, Lily Cole, Emma Stone, and Christina Hendricks. I could go on for hours.
Emberrsky 4 Responses 1 Dec 2
I will loved to get pregnant and have a man just look at me and say I did that!
Emarrr332 4 Responses 7 Dec 2
😍😍😍😍 I wish I could have tattoos everywhere yummmmm
Liveandlovefree 2 Responses 1 Dec 2
Boys that love chemistry,physics and biology oh my <3
mlos 4 Responses 2 5 days ago
I hate girls that try to act dumb I want some one my age that I can actually connect with and be able to talk to them with out trying to dumb things down
scott7656 3 Responses 2 4 days ago
This Is What A Sexless Marriage Fells Like. - I found this on the internet. I wish I was wise enough to write this. I am not, Please read the following. It is one of the best stories I ever read. If you read it post a comment. Thank you This is What a Sexless Marriage Feels Like...
OutOfPatience 21 Responses 21 Nov 24
Sexless Me! - This is my second post. My first one was 3 yrs ago - I cannot thank my ILIASM responders for their thoughtful and introspective comments back then. If it weren't for you I may have resorted to unhealthy and perhaps fatal coping mechanisms. I learned I was not alone...
ATP111 16 Responses 3 Nov 30
Hi, I'm new here and I really enjoy reading everyone story. I just discovered my husband of 6 years is asexual. I didn't know what the term meant, until I did more research on it. We have a 2 years old daughter together. He was never a sexual person to begin with, but i didn...
AW128 16 Responses 4 3 days ago
Physical Vs. Emotional Pain - (Disclaimer: Like a lot of my 'epiphany' moments, this revelation isn't news to some of the veterans here. To those folks, I ask that you just bear with it, and when I'm done, pat me on the head and give me my cookie. :-) It seems like almost all...
dfolly 10 Responses 5 Nov 16
I Was In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship - My ex and i had dated for 1 1/2 years. Every thing was amazing up until our 3rd month. He called me a ***** for the first time just for wanting to see him while he was with his friends. I was taken aback but didn't think much of it...
MaggieEatsAirplanes 1 Response 1 Nov 14
26 Years Ago Today... - I found out about my h's second affair. ,After his declaration of love that day recommitting his life to me and God things got so much better between us as friends, workmates, but never in the sex/intimacy part of our life. Little did I know all these...
LynnLee828 13 Responses 2 Nov 23
Please Help !!!! I Am A Victim Of Emotional Blackmail And I Dont Know How To Get Out - so ive been dating this guy for 5yrs now at first we were so good together but i think i ignored the warning signs, he would call me every hour like literally and i thought it was just sweet...
doveeyes4 11 Responses 0 Nov 24
I Have No Family Support - I am the youngest of seven children. I didn't have the best childhood experience. With drugs and alcohol being the norm on top of underage siblings popping out kids every other year, life was a struggle. My siblings were very negative, verbally, and...
dofi 2 Responses 0 a week ago
Depressed Trying To Move Past Emotional Affair - I love you and I miss you and I wish that I would have steered clear from all of this. I know that we are doing the right thing, but a part of me -- a big part of me -- doesn't want it to end. It seems like I can remember almost...
BabyD1968 1 Response 1 Nov 16
I Am A Dreamer And A Thinker 18+ - Please help me I'm sinking with confusion my head is a mess, my head temples hurt, my memory Is really bad I'm so frustrated sexually and mentally I am a 43 year old british guy who is technically still a virgin. I have suffered From depression...
defoekeane 2 Responses 0 Nov 27
2013 - I wish I didn't live in a generation where physical pleasure was put above emotional support. It hurts so bad when you can look right through everyone and see only physical desire.
Cory45 2 Responses 5 Nov 27
Control And The Sexless Marriage - (Not sure WHY EP chose to put this story in "I am dating after a sexless marriage" originally! It was always intended for ILIASM! (Inspired by Mettamomma’s story Another Nice Post Marriage Morning) I have come to the conclusion that marital...
enna30 7 Responses 12 Nov 15
I live in a sexless marriage - I cheated on my Husband. I just couldn't take it anymore. I felt like a dried out plant waiting for someone to water me so I could come back to life. Oh and wow did I come back! guess I discovered my weakness and that is that I cannot live without...
amantgenereux 14 Responses 7 3 days ago
Our first night together - On vacation visiting my friends I met my awesome boyfriend. Everyone was coupled except me. I didn't mind but I kinda wanted to have someone with me on the Fourth of July celebration. I would've loved to snuggle with man while watching the show. When...
starlitefruit 3 Responses 2 2 days ago
Intimacy After Divorce From Sexless Marriage - I started dating a really wonderful guy. He's handsome, so smart and funny. He doesn't like sports and he loves art. And he really can make me laugh. I did write an earlier post (in the Sexless Marriage group) about concerns with him...
Chryss711 4 Responses 3 Nov 15
Do Not See Yourself Through The Sexless Self-Esteem - I believe we all deserve compassion and understanding. I write the following having in mind all the sorrow shared by all of us and our partners. I'll tell you a few things I have learnt from being in my sexless marriage: 1...
openmyheart 13 Responses 11 Nov 26
Hiding My Sexuality - I was sexually active from a young age and didn't think anything wrong with playing with other boys (eg. Feeling, tried to mount, mastubated). I wasn't into girls but had crushes on my mates. I knew something was wrong. And consequently started to suffer...
gogetthemrex 2 Nov 27
I Live In A Sexless Marriage Too - Hello all! I met with my wife 13 year before, when she was 17. We are living together 5 years ago. I think in the begining with sexual live we didnt have any problem. But, oooo 2,5 year before, born our first baby. Before, and after that nice...
Erif112 1 Response 0 Nov 21
I Have Been Emotional Abused - For years my brother and would fight all the time and he would call me all sorts of names. A couple times he even hit me and I would always end up crying. I believe all the things he called me and most of the time I just feel worthless. Nobody loves...
crystal234 1 Response 1 Nov 29
Emotional abuse... - I am trying to get to the bottom of how I feel so I can climb back up from the pit I am in. In the past 2 1/2 years, my husband and I have filed bankruptcy. I also found out my husband had an affair 12 years ago...Many friends knew, but no one told me until a...
prayers4papa 0 6 days ago
I Live In A Sexless Marriage - Yesterday morning my wife said to me that sex is just physical to her, no emotion. This is nothing new to me but it was devastating to hear again. She has no interest in connecting with me physically or sharing an emotional bond that for me is...
Bcratchet 15 Responses 2 Nov 13
Husband, Wife, Their Kids And Her Lover Live Together - Here's a link to how one couple solved their sexless marriage: "When mum-of-two Maria Butzki left her husband Paul for another man, she didn’t realise how much she’d miss him. At the same time, she couldn’t imagine...
Mettamomma 10 Responses 2 Nov 15
Sexism At Stirling University Article In The Guardian November 16th 2013 - Female students face a wave of misogyny in British universities The shocking sexism displayed in a video of Stirling University men's hockey team is a stark example of the misogyny women students are...
koyptakh 1 Nov 16
I Think I Was Physically Abused. - When I was 11, my dad was drinking for the night. I always felt safe with my dad, and I thought he would never ever hurt me. I was wrong. My dad thought he would show me how kidnappers kidnap people. He wrapped his arm around my throat so I...
crystal234 0 Nov 29
Emotional Intamacy - I'm alone but in a long term relationship sex is sex intimacy is far beyond sex New to do that's some of why I'm here
richwalker187 2 Nov 30
Staying In A Sexless Marriage - Leave or cheat. That seems to be the general consensus. So not doing either. Trying to find a way to not be angry about it. I need some way to just let go of the resentment. I don't want to be bitter. Have been dealing with this for 6 years. I...
lasch 23 Responses 6 Nov 11
In A Sexless Marriage But Not Loveless - Hello I have been married for 22 years I have been having heath issues for about half of our marriage and I have gain some weight I'm not obese jjust a little over weight it all started about 7 years ago I had to have a catheter to pee...
belladawn55 10 Responses 9 Nov 25
How Do People One EP Decide Who They Want To Support - I do find it very interesting how EP members decide who they want to support people. They also EP members decide which members they don't want to support. I'm expecting nothing from this post, I just wanted to express my...
willyg2013 0 Nov 29