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I Think Emotional Support And Sex Go Together

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 103 People

    Do Not Enjoy The Term "friend zone"

    I really don't want to shame anyone for not feeling attracted but the point of the post was not to shame those who have done this to me but to make my intentions clear.... if you have to talk yourself into being attracted then it's a terrible relationship but often if a guy does...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    Sacred Sex

    Q: Could you please tell me what sacred sex is all about? Kari: Well, in a nut shell, it is connecting to deeper levels of energy, subtle levels, and feeling them move and mix within you and your lover. It is not about the simple thrill of causing your genitals to clench! As you...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 22, 2013

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    Can't Split The Two (rewritten)

    If you're vulnerable around me, you can pretty much make a safe bet that that's going to be a turn on of some variety. It's not that I pity you at all. It's that you came to me for your problems.    I can't split emotional support and sex. They are forever associated with me...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    My boyfriend never gives me emotional support ! I stress out so much I ending up cryin and crying myself to sleep and he seems to not care ! He didn't say I love u that much to me...
    unhappygirl21 unhappygirl21 18-21, F Aug 3

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    I just want to cry. The grief is overwhelming. I think I'm going to have to ask for time off work. I just want to be alone.
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F Aug 22

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    I have so many issues I wish I had someone to support me. Someone around my age with the same issues. Anyone up for it?
    happytobeanon happytobeanon 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    First I'm going to apologize since this is probably going to be a long one. My ex and I were together for 6 years. In those 6 years we only lived together for 1. We always had...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    What Pics/Selfies Are Appropriate For Teens? This is something I've been thinking about. I'm not one for provocative, sexy or lingerie flashing teen selfies because any one can...
    storylover6 storylover6 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I think being/getting pregnant would be so sexy! It turns be on more than anything (at the moment). I think pregnant women look so beautiful and sexy too.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I love ginger pubic hair! I think it's so sexy ! Turns me on :-)
    manclad27 manclad27 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I'am one of these sexy beasts
    mommygotboobs mommygotboobs 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    If you want sx I'll go to you to feel set p
    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M Aug 2

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    Biggest turn on tbh. When guys are cool and funny and then you find out they're intellegent TOO, just wow.
    leonelarocks leonelarocks 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I watch Reruns of Gilligan's Island because of this.
    markhazard77 markhazard77 36-40, M Aug 12

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    Girls that are smart turn me on
    Dad4young Dad4young 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Woo hoooo put a baby in my wife agian #3 on the way. Love getting her knocked up she looks so hot.
    Idbw Idbw 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Pregnant women are gorgeous....eventually I will be Preggo and gorgeous too.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I m horny guy looking for horny girl for skypesex.. any girl
    svincy svincy 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Follow me:) www.dregger.tumblr.com
    dregger dregger 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    My story would be unbeliavable. For some reason all of my life i was hurt by girls and women. Its like they all wanted to hurt me. As i was born , this curse started. My mother...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 38 mins ago

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    Why Did We Get Married? - My STBX continues to struggle with my decision to divorce him, yet my conviction to break free grows stronger everyday since I triggered our divorce...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 18 Responses Aug 17

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    Bear with me because this may seem off topic, but it isn't. I've been recently thinking about death. Yesterday, my post sexless marriage lover had to put his beloved dog of 14...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    It's not really about the sex. It's more about the lack of emotional intimacy. Sex can be found easily enough, but if you are lacking the emotional connection, there is no good way...
    LonelyRiss LonelyRiss 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 11

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    I don't really know where to start; this is my first post. Let's start off by saying that I am 20 years old, but not your typical college girl. I grew up in a family that...
    tofufingers tofufingers 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Things got very bad when I returned from a ten day trip and my wife, who had been saying how much she missed me and wanted me home, treated me like a roommate. She even refused...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 12 Responses Aug 17

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    Neglect - One of the most important things I've learned from my decision to end my sexless marriage is that I will never again tolerate being neglected by my partner. We all...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am in pain tonight. Crying. I did it to myself. I went to h iPad and looked at his browsing history. Yes, I found ****. Not a ton. I know he is not an addict. I'm not anti...
    Candymaker Candymaker 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I have had sex with my sexy cousin for years. We had a mutual crush when she was 13 (me 14) and after a year of kissing and touching we finally had sex. It was great and we keep...
    Experiencator Experiencator 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 21

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    It bugs the **** outta me when you start looking around for a daddy dom people automatically think "oooo kinky sex" :/ it's rather annoying cause just like a vanilla relationship...
    unclaimedbabygirl unclaimedbabygirl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    My parents divorced when I was 7. About the time i got married (26) I learned that my father rejected my mother sexually once she became a mother. He had an affair and she divorced...
    Butitsallovernow Butitsallovernow 46-50, M 7 Responses Aug 8

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    When you start to think things are coming together then boom life ***** on you and you're left to try a pick up the pieces but I'm starting to think it's only gonna happen again...
    xxabiGAYlexx xxabiGAYlexx 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Not girly sorta underwear haha i'm a guy so its all boxers. But i'm really not keen on like plain blue or black lol. I'll look for bright colours or boxers with a pattern or funny...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well unless ur a monk or nun who does not think the same...sex is funand a great physical workout...well it is when we do it!! Luckly for me my partner is of the same opion...
    thegaychef thegaychef 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Men always complain about nice guys losing out to a$$holes, well..nice women lose out to b*tches just as much. I think with both sexes we suffer from "superhero complex", where we...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 4

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    I could just die it makes me feel like think about having sex with men or women or the three of us but I kind any one to suck or **** Ron
    rw60404 rw60404 66-70, M 6 Responses Aug 18

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    They are so sweet and truly understand you. You can go theatre and bar with them. The best thing is they are close to you without thinking about having sex with you
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 14

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    Thinking about it, it can be hard to say exactly what intelligence is.....so does intelligence really matter? Maybe it is more about connecting on the same level. To me, emotional...
    Swednsour Swednsour 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Why Need Emotional Intimacy - Emotional intimacy is not the same as sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy can take place with or without emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Moving on: I am packing up my office and my home this week. I am moving out of state and starting a new job. ( I have posted part of this update a little earlier.) But a posting...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 7

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    I passed my HCA exam yesterday and am going to go on and do the NAC schooling so I can support myself financially. He has been the main and often sole breadwinner which is a big...
    bluegreenseascape bluegreenseascape 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    Well, I hope the third discussion about our state of non-sexual married life is the charm. The first talk resulted in a short spurt of Saturday morning efforts that petered out...
    debbiedee623 debbiedee623 51-55, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Well it's not exactly sexless, I guess we make love once or twice them there's nothing for 4 to 6 weeks or even longer. It has been this way for much of the past 22 years. Going...
    aardvark64 aardvark64 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have been married for four years, together with him for six years. We have two kids. I'm somewhat happy. He is like my best friend, we talk and have fun, but I'm not sexually...
    Amiramae Amiramae 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    You are mistaken if you think a woman cries because they are weak. When a woman cries it is not for one small silly thing but it's built up prolonged anger and emotional burst that...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Payton here. 16. So I'm not completely sure what I am. Sex with a guy is okay. Not too keen it. But being with a girl isn't the greatest either. I have never met anyone I wanted to...
    PrincessPayton PrincessPayton 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago