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I Think Emotional Support And Sex Go Together

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    Sacred Sex

    Q: Could you please tell me what sacred sex is all about? Kari: Well, in a nut shell, it is connecting to deeper levels of energy, subtle levels, and feeling them move and mix within you and your lover. It is not about the simple thrill of causing your genitals to clench! As you...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 22, 2013

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    Do Not Enjoy The Term "friend zone"

    I really don't want to shame anyone for not feeling attracted but the point of the post was not to shame those who have done this to me but to make my intentions clear.... if you have to talk yourself into being attracted then it's a terrible relationship but often if a guy does...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    Can't Split The Two (rewritten)

    If you're vulnerable around me, you can pretty much make a safe bet that that's going to be a turn on of some variety. It's not that I pity you at all. It's that you came to me for your problems.    I can't split emotional support and sex. They are forever associated with me...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Sometimes, You Just Need Someone

    There are times in life, which I think we all experience, in which sex can be a healing mechanism. Whether it be a really bad day, a loss of a loved one, the overwhleming feeling of hopelnessess, having someone love you, need you, have you, take you during sex can heal the...
    YourBadGirl YourBadGirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    I am struggling with an addiction. I am wondering if there is anyone out there that can offer me some support and motivation to stay clean.
    missmoppet missmoppet 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    i think smart guys are very sexy. i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    Please don't bore me! Think, ask, learn .. It's very sexy :)
    AlphaChick AlphaChick 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I have to admit, there's a woman I know at work. Wow! Does she ever dress sharp and professionally! She carries herself with dignity and poise. But most appealing of all...she's...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Looking for sexual conversation and maybe more.
    Atag Atag 56-60, M Mar 28

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    Sexy girls are offenly smart an sharp I has serious bold conversation wid smart girls ...😃😄😃😄😃😄😄
    usman1engnieer usman1engnieer 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    What's not sexy about a woman's body doing what it was born to do.
    spaeth spaeth 41-45, M Apr 6

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    I always attracted to the female vampires and her power of seduction. I like the sexy velvet capes they wear. So beautiful they are! Anybody know any cool vampire films?
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I believe that being intelligent and not just a smartass is sexy*•* I adore smart people! <3
    Annablake Annablake 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    All i need to say is: kate beckinsale in Underworld is the ******* sexiest vampire ever!
    RedBats RedBats 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I have 5 strategically-placed tats and I have to admit that I was very excited during the process of a couple of them....Neck and small of back....Need I say more???
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F Mar 20

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    Mmmm brains turn me on more than anything. And if you pair that with a sweet tushy well my my just wait till I get you alone. xx
    soulsurges soulsurges 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I'm very hot and smart so yea I'm perfect in everyday!
    Hotblondey Hotblondey 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Hey fella's treat your lady with respect and she will love you and look out for you. make her feel like she is so special and she will do "almost" anything for you!! true story.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I presume this means 'smart' in the transatlantic sense of 'clever' or 'bright'. ...hoping so as my one decent suit is at the dry cleaners.
    jacksee66 jacksee66 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    A man with a brain makes my heart skip a beat.
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I just recently discovered how true this is for me. There's a girl in one of my classes who is always late (most of my classmates are). I kind of find this annoying, but I...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Hmmm, well I have a M.A. In Chinese a History and a Ph.D in Modern British History. Not sure that makes me smart but it sure pays the bills. ;)
    JusBec JusBec 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    http://artstor.wordpress.com/2013/03/20/spring-mysteries-botticellis-primavera/ Happy Spring!!
    Freyja4 Freyja4 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    aunty *** shaking i like it
    nani571 nani571 26-30, M Apr 12

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    I am attracted to people who are smart
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    Well, not exactly. Me & my husband Adam have been together for 4 years, married for 1. He has always been the best guy, extremely funny, caring, protecting & nice to everyone he...
    MrsMarshallMathers MrsMarshallMathers 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I'm scared.. Of what's coming, of the Marines changing who you really are, of you coming back and not wanting me anymore, of not having you just a phone call away when I feel like...
    ScaredyKatH ScaredyKatH 16-17, F Apr 11

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    Short kind of funny story for those of us married for years.. So my wife of 34 years comes downstairs after taking a shower and putting on her black under ware. She's in fairly...
    jp45 jp45 61-65, M 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    After not seeing my friend for 3 weeks we finally got together! I needed it so bad! Yes, I'm in a f'ed up situation but hey, we have great sex together so sometimes you just have...
    Nellyd76 Nellyd76 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I think knowing about sex is extremely important. I am sexually active. I protect myself with birth control pills. I don't use condoms for two reasons. The first being that my...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I'm 17 and a virgin and all I think about is sex, not loving someone and having sex because I don't think I'm able to love but just meaningless sex. I don't know why this fills my...
    lovingmeyousee lovingmeyousee 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I NEED SEX! ALL I THINK OF IS SEX SEX SEX.
    polles135 polles135 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have been with my partner 20 years always had a good sex life, now she has the Menopause things have changed, she says she feels fat and not sexy, The other day we went for a...
    stevebfc stevebfc 51-55, M 11 Responses Mar 29

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    I think girls are sexy but I've never been with one... I am 19 very pretty and sometimes I'm horny and think of girls ....
    Danielle1995195 Danielle1995195 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    been married for ever I think she has sex more with other people than me I know she cheats im ready for affair
    crazyaboutit123 crazyaboutit123 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I honestly think that making love in the morning is a good start of the day. I just want to share this experience. Whenever my ex boyfriend and I get a chance to make love in the...
    chocofrappe249 chocofrappe249 22-25 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    i think that its sexy as hell
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I didn't have support from my friends. I support my friends, all of them, but all I wanted was for them to come together to help me support each other. I am only one boy but yet...
    RandomFriendGuy RandomFriendGuy 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    My life is a sham. I am a 37 year old female and have been married to my husband for 2 years and together for 4. He has never been interested in sex with me but we did long...
    Pattycakey Pattycakey 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Okay so it's actually a little different. For some reason I can not figure out how to add my own experience if I can, but anyway... I had sex with my friends dad... I am a little...
    speaksoftandcarrybigstick speaksoftandcarrybigstick 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Emotional abuse isnt only insults and shouting at you. If they ignore you it is abuse aswell. Ive been ignored all my life from my schoolmates, work collegues and my sister...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 10

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    I support Lgbt all the way no matter what. I actually think I am bi curious and I'm only 13 y/o but I can't help but feel I'm bisexual and I know it isn't wrong but I don't know...
    xxstaystrongxx3 xxstaystrongxx3 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    UPDATE ! My "issue " From The Other day had been fixed . Talked about it politely told him how it made me feel , not just hey I'm a nymp but the emotional side of it ..... He...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm 23 and I've been married 10 months to the man I've been dating since I was 15. We've been together for 7 years. What makes this situation so hard is that there is nothing...
    Gingerness7 Gingerness7 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I dont enjoy sex with guys much. For the past couple months, I haven't even been in the mood for sex. I keep having lesbian fantasies in my head. I don't watch **** anymore but if...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I always see advice from people on this board that one should seek legal counsel before they begin the journey towards ending their....well I guess legally it's termed a marriage...
    demisis demisis 36-40, M 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have read many posts now, and I cannot claim to know what is the best route for others. I love my wife and I have amazing young kids, but our problem with sex goes back from...
    travelight travelight 41-45, M 11 hrs ago

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    For Kids Sake.... As part of our divorce and the process both my stbx and my therapist suggested a seminar called For Kids Sake. I got quite a bit out of it myself. I attended...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 30

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    For folks new to my story, I've been the one who has been refused sex for ~10 years, and now I'm currently building a social support network for myself. Overall, I am making steady...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 31

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