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I Think Emotional Support And Sex Go Together

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 103 People

    Do Not Enjoy The Term "friend zone"

    I really don't want to shame anyone for not feeling attracted but the point of the post was not to shame those who have done this to me but to make my intentions clear.... if you have to talk yourself into being attracted then it's a terrible relationship but often if a guy does...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    Sacred Sex

    Q: Could you please tell me what sacred sex is all about? Kari: Well, in a nut shell, it is connecting to deeper levels of energy, subtle levels, and feeling them move and mix within you and your lover. It is not about the simple thrill of causing your genitals to clench! As you...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 22, 2013

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    Can't Split The Two (rewritten)

    If you're vulnerable around me, you can pretty much make a safe bet that that's going to be a turn on of some variety. It's not that I pity you at all. It's that you came to me for your problems.    I can't split emotional support and sex. They are forever associated with me...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I think smart is sexy, because stupid most definitely is not. Working with people means that I have to deal with the intellectually challenged on a daily basis. I have come to...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I just want to cry. The grief is overwhelming. I think I'm going to have to ask for time off work. I just want to be alone.
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F Aug 22

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    I have so many issues I wish I had someone to support me. Someone around my age with the same issues. Anyone up for it?
    happytobeanon happytobeanon 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    What Pics/Selfies Are Appropriate For Teens? This is something I've been thinking about. I'm not one for provocative, sexy or lingerie flashing teen selfies because any one can...
    storylover6 storylover6 13-15, F Aug 30

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    I love ginger pubic hair! I think it's so sexy ! Turns me on :-)
    manclad27 manclad27 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Sexy is more than looks; it's an attitude,, a demeanor, a lifestyle. Own it.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    Yesterday I enjoy sex with my ex girlfriend
    hotiscull hotiscull 31-35, M Sep 9

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    I'm 33 weeks and I feel absolutely radiant. My skin is glowing! I have never felt so sexy in my life. The way my body is shaped and the effects of my pregnancy on my breasts is...
    ErinTripp94 ErinTripp94 18-21, F 17 Responses a week ago

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    My life completely changed for the better (I think, but I don't know) the day she took residence in my mind... She redecorated my grey matter, Infused a few new ideas into my...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have been straight. Raised that way and never questioned it. I school I got drunk at a dorm party. I mean blind couldn't walk back to my room sh*t faced. A "friend" grabbed...
    keith60 keith60 61-65, M 4 days ago

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    I m horny guy looking for horny girl for skypesex.. any girl
    svincy svincy 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Follow me:) www.dregger.tumblr.com
    dregger dregger 36-40, M Aug 30

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    Its just the way it is. :)
    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    I am an accountant by trade but i love breaking the stereotype and when I tell someone I am an accountant they can never believe that I am so pretty and blonde yet also smart. It...
    Kathryn2093 Kathryn2093 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    When you wake up from a nap and can't stop lactating to save you life not matter what you do!! Just means I have to wear a bra today....UGH!!!! I don't mind the lactating as much...
    ErinTripp94 ErinTripp94 18-21, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    I miss being pregnant. I want my big belly backkkkkk. ;(
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    It really is.. it's enticing, seductive, down right appealing in all aspects. If you can hold an intellectually gratifying conversation, I will talk to you very, very often.
    confushin confushin 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It is not enough to conquer; one must learn to seduce. Voltaire
    afoolishheart afoolishheart 46-50, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not that I've got anything against gingers - but I'm talking real auburn redheads here!
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    I've been putting off this update for a while. I cannot do so any longer. It's long and winding, so if you choose to dive in, prepare yourself. Curious things are happening in...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 21 Responses 3 days ago

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    Bear with me because this may seem off topic, but it isn't. I've been recently thinking about death. Yesterday, my post sexless marriage lover had to put his beloved dog of 14...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    My ex and I would have sex all the time but did not want it to become ordinary home sex so we would incorporate outside the home and outdoor sex. We have been at the beach, park...
    Kelbos123 Kelbos123 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    Sex is just a physical and enjoyable act meeting a carnal need you havve at the time But love is something entirly differnt. Itssharing your entire life with a person open and...
    thegaychef thegaychef 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Neglect - One of the most important things I've learned from my decision to end my sexless marriage is that I will never again tolerate being neglected by my partner. We all...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 11 Responses Aug 30

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    Perhaps that's why they are shy. When they go, they go all the way and then some regarding sex. It's crazy, I am extremely kinky, and now that I just began a new relationship...
    Lthayer2011 Lthayer2011 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    At 46 I have a fit body a good job and am attractive looking. So why can't I remember the last time we were intimate? Sometimes I see other couples being sexy together and really...
    Sporticus Sporticus 46-50, M 12 Responses Sep 9

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    I loved being pregnant. I felt sexy. I just wish I knew other people thought so too. What you think. Was I sexy pregnant?
    USAFwifey031213 USAFwifey031213 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 8

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    i know its probably the hormones, but damn this crap is getting annoying! everytime i see a cute guy or girl the first thing that comes to mind is, can i perform oral sex on that...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When you start to think things are coming together then boom life ***** on you and you're left to try a pick up the pieces but I'm starting to think it's only gonna happen again...
    xxabiGAYlexx xxabiGAYlexx 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Not girly sorta underwear haha i'm a guy so its all boxers. But i'm really not keen on like plain blue or black lol. I'll look for bright colours or boxers with a pattern or funny...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I could just die it makes me feel like think about having sex with men or women or the three of us but I kind any one to suck or **** Ron
    rw60404 rw60404 66-70, M 6 Responses Aug 18

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    What do you guys think of this? :) sexy enough?
    kaotic9 kaotic9 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 2

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    They are so sweet and truly understand you. You can go theatre and bar with them. The best thing is they are close to you without thinking about having sex with you
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I've been married for nearly 7 years now and have enjoyed many intimate moments with my wife. A lot of that has changed in the last two years. Sex isn't something that happens...
    absalom123 absalom123 26-30 16 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Why Need Emotional Intimacy - Emotional intimacy is not the same as sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy can take place with or without emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    My wife and I have a good sex life but something is missing with the emotional connection.
    HandsomeSLC HandsomeSLC 31-35, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    So I have made a decision and it's for what I hope good reasons. I have noticed that we seem healthy in our relationship. It's not completely toxic, I'm pretty sure we are just...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I have been married for four years, together with him for six years. We have two kids. I'm somewhat happy. He is like my best friend, we talk and have fun, but I'm not sexually...
    Amiramae Amiramae 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    So, unravelling everything from the last 2 weeks postings, identifying the facts from the symptoms I think this is my story. My wife is very self-centred with a borderline...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 16 Responses Sep 9

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    Hello friends, It has been a long while since I have come onto this site. Last October, nearly a year ago now, my ex and I started the divorce process. We had separated, which...
    DancingFire DancingFire 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 8

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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