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I Think Every Girl Needs a Gay Guy Friend

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    My Very First School Friend.

    I met him when I was in the first grade and we became fast friends.  Not only did we see each other daily at school, but we also talked on the phone every day, sometimes multiple times.  We always exchanged gifts with each other for Christmas, Valentines, birthdays and...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Gay Male Looking

    I have the opposite situation I am looking for a faghag one I can be candid with about my situation. I would like to correspond with women who like gay males
    nob3330 nob3330 31-35 10 Responses Jul 29, 2010

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    Not a Girl, But....

    I may not be a girl but I think evry girl needs a gay guy friend. I have 2 that I know of and they are some of the nicest, honest people I know
    retsubem retsubem 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    I want a gay guy friend more

    than I want a boyfriend
    berithepso berithepso 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Mine's Named Art....

    He is my sweetest, most cherished offline friend. We were neighbours for years & he's just so huggable. lol. I told him once that if he were straight, I would so be going after him. He laughed, hugged me tight & whispered in my ear "Not if I saw you first"...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Had The Best Friend I Ever Had

    I met him looking for kindling for my fire place he was watching me and said" Honey you need some fire wood, i have a whole lot on my property and you can have it all .He asked me if i needed a wheel barrow and i told him no he said you can use mine honey .. Well ,That was it i...
    blondeartangelkeeperq blondeartangelkeeperq 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2012

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    Hell Yeah

    I think it would be FAAAAABULOUUUSS!!Lmao, think of the possibilities.. Going to the mall with a walking stereotype. We'd get in so much trouble.. But it'd be fun :)And if he's not a stereotypical gay guy, wouldn't it be nice to know another unique person?
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 13-15, F Sep 15, 2012

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    Hellll Yeahhhh!!!!

    I have always wanted a gay best-friend, and when I came on EP, I never expected to find one.......but I did!!! And he is the most amazing guy ever. I am such a private person, but I find myself confiding in him. He is beautiful ,funny and a great listener! I love you PRETTY BOY...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    Gay Man

    Hey people I'm a gay man that loves making friends I love dancing going to the movies and hanging out with friends I'm a people person
    Jannisemichael Jannisemichael 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    Girl! We will tell it all!

    !!!!! From fashion, makeup and boys. We are here to stay! We are the girlfriends that got your back and snitch out that boyfriend of yours that is cheating behind your back! We will tell you the truth if that dress is a fashion no NO! If those pumps are to die for. Like I said we...
    Xi010 Xi010 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Because I'm Grace

    For as long as boys my age started realizing they were gay, I have been friends with them. Not on purpose, it's not like i go seeking them out or anything.. and often they don't realize they are gay until i have been friends with them for a while and sometimes I've even dated...
    kiki01 kiki01 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 22, 2009

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    I Need a New One

    my best gay guy friend moved away last year, and now i am without.. its very sad and i need a new one!!!!  *cries*
    destiny420 destiny420 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2008

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    I Am So Happy To Have Gay Friends As Best Friends!

    i have never been able to be close with females from the time i finished campus. I realized that the female best friends i had only lasted as long as i was in school with them. It is sad but true. I really value friendship and i would like a permanent one that lasts even after...
    NastySash NastySash 26-30, F Sep 27, 2012

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    Im Afriad Im Losing My Bfs ..they R Just Stubbern

    long story short my BF s dont like my boyfriend of 3 years they thinks he is opssesive and dominating we dont usually talk about him because we end up fighting ,things were fine for a while but when my boyfriend proppossed to me saying i should finish school but not worry about...
    zicoo zicoo 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    Looking

    I love all my friends but especially my gay guy friends. Sadly over the past couple months I've lost contact with most of them so hoping to find new ones on here
    Thegirlyawesomegirl Thegirlyawesomegirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Gay Guy Friend = Sweet Dude

    I met few gay friends during my early college days. At first, it was kinda strange when they talk about their boyfriends and stuff but eventually, i got used to it. I have this particular friend, Japsie, who is very open and vocal about his sexual preference. I have no problem...
    mynameishyphenated mynameishyphenated 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 29, 2010

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    Mature Topic

    I read a question recently asking why women love gay men. I have a gay friend and this is what I think about that question. I do not care what my friend does with his partner. That thought does not even pop in my head. I care about my gay friend but I do not LOVE him on a deeper...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    I went trick-or-treating with my friend Gabriel.

    He was dressed as some Star Wars character and I was dressed as a chola. We both went around with our "gang" and knocked on doors. We knocked on a sensible door with a cute little light-up ghost and waited. After a while we gave up and left. As we stepped onto the driveway, the...
    ObsessedWithElsa ObsessedWithElsa 16-17, F Dec 9, 2013

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    I've had one or two before

    and nothing else compares. I swear they're the best kinda people out there 😁
    blahhooplah blahhooplah 18-21, F Mar 10

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    It's nice to have one.

    . Less drama. I remembered I had a best friend about 3 years ago. We fought and then she decided to end our long term friendship. I was so depressed, but then my gay friend stepped in and tried to help me move on. He is such a great person! He has taught me so much and is still...
    TearfulNights22 TearfulNights22 22-25, F Mar 12

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    Friends

    I agree 100% that females need a gay guy friend. I have one on Facebook and I enjoy talking to him. He is so friendly and he does not pass judgment. It's really nice to be able to share your feelings with someone who is sincere plus has no sexual interest whatsoever.
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    10 Reasons You Are A Great Gay Male Bestie !

    10 Reasons you are a great gay male bestie ! *You have given your female friend tips and advice on how to keep a man. *Just before going out your female friend asks “Does this outfit look good on me?” You give it to her str8, “it does not match with your shoes.” *You...
    nob3330 nob3330 31-35 8 Responses Jul 3, 2012

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    Yes They Do

    My best girlfriend was a gay man.   We had so much fun together, he could tell my voice on the phone if I needed a friend.He could make me laugh. He and I did all the flowers for my daughters wedding. Could have not done with out him.My dear friend passed a few years ago. i...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    Needed A Friend A Real One

    I have never had a gay guy in my life I always wanted one cause I noticed I really dont have a best friend that would want to tlk about guys and going shopping well also have someone thier when u need to tlk to on yr ups and dwns....
    Alluringkey62 Alluringkey62 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Not Gay, But Close Enough

    My freshman year of highschool, i had a very close friend. He was my ex boyfriends best friend which makes it even better. I had all the connections i needed to know what my ex was doing all the time and what he would say...LOL. That isn't the point. He was so nice to me and...
    xxDreamerXx88 xxDreamerXx88 16-17, F Aug 13, 2011

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    Diamondcdx16 Diamondcdx16 16-17, M Dec 1, 2013

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    Seeking Gay Friend...

    I personally do not have this luxury. How I often sit and think about how wonderful it would be to have a male viewpoint from somebody who has 1st hand experience and be able to share stories, gossip...maybe even shoes. The more flamboyant, the better! I want to go out with my...
    suzer suzer 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    Thankful

    Iam a 23 year old gay man and i am very thankful 4 my friends that are girls when i was 16 i came out to some of my friends and my friend misty was the first one i came out to and when i came out to her she told me she always knew i was gay we have been very close friends we shop...
    Jannisemichael Jannisemichael 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Gay Friend

    I tried being friends with straight men, but then they would try to wife me. I tried being friends with lesbians, but they did the same. I want a kewl gay dude as a friend. My cousin is gay, but he's 18 and doing his own thing with kids his age. I'm grown and ain't got time for...
    nikkiab86 nikkiab86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    I started college in September 2013

    and there was this cute gay guy in my class and I'm a straight woman I was to shy to talk to him but he decided to talk to me and from then our friendship decided to grow we r now best friends and known around college as joint around the hip. I soon found out that he liked me it...
    Remnc002 Remnc002 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I Need a Gay Guy Friend

    I have been unable to make a gay guy friend. My best friend has a couple gay guy friends and she says that it is wonderful to have gay guy friends. I am hoping to make a gay guy friend sometime in the future. I really just want to make more friends in general, but having a gay...
    Doglover5290 Doglover5290 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    Gay Friends

    I think gay guy friends are the best. They understand our problems and theny help us with anything.
    Kime01 Kime01 16-17 2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

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    My Gay Friend Mark

    I miss you so much! I can tell you everything, you laugh at my stupid jokes, you get my quirky sense of everything. You could tell when I was hurting without me saying a word You could read my mind when we looked at each other ... and would LAUGH!! ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2009

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    Need One!!!

    Hey, really want a gay friend... Anyone??:)
    tttpr36 tttpr36 13-15, F Nov 25, 2013

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    They Are The Best:)

    I have had 4 gay guy friends and 8 lesbian friends. I love them so much:) My friend Robert and i gossiped about everyone and had nicknames for every person in the school so they didnt know we were talking about them. Although we did this he was totally drama free which sets my...
    HornsToHoldUpMyHalo HornsToHoldUpMyHalo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    Which Is More Sad...

    Hags without **** or **** without hags??? I moved across the country from my harem of faghags 3 years ago and I really miss them.  It's not the same to talk to them on the phone. I don't have any hags where I am and I miss my hags. Any hags in the DFW area looking for...
    Roaring20s Roaring20s 41-45, M 4 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    My "girlfriends"

    I am generally the "token dyke" among my group of boys when we go out. There is Michael who owns his own salon and Jessie, the "****" of the group with a new fellow each week. Kevin is a bitchy gossip and I refer to him as "The mouth of the south" because he couldn't keep a...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 25, 2010

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    I'll Admit It

    I am a "hag".  However, I miss my gay male friends.  The one I had the pleasure of kissing and playing with his tongue ring never quite admitted to anyone he was (and is) gay.  Although he's living with a man and they bought a house together. ...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Am I the only who thinks this is kinda mean?

    It's objectifying and stereotyping.They are humanbeings, not a prize to win.
    Amidala97 Amidala97 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Gay Friends Are Good To Have

    it was 2005 when was at university i met this two guys and they we so friendly and to good to me.later they told me they are couple,i was sharing all the problems i had and i've never heard anyone talks about them,they were safe friends and honest ones,i miss them alot
    fancyback fancyback 26-30, F Nov 1, 2012

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    =D

    I call my best friend an honorary gay male, because he, along with most of my other male friends, is a bit camp most of the time, and I love him for it. He's Will to my Grace. He's fantastic and just like Will. Apart from the fact he is not gay or even bisexual. I will move him...
    Kadini Kadini 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2007

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    They Were My Best Friends

    I had two best friends that were gay and they were the best thing that ever happened to me. Man could they cook! I loved thier home, it was always spotless. We shared alot of fun times together! We laughed and talked, they even told me how to get a man! They hooked me up a few...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Yes!

    Having a gay best friend is one of the greatest things that has ever happened to me. He's an amazingly sweet and funny guy (someitimes a little too honest) and I am so glad that he is my friend.Love you Kyle.
    charlie0520 charlie0520 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2009

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    Jeff & John

    In college, I was blessed to meet two guys in the same section of marching band as me (yes, I'm a band geek and proud of it!!).  They were hilarious, and being completely sheltered growing up, it took me some time to realize that they were gay.  Basically, they...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz 41-45, F 4 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    OMG YESSS!!!!! Let's go shoppinnnggg!!!! Ohhhhhh. Sleep over!! Screw diamonds a gay guys a girls best friend. U can just talk about other guys. Hmm I need a gay friend.
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know gay guys aren't objects and you can't buy them but I would really like a gay best friend just to have fun with and talk about guys with
    Prettyplussizedprincess Prettyplussizedprincess 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So about 5 to 8 weeks ago we got this new guy in our class and we have become really great friends. He told me i am the only friend he has and the only one he trusts. Him and i...
    Blackbelt4ever1 Blackbelt4ever1 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Any gay guys 14-17 want to chat? i'm feeling lonely and would like to chat with a nice guy. Message me if you want to :)
    RihannaFan1026 RihannaFan1026 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Guys are more kind and understanding than most girls. They are sweet and I love having guy friends more than girls.
    breannainreverse breannainreverse 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I mainly have guy friends. We had a school dance on Friday and he slow danced with me. It was really sweet. He just kept pulling me closer. Then when I got home he texted me and...
    Kenzie5567 Kenzie5567 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I think Asian girls with big ***** are the sexiest ever.
    Bigluke1122 Bigluke1122 18-21, M Mar 27

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    I am in love with my best friend, let's call him Adam, but I think I am falling for my friend, who we'll call Wes. I've been in love with Adam for two years and then Wes came along...
    highfidelity970 highfidelity970 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I've been in love with my best friend for 2 years and 6 months ago he confessed to me that he was gay, but 2 years ago (when I first started to have feelings for him) he also had...
    marlene5sos marlene5sos 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    I need to confront my boyfriend of almost 8 years that I saw messages from him to other guys talking about hooking up and how they like thing, basically soliciting himself and vice...
    bombflow bombflow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I don't necessarily ONLY want girl friends because that whole period thing is just...no (no offence). But I like all the attention the girls give me at school. It gets me horny...
    Thatmixedchild Thatmixedchild 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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