I Think Every Girl Needs a Gay Guy Friend

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    Need One!!!

    Hey, really want a gay friend... Anyone??:)
    tttpr36 tttpr36
    16-17, F
    Nov 25, 2013

    Because I'm Grace

    For as long as boys my age started realizing they were gay, I have been friends with them. Not on purpose, it's not like i go seeking them out or anything.. and often they don't realize they are gay until i have been friends with them for a while and sometimes I've even dated...
    kiki01 kiki01
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2009

    Looking For MOC

    Hi Friends, Life is a struggle in every sense.We are here means we are struggling to protect our true self.Thankfully the internet is helping us a lot. A brief about myself- Hindu,32 years old,well educated and doing good job. Looking for someone who can be a trustworthy...
    butterflyindair butterflyindair
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2013
    anonymous1anonymous7 anonymous1anonymous7
    13-15, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    Hii:) I'm 18 and looking

    for bestie buddies! I'm a cowgirl at heart and never can let her out, because all my friends are guys and I'm still pretty closed about my true self:/
    Countrygirlie Countrygirlie
    18-21, M
    Feb 27


    I love all my friends but especially my gay guy friends. Sadly over the past couple months I've lost contact with most of them so hoping to find new ones on here
    Thegirlyawesomegirl Thegirlyawesomegirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

    Which Is More Sad...

    Hags without **** or **** without hags??? I moved across the country from my harem of faghags 3 years ago and I really miss them.  It's not the same to talk to them on the phone. I don't have any hags where I am and I miss my hags. Any hags in the DFW area looking for...
    Roaring20s Roaring20s
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Sep 11, 2008

    Gay Guy Friend = Sweet Dude

    I met few gay friends during my early college days. At first, it was kinda strange when they talk about their boyfriends and stuff but eventually, i got used to it. I have this particular friend, Japsie, who is very open and vocal about his sexual preference. I have no problem...
    mynameishyphenated mynameishyphenated
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jul 29, 2010

    The more people I meet the more I'm starting to

    believe this. I'm not the kinda girl who holds prejudice against straight guys. When I want a serious relationship which I am working on at the moment I do look for a straight or a bi man. There's so many amazing straight man out there. But when it comes to true friendship I don...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss
    18-21, F
    May 22, 2015

    They are so sweet and truly understand you.

    You can go theatre and bar with them. The best thing is they are close to you without thinking about having sex with you
    Allyanqi Allyanqi
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014
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    May 10, 2014
    gayboy128 gayboy128
    16-17, M
    1 Response Sep 4, 2014

    I want a gay guy friend more

    than I want a boyfriend
    berithepso berithepso
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2014

    My friend moved away

    and now I am in a funk. I'm happy for him because he is getting married to a great guy but at the same time I miss my friend :(
    LadyCNote LadyCNote
    31-35, F
    Jun 19, 2014

    Girl! We will tell it all!

    !!!!! From fashion, makeup and boys. We are here to stay! We are the girlfriends that got your back and snitch out that boyfriend of yours that is cheating behind your back! We will tell you the truth if that dress is a fashion no NO! If those pumps are to die for. Like I said we...
    Xi010 Xi010
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2013

    Gay Friend

    I tried being friends with straight men, but then they would try to wife me. I tried being friends with lesbians, but they did the same. I want a kewl gay dude as a friend. My cousin is gay, but he's 18 and doing his own thing with kids his age. I'm grown and ain't got time for...
    nikkiab86 nikkiab86
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

    I think everybody wants a GBF,

    but the important thing is to remember that they're gay, but they are people and are So much more that just they're sexual orientation.
    Asmatiqueimnot Asmatiqueimnot
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014

    I've had one or two before

    and nothing else compares. I swear they're the best kinda people out there 😁
    blahhooplah blahhooplah
    18-21, F
    Mar 10, 2014

    It's nice to have one.

    . Less drama. I remembered I had a best friend about 3 years ago. We fought and then she decided to end our long term friendship. I was so depressed, but then my gay friend stepped in and tried to help me move on. He is such a great person! He has taught me so much and is still...
    EndlessDreams22 EndlessDreams22
    26-30, F
    Mar 12, 2014

    I'll Admit It

    I am a "hag".  However, I miss my gay male friends.  The one I had the pleasure of kissing and playing with his tongue ring never quite admitted to anyone he was (and is) gay.  Although he's living with a man and they bought a house together. ...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    I went trick-or-treating with my friend Gabriel.

    He was dressed as some Star Wars character and I was dressed as a chola. We both went around with our "gang" and knocked on doors. We knocked on a sensible door with a cute little light-up ghost and waited. After a while we gave up and left. As we stepped onto the driveway, the...
    ObsessedWithElsa ObsessedWithElsa
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2013

    Gay Guy here, still discovering myself.

    Straight acting but genuine, caring, fun loving. Closet to most except those I trust & have a good gaydar. Needing Girlfriends who I relate to better & give good advice to. Just looking for friends:)
    AussieCharlie AussieCharlie
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2015
    Diamondcdx16 Diamondcdx16
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 1, 2013

    I Need a New One

    my best gay guy friend moved away last year, and now i am without.. its very sad and i need a new one!!!!  *cries*
    destiny420 destiny420
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2008

    Gay Man

    Hey people I'm a gay man that loves making friends I love dancing going to the movies and hanging out with friends I'm a people person
    Jannisemichael Jannisemichael
    22-25, M
    Apr 4, 2013
    Yunocorn Yunocorn
    13-15, F
    Jul 8, 2015
    mysteriousnite mysteriousnite
    13-15, F
    Feb 1, 2015

    I Need a Gay Guy Friend

    I have been unable to make a gay guy friend. My best friend has a couple gay guy friends and she says that it is wonderful to have gay guy friends. I am hoping to make a gay guy friend sometime in the future. I really just want to make more friends in general, but having a gay...
    Doglover5290 Doglover5290
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2009

    I still don't have a gay guy friend.

    Any gay guys wanna be my friend lol
    Internetphan Internetphan
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2014

    Yes! Hit me up if you're looking

    for a girl best friend. Let's chat! x
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    My Very First School Friend.

    I met him when I was in the first grade and we became fast friends.  Not only did we see each other daily at school, but we also talked on the phone every day, sometimes multiple times.  We always exchanged gifts with each other for Christmas, Valentines, birthdays and...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2008
    bellisk bellisk
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2014

    Seeking Gay Friend...

    I personally do not have this luxury. How I often sit and think about how wonderful it would be to have a male viewpoint from somebody who has 1st hand experience and be able to share stories, gossip...maybe even shoes. The more flamboyant, the better! I want to go out with my...
    suzer suzer
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Aug 29, 2007


    Having a gay best friend is one of the greatest things that has ever happened to me. He's an amazingly sweet and funny guy (someitimes a little too honest) and I am so glad that he is my friend.Love you Kyle.
    charlie0520 charlie0520
    22-25, F
    Oct 28, 2009

    I need a GBF because they like everything we

    like and you can still get a guys perspective on things. Plus they aren't trying to have sex with us all the time.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Mature Topic

    I read a question recently asking why women love gay men. I have a gay friend and this is what I think about that question. I do not care what my friend does with his partner. That thought does not even pop in my head. I care about my gay friend but I do not LOVE him on a deeper...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Nov 23, 2009

    They can give advices(about hair makeup etc.

    ) with their male perspective .... They are like wisdom :) I love you so much J.
    fauxlady fauxlady
    22-25, F
    Aug 17, 2014

    Yes They Do

    My best girlfriend was a gay man.   We had so much fun together, he could tell my voice on the phone if I needed a friend.He could make me laugh. He and I did all the flowers for my daughters wedding. Could have not done with out him.My dear friend passed a few years ago. i...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2012

    I started college in September 2013

    and there was this cute gay guy in my class and I'm a straight woman I was to shy to talk to him but he decided to talk to me and from then our friendship decided to grow we r now best friends and known around college as joint around the hip. I soon found out that he liked me it...
    Remnc002 Remnc002
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2014

    Hellll Yeahhhh!!!!

    I have always wanted a gay best-friend, and when I came on EP, I never expected to find one.......but I did!!! And he is the most amazing guy ever. I am such a private person, but I find myself confiding in him. He is beautiful ,funny and a great listener! I love you PRETTY BOY...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 23, 2013

    i think thats really fair cause almost all guys

    have lesbian friends ,i would be you girls friend. <3
    AndySiixx AndySiixx
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 20, 2015
    DeathAngelS300 DeathAngelS300
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 19

    Mine's Named Art....

    He is my sweetest, most cherished offline friend. We were neighbours for years & he's just so huggable. lol. I told him once that if he were straight, I would so be going after him. He laughed, hugged me tight & whispered in my ear "Not if I saw you first"...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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