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I Think Every Girl Should Have A Gay Best Friend

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    I think the queer community deserves to be more

    than some cisgender heterosexual girl's little gay token friend. Maybe even treated like people and not accessories. And we all know you mean some skinny fashionable "sassy" stereotype of a cis man anyways. These groups need to stop. A real ally wouldn't see someone's sexuality...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 16-17, T 1 Response May 26

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    Dancing Queen

    Dear TomMy boy, my handsome boy. My soft Southern lad. It's your scary Northerner here....My unlikely friend, my immoral moral compass....They played Dancing Queen last night. Because that was your funeral song - none of us can hear it now without thinking of you. Bittersweet...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Best Friends...

    I would like to have a gay guy best friend. That's it. :)
    Luna80 Luna80 31-35, F Feb 26, 2013

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    My only true friends are gay.

    I love then and tell them everything and their fashion sense is a million times better than mine.
    mvillevamp2013 mvillevamp2013 22-25, F 1 Response May 26

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    I Feel Awesome

    and let me tell you why...I have the two greatest gay friends in the world....Douglas Pressman and Robert Nuey!
    jesustherealone jesustherealone 46-50 Jul 14, 2012

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    I think you're wrong.

    You become friends with who you become friends with. You don't just become friends with someone due to their sexuality, according to me that is.
    ihavenoideawhatsoever ihavenoideawhatsoever 70+, F Mar 16

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    I want a gay best friends for once whos in......????????
    melisa010 melisa010 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't have a best friend. Plain and simple. I have plenty of friends, and don't have problems making them. But I think I've been making all the wrong types of friends. The ones...
    jolieember12 jolieember12 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    My friend and I have been best friends for 5 years now. Back in January, he asked me to go out with him & I said "Yes!". We dated for a few months then one day after school, while...
    LoveIsAConfusingThing LoveIsAConfusingThing 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I have 2 best friends. I am glad that they're my best friends because they are awesome,funny,amazing, they give really good advice lol. I'm also glad they're my best friends...
    Zay15 Zay15 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Maybe it is a generational thing, or maybe it is a male thing, but I do not have a best friend. I have a wife, kids, lots of work friends, friends from long ago who are my...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I still don't have a gay guy friend. Any gay guys wanna be my friend lol
    internetrodo internetrodo 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Ok my best friend is a guy he's straight and I'm bi. We have the biggest bromance like when we walk through the halls and he puts his arm around me and almost every day it would he...
    crosscountry007 crosscountry007 13-15, M 6 Responses Sep 16

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    I don't understand why boys and girls can't be best friends without everybody thinking that something's going on. It's really annoying. There's nothin wrong with having a best...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    People need to stop talking about "guy best friends" like they are a rare piece of property.
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I have friends but it hurts me every day inside seeing people and their friendships. I've not connected with another human being on the level of other people. They usually think I...
    MysteriousBadWolf MysteriousBadWolf 13-15, F Sep 22

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    In the past I used to have a really good set of people/social skills so much so that I was popular in primary school. I had a best friend then after a year at the same school they...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 12

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    I love my dog he is my ride to die he's been there through my hardships and has traveled everywhere he is the best travel buddy he protects me and he is amazing... Some ladies kid...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know my dog (88) is my best friend! I don't have much family. 88 is a beautiful german shepherd I have been blessed to have in my life for 12 yrs now. She has taught me so much...
    Clorey88 Clorey88 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We had been best friends, inseparable since, kindergarden, but then we had to go and fall for each other and then break up and get dramatized. We would have been a perfect couples...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Sep 20

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    I think they are for some people. I know for a fact that my dog is my best friend, Christ, he's my family. I love him and i know other people feel the same about their dogs. Others...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When u find a best friend, enjoy the friendship, don't take each others for granted and always be good to each others. I have no best mate, a male or a female. I'm 43. I know I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Sep 12

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    We're the three musketeers.We even have a little singing group. I'm the Beyoncé of the group.We'll be friends forever.We'll go to each other's wedding, have babies at the same...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F Sep 5

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    My best friend; his name is Skyler, a few years ago he was the first person I came out to and he came out to me first too, since then we've been the best of friends.
    Distancexx Distancexx 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    My best friend is my bestie I met from my hometown of Roswell 7 years ago, we have been inseparable ever since.
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F Sep 21

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    My best friend has crotical, possibly deadly symtoms he's on medicine but they could get deadly... i'm so scared... what do i do?
    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    She is my other half:)! Without my best friend I would be lost. I would seriously die for her
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    She's been my best friend forever. Love her to death.
    corco95 corco95 18-21, F Sep 21

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    I will stand by you, I will help you through When you've done all you can do and you can't call... I will dry your eyes, I will fight your fight, I will hold you tight and I won't...
    HisMsLane HisMsLane 16-17, F Sep 21

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    Guys make the best friends as long as there's no sexual attraction Bc then it's just messy
    FallenAngel0 FallenAngel0 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Is a it bad thin that I would love have a stereotypical feminit gay guy as a friend ?
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    When I have a bad day or whatever, no matter how many times I would get mad at my dogs they're still there for me no matter what. I love them.
    ChrisJayce ChrisJayce 16-17, F 45 mins ago

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    Hey-- I'm a gay guy and I am open to being anyone's friend!!
    gayboy128 gayboy128 13-15, M Sep 4

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    Jacob! XD I love that guy. Lol It always confuses me when people say a guy and a girl can't be "just friends" because one of them will catch feeling for the other. Seriously...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F Sep 8

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    "Life After Being An Experiment For Straight Guy." I really want to thank everyone for taking the time to read a part of my life that I wanted to share in my previous story. I...
    iwannarock iwannarock 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Yes, girls and guys can be friends without being a couple. I don't get how some people think it can't happen. Anyway, my friend Kaimana is so weird and funny but he's great. He's...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I have a friend who thinks she is carrying the whole world with her. I find her always haggard and very lonely. Later this morning, I saw her. Her eye bags were very big. Let me...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    This is my sweet little girl taking a nap in my lap a few hours ago:)
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    danny, known him for about 8 years; we've learned so much from each other. he is know like a part of the family. i absolutely love him...hes like a third brother to me, everyone...
    JenZ10 JenZ10 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I love my dog , she's my first love and I live her more than myself. She makes everyday complete and I love pampering her. She's a bright light in my dull life and I absolutely...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I had a puppy named Sandy. Everyday i would kiss her on her head and she would lean her head down for me to kiss her. I love her so much. Then, one day.. I came home from church...
    jeaaane jeaaane 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This lovely man is single and looking for a girlfriend. He is sweet and really nice, he won't do anything to hurt or offend you. I really hope someone out there likes him and could...
    Heyitsme69 Heyitsme69 18-21, F Sep 7

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    I do. And we're perfect together. Not in a dating term, but on a brotherly and fraternal love. I'm not sure. But now that he started dating I don't know if I dislike the girl...
    yuhkie yuhkie 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Yup Dogs are like humans They protect us and become our friend and family
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I once had two dogs and they were my life but recently one put down which hit me like a truck! Now I've only got Boo(the other dog) but when Milo got put down, my life changed. I...
    Krystal666 Krystal666 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love these two more than anything. Although I think they love my mom more than me, they're still my world. The happiness and wonder they bring me is indescribable. I will be very...
    MsDazedAndConfused MsDazedAndConfused 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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