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I Think Every Girl Should Have A Gay Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 62 People

    Dancing Queen

    Dear TomMy boy, my handsome boy. My soft Southern lad. It's your scary Northerner here....My unlikely friend, my immoral moral compass....They played Dancing Queen last night. Because that was your funeral song - none of us can hear it now without thinking of you. Bittersweet...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I think the queer community deserves to be more

    than some cisgender heterosexual girl's little gay token friend. Maybe even treated like people and not accessories. And we all know you mean some skinny fashionable "sassy" stereotype of a cis man anyways. These groups need to stop. A real ally wouldn't see someone's sexuality...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 18-21, T 1 Response May 26, 2014

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    I think you're wrong.

    You become friends with who you become friends with. You don't just become friends with someone due to their sexuality, according to me that is.
    ihavenoideawhatsoever ihavenoideawhatsoever 70+, F Mar 16, 2014

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    My only true friends are gay.

    I love then and tell them everything and their fashion sense is a million times better than mine.
    mvillevamp2013 mvillevamp2013 22-25, F 1 Response May 26, 2014

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    I Feel Awesome

    and let me tell you why...I have the two greatest gay friends in the world....Douglas Pressman and Robert Nuey!
    jesustherealone jesustherealone 46-50 Jul 14, 2012

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    Best Friends...

    I would like to have a gay guy best friend. That's it. :)
    Luna80 Luna80 31-35, F Feb 26, 2013

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    I met my gay best friend about 2 years ago

    and I don't know how I've functioned without him before! I remember girls always saying that they wanted a Gay Best friend and I never knew I wanted one until I actually had one lol
    meow1019 meow1019 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2015

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    Related Experiences

    Do you ever just sit and wonder how you no longer speak with those you were closest to. Like how did I lose my best friend of 15 years, I used to believe she was supposed to be in...
    JunkFoodJunkie JunkFoodJunkie 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Totally!! their relationship can just be platonic. I have several guy friends that are just friends and they are some of the greatest people ever!! We can talk for ever and there...
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Do I refer to her as my best friend at this point? I feel the sand slipping through my hands. 11 years. Every emotion felt between us, every laugh. Selfish am I to say; I wish she...
    naturesxwanderess1 naturesxwanderess1 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    My best friend at the time and I had known each other since the 6th grade. She was always the person to laugh while I was the shy one. Although I was being bullied by the class...
    ILoveBacon23 ILoveBacon23 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I love my best friend. She is...just is and I want it all. Enough said.
    Noshikigoi Noshikigoi 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I met him a few years and we instantly became friends. We were very close and talked about a lot of things, such as family issues, religion, what we want our future selves to be...
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Idk.. But Ill tell you My story. I met her once after school, on the bus. I sat down beside her in the lack of other places to sit. And she apparently were the kinda person that...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    All my life I've been friends with girls. My best friend is a girl, we're really different but we get along pretty well. But I miss a guy's company. A few years back I were friends...
    lonelyrider11 lonelyrider11 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I have had my best friend since I was four or five, me coming out was no surprise to him, he is used to my family anyway. He did ask if I had feelings other than friendship for him...
    DanteAsiir DanteAsiir 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i would love to have a best friend, someone who would listen and be there for me. and someone who i could listen to and be there for them. to have someone to have fun times with...
    andthesnakesstarttosing andthesnakesstarttosing 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I hate myself for being the way I am. I am greedy and lustful and karma just hit me in the face. During a drunken night in University I let my best friend's ex stay at my place...
    14052822st 14052822st 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I was 12/13 I met this boy who would turn out to be my best friend. Funny thing is, for the first 10 months we met all he did was beat me up. I didn't know why, but I laughed...
    Plouton3600 Plouton3600 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I don't have a best friend, mostly because I have a hard time meeting trustworthy people. To be frank, I'm a **** magnet when it comes to friends and at twenty years old I am...
    gangstabreath gangstabreath 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have no girl friends or best friend I can call up anytime and talk to. No one to complain about my husband with, or go shopping for cute clothes with. No one to tell my secrets...
    heypei135 heypei135 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've never actually known a girl that's just been my best friend. I've always just hung out with my guy friends and it was hard to make new friends of any kind because I've been...
    ApparentOrb9045 ApparentOrb9045 18-21, M Feb 1

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    She is my anchor to this world. She's my inspiration, and I would lay down my life for her, without any reservation. She keeps it real, and tells it like it is. She's my Twinnie!
    ZenGrrrlLioNESS ZenGrrrlLioNESS 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Hello. (I)I'm here with my best friend (hate) Lauren (my)from the previous (job) story. Love to all. (Help).
    Squarah99 Squarah99 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Best friend that a girl-im not gay. Anyways it kind of happened in a movie like way lol. It was the last day of school and next year we move up schools, and it turned out she was...
    reddevilm8 reddevilm8 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    “Be certain you are living YOUR life and not someone else’s” These are the dying words of my best friend’s sister. This wise admonition became my best friend’s catalyst...
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    i used to have a best friend but he is married so now im all alone in this universe everyone of my friends walked away from me, no childhood friend anymore here i am, walking the...
    tenkoji tenkoji 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    If I could have one best friend, I would love to be best friends with a Muslim! A nice Muslim. Even though I'm not a Muslim, I'm not religious at all. Most Muslims are just really...
    ScienceOfSouls15 ScienceOfSouls15 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I love my best friend Jasmine, but I find It hard with all the lies and rumors shed spreads. She says one thing then another I just get so mixed up
    Fallbeforewefallout Fallbeforewefallout 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I want a gay best friend as well, but I can't seem to find one. I personally think they are AWSOME, and would love to have because no offense hanging out with girls all the time...
    Fallbeforewefallout Fallbeforewefallout 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I think I'm losing my Best friend as a Best Friend. I've known my Best friend since the 6th grade. (Now We're both in 10th grade) and we all go to the same school. But, she met...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I need a best friend who also thinks I am his/her best friend. Why is it so easy to be there for people but still not a best friend to them? I want a friend who is willing to do...
    Greenapple17 Greenapple17 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    This is a confession. My best friend was the most courageous person I know. She es very very strong and reminded me of the best of my mother. She was kind and caring, loving and...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I use to be best friends with this one girl but she changed completely ever since she got a horrible bf. She lost all of her friends and all she has now is him. even if we don't...
    marckengenie1 marckengenie1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Lessons learned. Do not ride your bike to your introduction meeting when looking to adopt a dog. I didn't even give it a second thought, as i rode up to the little park where you...
    jackfrost09 jackfrost09 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Yet again. I haven't been on this site in years. When I look back on it my stories were so.... ugh. But here I am again and yet again, I have a thing for one of my best friends...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly 16-17, F Jan 28

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    There was a Boy ?n a Girl,boy was iran and girl was Pakistan. They were best friends for years ?n years,They could Talk for hours on the skype ?n text each other for days ep,When...
    lonelyhellhole lonelyhellhole 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Your dog is the only creature in this world that loves you just because you exist. He doesn't need you to change, to apologize, to pay him money to be with him, to buy him presents...
    natalypetrvicki natalypetrvicki 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I've Found It Once,The Perfect Girl Made Especially For Me..She Was My Best Friend and Lover.This Girl Would Tell Me,That Every Moment We Were Together,She'd Have Butterflies In...
    BiggBeautifulBri BiggBeautifulBri 46-50, M Jan 27

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    I haven't written a story on here in quite a while. I just felt like sharing this experience, I suppose. I haven't had a true best friend since elementary school. Even in middle...
    OblitusAuri OblitusAuri 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My three best friends are Frank, Christian, and Ella. I first met Ella last year. She was born in 1999, is interested in ballet and horseback riding, and is very pretty. We are...
    AngelAmongClouds AngelAmongClouds 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 26