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I Think Every Girl Should Have A Gay Best Friend

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    I think the queer community deserves to be more

    than some cisgender heterosexual girl's little gay token friend. Maybe even treated like people and not accessories. And we all know you mean some skinny fashionable "sassy" stereotype of a cis man anyways. These groups need to stop. A real ally wouldn't see someone's sexuality...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 16-17, T 1 Response May 26

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    My only true friends are gay.

    I love then and tell them everything and their fashion sense is a million times better than mine.
    mvillevamp2013 mvillevamp2013 22-25, F 1 Response May 26

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    Best Friends...

    I would like to have a gay guy best friend. That's it. :)
    Luna80 Luna80 31-35, F Feb 26, 2013

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    I Feel Awesome

    and let me tell you why...I have the two greatest gay friends in the world....Douglas Pressman and Robert Nuey!
    jesustherealone jesustherealone 46-50 Jul 14, 2012

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    Dancing Queen

    Dear TomMy boy, my handsome boy. My soft Southern lad. It's your scary Northerner here....My unlikely friend, my immoral moral compass....They played Dancing Queen last night. Because that was your funeral song - none of us can hear it now without thinking of you. Bittersweet...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I think you're wrong.

    You become friends with who you become friends with. You don't just become friends with someone due to their sexuality, according to me that is.
    ihavenoideawhatsoever ihavenoideawhatsoever 70+, F Mar 16

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    I'm a 14 yr old girl and I wish to have a gay best friend cos every girl deserves one. :) message me if u wanna be my gay bestie lol
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I want a gay best friend ( guy ) someone around my age and that watches sports and isn't to girly a gay guy but that is into sports and maybe an athlete ( around my age )
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M Aug 19

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    I really want a gay best friend so we can talk about girl stuff and ugh it would be so cool. And gay people are so awesome
    mikki19 mikki19 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    My friend and I have been best friends for 5 years now. Back in January, he asked me to go out with him & I said "Yes!". We dated for a few months then one day after school, while...
    LoveIsAConfusingThing LoveIsAConfusingThing 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Maybe it is a generational thing, or maybe it is a male thing, but I do not have a best friend. I have a wife, kids, lots of work friends, friends from long ago who are my...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I still don't have a gay guy friend. Any gay guys wanna be my friend lol
    internetrodo internetrodo 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Ok my best friend is a guy he's straight and I'm bi. We have the biggest bromance like when we walk through the halls and he puts his arm around me and almost every day it would he...
    crosscountry007 crosscountry007 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't understand why boys and girls can't be best friends without everybody thinking that something's going on. It's really annoying. There's nothin wrong with having a best...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    People need to stop talking about "guy best friends" like they are a rare piece of property.
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have a huge crush on my straight best friend. We have such a good time. He got naked for me the other night, out on his back porch after his gf went to bed. I gave him a blow job...
    RomanNZolanski16 RomanNZolanski16 26-30, M Aug 21

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    i had a best friend, then i had a frienemy and now i have an enemy. As i moved up to high school, my friends and i were put into different classes, forcing us to find new friends...
    aStarGirl aStarGirl 13-15, F Aug 26

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    In the past I used to have a really good set of people/social skills so much so that I was popular in primary school. I had a best friend then after a year at the same school they...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F Aug 29

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    When u find a best friend, enjoy the friendship, don't take each others for granted and always be good to each others. I have no best mate, a male or a female. I'm 43. I know I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    My best friend; his name is Skyler, a few years ago he was the first person I came out to and he came out to me first too, since then we've been the best of friends.
    Distancexx Distancexx 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    My best friend has crotical, possibly deadly symtoms he's on medicine but they could get deadly... i'm so scared... what do i do?
    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    We're the three musketeers.We even have a little singing group. I'm the Beyoncé of the group.We'll be friends forever.We'll go to each other's wedding, have babies at the same...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F Sep 5

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    They are so sweet and truly understand you. You can go theatre and bar with them. The best thing is they are close to you without thinking about having sex with you
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Hey-- I'm a gay guy and I am open to being anyone's friend!!
    gayboy128 gayboy128 13-15, M Sep 4

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    That reminds me of my Bromeo,he's gay I'm straight girl. He always fall for the straight guys and end up getting hurt(one christian straight guy dated him for about 1or2 years...
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I can be your friend. XD just message me. Not that girly btw
    AlfieEscandellDerosa AlfieEscandellDerosa 13-15, M Aug 30

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    Jacob! XD I love that guy. Lol It always confuses me when people say a guy and a girl can't be "just friends" because one of them will catch feeling for the other. Seriously...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F Sep 8

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    I'm a gay guy who's always after new friends. Hit me up if you want an awesome homo to talk to lol :P
    lostbmo lostbmo 26-30, M Aug 25

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    Everyone always thinks we go out but we don't. I have a feeling he thinks I like him 'in that way'. I always have my arm around him or hold his hand but this is just simply...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 29

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    Yes, girls and guys can be friends without being a couple. I don't get how some people think it can't happen. Anyway, my friend Kaimana is so weird and funny but he's great. He's...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I have a friend who thinks she is carrying the whole world with her. I find her always haggard and very lonely. Later this morning, I saw her. Her eye bags were very big. Let me...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    danny, known him for about 8 years; we've learned so much from each other. he is know like a part of the family. i absolutely love him...hes like a third brother to me, everyone...
    JenZ10 JenZ10 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    This lovely man is single and looking for a girlfriend. He is sweet and really nice, he won't do anything to hurt or offend you. I really hope someone out there likes him and could...
    Heyitsme69 Heyitsme69 18-21, F Sep 7

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    I do. And we're perfect together. Not in a dating term, but on a brotherly and fraternal love. I'm not sure. But now that he started dating I don't know if I dislike the girl...
    yuhkie yuhkie 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    We even have the same last name! Was it meant to be? Haha jk If we introduced ourselves as sisters no one would think twice about it.
    iiArial iiArial 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I moved her into college today! She's one of my only close friends and it scares me I have to do my senior year of high school without her!
    Ashleyjam43 Ashleyjam43 18-21, F Aug 22

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    We're both short (I'm 5"2 and she's 4"11). I'm brunette and she's blonde. We binge watch TV shows, go shopping, make music and talk about mindless stuff. It's so important to me to...
    godvvave godvvave 18-21, F Aug 19

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    He is my brother, or at least as close to one I will ever have. He and I understand each other better than we do our families. Bro
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T Aug 20

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    Nobody has what I have. ....
    weakex weakex 46-50, F Sep 7

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    We are more likely to add you if you have a non EP profile image
    LSCouple LSCouple 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Missing having a GBF something awful.....
    bellisk bellisk 41-45, F Sep 3

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    She really sweet and shy and caring even though she been through some messed up stuff
    Msundertheinfluence Msundertheinfluence 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yea yea yea yea yea yea yea yea DOGS
    forders forders 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My Poor "pompom" is scared shitless to go out to the garden, after the third attempt from our "dauchund" tried to Kill her, even after our"dauchund"was put in another loving home...
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Is it weird to consider four persons ur BFF. If so idc. They're awesome. Had a very crazily weird conversation with them just minutes ago. If ppl read it we might just be sent to...
    kikimyst kikimyst 16-17, F Aug 20

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