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I Think Every Girl Should Have A Gay Best Friend

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    I think the queer community deserves to be more

    than some cisgender heterosexual girl's little gay token friend. Maybe even treated like people and not accessories. And we all know you mean some skinny fashionable "sassy" stereotype of a cis man anyways. These groups need to stop. A real ally wouldn't see someone's sexuality...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway 16-17, T 1 Response May 26

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    My only true friends are gay.

    I love then and tell them everything and their fashion sense is a million times better than mine.
    mvillevamp2013 mvillevamp2013 22-25, F 1 Response May 26

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    I think you're wrong.

    You become friends with who you become friends with. You don't just become friends with someone due to their sexuality, according to me that is.
    ihavenoideawhatsoever ihavenoideawhatsoever 70+, F Mar 16

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    Best Friends...

    I would like to have a gay guy best friend. That's it. :)
    Luna80 Luna80 31-35, F Feb 26, 2013

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    Dancing Queen

    Dear TomMy boy, my handsome boy. My soft Southern lad. It's your scary Northerner here....My unlikely friend, my immoral moral compass....They played Dancing Queen last night. Because that was your funeral song - none of us can hear it now without thinking of you. Bittersweet...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I Feel Awesome

    and let me tell you why...I have the two greatest gay friends in the world....Douglas Pressman and Robert Nuey!
    jesustherealone jesustherealone 46-50 Jul 14, 2012

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    Is it weird that I really want a gay best friend? They could help me with my fashion and make up and other stuff
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I had a best friend. We started talkin to two other best friends and became a group of 4. But my best friend started hating one of my other friends and would always leave and get...
    HarlieMarie HarlieMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have a best friend who loves me and It's very confusing. She's been my best friend for 7 years and I don't want to ruin this friendship. I have a huge crush on her but I just don...
    Nessuray Nessuray 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well they're good friends of mine (I already have a best friend), but they can be so dumb sometimes.. Especially one. They fought and stopped being friends for months just because...
    littlestella littlestella 18-21, F Jul 9

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    This is a little thanks to one of my very best friends Charlotte. She has managed to help me feel very happy right when I was feeling like complete crap over the past couple of...
    gothboy145 gothboy145 16-17, M 6 hrs ago

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    We've been best friends for 8 years now, and we both know we have each other to fall back on no matter what, however Just a few days ago I've learnt that I didn't know something...
    outtamymindz outtamymindz 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I am 13 years old , well i have some good friends but not a real best friend . I would like a best friend : a girl or boy ... just like me : i am a person who loves kind and funny...
    lolxoxswag lolxoxswag 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I have this guy friend I have been friends with for 4 years, I mean I always thought he was cute and stuff and he thought the same of me but I just never wanted to go further...
    Jic195 Jic195 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Guys And Girls Can Just Be Friends! I have friends who are guys and friends who are girls. Guys and girls can just be friends, and it can work out just fine.
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    My bestfriend is moving on Friday :( he's dating my girl best friend. He always gives me advice and we were bestfriends since the minute we met :( I am gonna miss him so much
    nicolealderman11 nicolealderman11 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I didn't know what true friendship was until I met my best friend. We met a year ago, when my life was at it's worse. Everyone thought they were no hope for me to change, I got on...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 3

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    Help!!!!!! He's joining the US Army!!!!!! :'( >.< my best friend is the love of my life, and he knows this. :3 but this Wednesday he will be marrying the US Army, and as a loyal...
    LizanDrew0906 LizanDrew0906 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I have always seen best friend do everything together, even after high school they are still together. I had friend in high school but know of them really stayed with me, we talk...
    ashleyd10117 ashleyd10117 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    So it was me and Ingrid since 3rd grade ! Then in 4th grade Vincent came he is such a bad boy !! Vincent sat next to me and started to bother me so I told myself "I need to get...
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    He is the kindest soul you could ever wanna meet. He understands me more than anyone >.< ive known him under a year. But it feels like my whole life. I was nervous when I told...
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    After posting about my best friend and my ex yesterday, I received a message from my best friend, he came to visit and explained himself to me. I'm really happy that he has...
    hayl13 hayl13 16-17, F Jul 16

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    My best friend Angelica. We've been friends for 10 years. She knows most of my secrets (I haven't told her I'm bi), and I hope I know most of hers lol.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 1

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    My best friend came up for a visit from the Caribbean. We first met about 10 years ago. We had both been walking the docks in the Canaries, looking for crew positions to cross...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I have the greatest friends ever!! I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world and it just so happens it was only by chance I met them all . I love u guys 😄✌️
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    hi everyone im new here this is kinda long ,my first experience was when i was in 8th grade well call him jon.anyway hw would always spend the weekend by my house we were like...
    reddboyyh reddboyyh 18-21, M Jun 30

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    I already have one and let me tell you something. He's a little sweet but he's no like the ones you imagine. He's a c*nt, we argue a lot, we call each other names and we have...
    WeWereNeverAlive WeWereNeverAlive 16-17, F Jul 7

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    It's more then our friendship I'll always treasure and cherish. It's the laughs, smiles, our "insane" moments. The times you were there for me during every tear cried, when you...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 1

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    Honestly i'd rather spend the day with my dog than with most people, a friend of mine had a girlfriend who literally told him its me or the dog... He said pack your **** haha i...
    HowLongWillWeBeWaiting HowLongWillWeBeWaiting 22-25, M Jul 14

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    My friend hates me, my friend tears me down, breaks my heart, steals my life and every breath i take. I have a friend, My friends lives in my head, makes my eyes look dead, and it...
    dizzydezzy02 dizzydezzy02 16-17, F Jul 4

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    My friend hates me, my friend tears me down, breaks my heart, steals my life and every breath i take. I have a friend, My friends lives in my head, makes my eyes look dead, and it...
    dizzydezzy02 dizzydezzy02 16-17, F Jul 4

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    he won't budge. he left me, someone who loves him more than life, for a girl he never met in person a ****** her the day he dumped me. and I'll still take him back. I want him to...
    depressedfuck29 depressedfuck29 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I've always had dogs. They are awesome, they love me no matter what, always pleased to see me. My furry friends have seen me through the good times and the bad. I hope I've always...
    Littlemisspixie Littlemisspixie 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    She's like Voltorb. She blends into the crowds.. hoping she doesn't get noticed or pointed out. She lashes out and runs every time someone gets too close. But the sad part is, she...
    Staplerz Staplerz 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    He shipped out July 8th and I don't know how to cope with the situation yet. I'm trying to be okay with it, but it's really hard when we spent every waking moment together. I need...
    rosykid rosykid 16-17, F Jul 16

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    She is totally amazing, and I can count on her for anything... Now, if she would just move back... Lol!
    PanTex PanTex 41-45, M Jun 28

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    Mine doesn't talk to me anymore.... he must be to good for me now. Oh wait....he has a gf now so I'm nothing: (
    theresa88 theresa88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    She's the first person to see me for who I am and love me for it anyway. We can hang out all day and just sing along to music we play over our iPhone speakers. She's kind-hearted...
    seabassep seabassep 18-21, M Jul 13

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    Who the ft are you to attempt to take my people away from me your the skum of the earth.
    shesamess45 shesamess45 46-50, F Jul 14

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    Me to :) I love you and miss you. You you the other side of me, the side ill never be the side that drives my cra-a-zy you you the better half of me, that half ill never be, we...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Debra punk came in as hater 2..at 7th cam in..Today Win..don't know the btch. .she is stalker 2
    dexrerpunk46 dexrerpunk46 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want to see myself like in the movies; With a gay best friend, a guy friend and a girl friend. :p lmao but I think that is too much to ask. I haven't found a best friend that is...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Yesterday night, I told my friend I was gay. I have never been so nervous in my whole life and I'm so glad I told her... After about an hour of panicking haha :) She was so...
    DannyTheManny DannyTheManny 16-17, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I really want a gay best friend :)
    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Ok summer has rolled around and I was full of enthusiasm and that magical feeling u get when schools out. Then. It. Deflated. Like a ballon with way too much air. my best friend...
    justfailedlife justfailedlife 13-15, F Jul 7

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    I used to think that i have a lot of best friends who i can count on. However, i end up having only 1 or no BFF at all... They do not think that i am their best friend. What am I...
    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Me and Jocelynn have been best friends since 7th grade. We did everything together. We became basically one person, we got older and nothing changed. As most teenagers do me and...
    marisolalexis marisolalexis 13-15, F Jun 30

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