I Think Every Girl Should Have A Gay Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    I Feel Awesome

    and let me tell you why...I have the two greatest gay friends in the world....Douglas Pressman and Robert Nuey!
    jesustherealone jesustherealone
    46-50
    Jul 14, 2012

    I think you're wrong.

    You become friends with who you become friends with. You don't just become friends with someone due to their sexuality, according to me that is.
    ihavenoideawhatsoever ihavenoideawhatsoever
    70+, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    My only true friends are gay.

    I love then and tell them everything and their fashion sense is a million times better than mine.
    mvillevamp2013 mvillevamp2013
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    I think the queer community deserves to be more

    than some cisgender heterosexual girl's little gay token friend. Maybe even treated like people and not accessories. And we all know you mean some skinny fashionable "sassy" stereotype of a cis man anyways. These groups need to stop. A real ally wouldn't see someone's sexuality...
    CincinnatiSubway CincinnatiSubway
    18-21, T
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    Best Friends...

    I would like to have a gay guy best friend. That's it. :)
    Luna80 Luna80
    31-35, F
    Feb 26, 2013

    I met my gay best friend about 2 years ago

    and I don't know how I've functioned without him before! I remember girls always saying that they wanted a Gay Best friend and I never knew I wanted one until I actually had one lol
    meow1019 meow1019
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2015

    Dancing Queen

    Dear TomMy boy, my handsome boy. My soft Southern lad. It's your scary Northerner here....My unlikely friend, my immoral moral compass....They played Dancing Queen last night. Because that was your funeral song - none of us can hear it now without thinking of you. Bittersweet...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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