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I Think Everyone Has Some Degree of Shallowness

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    Yeah I Am Shallow...

    okay....so I am terribly shallow.... I have this huge thing.. I mean... when i was younger, I would give everyone I saw a chance to show me they were decent...and i made a ton of really nasty friends... these days... if I dun like ur look... I wont give a second chance.. I...
    Hhaawke Hhaawke 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    It's Human Nature

    There is nothing to be ashamed about. We are all built differently, it's how one chooses to convey those feelings that has more of an impact on the masses.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    It's Obscene

    Well I was calling my guy on his shallowness a couple fridays ago when I realized he wouldn't even like me if he didn't think I was as physically attractive as he did and then I found myself texting my best friend today about how I'm preping my suitcase with my cutest and most...
    MrsRight MrsRight 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Honestly, I Do!

    I am the first to admit, that a good looking guy can almost always get my attention! I do notice beauty on the outside and how! =p But, my shallowness is very small scale (or I like to believe so!) because being pretty isn't enough to KEEP my attention. If it were true, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Shallowness Is Sanity.

    Religion, romance, philosophy, art... None of those things do much more than scratch the surface of the human mind, because under that surface there is nothing but an animal. A creature that is not evil nor good, but merely selfish. None of us are as deep as we think we are...
    Cracked Cracked 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2011

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    Of Course They Do!

    I am not wholly shallow and do value a great personality just as much as looks but i truely believe we all have some shallowness in us. For instance i like to keep fit and healthy and i value my own body because you only get one. Medication and surgery will only get you so far...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2008

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    I See It In Myself, Unfortunately...

    March 22, 2011  While I'm far from beautiful, I don't spend a lot of time ranting over how little attention my plain-ness affords me. How can I complain, when I know that the same shallowness which no doubt contributes to others ignoring me lurks within my own mind as well...
    FeatherInTheWind FeatherInTheWind 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    I find people utterly fascinating. I have been thinking about my youngest step cousin a lot lately. Watching her grow up in leaps and bounds because I only saw them once a year...
    SmashedUpSanity SmashedUpSanity 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In a lot of ways this site has given me different ways to view life. At one point in time this site was a place where I felt like I could honestly speak my mind. It was a friend...
    xxmisslynnxx xxmisslynnxx 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I believe reason is innate-- we are all born with it. Some of us reason scientifically, some of us reason spiritually, some of us reason philosophically. . . but we all reason...
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    No matter how hard it is to love someone, regardless of their flaws or of some kind of pain they have caused unto you, i believe that everyone deserves to be loved. No one should...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    There's no reason why anyone shouldn't be loved. Some people have no idea what how love (or lack of it) can alter a person's development and outlook on life. Everyone is human...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I believe that everyone on this planet was put here with another person who is their true love. The ultimate goal in life is to find that person. I wish each and every one of you...
    Cramsey2 Cramsey2 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    everyone is pretty when they do that one thing. They smile. It's not the smile that celebrities do when they are posing for a shot. it's not the smile when you are taking a...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Everyone is worth something. I may not be the one to love you but someone will. I do my best to treat others well. I've been treated badly too much not to. I hope you all find the...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I feel like everyone hates me. I feel so invisible
    01sparkly 01sparkly 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Even though they may feel no one cares there is always someone that they don't realize loves them and always thinks about them and wants to help them be happy
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    imagen someone going through their worst day of thier life they are just about to break and fall apart so they walk in the streets and look around.... nobody cares... but if the...
    butterflies1212 butterflies1212 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I talked someone out of committing suicide.
    julia212 julia212 13-15, F Mar 31

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    I think serial killers or psychopaths are attractive. Even when they say people are merely instruments, materials to them. When people like that or who has a resemblance to those...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    Sometimes when I'm really really sad i ask god why doesn't he take me. Sometimes I wonder, maybe he doesn't let me die because he has perfect plans for me. Maybe he is going to...
    Musicgirl32558 Musicgirl32558 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Like stomach pains? Yeah, whoever or whatever designed the human body really wasn't thinking about us. I hate stomach pains! It's killing me right now
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 24

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    Whether you love someone or like someone love should not have a distance for you!!!
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    We all come on EP for the same reason which is to communicate with others. Some times the person who we are communicating with lets us down or misinterprets what we are saying or...
    KittenInGlasgow KittenInGlasgow 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    i think i alwayz annoy ma gf
    Jtz321 Jtz321 18-21, M Mar 25

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    I have a boyfriend, we've been dating for 6 months. He thinks he's found his true love, but I think that I love my best friend. I dont know what to do.
    EvilTeddyBear22 EvilTeddyBear22 16-17, F Mar 31

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    Why are some people so freaking weird? They expect us not to judge and be open minded but some of y'all are just complete freaks. Do y'all even read what y'all post? Like omg. They...
    valeryxo valeryxo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    "Some" crazy people? Try A LOT of crazy people.
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 23

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    And that some one is me. :D :D :D
    XFallinAngelX XFallinAngelX 13-15, F Apr 2

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    I am probably one of the weirdest people you will meet. I wouldn't say I'm creepy weird... I would more say that I am annoying weird. I am not afraid to make weird animal noises...
    JamiLynn23 JamiLynn23 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I drove to this boy's house at 1am in the morning with my mum to stop him from killing himself
    cautionlost cautionlost 13-15, F Mar 31

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    A boy at my school hung himself this morning, such awful news. All the school was in tears so tragic R.I.P heavens gained another angel💕
    Margretbumblebee Margretbumblebee 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    It is amazing how quick love turns to hate...just sayin!
    nicky612 nicky612 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Give love you'll differently get love Thad's do sure
    usman1engnieer usman1engnieer 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    When people judge you coz of your sexuality
    Daniellestiller Daniellestiller 16-17 1 Response Apr 9

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    We all are unique and we all deserve to be loved.
    RequiemD RequiemD 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I know what it is like to notice love around you and not be able to take part in it. No one should have to go through that.
    Supercat8835 Supercat8835 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Even if its from the plant in your room or the pet you rub down an take care of...love is love and it feels good to receive it So when you get it, enjoy my friend cuz it feels...
    Laffalott Laffalott 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't care if you're skinny, fat, short, tall, pretty, ugly, good, bad, naughty, or nice. You are you and I'll accept you no matter what. When you are sad or lost...I'll be your...
    bulimicbixtch49 bulimicbixtch49 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The probable outcome This card shows you the outcome of your question based upon your current path. Remember, the future is always changing. If you don't like the outcome, this is...
    PsychicAnnaOnline PsychicAnnaOnline 41-45, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    From Seattle, Washington to Elizabethtown , Kentucky love for me and my boyfriend doesn't have a distance ;)
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F Apr 4

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    SUUUUCK MAH BEAR COCKK :0 PLS
    NinjaKitteh1999 NinjaKitteh1999 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 28

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    Cake is love. Cake is life.
    NinjaKitteh1999 NinjaKitteh1999 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I want to know people who I can count on...that will stick arround and endure the test of time. Not just fade away like autum leaves. Anyone out there like this?
    ConceCouple ConceCouple 22-25, M Apr 3

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    How do I know if I like a guy? - social retard here
    freeebird freeebird 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I texted this girl on here and I asked her for her first name. Just so I could get to know her and then I asked her what year of high school she was in and she blocked me. I was...
    purpleemandem purpleemandem 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I think everyone does sometimes. But then, I think that if I had the opportunity to change anything, I wouldn't because one little fix could change everything about yourself...
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    there's this guy i really like and he agreed to chill with me over spring break. so today is my birthday and he hasn't texted or talked to me throughout the entire break and just...
    cami014 cami014 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    I love my mom and my grandma but growing up was sometimes really hard for me. I remember waking up in the middle of the night when I was really little so i could bury my head under...
    bsmirror bsmirror 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    i still have yet to meet a person..friend or lover... who makes an effort to actually hear/read the things i say/write .. whether it be important or not.. Whenever i try talking...
    destinyisfate destinyisfate 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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