I Think Everyone Has Some Degree of Shallowness

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    Naturally

    We all have standards and expectations for ourselves and tend to snub those who don't hold themselves to the same bar. People who are intelligent tend to be unimpressed toward less intelligent people, the physically fit are put off by the unhealthy, rich people look down on the...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2008

    Shallowness Is Sanity.

    Religion, romance, philosophy, art... None of those things do much more than scratch the surface of the human mind, because under that surface there is nothing but an animal. A creature that is not evil nor good, but merely selfish. None of us are as deep as we think we are...
    Cracked Cracked
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 2, 2011

    Yeah I Am Shallow...

    okay....so I am terribly shallow.... I have this huge thing.. I mean... when i was younger, I would give everyone I saw a chance to show me they were decent...and i made a ton of really nasty friends... these days... if I dun like ur look... I wont give a second chance.. I...
    Hhaawke Hhaawke
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2013

    Of Course They Do!

    I am not wholly shallow and do value a great personality just as much as looks but i truely believe we all have some shallowness in us. For instance i like to keep fit and healthy and i value my own body because you only get one. Medication and surgery will only get you so far...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2008

    Honestly, I Do!

    I am the first to admit, that a good looking guy can almost always get my attention! I do notice beauty on the outside and how! =p But, my shallowness is very small scale (or I like to believe so!) because being pretty isn't enough to KEEP my attention. If it were true, I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 28, 2009

    It's Human Nature

    There is nothing to be ashamed about. We are all built differently, it's how one chooses to convey those feelings that has more of an impact on the masses.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 1, 2011
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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