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I Think Everyone Has Some Degree of Shallowness

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 144 People

    It's Obscene

    Well I was calling my guy on his shallowness a couple fridays ago when I realized he wouldn't even like me if he didn't think I was as physically attractive as he did and then I found myself texting my best friend today about how I'm preping my suitcase with my cutest and most...
    MrsRight MrsRight 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    I See It In Myself, Unfortunately...

    March 22, 2011  While I'm far from beautiful, I don't spend a lot of time ranting over how little attention my plain-ness affords me. How can I complain, when I know that the same shallowness which no doubt contributes to others ignoring me lurks within my own mind as well...
    InvariableAlteration InvariableAlteration 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Of Course They Do!

    I am not wholly shallow and do value a great personality just as much as looks but i truely believe we all have some shallowness in us. For instance i like to keep fit and healthy and i value my own body because you only get one. Medication and surgery will only get you so far...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2008

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    It's Human Nature

    There is nothing to be ashamed about. We are all built differently, it's how one chooses to convey those feelings that has more of an impact on the masses.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Honestly, I Do!

    I am the first to admit, that a good looking guy can almost always get my attention! I do notice beauty on the outside and how! =p But, my shallowness is very small scale (or I like to believe so!) because being pretty isn't enough to KEEP my attention. If it were true, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Ain't That The Truth !

    and ain't that a *****...mf
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M Aug 1, 2010

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    Yeah I Am Shallow...

    okay....so I am terribly shallow.... I have this huge thing.. I mean... when i was younger, I would give everyone I saw a chance to show me they were decent...and i made a ton of really nasty friends... these days... if I dun like ur look... I wont give a second chance.. I...
    Hhaawke Hhaawke 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Shallowness Is Sanity.

    Religion, romance, philosophy, art... None of those things do much more than scratch the surface of the human mind, because under that surface there is nothing but an animal. A creature that is not evil nor good, but merely selfish. None of us are as deep as we think we are...
    Cracked Cracked 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2011

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    Naturally

    We all have standards and expectations for ourselves and tend to snub those who don't hold themselves to the same bar. People who are intelligent tend to be unimpressed toward less intelligent people, the physically fit are put off by the unhealthy, rich people look down on the...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2008

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    I hope you all have a day as bright as your smiles :D
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    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    Well I suppose it's a theory!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    Wow ive never heard this theory before...
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    Hart me and I will hart you back . Love you. Lexi
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    My profile picture is me holding my sweet grandma'a hand while we were at the doctor's office. You see, my grandma raised me since I was five (because my mom was killed.) My...
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    We are more likely to add you if you have a non EP profile image
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    Life For Many Within This World Others Cannot See; and it's because they choose in seeing, hearing and believing only in themselves. http...
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    It's gone backwards quite well though, perhaps that counts. It's movement at least. The direction is all that is debatable. The old Greeks said that the original men were close to...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    How many women are going to join this group I wonder. And will they be good looking?
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    Starting with me... Yay being weird is awesome!!
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