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I Think Everyone Has Some Degree of Shallowness

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 147 People

    Yeah I Am Shallow...

    okay....so I am terribly shallow.... I have this huge thing.. I mean... when i was younger, I would give everyone I saw a chance to show me they were decent...and i made a ton of really nasty friends... these days... if I dun like ur look... I wont give a second chance.. I...
    Hhaawke Hhaawke 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I See It In Myself, Unfortunately...

    March 22, 2011  While I'm far from beautiful, I don't spend a lot of time ranting over how little attention my plain-ness affords me. How can I complain, when I know that the same shallowness which no doubt contributes to others ignoring me lurks within my own mind as well...
    InvariableAlteration InvariableAlteration 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    Naturally

    We all have standards and expectations for ourselves and tend to snub those who don't hold themselves to the same bar. People who are intelligent tend to be unimpressed toward less intelligent people, the physically fit are put off by the unhealthy, rich people look down on the...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2008

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    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Shallowness Is Sanity.

    Religion, romance, philosophy, art... None of those things do much more than scratch the surface of the human mind, because under that surface there is nothing but an animal. A creature that is not evil nor good, but merely selfish. None of us are as deep as we think we are...
    Cracked Cracked 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2011

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    Honestly, I Do!

    I am the first to admit, that a good looking guy can almost always get my attention! I do notice beauty on the outside and how! =p But, my shallowness is very small scale (or I like to believe so!) because being pretty isn't enough to KEEP my attention. If it were true, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 28, 2009

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    It's Human Nature

    There is nothing to be ashamed about. We are all built differently, it's how one chooses to convey those feelings that has more of an impact on the masses.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Ain't That The Truth !

    and ain't that a *****...mf
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M Aug 1, 2010

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    It's Obscene

    Well I was calling my guy on his shallowness a couple fridays ago when I realized he wouldn't even like me if he didn't think I was as physically attractive as he did and then I found myself texting my best friend today about how I'm preping my suitcase with my cutest and most...
    MrsRight MrsRight 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    Of Course They Do!

    I am not wholly shallow and do value a great personality just as much as looks but i truely believe we all have some shallowness in us. For instance i like to keep fit and healthy and i value my own body because you only get one. Medication and surgery will only get you so far...
    SammyCymru SammyCymru 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2008

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    Omg I know two people who has never seen or heard of each other live in different parts of the U.S. Who look sooo much alike . Maybe it's just me msg me for pics lol
    shiyinglu shiyinglu 13-15, F Dec 8

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    There's power in sharing yours.
    Femmeheartsoul Femmeheartsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I think there is something wrong with me that makes it impossible for men to love me. I've never had a real relationship, I've just had men who use me for sex and discard me when I...
    AutumnCarielle AutumnCarielle 22-25, F Dec 7

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    You ever wake up and think, "Damn, what was that?" Lately I've been wondering a lot about the run on of my life that seems to serve no purpose with the exception of entertaining...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M Dec 5

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    not really that serious but.... I think something is wrong with me because I'm in a Good Relationship kinda rocky right now but anyways I think there's something wrong with me...
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    theirs a soul mate for everything and everyone
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I believe a soul mate can be a person of the opposite sex OR same sex. A soul mate isn't necessarily someone to "mate" with for life, but someone who will be your "mate/friend...
    crschlossr crschlossr 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    If you have a broken heart this is how to heal it; accept that you will have to go through some pain. It is an unavoidable truth that if you loved enough to be heartbroken, you...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    Moving He came to the rescue...(my illusion still) I called him the one I call the abuser that was nice (however opportunistic) the rest of him is still the same. there was...
    dhanadevereaux dhanadevereaux 56-60 Nov 30

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    Sometime you have to walk away from what you want to get what you deserve.
    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    if you want to gain some usefull experience and some confidence try Autocrossing they set up a course in a parking lot with cones and you run through as fat as you can there is...
    dave6879 dave6879 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I always tell people "... Yeah but that person hates me." In a joking manner but sometimes I truly believe it.
    katykinns666 katykinns666 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I have my good days and my bad days.. Lately it feels like more bad than good. My boyfriend wants to have a talk tonight. Either we both drastically change or it won't work.. I'm...
    LovelyLonley LovelyLonley 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I think you have ruined this site/app for me sir. How can someone just be so cruel. FriggenGenius31 you sir are cruel! I shake my head in your direction.
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I'm not talking about every chick on here but some of yall ranting and raving for attention just TRYNA start drama that **** not cool man
    diandre diandre 18-21, M Nov 22

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    I can't meet any expectations? I feel like everybody moves a step ahead of me and no matter how hard I try I almost never catch up, and this kind of feeling makes me question if...
    silviamj5 silviamj5 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I think?!! I KNOW that there is something wrong with me, but hey! What can I really do about it?!!
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Lately I've been feeling like my friends don't want me around anymore. My best friend for ten years was studying in the same city, however I quit and moved back to my parents house...
    Feringer Feringer 18-21 1 Response Nov 29

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    It happened again I think, an unintentional offense, something shared that must have been a mistake in understanding what was said. You know who you are and I hope that...
    roleplayerjust4fun roleplayerjust4fun 51-55, M Dec 8

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    Yeah, there's definitely something wrong with me. And I know what it is. It's the fact that I run. I've always been a runner. My dad would make my brother and I do wind sprints in...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    My ex broke up with me last Monday...I slept with someone everyday since. There were a few times I slept with two guys in one day. So 13 people in 10 days. I knows that's not...
    delilahcruz delilahcruz 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If people can just see past physical image, the world would be a better place.
    ofmiceandme ofmiceandme 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    yups even the ugly people need love
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    😰😰😰😰😰 headache sucks
    prtctul prtctul 26-30, F Nov 22

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    soul mates don't need to have a sexual relationship. i believe we all have more than one soul mate. i actually believe my past lover was a soul mate. i believe we were ment for...
    courtcourtv courtcourtv 18-21, F Nov 29

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    ""In the enriching of marriage, the big things are the luttle things. There must be constant appreciation for each other and thoughtful demonstration or gratitude. A couple must...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F Dec 2

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    Christianity is the adult version of a Santa Claus. Makes people believe the good things others provide for you is attributed to a magical being.
    TheAtheistAdvocate TheAtheistAdvocate 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    KARL MARX Never ran a company. Never held political office. Never oversaw any accounts. Never even held a job - ANY job. Was supported throughout his life by his friend, Friedrich...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 26

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    Well you never know where you might meet you true love :) You have know idea whether they are your neighbor or across the globe. Just always keep your eyes open and keep looking if...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I firmly believe tickling is one of the funnest and most fulfilling acts that a couple can take part in with each other. The skin is the largest organ of the body and there is...
    ChristianKekoa90 ChristianKekoa90 22-25, M Dec 6

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    And that's why I fit in so well
    skeyestryker skeyestryker 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 20

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    Get a room get a girlfriend or boyfriend! LoL
    ivetteee ivetteee 18-21, F Dec 4

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    Note to self check profiles before you engage in convo
    xshilx xshilx 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I know there is... but I like it... even when I feel like I won't make it... I feel wonderful when I do I'm not there yet but I pray I will be...
    heysmellthis heysmellthis 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    So it didn't play out as planned... Her family was there to some degree and it made sexual thoughts abit awkward (even for me:/) That said, I chatted quite abit w her friend...
    CuriouslyIntrigued11 CuriouslyIntrigued11 31-35, M 50 mins ago

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    I don't know where to start this off, but I'll just first say that I can't do anything remarkable. I'm not special. I'm not good at anything. I'm just ordinary. I try so hard to...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 5 days ago

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