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I Think Failed Relationships Change People

No matter how it ended. You will never be the same. 5,859 People

    Relationships that have failed definatly change a persons feelings and personality. No doubt. Threw all the crap ive been threw and the way people have treated me, it gets to the...
    MajorasAngel97 MajorasAngel97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Dumped!!! - I was dumped at Christmas, New Year and then Valentine's Day - by the same guy - but I will never make that mistake a 4th time lol :)
    Sparda78 Sparda78 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I Am Okay When It Fails - I guess I am a realist and have come to the point that nothing last for ever.  Live life to it's fullest, give 100% and then at the end, move on...
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    Exercise Can Heal a Broken Heart. - I had gone to visit my doctor for some random reason, I either had a sinus infection or my asthma was acting up, and before I had a chance to...
    VegaLove VegaLove 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    Gun Shy. - I've been on this site for a little while now, quietly watching and reading and taking in the new surroundings. I still don't know anyone. Still haven't quite figured...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 17 Responses Sep 12, 2010

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    I've lost someone who was never mine. And I never thought it would hurt this bad. My heart is broken, and I don't know what to do; I wanna die....
    anderrss16 anderrss16 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Have been stuck in this relationship out of convenience. Can you relate?
    whitesnake7hard whitesnake7hard 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Of Course They Do. - Failed relationships ALWAYS change people. Whether they know it or not. I'm talking about people that have been in serious relationships though, not some silly...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F May 12, 2011

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    The Sequence : - You meet. You exchange numbers. You text. You make calls. You become friends. You talk a lot! You become best friends. Life seems changing.. getting better. Now...
    TiredOfRunning TiredOfRunning 18-21, F 4 Responses May 2, 2013

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    I think some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together😕
    Promisesarebullshit Promisesarebullshit 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Definitely changed Me for the Better
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Failed Relationships Are Not Your Identity - I think that as people go from one failed relationship to another, they ultimately want to lay blame on the other person. (I know I do...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 4, 2013

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    they have changed me. I'm too scared of getting attached to someone now, scared of being let down. Once I start to get pretty close to someone I back off and think 'I don't need...
    lovers0fthelight lovers0fthelight 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    I know for a fact mine did...
    WatchOutItsKyle WatchOutItsKyle 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    ~ SELF WORTH ~ Building, or rebuilding, self~worth after the break up of a damaging relationship starts w/stopping the negative thoughts of the 1 that is no longer there...
    pyeito pyeito 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Yeah, all the invested energy and time just to have some who said they love you become an awful ebem
    spaeth spaeth 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Fail?? If you don't change then you will continue making the same mistakes everyone calls "failures" live & learn. I know personally that my failed past relationship has made me a...
    combatbarbie01 combatbarbie01 31-35, F Dec 5, 2013

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    Not Necessarily So - I think that the title of this group would be better suited if it was "I think failed relationships have the potential to change people".  In order for...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 24 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    I finished my schooling was very innocent then ,reached college ,unlucky fell in love from my side truly ,deeply ,madly ,but it dint last as he left me for another girl .this shock...
    softnhot softnhot 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    Failed relationships makes me strong person .. Don't let the pain rule your heart , let the happiness rule your heart ..
    ladyYui ladyYui 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Change For Good? - I feel like I'm in the metamorphosis phase of my life. It’s scary to think what I will look like when I come out! 7 months of separation and I know that I've...
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 5 Responses May 16, 2012

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    A failed relationship can change a person. I did. At first I thought I failed. Not true. The relationship did. I changed how I perceived what I thought was the cause of the breakup...
    Erik33 Erik33 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    Everything happens for a reason, so you have to take what you can learn from your experience and grow from it.
    khokho204 khokho204 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I've been through many breakups and most of them were very hard for me. I tried not to let these experiences change my views on relationships, but I couldn't stop my mind from over...
    LastTrueGentleman LastTrueGentleman 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Relationships complements us, makes us see the brighter side of life. A lot of us put too much expectations that ends a relationship badly. We forget, for any relationship to...
    Gladacious Gladacious 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    You know most of us have been there one time in our lives, perhaps in high school, a failed relationship for whatever reasons and sometimes after the breakup there's a remorse...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I recently got back together with the man who broke my heart a few years ago. We were together and happy, I'd just taken him home to meet my family out of state. And then one day...
    ladyofmanylives ladyofmanylives 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Why cant i move on from broken relationship ! I know i still love her but is been over for ages and i still cant move on !!!
    kuklinski69 kuklinski69 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I can only remember in hindsight the words of my ex: "I will put you in your place" (as she smirked ever so demonically). Indeed she did. She had an agenda. She had a mission in...
    Matthew633 Matthew633 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I posted a previous experience about something I was going through with an ex. It was always what I did wrong and how I was a bad person and this that and the other. There's more...
    Dessy101 Dessy101 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    PLEASE, I need guy advice So there is this guy at my work- Geoff. He is a member of the tennis club I work at. He's somewhat of a player and rough around the edges and about 27...
    Speifer Speifer 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Would you get back into a relationship with a person that is controlling of every thing in your life and theirs?? I mean to the point that they tell you what to wear????
    bub1982 bub1982 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Destiny Beckoned My Name, Drew Me To You, But Destiny Loves To Play Games - I have recently been made to understand that I'm not as important as I thought I was in my (no longer...
    laniferous laniferous 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    I've learnt not to rush things, don't let her heart rule your head, only move out if you can absolutely afford it, and communication is the key. If there's a problem, talk it out...
    oxcycler89 oxcycler89 22-25, M Jan 27

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    Is it possible to be friends with an ex? I don't talk to any of my ex boyfriends but I wish I did sometimes at least to know they are ok
    Searching4newbeginnings Searching4newbeginnings 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    You're not the same as you used to be Now you're the monster but you don't see Quit blaming our pain ALL on me You're not innocent stop pretending to be This is your fault...
    Vixen2010 Vixen2010 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    & Hopefully you come out as a stronger person in the end. Idk.. Do you? Or do you just go on living the same lifestyle that drove them out of your life to begin with? I don't even...
    Vixen2010 Vixen2010 22-25, F 7 mins ago

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    I think if you can learn one lesson from each failed relationship you are one up on many.
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    Failed relationships make you a better person. It helps you to see who you are, and what you want in a future relationship or person.
    HawkEye13 HawkEye13 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    That They Do. - It makes you think be for you jump in to the next relationship
    gstormfab gstormfab 46-50, M Nov 10, 2013

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    I was broken I met you, I didn't blink an eye, you talked too much You were too young, too reckless, too opinionated, spoke too freely, jumped around like a puppy - I loved it You...
    Bells83 Bells83 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 7

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    To Be Or Not To Be ..... - Dougs'  poem initiated some heavy thinking! A reflection upon the dynamics of "bad relationships" as opposed to destructive endings of relationships...
    liguidgold liguidgold 41-45, F Mar 22, 2012

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    Yes, It Surely Does. - People talk. People lie. People cheat. People change their ways. People do stupid things. People walk out of your life. People hurt you. People make you...
    TiredOfRunning TiredOfRunning 18-21, F May 2, 2013

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    I Am Changing For The Better. - It has certainly changed me for the better.I thought all i needed in this world was a loving and kind partner and together we could face the world.I...
    Flolin Flolin 36-40 2 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    Failed relationships are for new perspective on what type of people you should have in your life. Although it will hurt you, it will only be temporary. Besides, if they didn't stay...
    jahfeel jahfeel 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    For people to grow they need to experience and learn from failures. As long as you keep getting up after getting knocked down your not a loser.
    long4u long4u 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Failed relationships sometimes makes you a better person.. :)
    hellothere00 hellothere00 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I think this is the REALEST topic I've seen so far.
    spreadthelove22 spreadthelove22 22-25, F Feb 4

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    It changes your way of thinking. Your outlook for next relationships. It steals your happiness and makes you insecure. You come out as a different person, someone you thought you...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    Yeah. My past relationship changed me a lot. Lol. It taught me how to be strong. Lol. It hurts though
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Then And Now - For sure they have changed me. I started out thinking I was a great judge of people and that first bitter hurt from a broken heart almost killed me. So then I...
    VoteForPedro VoteForPedro 51-55, F 13 Responses Sep 6, 2010