I Think Flirting Can Make For a Brighter Day

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,005 People

    I told the girl I liked

    that she was really pretty. (It was the first time I ever talked to her) And she said, "thank u *giggles* I mean, that made my day" So don't feel bad to compliment that one special person you feel strong for. I know it's scary, but it goes well (just compliment them, don't...
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    Oct 3, 2015


    I'm working at the moment on a series of designs I call 'Badinage' (Flirtation). My inspiration is the fact that men are becoming more difficult to both 'entrap' and interest. Especially with the advent of social networking sites where men can go on cam with a girl, and they can...
    Peri23 Peri23
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

    I think flirting is great it's fun

    and does not harm anyone it lifts my day I have quite a few young men that flirt with me at work and I love it !!
    sue968 sue968
    61-65, F
    12 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    I Can flirt online or in texts messages

    but I can't flirt face to face...maybe I feel shy...
    AreejMalik AreejMalik
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2015

    While I really do enjoy flirting,

    I can't just hit on random girls like most guys do. I have to see something about them that sparks an interest and I need to know just enough about them to know what will make them laugh and smile. Sometimes 30 seconds conversation is enough to start flirting a bit, but I just...
    anon8369 anon8369
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    I am not used to flirtation,

    and work in an environment were it is not allowed. I do enjoy the attention when men flirt with me though.
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    2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    It is nice when someone can put a smile on my

    face and then I can do the same for them :)
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Nov 19, 2015


    I think a little innocent flirting can make a day much more fun, that's for sure!
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    I love when men flirt,

    oh and yes I love to flirt back. I have missed a man saying sweet things to me. To have a smile on your face after that someone says the right words....makes my day :)
    luvmegd luvmegd
    41-45, F
    25 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    Who doesn't love to flirt?

    ?? Lol XD it can make someone's gloomy so much better! :) Just a little playful banter never hurt anyone :P and it can be a lot of fun XD especially if the guy I'm flirting with (around my age of course) is like really cute, funny, kind, and has a nice smile ^_^
    drama16queen1997 drama16queen1997
    Jul 8, 2015
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    Aug 23, 2015

    No harm is done. Always nice to attract interest

    and image such boosts another's confidence.
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8
    46-50, M
    Jun 11, 2015

    Many people think that flirting is bad.

    But there are plenty good reasons to flirt. People may judge you for this. But who cares? Flirting is a carefree and fun way to interact with people.
    Angieinthewonderland Angieinthewonderland
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    I am a huge flirt and will pretty much flirt

    with everyone. I don't see anything wrong with it - it's just a fun way to communicate with someone :)
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    1 Response Mar 5, 2015

    I like flirting. Its usually harmless

    and i think it makes the person your flirting with feel good to. Unless its a creepy flirting thing
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    Aug 7, 2015


    I haven't flirted much lately but I am willing and ready so feel free to flirt with me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Jul 8, 2009
    mehak91 mehak91
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 1

    Strawberry Shortcake

    Au Natural I make no efforts to flirt. None what so ever...   My eyes, smile, the sensuality I release, my laugh, jokes and my open mind-ness do the job.  Oh and my stories, gosh....Have any of you read my ep writings? Those who never have, well you got lots of catch up to do...
    HedoZen HedoZen
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2011

    smiling and saying thank you actually listening

    to people. a little touch on the arm...nice when reciprocated too.
    honeypot4you honeypot4you
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Feb 18
    Linkit32 Linkit32
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    When a woman smiles and gives you a second look.

    When she perks up when you say hi. It gets my heart pumping and puts a smile on my face for the rest of the day.
    PhilMD PhilMD
    46-50, M
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    I just went out to walk my dog around the

    apartment complex one last time before bed, and I passed by an apt with awesome Halloween lights. They just so happen to be on their balcony so I yell up to them (since they are on the 3rd floor) "I love y'all's Halloween lights" and the guy leans over the railing and yells back...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2015

    Nothing wrong in flirting.

    ..just having some fun and making someone else smile...life can be too hard sometimes...I like older men who have experience in treating with ladies...and I think married men who aren´t quite exactly happy in their marriages should get some pleasant time here too...nothing wrong...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    Finally single after 9 years

    and ready to enjoy my life.
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    11 Responses Apr 1

    Esteem Building Through Smiles

    Compliments given freely can enhance a persons day at the worst of times. So often our self-esteem is measured internally by how we believe others may percieve us(right or wrong)a little good natured flirting here and there can let someone know that they are valued,appreciated...
    dubkebab dubkebab
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2009

    Are we saying a lingering glance,

    a wink in a crowded bar? A text message strewn with innuendo with a partner? Or sharing erotic stories and or pictures with strangers?
    HoldenC13 HoldenC13
    51-55, M
    Apr 24, 2015

    A Wink And A Smile Can Make One's Day

    I believe that a wink and a smile can go a long way to making someone's day. It's a mild diversion from the complexities of life and it's certainly not doing any harm, particularly to the recipient, and that's as far as it will ever go with me. Now that I have been married for a...
    Skyy7 Skyy7
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Nov 6, 2012

    Its fun, isn't it? For a long time I didn't

    have the confidence to do it very well at ALL. But, as I've grown sexier with age, it just comes naturally. ;)
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    Jan 28

    Ordinarily I'm your average,

    quiet, thoughtful type. But my work involves dealing with people. Often in varying states of distress! Needless to say one has to tread carefully in these situations. But when dealing with colleagues or friends. I have to admit. I am a wicked flirt! Especially when I notice...
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Jul 30, 2015

    Convenient Store Hot Spot

    I know it brightens my day when peeps try and flirt with me. It's so cute in my real world when guys get up the balls to approach me. I seem to get hit on alot at gas stations here are just a handful of my experiences. Gentleman whose entire body was covered in tats.. even...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine
    31-35, F
    28 Responses Mar 23, 2011
    StevieP15 StevieP15
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2015

    how many times have you woke up just feeling

    amazing ? then even better complimenting complete strangers and striking very good convos up with them it brings out positive energy and brightens people up.
    MyraTomPhil MyraTomPhil
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 18

    I am useless at flirting,

    I have had friends point this out to me more than once. Maybe it is because I am am introvert. My attempts to flirt always ended badly. People that have this knack for flirting, is there a technique learned? Have you been taught ? Does it come natural to you ?
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    I agree that it certainly can,

    but it has to come from the right person, or be projected onto the right person. If some strange person who gives me the creeps tries to flirt with me, I'll feel uncomfortable. Not happy, because I wouldn't enjoy it. But if the person I have my eye on flirts with me... then yes...
    iSpyce iSpyce
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    Women usually think guys have a "type".

    I'm one of those men who can appreciate all different kinds of women. My favorites are (in no particular order): Busty/BBW Petite/Skinny Very tall (5"8+) Short Latina White Asian (esp Filipina or Chinese!) Black (I crush hard on Ciara) Ages 18 (no younger!) - 40 Brunette (top...
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    4 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    Providing you understand

    that it will go no further, and if you have a partner (wife hubby etc) you dont do anyghing to disrespect or hurt them, it can and normally is harmless fun.
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    hawkfan12 hawkfan12
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 18

    I Flirt!

    All the time!  I love it.  I think it's a lot of fun.  And I don't think there's anything wrong with it.  My husband has known since he met me what kind of gal I am.  I flirt with everyone!  Men, women, doesn't matter.  It's fun, and sometimes...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2010
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