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I Think Flirting Can Make For a Brighter Day

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    I like flirting. Its usually harmless

    and i think it makes the person your flirting with feel good to. Unless its a creepy flirting thing
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 7, 2015

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    Who doesn't love to flirt?

    ?? Lol XD it can make someone's gloomy so much better! :) Just a little playful banter never hurt anyone :P and it can be a lot of fun XD especially if the guy I'm flirting with (around my age of course) is like really cute, funny, kind, and has a nice smile ^_^
    drama16queen1997 drama16queen1997 18-21 1 Response Jul 8, 2015

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    Its fun, isn't it? For a long time I didn't

    have the confidence to do it very well at ALL. But, as I've grown sexier with age, it just comes naturally. ;)
    ifthethunderdontgetcha ifthethunderdontgetcha 41-45, M Jan 28

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    I like to "flirt" a bit.

    i'm never looking for anything deeper then making a pretty girl smile and feeling a little "wanted", even if for but a brief smile and warm words. im terrible at it though....hey....nice boobs.
    ugolliii ugolliii 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 20, 2015

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    The thrill of being taunted with feelings of

    desire...even if it's the most harmless of exchanges. A taste of acceptance that can remind us that regardless of how we feel in our everyday lives...in that moment we know we are worth something to somebody. Being able to pass an innocent smile or tease on to you that we both...
    RememberTomorrow RememberTomorrow 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2015

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    It is nice when someone can put a smile on my

    face and then I can do the same for them :)
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    When a woman smiles and gives you a second look.

    When she perks up when you say hi. It gets my heart pumping and puts a smile on my face for the rest of the day.
    PhilMD PhilMD 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 20, 2015

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    I love flirting; the best flirting is done

    subtly, with a look, a pause, a lingering touch...
    achingneed achingneed 70+, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    I am useless at flirting,

    I have had friends point this out to me more than once. Maybe it is because I am am introvert. My attempts to flirt always ended badly. People that have this knack for flirting, is there a technique learned? Have you been taught ? Does it come natural to you ?
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2015

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    Many people think that flirting is bad.

    But there are plenty good reasons to flirt. People may judge you for this. But who cares? Flirting is a carefree and fun way to interact with people.
    Angieinthewonderland Angieinthewonderland 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

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    :-)

    I haven't flirted much lately but I am willing and ready so feel free to flirt with me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I Flirt!

    All the time!  I love it.  I think it's a lot of fun.  And I don't think there's anything wrong with it.  My husband has known since he met me what kind of gal I am.  I flirt with everyone!  Men, women, doesn't matter.  It's fun, and sometimes...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2010

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    I agree that it certainly can,

    but it has to come from the right person, or be projected onto the right person. If some strange person who gives me the creeps tries to flirt with me, I'll feel uncomfortable. Not happy, because I wouldn't enjoy it. But if the person I have my eye on flirts with me... then yes...
    iSpyce iSpyce 31-35 2 Responses Aug 26, 2015

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 1, 2014

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    Convenient Store Hot Spot

    I know it brightens my day when peeps try and flirt with me. It's so cute in my real world when guys get up the balls to approach me. I seem to get hit on alot at gas stations here are just a handful of my experiences. Gentleman whose entire body was covered in tats.. even...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 29 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    I love when men flirt,

    oh and yes I love to flirt back. I have missed a man saying sweet things to me. To have a smile on your face after that someone says the right words....makes my day :)
    luvmegd luvmegd 41-45, F 30 Responses Oct 19, 2015

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    I Can flirt online or in texts messages

    but I can't flirt face to face...maybe I feel shy...
    AreejMalik AreejMalik 18-21, F 4 Responses May 8, 2015

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    Providing you understand

    that it will go no further, and if you have a partner (wife hubby etc) you dont do anyghing to disrespect or hurt them, it can and normally is harmless fun.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 24, 2015

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    Nothing wrong in flirting.

    ..just having some fun and making someone else smile...life can be too hard sometimes...I like older men who have experience in treating with ladies...and I think married men who aren´t quite exactly happy in their marriages should get some pleasant time here too...nothing wrong...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 4, 2015

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    A Wink And A Smile Can Make One's Day

    I believe that a wink and a smile can go a long way to making someone's day. It's a mild diversion from the complexities of life and it's certainly not doing any harm, particularly to the recipient, and that's as far as it will ever go with me. Now that I have been married for a...
    Skyy7 Skyy7 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    I am a huge flirt and will pretty much flirt

    with everyone. I don't see anything wrong with it - it's just a fun way to communicate with someone :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 5, 2015

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    Badinage

    I'm working at the moment on a series of designs I call 'Badinage' (Flirtation). My inspiration is the fact that men are becoming more difficult to both 'entrap' and interest. Especially with the advent of social networking sites where men can go on cam with a girl, and they can...
    Peri23 Peri23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    I think flirting is great it's fun

    and does not harm anyone it lifts my day I have quite a few young men that flirt with me at work and I love it !!
    sue968 sue968 56-60, F 14 Responses Apr 24, 2015

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    I am not used to flirtation,

    and work in an environment were it is not allowed. I do enjoy the attention when men flirt with me though.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

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    Linkit32 Linkit32 31-35 2 Responses Oct 19, 2015

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    Esteem Building Through Smiles

    Compliments given freely can enhance a persons day at the worst of times. So often our self-esteem is measured internally by how we believe others may percieve us(right or wrong)a little good natured flirting here and there can let someone know that they are valued,appreciated...
    dubkebab dubkebab 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Strawberry Shortcake

    Au Natural I make no efforts to flirt. None what so ever...   My eyes, smile, the sensuality I release, my laugh, jokes and my open mind-ness do the job.  Oh and my stories, gosh....Have any of you read my ep writings? Those who never have, well you got lots of catch up to do...
    HedoZen HedoZen 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    It's best to enjoy a wildflower in her natural

    space Tread softly, treat her gently and leave no undue trace Admire her form and loveliness, the smile on her face For if you took her selfishly, her vibrancy, it fades Her beauty and the joy it brings may only last for days And even if you coaxed her gently she may not like a...
    VeryBear VeryBear 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    I told the girl I liked

    that she was really pretty. (It was the first time I ever talked to her) And she said, "thank u *giggles* I mean, that made my day" So don't feel bad to compliment that one special person you feel strong for. I know it's scary, but it goes well (just compliment them, don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 3, 2015

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    While I really do enjoy flirting,

    I can't just hit on random girls like most guys do. I have to see something about them that sparks an interest and I need to know just enough about them to know what will make them laugh and smile. Sometimes 30 seconds conversation is enough to start flirting a bit, but I just...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 19, 2015

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    I just went out to walk my dog around the

    apartment complex one last time before bed, and I passed by an apt with awesome Halloween lights. They just so happen to be on their balcony so I yell up to them (since they are on the 3rd floor) "I love y'all's Halloween lights" and the guy leans over the railing and yells back...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2015

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    Ordinarily I'm your average,

    quiet, thoughtful type. But my work involves dealing with people. Often in varying states of distress! Needless to say one has to tread carefully in these situations. But when dealing with colleagues or friends. I have to admit. I am a wicked flirt! Especially when I notice...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jul 30, 2015

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    Are we saying a lingering glance,

    a wink in a crowded bar? A text message strewn with innuendo with a partner? Or sharing erotic stories and or pictures with strangers?
    HoldenC13 HoldenC13 51-55, M Apr 24, 2015

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    StevieP15 StevieP15 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2015

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    Women usually think guys have a "type".

    I'm one of those men who can appreciate all different kinds of women. My favorites are (in no particular order): Busty/BBW Petite/Skinny Very tall (5"8+) Short Latina White Asian (esp Filipina or Chinese!) Black (I crush hard on Ciara) Ages 18 (no younger!) - 40 Brunette (top...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 23, 2015

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    Innocent

    I think a little innocent flirting can make a day much more fun, that's for sure!
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 23, 2015

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    No harm is done. Always nice to attract interest

    and image such boosts another's confidence.
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 46-50, M Jun 11, 2015

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    Time will bring the real end of our trial One day they'll be no remnants No trace, no residual feelings within ya One day you won't remember me Your face will be the reason I smile...
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    It is the final day of the Explore More Summit about sex and sexuality, I am so very grateful to have been a part of this and to have heard so many great presentations from...
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    "I Don't Wanna Fight"THERE'S A PALE MOON IN THE SKYTHE KIND YOU MAKE YOUR WISHES ONLIKE THE LIGHT IN YOUR EYESTHE ONE I BUILD MY DREAMS UPONIT'S NOT HERE ANY LONGERSOMETHING...
    RolexRush RolexRush 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    These lyrics are words to live by. The Living Years Mike and the Machanics Every generation Blames the one before And all of their frustrations Come beating on your door I...
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