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I Think Flirting Can Make For a Brighter Day

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    I am not used to flirtation,

    and work in an environment were it is not allowed. I do enjoy the attention when men flirt with me though.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 23

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    A Wink And A Smile Can Make One's Day

    I believe that a wink and a smile can go a long way to making someone's day. It's a mild diversion from the complexities of life and it's certainly not doing any harm, particularly to the recipient, and that's as far as it will ever go with me. Now that I have been married for a...
    Skyy7 Skyy7 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Many people think that flirting is bad.

    But there are plenty good reasons to flirt. People may judge you for this. But who cares? Flirting is a carefree and fun way to interact with people.
    Angieinthewonderland Angieinthewonderland 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Innocent

    I think a little innocent flirting can make a day much more fun, that's for sure!
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Providing you understand

    that it will go no further, and if you have a partner (wife hubby etc) you dont do anyghing to disrespect or hurt them, it can and normally is harmless fun.
    Dasha11 Dasha11 56-60, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Can flirt online or in texts messages

    but I can't flirt face to face...maybe I feel shy...
    AreejMalik AreejMalik 18-21, F 4 Responses May 8

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    Irrumare I'm just a girl stood in front of a

    gent trembling as I imagine him peeling off my knickers. I'm just a girl unable to relent as he strips away my mask and brushes against me with his fingers. I'm just a girl whom he asks for consent to pursue his task as his hot breathe lingers. irrumare fellare touch me there...
    JosephinaBallerina JosephinaBallerina 31-35, F 23 Responses 4 days ago

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    When a woman smiles and gives you a second look.

    When she perks up when you say hi. It gets my heart pumping and puts a smile on my face for the rest of the day.
    PhilMD PhilMD 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Women usually think guys have a "type".

    I'm one of those men who can appreciate all different kinds of women. My favorites are (in no particular order): Busty/BBW Petite/Skinny Very tall (5"8+) Short Latina White Asian (esp Filipina or Chinese!) Black (I crush hard on Ciara) Ages 18 (no younger!) - 40 Brunette (top...
    Mg7785 Mg7785 26-30, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    StevieP15 StevieP15 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Ordinarily I'm your average,

    quiet, thoughtful type. But my work involves dealing with people. Often in varying states of distress! Needless to say one has to tread carefully in these situations. But when dealing with colleagues or friends. I have to admit. I am a wicked flirt! Especially when I notice...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    I do think that flirting can make

    for a brighter day. I used to work in the bar business years ago when I was young. It was fun being in that environment, especially being a single gal. The music set the pace of the room and everyone had fun dancing and flirting, flirting and dancing, it was a whole different...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    A Nice Diversion

    I think flirting during the day is a good tension releiver and lots of fun for those icky days at work. It's even better if no one else around has any idea of what is going on. 
    snoose78 snoose78 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2009

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    It Sure Can

    What a high it can put both people on and it  feels so good and invigerating. It builds confidence and can even improve ones communication skills because you have to show some finesse in order for it to really be effective. lol
    IamGone IamGone 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 9, 2010

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    No harm is done. Always nice to attract interest

    and image such boosts another's confidence.
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M Jun 11

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    It's All Coming Back...

    I think I am a natural flirt, I'm sure my mother was my role model. I always thought her to be elegant, approachable and funny around men. Flirting with other women is fun too....I kind of got lost for a decade or so with kids and being a wife and thinking that that part of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 18, 2012

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    I think flirting is great it's fun

    and does not harm anyone it lifts my day I have quite a few young men that flirt with me at work and I love it !!
    sue968 sue968 56-60, F 17 Responses Apr 24

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    Badinage

    I'm working at the moment on a series of designs I call 'Badinage' (Flirtation). My inspiration is the fact that men are becoming more difficult to both 'entrap' and interest. Especially with the advent of social networking sites where men can go on cam with a girl, and they can...
    Peri23 Peri23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Who doesn't love to flirt?

    ?? Lol XD it can make someone's gloomy so much better! :) Just a little playful banter never hurt anyone :P and it can be a lot of fun XD especially if the guy I'm flirting with (around my age of course) is like really cute, funny, kind, and has a nice smile ^_^
    drama16queen1997 drama16queen1997 16-17 1 Response Jul 8

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    Convenient Store Hot Spot

    I know it brightens my day when peeps try and flirt with me. It's so cute in my real world when guys get up the balls to approach me. I seem to get hit on alot at gas stations here are just a handful of my experiences. Gentleman whose entire body was covered in tats.. even...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 29 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 1, 2014

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    Nothing wrong in flirting.

    ..just having some fun and making someone else smile...life can be too hard sometimes...I like older men who have experience in treating with ladies...and I think married men who aren´t quite exactly happy in their marriages should get some pleasant time here too...nothing wrong...
    000Camilla 000Camilla 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 4

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    :-)

    I haven't flirted much lately but I am willing and ready so feel free to flirt with me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I am useless at flirting,

    I have had friends point this out to me more than once. Maybe it is because I am am introvert. My attempts to flirt always ended badly. People that have this knack for flirting, is there a technique learned? Have you been taught ? Does it come natural to you ?
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    What To Do?

    I feel like I've been asleep and functioning on automatic for the last decade. I was a repressed, neglected, unappreciated housewife who has now woken up and is trying to regain and recapture the vibrant woman that she use to be. With eyes wide open, I am paying more attention...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 4, 2010

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    I Flirt!

    All the time!  I love it.  I think it's a lot of fun.  And I don't think there's anything wrong with it.  My husband has known since he met me what kind of gal I am.  I flirt with everyone!  Men, women, doesn't matter.  It's fun, and sometimes...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2010

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    Strawberry Shortcake

    Au Natural I make no efforts to flirt. None what so ever...   My eyes, smile, the sensuality I release, my laugh, jokes and my open mind-ness do the job.  Oh and my stories, gosh....Have any of you read my ep writings? Those who never have, well you got lots of catch up to do...
    HedoZen HedoZen 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    Are we saying a lingering glance,

    a wink in a crowded bar? A text message strewn with innuendo with a partner? Or sharing erotic stories and or pictures with strangers?
    HoldenC13 HoldenC13 51-55, M Apr 24

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    I love it when I am at an intersection

    and I get a double take look from a cute woman going through from the other side! Makes me feel good, makes me smile!
    severalanimals severalanimals 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I like flirting. Its usually harmless

    and i think it makes the person your flirting with feel good to. Unless its a creepy flirting thing
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 7

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    I agree that it certainly can,

    but it has to come from the right person, or be projected onto the right person. If some strange person who gives me the creeps tries to flirt with me, I'll feel uncomfortable. Not happy, because I wouldn't enjoy it. But if the person I have my eye on flirts with me... then yes...
    iSpyce iSpyce 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Esteem Building Through Smiles

    Compliments given freely can enhance a persons day at the worst of times. So often our self-esteem is measured internally by how we believe others may percieve us(right or wrong)a little good natured flirting here and there can let someone know that they are valued,appreciated...
    dubkebab dubkebab 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    I am a huge flirt and will pretty much flirt

    with everyone. I don't see anything wrong with it - it's just a fun way to communicate with someone :)
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