I Think Good Friends Are Rare

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 19,278 People

    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    I think getting too close with someone ruins

    the relationship so i like to keep a distance from my friends to keep it cool
    Dreamerproject Dreamerproject
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    I have had so many bad experiences with friends,

    that I no longer trust people. I try to pleasant with everyone, but I do not let anyone get close to me. I do not call someone a friend unless I know I can count on them when times are difficult and vice versa. I still wish h that one day I will meet a genuine friend, but my...
    SoftCandle SoftCandle
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    Good friends are rare

    because people often get along until you both or one of you had his mask off and get to face the dark side of that person or each other. The question later on is how bad that mistake was ? How much can you trust this person? Would you be able to hold on? solve the issue? or...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    Good friends are very rare .

    I don't think I ever had a really good friend . I hardly ever had a single friend .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 31, 2016
    SatanicAngel22 SatanicAngel22
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    friendship is happening through sharing

    experience and it may be a good one only if the shared experience is the real one.
    anund8979 anund8979
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2016

    I need to rant. I would like a friend

    who does what I do for mine. Talking for hours or in the wee hours about one problem over and over. Giving rides in the middle of the night. Getting pissed off when someone mistreats them. Not being buddies with people they dislike. Right now I'd really like someone to...
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 14, 2016

    Although I've got quite a bit of living left to

    do... this is a lesson I learned very early in life. I wish someone would have told my younger self that the friends that you think are the most important people in the world when you're 17, 18, 19 will probably mean nothing later in life. Yeah, they were probably super...
    girl19c girl19c
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2016

    My 2 best friends are the main reason I'm

    staying strong. I was always happy and funny 24/7 and that's been pretty hard lately. Talking just took too much effort, so I eventually gave up. I didn't think I could make it through everything that was happening, but those 2 did. They never judged me. They gave me hope that...
    Chloe813 Chloe813
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Feb 7, 2016
    ncfootguy ncfootguy
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 4, 2015

    it has become damn near impossible to find any

    like minded people to hang out with. Most women/girls seems so superficial and only like to socialize over alcohol and talk about shallow things. I wish half my male friends were girls, they are so much smarter. They are so much less drama and there is nothing to read into about...
    Anangz Anangz
    26-30, F
    12 Responses May 30, 2015

    Suck that this site is shutting down a lot of

    people come on Herero vent when it shuts down what will they do?
    JerseyKid732 JerseyKid732
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Apr 10, 2016

    Real friends isn't easy to find.

    I truly believe in that. At first I have to take risk just to know if they might be sort of trustworthy people. I had encountered many and at the end, I learned that they just stabbed me in the back. It hurt me really but I can't change them. They are who they are. So I...
    Renciela Renciela
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2016

    I have yet to find a friend I can call a Best

    Friend Forever. I guess at 23 if you don't already have that in your life, you may never find it. I've lost touch with my high school friends, and drifted away from my college friends mainly because they were at points in their lives where other people (excluding their...
    Brokenpanda Brokenpanda
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    Everything looks better today

    than it did yesterday. In the rush of finishing up yesterday, the mountains were left in a ragged condition, and some of the plains were so cluttered with rubbish and remnants that the aspects were quite distressing. Noble and beautiful works of art should not be subjected to...
    1layladylay 1layladylay
    22-25, F
    Jan 21, 2016

    It's much better to ensure feelings of isolation

    than to believe you actually have a friend when that friendship is in reality a lie
    notaplacemat notaplacemat
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Feb 21, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I have discovered I have the most special

    friend I could ever have hoped for.
    Shade74 Shade74
    41-45, M
    Mar 29, 2016

    Actually they are very rare.

    Most people should be considered as associates because they are really not friends at all. Too many people love only themselves. You find out quickly who your true friends are when trouble comes knocking at your door. If you have 2-3, consider yourself wealthy.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    good friends are hard to find sometimes they

    turn their backs on you or turn out not to be who you thought they were
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2016

    They will keep annoying you every time they

    around you but you will still love the fact that they hang out with you. Best friend don’t let you do stupid thing....alone. Friends will compliment you, best friends will insult you. If you fall, a normal friend will immediately helps you up and hold their laugh not to offend...
    foodloverpeople foodloverpeople
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    I desperately need one.

    I have enough people I can talk and enjoy myself with for a while but really I haven't found good friends yet... or they left me.
    DutchieVera DutchieVera
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    I never really had a lot of friends in my life.

    I've met a lot of people. I'm familiar with a lot of faces. But the only people I've ever connected with are those who feel, like me, connected to the past and the future all at the same time.
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    especially if you are the one always

    compromising and later give up because the 'friend' never cared as much as you did.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    I am 29 Bi poly male into many things.

    I also think that friendships are important. i like to talk if you want to please PM me. Males or Females welcome. thank you.
    locked125 locked125
    31-35, M
    Mar 30, 2016

    There are tiny little creatures called bacteria

    crawling all over your skin. Right now. At this very moment. There are colonies of bacteria living all over your body.
    1layladylay 1layladylay
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2016

    Nowadays its really hard to find someone

    who isn't stabbing your back and someone that genuinely cares.
    camsc camsc
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2015

    For me that is true I have only two bestfriends

    and some close friends.. we became friends since grade school days and until now. Even though we're apart from each other. One chat away or call. We still have the togetherness feeling even we haven't talk for a long time. It feels good that you understand each others feeling...
    katrinakatcake katrinakatcake
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2016

    Finding a good friend is rare

    but fake friends are everywhere
    LadyOceania LadyOceania
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I don't hate you. I'm just disappointed you

    turned into everything you said you'd never be... :(
    Charmeeee Charmeeee
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    Yea, very rare. That's

    why I can never trust people more than 60%.
    Karmelit Karmelit
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    I find most people are unreliable bc loving,

    kind hearted souls are truly hard to find. you really can't trust anyone these days! I am a firm believer in that - and it's sad how quickly someone will choose being selfish and greedy over true, pure loyalty.
    MalaniaXmc MalaniaXmc
    26-30, F
    11 Responses May 30, 2015

    Once someone's hurt you,

    it's harder to relax around them, harder to think of them as safe to love. But it doesn't stop you from wanting them
    1layladylay 1layladylay
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    "Josh, wanna go to Sky Zone?

    " "Wtf is that?" "Indoor trampoline place." "Oh, then hell yeaaa."
    3dayweekend 3dayweekend
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    Wishing tonight I had the kind of friend I

    could randomly call and talk to at 1 in the morning, but also just realized that for the first time in a really long time that thought doesn't make me sad or depressed. It'd be nice to have someone, but overall I'm pretty ok being alone with my thoughts. Lol.. Big deal for me...
    thatonewoman thatonewoman
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    I used to have a best friend we were inseparable

    but sadly in 2006, I heard from her father through my dad, that her and her mom were shot in London during being mugged. The perpetrators were caught but now those jerks are getting cushy meals, tv and darts behind bars or as I call prison nowadays Butlins for prisoners, those...
    StephBlakeIsInfinite StephBlakeIsInfinite
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    The world is a wonderful place to live,

    and part of what makes it so great is the simple fact that people are different, every person in this world is unique and each one with his own thoughts and dreams. We all see the world through unique eyes and think differently about it
    1layladylay 1layladylay
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2016

    i tend to need n want fuller direct attention

    and for them to show others that interrupt or hijack our convo and time ..that they are there talking wit me right now so others must wait and kinda leave us alone .. hardly anyun does that . they get caught up n stolen into others convos n i walk away ..
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    1 Response Feb 8, 2016

    No one seems to put any effort into

    relationships, yet "everyone" has friends.. and all.. Or is it just that no one puts effort into me. I have no idea. Fun.
    swik swik
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    Good friends are when they are at your house

    as if its their own home (they are much more comfortable sitting or eating foods in your refrigerator than yours). when your broken hearted instead they comfort you they will play a song just right for you and laugh at you because your cryin. and lastly, saw the worse thing...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 14, 2015

    Good friends are hard to find,

    harder to leave, and impossible to forget. Unknown
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    I really good friends are rare to find

    and I want some friends who like the experiences that I like
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Feb 8, 2016

    so many associates so little friends.

    always been popular growing up but how many can i actually say were/are good friends.i can count on one hand the people i trust and consider a 'good friend'.
    Sbabyface Sbabyface
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    I believe we have many aquaintences

    but few true friends.
    maplehillsrn1 maplehillsrn1
    51-55, F
    7 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Yes they are very rare in life,

    they make a place in heart.
    SelfControl SelfControl
    18-21, M
    Mar 30, 2016

    never had that friend who'd text me asking

    stuff. Tis always been me like chasing over them so I stopped. I wanna have real friends tho. anyone?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2016

    my best friend tells me im important .

    . . . im someone who doesn't like attention ,how do i embrace it?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    They sure are. I used to think it wasn't

    possible for me to make friends, it just seemed that way, after many tries to get to know people. Then I joined this place a couple of years ago, and found 3! 3 people I considered good friends, who I talked to regurlaly, and connected with. Unfortunately I didn't get to keep...
    maybemaybenotwhat maybemaybenotwhat
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    The ones who bring out the rock&Roll,

    the ones that bring out the hippie, the ones that bring out the country. The ones who make enjoy the four-wheel drive, back roads, no cops giving a damn about dirt roads. Dance... Play music... Bonfire And driving where you shouldn't.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    Why do some friends start out good,

    and then seem to fade away? Why is it harder to find good friends as you get older? Is it because you're not forced to be together daily like you would have been in school? The hardest hit have been friendships with people who had children. I did not. I honestly don't hate...
    Sionna7910 Sionna7910
    36-40, F
    5 Responses May 15, 2015

    I am a big proponent of quality over quantity

    when it comes to my friends. I used to think that it is the object of everyone to collect friends, as if the sheer number of friends someone had, or claimed to had, somehow validated you as a person. This number counting quality came in before Facebook, but it is a trend that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 16, 2016
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