I Think Grudges Are a Waste of Energy

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    Yes

    Totally a wasted of time and energy.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    Aug 24, 2011

    Wasted I Tell You, Wasted

    Why the hell would you want to carry a ball and chain on your foot the rest of your life just because your angry at someone? Is it because you feel you can't change what happened? If so, it doesn't matter... you don't have to change the past, just change yourself and make things...
    Sparklepaws Sparklepaws
    18-21, M
    3 Responses May 25, 2008

    Wasted Energy

    When other hold grudges, aganist me, I make amends to them, It usually work out and clear the air.. but when I hold A grudge, I am trying at this time to get over it, by praying for the people who hurt me..I will continue to pray for them until all is forgiven...
    Bluebird777 Bluebird777
    70+, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2009

    Grudges

    Grudges,What a waste,Energy,That is,Does no good,Draining,What a waste of time.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Feb 14, 2012

    Poison

    Carrying around negative energy poisons you after a while.  And that's exactly what a grudge is.  It's a boatload of negativity...that seldom even touches the person it's harbored against. 
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 12, 2011

    I Don`t Have the Time

    i rather get on with living than keep dreging up the past.it makes me ill to have to replay all those things.and besides,i am quit happy with my life now.so if you want to hold a grudge,go ahead make yourself sick.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
    36-40
    1 Response Apr 13, 2009

    Life Has to Go On

    "Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. So laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change. Love deeply, and forgive quickly. Life's too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad, smile when you're...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 13, 2009

    Who Cares

    Fine, a friend backstabbed me.  Fine, a girl turned me down.  Fine, my dad defied my moral standards.  I didn't enjoy it when you did it, but you know what?  You've already done it.  We can't go back.  It's OVER WITH.  It's the PAST.  MOVE...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2008

    Grudges

    I think grudges are a waste of time and energy...no doubt! For me it all depends what it is.  If it is a smaller thing, I don't keep grudges but if it is something big and hard to swallow, how do you let it go, is it possible letting go?
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jan 5, 2011

    Life Is Too Short

    And if I hold onto grudges from thus forward I may turn into...HER!But I think she's purdy
    Kittychanel Kittychanel
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2012

    Get Over It.

    As some of you may have read in my other posts - i'm a very angry and vengeful person. I snap at the drop of a hat and am angry a lot. However, when it comes to friends that i've had an argument - i like to get over it. I let the fire out and then it settles. Life is too...
    jasminjane jasminjane
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2008
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