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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 97 People

    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Jul 14, 2012

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    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    I am extremely sad for humanity and cry for the lost people every single day. I cannot believe the pain and suffering of those that are, they are hurting, and I know how it feels...
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    I mean cons are: The boss will call you be and will never call back to get hired cause he or she is a a hole trying to act high and mighty. Also the Gov wants to put their low...
    napninjanx napninjanx 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I kind of hate that i just wasted time on just nothing. It's nothing since i don't feel happy 'bout it.
    erikp08 erikp08 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Said all I want from you is to see you tomorrow And every tomorrow, maybe you’ll let me borrow your heart And is it too much to ask for every Sunday And while we're at it, throw...
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    Change the way you look today. Why waste time? It doesn't carry over the next day. It doesn't earn interest. Take every day and every moment, and make something of it. Make...
    HeartThatMatters HeartThatMatters 26-30, M Mar 25

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    I seem to be thinking all the time :) sometimes I wish I could turn it off but the thoughts just keep coming. Most the time it's great, when I have time to let my thoughts run wild...
    Wantsfortomorrow Wantsfortomorrow 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    i mean we look at them but not really look at them.maybe just a glace.sometimes there is just too much thinking going on in our head that we fail to look.i dont know if its just me...
    Camouflage Camouflage 18-21, M Apr 1

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    I hate myself. Nothing I do is changing it. I never smile, I'm not happy, I've never loved nor respected myself. I'm not capable of changing it. I think it's time I give up and...
    bhokie bhokie 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I had been fascinated with white skin. I even like women who had whiter complexion. Don't get me wrong. I am not interested in something deviant. What I mean was, I envy women with...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am nothing special but i do wish to share what people need to hear to be free.. to be free is accepting yourself and not judging , i believe God has already forgiven you.. its...
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    People don't like hate, and it's understandable. It's not a pleasant feeling. However, many self-help and New Age books talk longly and vigorously about how to 'extinguish hate in...
    MidsouthGuy MidsouthGuy 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I do, except I don't go out for it. I don't trust people enough for that. There were no groups fitting. It's the "get wasted, from time to time". I don't do drugs, like illegal...
    WickedScullyOfTheWest WickedScullyOfTheWest 31-35, F Apr 6

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    All Things Run In Cycles - The Path Through The Darkness If there is one thing I have learned for certain it is that ALL things run in cycles. Funerals and weddings and...
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    I want to create a new religion. It will not be a religion in the classic way, rather it will not claim an existence of an omnipotent super-natural being. It will teach it's...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    My "study" time is basically all wasted on the Internet- I'm supposed to spend 30-40 hours a week doing independent study but I'm lucky if I do 3-4; I end up watching YouTube clips...
    mblo2984 mblo2984 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I don't think religion IS a basis for morality. I have not encountered a more dividing force than religion, and people use their religious beliefs to justify all sorts of injustice...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 2 Responses Mar 31

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    In my opinion, education is an important tool for success in life. I'm not saying you have to be educated to be successful, I'm only saying it will exponentially increase your...
    CosabellaBeauty CosabellaBeauty 26-30, F Apr 2

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    I wrote an earlier post about feelings, and well I have been thinking a lot about feelings lately. Maybe a waste of time, but it is what it is. I agree that some feelings aren't...
    heartfire heartfire 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I keep thinking, About the words I’ll never say, And the things we’ll never do. I keep thinking, that it’s all my fault because we both know that it is. I keep...
    ILuvMusic229 ILuvMusic229 13-15, F Apr 7

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    The next time someone wants to waste 3 hours of my time, please read my profile and my stories. My life is not a secret. U didn't have to block me cuz ur not worth me chasing.
    moonlightdancer1967 moonlightdancer1967 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    For a long time I've had a nagging suspicion that inside I was more effeminate than most other males. But I was still masculine. Recently, as in the past almost year, I've...
    Okami890 Okami890 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    I wasted my time on you, I was so hooked on you & all you did was betray me.
    ellavalencia ellavalencia 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I've been thinking about my ex today, I had this dream and as usual it gets me thinking! I hate thinking about him, I feel like my thoughts are wasted on him! He was so gentle...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I wasted my time on many people. 5 persons. They were fake friends who betrayed me.
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Reading news feeds and comment like ****. 😭 i didnt realize i wasted a day.
    patooooots patooooots 18-21, F Mar 24

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    At the end of our lives we'd all like to look back and see some meaning; something that we are proud of. But I have been in a rut that just won't allow meaning anymore. I suffer...
    Barefoot4Life Barefoot4Life 22-25, M Mar 25

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    I think the title says it all..
    CandieDiCaprio CandieDiCaprio 16-17, F Mar 27

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    Spring time is always so hard for me. Not as bad this year as others - thankfully - but this time of year I get very quiet, sullen and all I want to do is disappear. I start to...
    salacioustoastlicker salacioustoastlicker 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Someone posted about a free app on hypnosis. I don't remember where I read it. But I tried it for about a month for my depression and anxiety attacks. I thought maybe it might be a...
    Blmy Blmy 46-50, F Mar 29

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    I wasted whole 2013 behind a girl..... Chasing her... Getting a glance of her.. Then we became ver very good friend( I thought so) But she was using me.. She asked me to do her...
    caithmac caithmac 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of ’99 If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by...
    ifilayhere ifilayhere 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think I'm wasting my life. Been with her for over two years, money blood sweat tears... She's a heroin addict trying to help her. Sometimes it's good and she says the right...
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    The meds I'm on for ADHD and depression suppress my appetite so much. But even when I try to eat I hear myself think 'how could you want that? You fatass. You'll never look good...
    underageloner underageloner 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    "Don't Let Me Be Lonely" I need a saving grace A hiding place I don't have forever or time to waste So don't let me be lonely I wanna shake this winter coat off my sleeve Dust...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    What does it really do for anyone? People waste all that time with those feelings and it really drags you down. If you don't agree with something wouldn't your energy be better...
    oversimplification oversimplification 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    About stupid Comments..... You know what I do about stupid comments on my post? I don't bother answering them because I don't waste my time, energy nor effort debating with idiots...
    littleAnonyMOUSE littleAnonyMOUSE 41-45, F 20 hrs ago

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    I just wasted 15min of my life watching some dude on a show called Space Ghost: Coast to coast crawl across the desert following a fire ant and humming to himself 😩
    SoAntagonistic SoAntagonistic 26-30, M Apr 1

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    We will leave a wasteland for future generations. What's so wrong and hard about living in balance with our earth?
    l00n3y l00n3y 22-25, M Apr 9

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    My husbands suddenly gone from healthy to not healthy at all. He is scheduled for open heart surgery next week and I'm just shocked. We have been struggling with bills since he was...
    crystalkat crystalkat 51-55, F 6 days ago

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    So I know this isn't a well thought of experience, but I tried a "lady of the night" last night. First, I didn't expect her to be the same person in the ad... I thought she'd be...
    Addy315 Addy315 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm old enough to consider the consequences, and I know I have a kid who lives with me full time, but a glass of wine or a mixed drink is NOT gonna get me wasted. Back off my case...
    IheartCupcake IheartCupcake 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I'm alone most of the time don't have too many friends... I spend a lot of my days in bed or campus, I don't talk a lot and I'm very shy around people, I have this habit of...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    On Thursday I was on the bus... I should have gotten off the bus after a minute of getting on but didn't and stayed on. By the time i got off I seriously needed to wee. I went to...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 1 day ago

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