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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 98 People

    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Jul 14, 2012

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    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I am essentially lazy. If I really dislike you, I'm certainly not going to waste precious energy moving all the way to hate. I'd rather just float down toward apathy.
    AllergyDog66 AllergyDog66 22-25, M Dec 15

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    During Life, there is always a moment for doing things for first time, the first day you walk, speak, first day at school, work etc.. Sometimes, even if you have learned the...
    mrtt80 mrtt80 36-40, M 18 hrs ago

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    well I can obviously see its time to start some early spring cleaning. cut away some ties that bind. ;)
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F Dec 17

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    Computer games are nice but...when comes to enjoying sex...mmm.....
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    ITS FIVE AND IT LOOKS LIKE NINE! SOMETHING AIN'T RIGHT MAN! I'm so tired, maybe I should just go to sleep looks like nine at night anyways.
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Liberty is for everyone. Women should be able to go topless if they so choose to. It doesn't hurt anyone and if you find it offensive then don't look. Breastfeeding in public...
    cyberax cyberax 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2

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    If you would like to learn more about Topfree Equal Rights Association (TERA) then please have a look at the following website http://www.tera.ca/
    cyberax cyberax 31-35, M Dec 2

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    FREE YOUR BREASTS! FREE YOUR MIND! http://gotopless.org/ GoTopless Day 2015 will fall on Sunday Aug. 23.
    cyberax cyberax 31-35, M Dec 3

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    agree? 
    staleywise staleywise 56-60, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    How very important time is. Always cherish every single moment of it and make the very best of the time you have....this is a reminder to me again this week, for my best friend's...
    Lavender007 Lavender007 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wasn't all alone. I had support. But they didn't understand. They didn't hear the crying and moans. They didn't ride in taxis at 2am. They didnt feel the fear and didn't breathe...
    Acebo Acebo 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Hello everybody, and thank you for taking the time to read my experience and give me a piece of mind. To start, I'll talk about a little of my background. 5 years ago, I found...
    misschillax misschillax 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    42nd post...Just my random thought and rant for the day...Do you ever wonder where sock pairs go?? If you're anything like me then you have more singles than pairs..I actually have...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    We live in such a fast-paced, fast food, microwave quick society, that we've adopted that same attitude with people. Call me old fashion, but I think it takes time to really get to...
    relating2u79 relating2u79 31-35, M Nov 30

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    Nostalgia is something that we often think about this time of year...It can affect us in so many capacities...Memories of our childhood come flashing back as it were yesterday...My...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 30

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    I think too much time on EP makes me foggy. There are a bunch of things I want to write stories about and I've been staring at the screen for the last two hours waiting for that...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response Dec 8

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    I think all the time. It is non-stop. I wonder if this is the case for everyone. Words, and pictures - always present. It is like being a driver of a bus - a bus that always has...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 14

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    I've been a crossdresser from a very early age, and all I've ever wanted was to be a girl,I think it's time for me now to talk to someone about starting hormone replacement therapy...
    wannabelisa wannabelisa 31-35, T 3 Responses Dec 16

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    25th post. It's been a few days since I have posted, and I have to say it has been a roller coaster of emotions. At times I have felt elated and invincible. Other times I have felt...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    overthinking is an issue with many people. just remember that thinking isnt a bad thing. it helps me find myself and who i am. i need time to configure all of my thoughts...so i...
    classylips classylips 13-15, F 32 mins ago

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    "Endless Sacrifice"Dream Theater[Lyrics by John Petrucci]ColdLying in my bedStaring into darknessLostI hear footsteps overheadAnd my thoughts returnAgainLike a child who's run...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F Dec 9

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    The World Is, As You Are The World Is, As You Are Maharishi Mahesh Yogi often quoted a Rig Veda shloka: richo akshare parame vyoman, which translates as “Knowledge is...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    It Hurts So Good I had noticed, that you'd cut your legs, skin as well as hair, while trying to shave, but you cut me as well, with that razor blade, so I show you my heart's...
    AaronLA AaronLA 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    44th post. Well I'm almost done telling my story, maybe about 10 more in depth posts to come, and a few randoms. I've saved the best for last, as in the events that led up to my...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    63rd post. Now I'm going to start delving into the issues that have caused me the most anxiety over the years, and which I believe have led to who I am today. Firstly I will talk...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    The only aliens I have experience with are typical "Greys." I learned of Grey aliens, after I started school, on TV shows first and then in books written by abductees. I do not...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 days ago

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    Having an off day today. It's hard, the holiday season. My dead fathers side of the family is taking such good care of me and for the first time in years I'm being included in the...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F Dec 5

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    I truly believe that heroism can come in many different forms. In this case, two Heroes saved my life. I battled severe depression and body dysmorphic disorder almost all of my...
    Fifimeow Fifimeow 18-21, F Dec 7

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    "What Kind Of Love"AvantasiaA dream of dwelling insideWho'll hourly come and a lonely goAnd who am I to know what I feelSympathy, that's tearing me apartAttraction of the distance...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F Dec 17

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    The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. I heard it was about a tree and a boy. The tree was generous. Very generous, in fact, it may have been too generous. Perhaps a...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    I can't believe I'm saying this but I can't stop thinking about my ex. For some reason, I think about him constantly including the memories and the whole "we should get back...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am contemplating divorcing my husband. The problem is that this will be my third divorce and I am only 43. I made some bad decisions in my twenties based on growing up in an...
    strikes3 strikes3 41-45, F Dec 17

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    28th post. A couple of other times that spring to mind when I think about the abuse, were two instances where once again I can't understand what went wrong. A few years back we...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I wouldn't say I "wasted" my energy. People drift in and out of our lives as they grow and change and it's nice to put some effort in even if you're not friends forever. Making...
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    All my life I have battled depression and my depression is extremely bad for me...all I have to do is look at a knife or anything dangerous and all I want to do is hurt myself...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 16

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    In the past when i used to get bullied . When they used to call me name for example When they called me a whale well at first i didn't not understand why ( i was 10 year old ) But...
    Keilynn Keilynn 18-21, F Dec 17

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    Can you really fully experience being you if you never get outside of yourself? Do you really know who you are if you've never experienced yourself through the eyes of others? My...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 18

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    60th post. I hope everyone takes the time to read this post. This happened about half an hour ago, but let me start at the beginning. It's Sunday 2.20am when I started writing this...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 20

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    The cost of my time cannot be measured by tangible earthly possessions. I cannot place a value to how much my time costs as we are not guaranteed a specific number of days so if I...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I think i can finally come to terms with myself over this, I like girls too. I have never approached, or dated a girl....i have been approached but by more masculine females...
    StillLooking92 StillLooking92 22-25, F Dec 2

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    Yo. I think I have BPD. All the things people talk about experiencing and the symptoms of borderline are things I experience. Eating disorder, self harm, self-hatred, etc. Any...
    Emilyyyyy Emilyyyyy 18-21 Dec 6

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    38th post. Want to die tonight. I have had the most severe heartburn for days, can't get rid of it. Low point once again, and I'm wishing I can go to sleep and not wake up. Wouldn...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 8