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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 112 People

    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Jul 14, 2012

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    Hes 70 years old and has lived his years in prison as an INNOCENT man! Its cruel and sad. You only live once! Theres been an apology for residential schools but the only apology...
    darkskies7 darkskies7 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    This morning, like he has every morning for the last decade, my 86-year-old grandfather picked a fresh wild flower on his morning walk and took it to my grandmother. This morning...
    cluemisa cluemisa 18-21, F Apr 27

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    Off and on for 7 years with my "soul mate" and ended it over two years ago because he wouldn't grow up, but still not over it?? I find myself continuing to beat myself up over it...
    GayManInTexas GayManInTexas 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 28

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    Is it really wasted time if you learned something from the experience? We learn the most from our mistakes, even if the mistakes are other people.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I'm sick of feeling low. I need to remember life is to short to waste time feeling like this!
    abbie007 abbie007 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    i wonder even the day is stretched into a 72 hours a day there will just not enough... we spent time, we waste time, we try to walk the walk of life, we consume time more than we...
    blackravencat blackravencat 22-25, M May 13

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    Sometimes all you need to do is to let go. Take a step back from everything and take it all in. It is definitely a hard thing to do, but sometimes it is what needs to be done. I...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I tend to overthink all the time. I can't put my mind to rest and lately it has started affecting me sleep pattern as well. I can't sleep much. I'm just thinking all the time...
    Imexhausted Imexhausted 22-25, F 3 Responses May 3

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    it's odd. I'm happy with me but I never think anyone else will think so. any time someone tries to compliment me I always think they're lying because they want something. most of...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Time, I find the perception of time to be very interesting. If you stop and think about it time does not exist. All that is, is the current moment. You see time is the past and the...
    TakingBackReality TakingBackReality 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I love waking up to my dogs. It's hard to have a bad start to the day with them around. If I wake up before them it's freaking adorable when they come looking for me. Or when I'm...
    SuumCuique SuumCuique 31-35, F Apr 25

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    I love you all. But I think it's time For me to say goodbye. Maybe not completely. But atleast this account. I feel as though I need to start over on ep under a new name. Maybe you...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 16-17, M 1 Response May 9

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    Thinking about taking time off of here
    bigbill75 bigbill75 36-40, M May 11

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    I've recently got involved with a guy I've been fond of for about 3 months and this whole time he's told me experiences of girls breaking his heart and how he doesn't want to be in...
    kashaleea kashaleea 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Defining myself with words, putting me in a frame of definitions, and introducing I as I see me, are what I have tried to avoid until now. That's only because I believe human is...
    Soossie Soossie 51-55, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    The most beautiful thing about time is that you cannot waste it in advance. We humans really do squander the gift of the future. You see, the future is always a blank slate. You...
    iShined iShined 18-21, M 2 Responses May 3

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    When it comes to this topic, I always start from some things that came about in my childhood. I am a sixteen-year-old girl, I have never been bullied or laughed at, but I have self...
    yifang yifang 16-17, F May 3

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    This is only for the Outcast, the so called "loser," the lames, the nerds, geeks, the ones who are different than most.... Life isn't fair... You can't always expect things to...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have had a long and hard struggle with self hatred. I grew up in a family of 9 kids. I seemed to always be the most sensitive. It made me feel as tho something was wrong with me...
    iowateri8309 iowateri8309 51-55 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am trying to find a full time job and that is very hard to find. I am currently in a job which is making me feel stressed and too pressured. I think my colleagues are turning...
    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F 58 mins ago

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    For me, every day counts. Every second of every minute of every day is important. It's up to me to improve myself. It's up to me to create my own futur. It's hard. It's damn hard...
    kevarth kevarth 18-21, M Apr 25

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    My story isn't as bad as most people's but I still suffer from it so.... When I was ten years old my parents started fighting a lot. More than ever. They threw things. yelled...
    Littlemiss02 Littlemiss02 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    When my dad died I wasted 5 minuets thinking he was joking now if my dad didn't die I wouldn't of became friends with Adele again if I didn't become friends with Adele again I...
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When most people talk about wasting their time, they talk about someone else. In my case, I wasted my own time due to fear. I had so many opportunities to fall in love, and yet I...
    spyder3311 spyder3311 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 26

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    I'm beginning to think I've wasted the last three years with my husband ... he spends more time playing video games than with me or my kids ... at times I feel Luke I don't even...
    finelyhappy1029 finelyhappy1029 26-30, F 5 Responses May 10

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    I think it's a waste of time that my spouse is sleeping on such a beautiful sunny day. The same for a friend visiting us for a week. Sometimes I get upset when people sleep more...
    Pather2013 Pather2013 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I have come to the conclusion that you cannot fix stupid. The people with the loudest voices seem to be the most ignorant. This morning I was scrolling Facebook and came across a...
    SuumCuique SuumCuique 31-35, F Apr 24

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    Life is a blessing. Even if you feel like it may not be for you, and you feel useless, you will learn that your time is coming for things to get better. You will find your way out...
    Anonymouscoast Anonymouscoast 22-25 1 Response Apr 24

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    I hate my father . I hate myself . Many times I wonder , if I die , would people actually give a damn or would they laugh away . I can't tell you how many nights I've gone to sleep...
    vintagebabe12345 vintagebabe12345 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    I wasted my time on some one, too.... or was it truly wasted? I have learned that there is life and love after love and heartache. Maybe that was the breather I needed after my ex...
    Terrain12 Terrain12 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    Is it normal to feel everything but numb at the same time? My emotions and feelings are all over the place but then I know exactly what I want to do and where I want to be I just...
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 18-21, F Apr 23

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    When I was younger, I fell in love for the first time. With a girl. She was in a relationship with a boy she loved very much. I know this because she told me about him. We were...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Stay" I've been sitting here staring at the clock on the wall And I've been laying here praying, praying she won't call It's just another call from home And you'll get it and be...
    mrsskayl mrsskayl 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    But at the same time, I waste so much of mine myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 23

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    Two years. I was with this guy for two whole years. Two years before he told me that he needed to leave because he... How do I put this... He likes guys. He wasted two years of my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Apr 30

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    “Fun Fact. You’re Crazy.” I don’t even know how many times I’ve been called crazy. People have asked if I have just about every disorder in the book. I’m sick of...
    kiarrafire kiarrafire 18-21, F May 7