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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 351 People

    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    it might be a waste of time,

    but it sure makes my life easier.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Jun 25, 2015

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    how stupid does it sound to hate someone you

    don't even know because of who they are, how they live, who they love, what color their skin is and etc? I mean last time I checked what I eat don't make you sh@t and aspects of how I live my life doesn't make your life have less value. So why are you so angry with me? Sounds...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 25, 2015

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    We are all incarnated on this earth to spread

    love and make the world a better place. Why are we doing the opposite?
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M Aug 4, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 29, 2015

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    i can never find it in my heart to hate a

    person. No matter the treacherous things they've done whether to me or not. There are tons of people in this world i could hate, probably should hate. but I don't and probably won't. i don't have a specific reason for it, i just can't summon the extra strength to feel so...
    Hunttheheartofblack Hunttheheartofblack 18-21, F Jun 26, 2015

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    After a good night's rest,

    I feel content with the world at large. There are many things I see that it could improve on, but the people I've met make it all worthwhile. Just thinking of being with them is enough to warm my heart.
    AlwaysFacingtheFace AlwaysFacingtheFace 18-21, M Dec 12, 2015

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    It's sad to me when I encounter someone

    who thrives on it. It's a sure sign of profound fear and insecurity. The hater doesn't seek to raise others up. The goal is to elevate one's self by lowering those around you. What a tragic waste of valuable time.
    Thinklessfeelmore Thinklessfeelmore 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 27, 2015

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    Come on people. You get one life

    and that life goes by quick. Whats the point of wasting it on stress and hatred? Lets just enjoy life and be happy. If you are intelligent, you will get what im saying and u will realize that hatred is a waste of time.
    BrinkOfPeace BrinkOfPeace 16-17, M Jun 26, 2015

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    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 22-25, M Jul 14, 2012

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    If anyone ever pushes you to hate them just

    leave. Don't confuse hatred for a person with their actions. Hate is when you wouldn't help someone no matter how badly they needed it. You can strongly dislike one or hate their actions if you would still help or provide aid. Either way try to leave as soon as you can
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26, 2015

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    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I think hatred is a natural emotions

    and in some cases is warranted. I think many cases it can be very unhealthy, but in the same breath, I don't think simply forgiving and forgetting is necessarily an equalizing feeling. Hated is born out of neglect, abuse, mistreatment, unfair treatment, being attacked, taken...
    brownowleyes brownowleyes 31-35, F Jan 21

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    Shadows settle on the place, that you left. Our minds are troubled by the emptiness. Destroy the middle, it's a waste of time. From the perfect start to the finish line. And if...
    Annurban Annurban 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    We really do not care what you think about us. For one thing you do not know us so you aint in a position to judge us for either being good or bad. If you had lived our lives then...
    BrunoAndSammy BrunoAndSammy 13-15, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I need to find a petsitter.. asap.. a good one... a forever pet sitter! I love all the positive people tho..the funny people.. the cool and interesting people but lol i dont...
    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever 51-55, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Don't be a fvvking idiot in the comments please. But okay, so does anyone ever "black out"? Idk if that would be the right term but like sometimes if something is happening I won't...
    Adeft Adeft 18-21, M 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I know its getting close to spring again. My shirt is off immediately after work.
    awsmithhtx awsmithhtx 31-35 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Today I just started going shirtless again, I hate wearing shirts and decided to adopt a permanent bare chested lifestyle anytime I can get away with it. Except for errands and...
    KJ1215 KJ1215 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I always help people, but it's finally starting to tire me out. I don't ask for help and I don't talk about my problems often. When someone ask me to share, I do and they are a...
    YnessHeart YnessHeart 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have passion about nothing in my life. It's always been like this. I don't want to achieve anything, I don't want to do anything. I just want the years to pass by and wait for my...
    Fwtw Fwtw 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yep about that time, what better time than this lol
    VirginGuy55 VirginGuy55 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    OK... I got myself thinking now... next time I cut peppers to make pepper jam I will use gloves... I got my fingers burnt from the pepper juice, and it hurts sooooo much!
    ElfawithaWolfHeart ElfawithaWolfHeart 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Black women shouldn't date white men because of slave rape and lynching. If I had a penny for every time I heard that.When people say it would be disrespectful to our ancestors to...
    NayaAngelou NayaAngelou 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Yesterday, February 7, marked my first shirtless day of the season, undoubtedly an early record. It was 71 and sunny in the valley and I saw 3 other shirtless guys on the bike...
    syncopated syncopated 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    My appearance, my personality, and overall everything. I'm overly sensitive and lack emotion at an inconvenient time. I'm loud sometimes. I'm too quiet sometimes. I can't...
    CyanideY CyanideY 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Life wasted, allowed to be wasted, indifference is what the creator shows.
    NoReasonToLiveForMe NoReasonToLiveForMe 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hey! Why are you so hard on yourself? Don't you know how beautiful and lovely you are? What do you mean I lie? :/ Hey I'm no liar! You're the one lying to yourself! saying, "I ain...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's difficult growing up around racism, bigotry and hatred.
    NoReasonToLiveForMe NoReasonToLiveForMe 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    Its worse when fake people waste your time on here
    cheat3dwife cheat3dwife 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 3

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    low key racism: that kind of racism that isn't necessarily based on hatred or intolerance but is still evident in choosing or being chosen... #sad
    Barbee95 Barbee95 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I pushed everyone that I cared about away and I built up these walls to protect me. I'm like a bomb I hurt everyone around me. So I figured it was best if I'm alone so I can't hurt...
    MadisonDaWarrior MadisonDaWarrior 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    in fact, i've tried so much to get the marrage to work and gave it my all for many years until i realized i could not get it to work out if i was the only one seeing the issues and...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F Feb 1

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    The right girl is out there A girl who would always care For you all the time A girl who is kind Don't waste you time on one person There's other people for you like there's a...
    Sadguy4000 Sadguy4000 18-21, M Jan 31

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    As a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women (especially mothers) who adopt this...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Self hatred has been my constant companion most of my life. I wouldn't really know what to do if I felt normal. And recent events have shredded the little bit of self esteem I had...
    nothingandno1 nothingandno1 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    So many people have died around me; my Granddad, my dad, my best friend. I can't help thinking that everyone crosses my shadow is doomed to have a short life and i hate myself for...
    MyLifeIsStrange MyLifeIsStrange 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Where to begin...I don't believe I know exactly why I self loathe or self hate, I COULD hazard a guess but I don't like letting myself off the hook. I face up to things. Is it...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F Jan 30

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    I have so many scars and I've tried to kill myself so many times and I've been in the hospital so much. I hope my whole life won't be like this, or else my life won't be that long...
    rawerimadino rawerimadino