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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 96 People

    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Jul 14, 2012

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    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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