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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 96 People

    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M Jul 14, 2012

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    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I think too much, I think. Not sure. I have to think about it some more. Because I am a thinker. So many things to think about. Stupid things, I think. Thinking wastes time...
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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for...
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    Sigh....so to try to see them as experiences and reasons instead of wasted time is always hard :/
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    who said you overthink? Everybody thinks all the time. The human brain is always busy. Maybe you're thinking in ways that you consider to be unproductive and so you give yourself a...
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    I'm a psychology major. I researched it a lot before I chose it. While I like social sciences as a fun hobby to read and explore, I'm not fond of the classes that come with being a...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I started dating a guy my junior year in high school. I stayed with him for almost 4 years. In that time I got pregnant and had my beautiful son which I would never regret. I had...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    All my life I thought I wanted to play it safe at love and relationships. I thought (very stupid) that if I picked the guy that loved me more and was not to good looking, I'd be...
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    Hatred is not born, it is taught. I have a 6 year old. You know what she hates? Naps. End of story. She does not know hatred because I am not raising her to know what it's like...
    aparadiso08 aparadiso08 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I saw a crisis therapist who's helping me get a stable therapist. While talking today, I brought up some of the things my boyfriend and now his sister (who hates me because of this...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Shellback1992 Shellback1992 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    I have no idea why I exist, you guys. I feel worthless and unlovable. Like, I just wish someone could give me the feeling of being needed, being here for a purpose, not just being...
    yxfx yxfx 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 28

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    It seems without paying for attention on the stupid sites you won't get too far, still paying to be seen is still pretty bad. I think they're a waste of time.
    drinksandflowers drinksandflowers 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Hatred cannot erase hatred, only love can ... you just need a hand ... that can pull you from darkness into light
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    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F a week ago

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    Hey dad look at me Think back and talk to me Did i grow up according to plan? And do you think im wasting my time doing things i want to do and it hurt cause you disapproved all...
    saffaismail saffaismail 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F Sep 28

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