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I Think Hatred Is a Waste of Time

There is no point in hating. You've got to overcome it. 278 People

    Who Does It Hurt?

    It usually hurts the person who is hating, more than the object of the hatred. Freud stated that hate is an egoism - "that one wants to destroy the source of its unhappiness" hmm....sounds like that two horned fallen angel.....ego...hatred...that it him, alright!
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    We are all incarnated on this earth to spread

    love and make the world a better place. Why are we doing the opposite?
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M Aug 4

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 29

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    Come on people. You get one life

    and that life goes by quick. Whats the point of wasting it on stress and hatred? Lets just enjoy life and be happy. If you are intelligent, you will get what im saying and u will realize that hatred is a waste of time.
    BrinkOfPeace BrinkOfPeace 16-17, M Jun 26

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    i can never find it in my heart to hate a

    person. No matter the treacherous things they've done whether to me or not. There are tons of people in this world i could hate, probably should hate. but I don't and probably won't. i don't have a specific reason for it, i just can't summon the extra strength to feel so...
    Hunttheheartofblack Hunttheheartofblack 18-21, F Jun 26

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    It's sad to me when I encounter someone

    who thrives on it. It's a sure sign of profound fear and insecurity. The hater doesn't seek to raise others up. The goal is to elevate one's self by lowering those around you. What a tragic waste of valuable time.
    Thinklessfeelmore Thinklessfeelmore 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Anger and Hate

    I do hate terrorists that rocked our country over...that made us afraid of things we thought we'd never fear. However, I don't hate the insensitive LeRegalia woman who called me a "fucken shrew" today, even though it made me cry. She simply misunderstood who I am. She...
    1tufcuky 1tufcuky 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    Thriving Hate

    Born into the light my skin is white unknowing of the road of right and the path of wrong feeling these words and hearing this song.I breathe and reprieve from this harsh reality I was born in a world that is a torn formality of rude a painful thorn in my side. My own father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Grudges Are Pointless.

    I've hated and been hated numerous times. I've held grudges towards people that screwed me over years ago and some to this day still hate me for things I did years ago.But as a person that knows hatred, I have come to realize grudges are pointless and misguided.Yes I've hurt...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 22-25, M Jul 14, 2012

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    it might be a waste of time,

    but it sure makes my life easier.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Jun 25

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    If anyone ever pushes you to hate them just

    leave. Don't confuse hatred for a person with their actions. Hate is when you wouldn't help someone no matter how badly they needed it. You can strongly dislike one or hate their actions if you would still help or provide aid. Either way try to leave as soon as you can
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26

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    how stupid does it sound to hate someone you

    don't even know because of who they are, how they live, who they love, what color their skin is and etc? I mean last time I checked what I eat don't make you sh@t and aspects of how I live my life doesn't make your life have less value. So why are you so angry with me? Sounds...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 25

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    well, it is a waste of time and money for ppl who dont wanna get better, thatz fa sho. There are also alot of quacks out there, like i said before, whatever works? right?
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    plz don't waste my time, cuz I won't waste yours. I have no time for idiots
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    BUT it's GOOD waste :) .
    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M Aug 22

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