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I Think I Am Falling In Love With My Best Guy Friend

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    He's a Senior, he's leaving me in less

    than 5 months. I don't know what I'll do without him. I want him to just be with me right now but it's 3 a.m. and I won't get to see him until Monday. That's too long......
    blurryfocus blurryfocus 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    We have been friends

    for 12 years and we started hooking up this summer. It started off and a complete friends with benefits thing. We started talking more and more and we both got very attached we'd talk on the phone every night and hang out doing things other than sexually. He is leaving for...
    rht08 rht08 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2014

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    That Awkward Moment When You Think You Love Your Best Friend

    So i have known my guy friend since we were in second grade. He and I were best friends till 5th grade. He and i went different circles, We would say "Hi, what's up?" when we saw each other in the hallway then we just stopped talking. and even though we live right around the...
    CarolineMarKor CarolineMarKor 13-15, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Its not really that I am falling in love with

    him but because he makes me smile always. ^.^ He is so jolly. Whenever Im with him we atleast laugh always. I dont know , we dont label each others as "BESTFRIENDS" we are just very close, clingy in a way. But I dont want to fall inlove with my guy friend. It makes me scared...
    faye08 faye08 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    It all started in a gloomy day at the start of

    high school, I met this guy who's name I will hide in J. For starters we weren't really that close, he was boy of fun and spontaneity. He would always, I mean "always" pull pranks on me and teases me to no end. Quite frankly, I'm a boy of solitude and rationality. I never find...
    Darkaeon Darkaeon 18-21, M Feb 5

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    Don't Really Know What To Call This Experience Title Says It All

    His name is Guillaume (he's half French as well so he's really cute!) and he's in the year below me in school, he's in year nine I'm in year ten, I'm fifteen and he's fourteen on Monday. So enough of the background details I dunno when I started liking him as more than a friend a...
    michaela97 michaela97 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I Think I'm Falling For Him..

    So I have a best guy friend, and  of corse; I'm falling for him. I'm a freshmen and I've know this boy since 7th grade. We dated for about 5 months in 7th grade but he started getting extreamly.. I don't know how to put this but I'll just say hormonal? lol:) And I was starting...
    sony55 sony55 13-15 1 Response Jun 8, 2011

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    It Could Of Been The Begging Of The End

    Ever fallen in love with your best friend ? I think some of us have. We think it will work when only sometimes it can ruin the friendship. You think it will be forever because you've known each other for so long. He knows you like the back of his palm, and you know him like every...
    Call911now Call911now 18-21, F Oct 13, 2013

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    I'm talking to my guy friend

    and several times he has told me that he likes me, but he kinda lives 2hours away and we haven't hangout but we talk everyday. Funny story is that we were talking about our wedding heh, and at the same time I was at a wedding and I caught the brides bouquet🙈 can that mean...
    PreciousFlorence PreciousFlorence 18-21, F May 24, 2014

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    he is pretty much my best friend.

    He makes me smile and laugh and i am always happy when i am around him. I cant help but thinking about hugging and kissing him all the time. Sometimes i have dreams about them and they are not very innocent. I know i shouldn't love him because he doesn't feel the same way way...
    ElviraErica ElviraErica 18-21, F Oct 1, 2014

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    He is sweet and caring

    and amazing but I don't think he'll ever see me the way I see him.
    JennaHurts JennaHurts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2014

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    Hopelessly Devoted

    It has been ten years since we have known each other, and Im head over heals with my best friend. We talk about everything, we are so open about situations that we deal with in life. I told him that I loved him and he didnt say anything. I dont know what to do. DOes he see me as...
    globugbigbear globugbigbear 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    I can relate to this

    so much. I met these two dudes when I was a bit younger and one of them and I really hit it off. To make a long story short ,we ended up becoming really fast friends. I would go over to his houseand we would sit on his balcony and talk about metaphysics and philosophy and the...
    sweetsexxylexy sweetsexxylexy 22-25, F Jun 20

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    123rc456 123rc456 18-21, F Jan 11

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    He Just Makes Me So Happy :D

    I am so happy/content. He is purely amazing! We have pretty much the same dating style/needs and work so well together. Multiple people say we make a cute couple, but I could seriously care less about what people think as long as I get to be by his side. I know it may seem like...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    i met a lot of friends thru a chat group online

    13 yrs ago and maintained two main friendships...one is a mate shannon...we were good drinking buddies for several years and while together and drinking i felt attracted to him to the point of wanting to rip his shorts off and have my way with him...we lost contact for five...
    biguy71 biguy71 41-45, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I had a dream about him last night.

    . The best dream I've had in a while.. I really think I'm into him.. But I think he's friendzoned me..
    CuriosityKills96 CuriosityKills96 18-21, F Feb 20, 2014

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    I think I've falling in love with my best

    friend... I don't want to ruin our friendship.
    J3ssii3 J3ssii3 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    It has been two years.

    That is such a short time yet we have had so many experiences and learned so much about each other so far. I can't wait to learn even more about him and watch and support him as he follows his dreams.
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F Apr 29

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    We text every single day.

    . I can tell him everything and anything, and he can tell me the same. He's been there for a really long time and he's really funny and sweet... But he likes this girl Diana. He told me he used to like me before I dated my ex girlfriend
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 16-17, F Sep 3, 2014

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    I Think I Love Him But He Doesnt Feel The Same Way

    so i have known (lets call him JK) for 3 years. we met at college and we both lived on campass so we got to know each other very well but he liked our friend E we were all best friends so i decided that i wouldn't say anything. well E left after a few months because of some nasty...
    CUFC CUFC 18-21, F Aug 2, 2011

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    Well there's this guy at my high school I

    really like. Our school is really small (only about 50 people per grade level) because its an advanced education program. We go for 5 years and get our diploma and two free years of college credit. Anyways... I've known him since freshman year, but then I didn't really hang...
    EmCWolf EmCWolf 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Today I missed my swim meet.

    ... well it wasn't intentional at first but then I thought," He's not going to be there so what does it matter?" I hate how he finds his way into my mind even if he is off at some random girls 18th birthday party. I wanna not care and say it's whatever but I just can't . I love...
    blurryfocus blurryfocus 16-17, F Jan 26, 2014

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    First problem, he lives a few states over.

    Second problem, he's 19 and I'm 16. Third problem, my mom will never approve. Yikes, I'm sure theres more, but that's enough. I seriously like him and we've been friends for like, ever, and I'm terrified of screwing things up. We flirt sometimes, but still.... .-. help?
    fallingintowonderrland fallingintowonderrland 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    We have so much in commen same sense of humor

    he's funny nice and smart we both wanna live in the same place when were older he didn't want to go to collage but now he might and he said we could share a dorm <3
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Lol... Ive known my friend

    for around 3 years almost 4 and i liked him ever since we've met. However he liked my best friend and i ended up bottling my feelings up and actually helped them together, i wasnt really that sad since it was my best friend and i wanted the best for the both of them. Things...
    appetanc3 appetanc3 13-15, F Dec 18, 2014

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    Eh... he quit texting me this year,

    it's like he's avoiding me, but school he talks to me a tiny bit. what to do? he won't text. he's my ex but we were forced apart by my mother, and I think not only might i relove him, but that he's distancing..... And it's so horrible.
    dogsandwolves dogsandwolves 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    bfs since 7long years.

    .. I don't know if I should tell him or not...coz I don't want to lose my best friend ever... though I am 60/70% sure he likes me too but won't say it coz he wants to enjoy his clg? have many gfs before marriage... and idk issues...
    sumatib sumatib 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I Think Im In Love With My Guy Bestfriend

    i think I'm falling in love with my guy best friend we like each other but the age difference scares him I'm 18 and he's 15 but i can't help who i like or fall in love with nobody will no were going out he doesn't want me to get into trouble with the cops i mean if we don't tell...
    redheadgeek redheadgeek 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    R0XIE R0XIE 18-21, F 1 Response May 26

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    I Need You More Than My Life Needs Breath<3

    I had a sweet 16 party yesterday and my bestfriend who i havent seen in months came over and he came earlier than anyone else because i wanted him to so we could spend some time catching up. Well he helped me load the soda into the coolers and we sat and chilled for a while. I...
    iheartac iheartac 18-21, F Jul 28, 2012

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    Here Is A Quote That Rings True For Me. . .

    Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    I Think I'm In Love With My Best Guy Friend. extended.

         We met in 10th grade and we are now both in our second year at college (two different schools three hours away) I've always held him to a different standard thats what Ive heard from every single boyfriend that ive ever had (3) and well for the past...
    bookworm008 bookworm008 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Um yeah defiantly, the more I talk to him the

    more I fall. It's strange for my age but not impossible. I won't do anything rash but doesn't mean I won't tell. Just hope I don't hurt him like I hurt everyone else.
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F Dec 27, 2013

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    He's All I Think About Now

    Yes it's true. We met when I joined a rock band in 10th grade, I was to be back up voice and he was lead guitar. We became glued to eachother since then. He's 6 years older than me. I was 16 and he was 22. lol When I turned 17, I invited him to a mix- sleepover I threw. as you...
    wickedlillie wickedlillie 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    He's stubborn, he teases me relentlessly,

    he's funny, he's sweet, he's dedicated, he's smart, he's thoughtful, and he can brighten my day with just a simple hello. He puts the friend in boyfriend. And I love him more each and every day.
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2014

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    He's not JUST my best friend...

    So I've known my best friend for two years now. We have always been friend but we got really close after we dated earlier this year. When we dated we both got rushed in to it by other people, so it wasn't the best relationship and he feels really bad about that. But now he's my...
    Bookworm5456 Bookworm5456 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    I Don't Think I Am - I Know I Do!

    So, for about the past year I've been getting closer and closer to my best friend - it's a guy! He's the typical "hottie on the football team." And, I'm not just saying that. Well, after getting really tight with him and his family, him and I both determined that the...
    lynne09 lynne09 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2009

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    So In Love But He's So Shy

    I've been friends with this guy since freshman year of college and we've been best friends for almost 8 years. During these years, we've seen the best and worst in each other and we've supported each other through our relationships. He had one really long, bad relationship...
    patriotgirl patriotgirl 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    This Is Harder Than I Thought

    Less than a month ago, my roommate and I, well, we slept together.I had kind of a freakout after that. I'm a rape survivor, and I don't handle intimacy well. I tried to run away, and even after that he let me come back and tried to get past it for me. And since finding out about...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    We've been friends since we started infant

    school & we've always been really close. I've had feelings for him for a couple years now but he's been in a long relationship which recently ended. I've thought about telling him but I don't want to ruin the friendship we already have! He's told me that he's had feeling for me...
    megannrosee07 megannrosee07 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    Today's the day he tells me he likes me

    or not I'm getting a positive vibe he dose plus he flirts with and is jealous when I'm around other guys wish me lucj
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Girls... Don't! Well maybe there could be a

    lovely story but... Guys friendzone too! My best friend for years did that too me and almost a year since we last talked I still miss him. Worst kind of love ever! And trust me, he didn't find me ugly, that I REALLY know.
    Amusec Amusec 22-25, F Sep 3, 2014

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    There's this guy and we've been talking

    for almost two months now. And in those two months, we've just became friends in an instant. We talk all day and night 24/7. We tell each other everything. He also told me about his parents and brother dying and how he's living with that guilt and how he was sent to live with...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2014

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