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I Think I Am Falling In Love With My Best Guy Friend

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    Matt Fleckenstien, If Youre Out There, Read This

    I think I love one of my best friends Matt. He is smart, funny, and cute. I cant tell anyone though because I went out with his best friend, and my friends would just laugh. Matt, if you are out there, I think I love you. I wish you'd love me back.
    rainyday298 rainyday298 41-45, F Jun 22, 2012

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    Bestfriend's Trouble Pt.1

    My bestfriend... what can I say about him, he is like the perfect boyfriend from my point of view. He is charming, cute, handsome, playful, silly, respectful, and well I can describe him in many more words but to say he is just INCREDIBLY PERFECT. Of course jaja, I never though...
    LetbeOceaning LetbeOceaning 13-15, F Nov 12, 2012

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    First problem, he lives a few states over.

    Second problem, he's 19 and I'm 16. Third problem, my mom will never approve. Yikes, I'm sure theres more, but that's enough. I seriously like him and we've been friends for like, ever, and I'm terrified of screwing things up. We flirt sometimes, but still.... .-. help?
    fallingintowonderrland fallingintowonderrland 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 11

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    Would Love Some Advice!

    So there's this guy, we have been family friends since we were probably 6 or 7. We grew up together, our families hung out, our older brothers hung out and therefore we were friends. As we grew up we spent every summer together. We'd be really close in the summer times and then...
    trw420 trw420 18-21 3 Responses Sep 17, 2011

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    Inner Struggles

    I cannot be who you want me to be, and it worries me... why cant I be that girll? why cant I be someone else? more importantly why cant I get comfortable with who I am, there are so many good things about me, I'm fun generous to those I love Compassionate Outgoing Driven...
    IseekWithin IseekWithin 22-25, F Aug 1, 2013

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    He's stubborn, he teases me relentlessly,

    he's funny, he's sweet, he's dedicated, he's smart, he's thoughtful, and he can brighten my day with just a simple hello. He puts the friend in boyfriend. And I love him more each and every day.
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    He's a Senior, he's leaving me in less

    than 5 months. I don't know what I'll do without him. I want him to just be with me right now but it's 3 a.m. and I won't get to see him until Monday. That's too long......
    blurryfocus blurryfocus 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    I Dont Know Any More

    I've know him ever since we were little. We hang out all the time, we don't have the same groups of friends but we are with them any way. Will be freshman next year and he's my best friend and recently (lets say the past 5 months) everyone who has seen us together (as in hanging...
    trelie trelie 16-17, F Jul 15, 2012

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    One Decade...and i found my second half

    So...his name is fernando. i've known him for ten years...I still can't belive its been ten years. We practically grew up together. We were neighbors for four years and our families becamse really close. then they moved but we contined to play together ( we were like 10 or 11). I...
    ramostorres ramostorres 18-21 Nov 22, 2012

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    I Need You More Than My Life Needs Breath<3

    I had a sweet 16 party yesterday and my bestfriend who i havent seen in months came over and he came earlier than anyone else because i wanted him to so we could spend some time catching up. Well he helped me load the soda into the coolers and we sat and chilled for a while. I...
    iheartac iheartac 18-21, F Jul 28, 2012

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    He is sweet and caring

    and amazing but I don't think he'll ever see me the way I see him.
    JennaHurts JennaHurts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I Don'T Know Why

    He's always been there for me. We haven't known each other that long though. He dated my friend, but that didn't turn out so well. We've drifted apart since the summer, but now we're becoming really close again. I can be myself around him. We hug a lot. I'll just stretch out my...
    SecretIsOut SecretIsOut 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Hopelessly Devoted

    It has been ten years since we have known each other, and Im head over heals with my best friend. We talk about everything, we are so open about situations that we deal with in life. I told him that I loved him and he didnt say anything. I dont know what to do. DOes he see me as...
    globugbigbear globugbigbear 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    That Awkward Moment When You Think You Love Your Best Friend

    So i have known my guy friend since we were in second grade. He and I were best friends till 5th grade. He and i went different circles, We would say "Hi, what's up?" when we saw each other in the hallway then we just stopped talking. and even though we live right around the...
    CarolineMarKor CarolineMarKor 13-15, F Jun 13, 2011

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    I had a dream about him last night.

    . The best dream I've had in a while.. I really think I'm into him.. But I think he's friendzoned me..
    CuriosityKills96 CuriosityKills96 18-21, F Feb 20

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    I'm Falling Further and Further

    I have two best guy friends, but one of the just really sticks to me. I only met him a few months ago, but in the past few months we've become really good friends. I met him at church and I'm even close with his parents(I even had dinner with his mom tonight, and I would've never...
    ColaBear ColaBear 13-15, F Aug 19, 2009

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    I Think Im In Love With My Guy Bestfriend

    i think I'm falling in love with my guy best friend we like each other but the age difference scares him I'm 18 and he's 15 but i can't help who i like or fall in love with nobody will no were going out he doesn't want me to get into trouble with the cops i mean if we don't tell...
    redheadgeek redheadgeek 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    Were Dating At Least. . .

    So reading over some of this group other stories, I am not sure if this is where it goes, but I want to tell my story. Sorry for how long it is. . . its gonna get longer. It's strange. I will start by saying that. I haven't even know him for a year yet, but it seems like I have...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    I'm Sorry Friend, I Love You

    I've been friend with a good kind of man, pretty good handsome. He has a charisma. And he's the only one guy who ever close with me. I didn't know him before, I didn't know who he is, where he lives, how old he is. But we became friends, it's just happened. For one years since...
    BlueDophin BlueDophin 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    This Is Harder Than I Thought

    Less than a month ago, my roommate and I, well, we slept together.I had kind of a freakout after that. I'm a rape survivor, and I don't handle intimacy well. I tried to run away, and even after that he let me come back and tried to get past it for me. And since finding out about...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    Falling All Over Again

    Every girl wishes for that Prince Charming. That man in armor. The one who will sweep you off your feet and carry you into an endless sunset. Well while this dream is stuck in our head, were blind to whose right infront of us. No he's not in armor, nor is he a Prince (not even...
    JMas91 JMas91 18-21, F Feb 11, 2013

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    It Could Of Been The Begging Of The End

    Ever fallen in love with your best friend ? I think some of us have. We think it will work when only sometimes it can ruin the friendship. You think it will be forever because you've known each other for so long. He knows you like the back of his palm, and you know him like every...
    Call911now Call911now 18-21, F Oct 13, 2013

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    Confused :/

    So my guy best friend and I have been best friends for almost one and a half years now. He used to have this big crush on my friend but she didn't like him back and we got close and I helped him move on and all. I've started to feel like I'm falling for him since recently. I just...
    bubsy97 bubsy97 16-17, F Aug 2, 2013

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    Today I missed my swim meet.

    ... well it wasn't intentional at first but then I thought," He's not going to be there so what does it matter?" I hate how he finds his way into my mind even if he is off at some random girls 18th birthday party. I wanna not care and say it's whatever but I just can't . I love...
    blurryfocus blurryfocus 16-17, F Jan 26

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    He's not JUST my best friend...

    So I've known my best friend for two years now. We have always been friend but we got really close after we dated earlier this year. When we dated we both got rushed in to it by other people, so it wasn't the best relationship and he feels really bad about that. But now he's my...
    Bookworm5456 Bookworm5456 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    I Think I Love Him But He Doesnt Feel The Same Way

    so i have known (lets call him JK) for 3 years. we met at college and we both lived on campass so we got to know each other very well but he liked our friend E we were all best friends so i decided that i wouldn't say anything. well E left after a few months because of some nasty...
    CUFC CUFC 18-21, F Aug 2, 2011

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    I Think I'm Falling For Him..

    So I have a best guy friend, and  of corse; I'm falling for him. I'm a freshmen and I've know this boy since 7th grade. We dated for about 5 months in 7th grade but he started getting extreamly.. I don't know how to put this but I'll just say hormonal? lol:) And I was starting...
    sony55 sony55 13-15 1 Response Jun 8, 2011

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    I Don't Think I Am - I Know I Do!

    So, for about the past year I've been getting closer and closer to my best friend - it's a guy! He's the typical "hottie on the football team." And, I'm not just saying that. Well, after getting really tight with him and his family, him and I both determined that the...
    lynne09 lynne09 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2009

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    Everything About Him Draws Me In

    Okay so i moved to oregon my junior year and this guy (lets call him T) was in my weights class. I didn't really get to know him until my senior year but we're really close, i stay at his house almost every night, actually i almost never go home. No matter what's going on he's...
    furiousfaere furiousfaere 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Confused About My True Female Friend ?

    I have known my friend for awhile and no of her hurt she as had from her past.and i have been there for her and also give her confidance backI met my friend on a date we went out with each other a couple of times and she knew that my feelings were strong towards her,but she...
    michelle5156 michelle5156 51-55 1 Response Dec 23, 2011

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    Here Is A Quote That Rings True For Me. . .

    Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F Nov 27, 2013

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    He's All I Think About Now

    Yes it's true. We met when I joined a rock band in 10th grade, I was to be back up voice and he was lead guitar. We became glued to eachother since then. He's 6 years older than me. I was 16 and he was 22. lol When I turned 17, I invited him to a mix- sleepover I threw. as you...
    wickedlillie wickedlillie 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    Don't Really Know What To Call This Experience Title Says It All

    His name is Guillaume (he's half French as well so he's really cute!) and he's in the year below me in school, he's in year nine I'm in year ten, I'm fifteen and he's fourteen on Monday. So enough of the background details I dunno when I started liking him as more than a friend a...
    michaela97 michaela97 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Um yeah defiantly, the more I talk to him the

    more I fall. It's strange for my age but not impossible. I won't do anything rash but doesn't mean I won't tell. Just hope I don't hurt him like I hurt everyone else.
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F Dec 27, 2013

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    How I Think Im Falling In Love With My Bestfriend.

    I was friends with my best friend for about six years. In my freshmen year, I began to develop feelings for her. I had never felt this way about any other girl...and still haven't to this day. It all happened very fast, but I undoubtedly fell in love with her. It felt mutual too...
    faithlynn5106 faithlynn5106 18-21 Nov 28, 2012

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    There's this guy and we've been talking

    for almost two months now. And in those two months, we've just became friends in an instant. We talk all day and night 24/7. We tell each other everything. He also told me about his parents and brother dying and how he's living with that guilt and how he was sent to live with...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F Jun 24

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    For My Goat

    You like me, for me, and I am astounded, that you do, you like the way I talk the way I behave and the way I laugh you like the way I sing and the crazy attitude I have you watch me, silently like a an eagle peering at me through the rear view mirror you notice everything about...
    IseekWithin IseekWithin 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    He Just Makes Me So Happy :D

    I am so happy/content. He is purely amazing! We have pretty much the same dating style/needs and work so well together. Multiple people say we make a cute couple, but I could seriously care less about what people think as long as I get to be by his side. I know it may seem like...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    At a Party

    I was at my best friend, Amelia's, 14th birthday party. Everything was going great, and we decided to play spin the bottle truth or dare. We made sure that it was good clean fun, nothing that could get anyone in trouble. So, once it came time for Amelia to spin her second...
    MusicalLover MusicalLover 16-17, F Sep 13, 2009

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    I'm talking to my guy friend

    and several times he has told me that he likes me, but he kinda lives 2hours away and we haven't hangout but we talk everyday. Funny story is that we were talking about our wedding heh, and at the same time I was at a wedding and I caught the brides bouquet🙈 can that mean...
    PreciousFlorence PreciousFlorence 16-17, F May 24

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    I Love My Best Guy Friend and I Need Help

    I'm sixteen and I think I love my best guy friend. I really need some advice so if you could take the time to read my story I'd appreciate it. We both have girlfriends and neither one of us is gay. I have never felt attracted to any other guy except for him. I told two of my...
    shrimp0795 shrimp0795 16-17 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    So In Love But He's So Shy

    I've been friends with this guy since freshman year of college and we've been best friends for almost 8 years. During these years, we've seen the best and worst in each other and we've supported each other through our relationships. He had one really long, bad relationship...
    patriotgirl patriotgirl 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Troubled

    I have know him since kindergarden and just this pass year people were saying mean things about him so i stood up for him and it got us back in touch. We have been talking ever since and I can tell him anything he has told me things that no one knows about and he always is there...
    nikki1221 nikki1221 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    More Than Just Friends...

    We first met at VBS (Vacation Bible School) at my church when his Daddy became our new preacher. To be honest I thought he was ugly at first until the unexpected happened. We have known each other for about 7 years now, and at first I never thought I could care for...
    heartbelongstochrist heartbelongstochrist 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2013

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    The Eating Disordered Girl And The Geek

    When I was a freshman in high school, I sat near the son of my Chinese teacher. We were aquaintences. I remember thinking the one time that he would make a really good lover, because he had such long, gentle fingers and when he smiled, it was hard not to. But I didn't develop a...
    JessicaMorgan JessicaMorgan 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    Malakai

    For the past two years, Kai and I have been the tightest of buds. We make inappropriate jokes out of boring things to make them funny. We debate for hours on end about politics. We run together on the track team and tease each other constantly. We read the same books, laugh at...
    junholaday junholaday 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2013

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    I Think I'm In Love With My Best Guy Friend. extended.

         We met in 10th grade and we are now both in our second year at college (two different schools three hours away) I've always held him to a different standard thats what Ive heard from every single boyfriend that ive ever had (3) and well for the past...
    bookworm008 bookworm008 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    I have a huge crush on this guy from the same club as me. We were from the same batch. However he was the secretarial head of the club while I was just a member. Reasons being, he...
    missimperfecttt missimperfecttt 18-21, F Jun 26

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    I have a huge crush on this guy from the same club as me. We were from the same batch. However he was the secretarial head of the club while I was just a member. Reasons being, he...
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    marafaunt marafaunt 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I've liked the same guy for the past 5 years. We've become pretty close friends, in the past year especially, and sometimes I think there's a chance he likes me back. Right now I...
    foxylady0205 foxylady0205 18-21, F Jul 9

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    it's been about two months since we have been together, my feelings are starting to fade for him, and I think I might be falling for someone else. I do love him I honestly know I...
    beatabean beatabean 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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