I Think I Am Polyamorous

Who says I can't love more than one person? 226 People

    I am happily in a relationship with a wonderful

    man whom I love very much. We recently decided to open our relationship up sexually. I found a partner whom I was instantly comfortable with and connected very naturally. He is polyamorous and I have found myself developing feelings for him. I have talked to my boyfriend about...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou
    22-25, F
    Nov 16, 2015

    I feel like I love each one of my girlfriends

    differently and they are all special in their own ways. But I cant be only with one girl and I can never lie to them so they know there are others and they accept it. Im affraid of not being able to handle this idea
    daddyinasuit daddyinasuit
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2015

    My Heart Has Room For Many More.

    I have been talking to my boyfriend about having a relationship where I allow him to be involved with other women as well as staying with me, and the same thing would apply to me. It makes so much sense to me. He seems to be hesitant, thinking that it would trivialize our...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 1, 2009

    Drowning In Sea of Confusion

    Oh dear.   Just when I thought things in my life were going well. I had a great, great relationship with my boyfriend (we plan to get engaged soon) of many years, "Jules" we'll say. Soon, I make friends with someone I work with, "Jimmy," who is a lot like...
    CatherineFrancais CatherineFrancais
    4 Responses Mar 3, 2008

    I Love Very Easily...

    I have started out getting into relationships quite quickly, one after the other, since I was 16. I have never known anything else. At one point, I felt trapped in a relationship because if I broke up with him I would be homeless. So I found another escape, cheating. The only...
    jessibel2491 jessibel2491
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 7, 2013

    I Never Thought I'd Go Through This Again

    When I was 24 I entered into a relationship with another girl with hubby's complete consent. He was wonderful to her and expected nothing more then to just know that having her around made me happy and laying in bed with her did things to me I could never imagine. He...
    Plum1 Plum1
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2012

    I am in love with two people,

    and in a monogamous relationship with one. It is the most frustrating thing, because my boyfriend cannot grasp the fact that I am very much in love with him, and have no intention of leaving him, and yet also capable of being in love with other people at the same time. I met a...
    Ask937 Ask937
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2015

    There's Enough of Me to Go Around!

    I don't think that a person should be trapped by the societal notion that love is strictly reserved for one other person.  I fully believe that I'm capable of loving and respecting more than one person.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2006

    They are just different.

    Both kind and big hearted, logical and guarded. One sensitive and empathetic, he makes me feel grounded and comfortable. The other aloof and mysterious, he makes me feel alive and powerful.
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou
    22-25, F
    Nov 18, 2015

    I actually lived a polyamory relationship

    for years. Me and two women. It was the best memories of my life.
    shadowwolfeut shadowwolfeut
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 15, 2014

    We Live In Ohio

    hello my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. we have known each other and dated off and on our whole lives. He is 23 and I am 24 I have 2 kids a boy and a girl and he does not have any other than my kids. we are poly and i am looking for a women to share our...
    mommabear301017 mommabear301017
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2013
    masterangel1977 masterangel1977
    36-40, M
    Nov 18, 2015

    I've noticed how I am capable of loving

    different people at once but in their own ways. Each I feel differently for but is still love. At this point I've thought it out enough to know I'm not just infatuated or in lust when I say this.
    omutsukimi omutsukimi
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 9, 2015

    I form deep emotional bonds with numerous people

    and desire relationships reminiscent of romantic relationships with all of them. I am in a monogamous relationship and would never cheat on him (as there is a huge distinction between polyamory and cheating). I don't know if I will ever explore this part of myself due to the...
    meadowes meadowes
    22-25, F
    Jun 10, 2015

    Drowning In Sea of Confusion

    Oh dear.   Just when I thought things in my life were going well. I had a great, great relationship with my boyfriend (we plan to get engaged soon) of many years, "Jules" we'll say. Soon, I make friends with someone I work with, "Jimmy," who is a lot like...
    CatherineFrancais CatherineFrancais
    3 Responses Mar 3, 2008

    I do not really understand the concept of 100

    percent fully committed one to one relationships. In fact, I think they are honestly archaic and dishonest at best. Think about it. Humans are animals. Animals desire procreation. As such, all people wish to procreate as often as possible with many mates. And why shouldn`t we...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2014


    I'm in love with 4 guys. Problem is, none of them love me back. They don't understand the whole polyamory-thing. They don't understand that just because I love more than one person, it doesn't mean that I love any of them less. I have tried to explain that I don't have favorites...
    CallieT CallieT
    1 Response May 27, 2013


    Anyone in Kansas with open minds and views similar to this??????
    1 Response Jan 12, 2013

    How did I get so lucky to get two

    such great men in my life? He makes my soul feel at ease, like I can be anyone I want to be and he will still love me. With him I feel at ease. He makes me want to lay on a beach all day with a book in hand. He makes my soul come alive, like I could soar to the moon and back...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou
    22-25, F
    Nov 22, 2015

    I Truly Do Believe This ....

    I believe that humans are not meant to be monogamous.  If you look at nature, the animals that mate for life, if anything happens to their mate, the other dies.  I believe humans are definitely possible of having more than one loving relationship at the same...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    29 Responses Jan 12, 2009
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