I Think I Am Unlovable

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    No one wants me i sat alone at lunch

    and odk no one want to talk to me :(
    Lasbutterfly Lasbutterfly
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2015

    My ex is just so angry all the time.

    It's been a week since we broke up, and things aren't any easier. We broke up cuz of all the fighting and arguing I do with her. When I argue and fight.... Like I don't see that I'm doing anything till it's over. I feel like I'm probably the biggest ******* In the world and I'm...
    Lesbtruthful Lesbtruthful
    26-30, F
    May 20, 2014

    Again, I Don't

    think it, I know it for certain. I hate myself, and everything I stand for, so how can I expect anyone else to love me?
    GENE2013 GENE2013
    Aug 25, 2013

    Something Inside Me Is Broken

    I don't understand why, but I am unlovable. I am beautiful, intelligent, caring, successful, etc, but my personal life is a mess. Men I've dated told me they love me because they think it's what I want to hear. They are wrong. I want them to love me, not use the words. I'm...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    I honestly don't know what is wrong with me.

    I know I am young and still have plenty of time for love, but I just feel like something is missing from my life and I think that's what it is. I've had many dates, partners, etc. but ultimately I feel like I am only used for one thing and that no one ever cares about me as a...
    lostchinchilla lostchinchilla
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2014

    I'm a smart, good looking young girl with all

    the potential in the world, but I hate myself. All my life I've never been good enough by anyone's standards. Everyone wants more and tells me how strong and capable I am. No one seems to realize how much they hurt me. Maybe it's because I never show it until the damage is done...
    angellee89 angellee89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2014

    But Then I Think I'm Wrong

    Sometimes I feel like there is just no one out there who can relate to me, and fall in love with me, and I don't like opening up to anyone in my close circle about feeling so inadequate? because the only advice given is age old cliches like, just cheer up (which I had no idea was...
    TheMarlboroMan07 TheMarlboroMan07
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 9, 2013

    Too Damaged...

    Because I feel or do the following: 1. I can be very closed up and quiet in person as I worry that I will say or do something wrong or embarrassing. I don't open up about my life as I am ashamed of my situation in life at the moment (almost 26, still living at home and single...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Jul 3, 2011

    So I feel almost indifferent about this,

    but I'm almost certain that I am going to spend my life alone. No friends or a lover. I have always had this feeling since I was child. Relationships have never been a thing for me and neither have close friendships. It's not that I've never wanted to connect with anyone...
    RoseQuarts RoseQuarts
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2014

    Still Hoping For That Someone...

    I have always been in love with love, and that is exactly my problem. I cannot find a true love, someone who loves me unconditionally just as I would do.
    lolita053 lolita053
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2013

    If you dont like me,

    as I do you; I understand. because who would really choose a daisy, in a field of roses?
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    After 45 years of longing for

    but never having had any close girlfriends, lovers or husband who truly love me for my authentic self (my soul/essence) or who want me around purely for the enjoyment of my company, I finally have decided to accept the truth: I am unlovable. I've been in therapy, read lots...
    alwaysthinkingaboutlife alwaysthinkingaboutlife
    Jan 20, 2016

    I Don't Think I Am Unlovable, I AM Sure About It...

    I think that one of the most difficult things for me is to accept myself the way I am. I don't like myself, I have depression for so many years, I don't think there's a certain reason for that, there are many factors. People usually tell me that if I don't like myself, how can...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 25, 2013
    deleted deleted
    Jun 13, 2015

    Love Me... Please!!!????

    I've never had a boyfriend!! And I guess I'm okay with THAT, but its the fact that nobody has ever even said that they liked me..as more than a friend. Well, there was ONE guy, but he ended up with my sister. I never thought myself as being pretty, and because people have never...
    bulletinmybutterflywing bulletinmybutterflywing
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jul 10, 2007

    Whose Happy?

    If you watch much TV you would come to the conclusion that happiness is obtained by being rich, beautiful, popular & in many cases a slutty, drunken *****. (Sorry if that comment is offensive, but it’s the harsh truth) The glamour and glitz of Hollywood. Everyone is beautiful...
    frankm76 frankm76
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    I'm Black, Fat, & Ugly Female

    I have always felt worthless and incapable of anyone other than my of and on mother to actually care about me.about me, I wish I had someone to talk to. I even tried church. Everything I do is wrong. If I help someone then I am wrong. If I smile and be sociable then I am wrong...
    emarie760 emarie760
    12 Responses Sep 9, 2011

    I'm Beginning To Feel Like I'm Impossible To Love.

    Im a 27 year old woman. I've suffered from intermittent depression and anxiety since childhood. I moved out of home at 17 years old, and have been surviving on my own since then. Oddly enough, I have a good relationship with my parents, and I do know that they care about me. But...
    skiba skiba
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2012

    Single For Life: Perpetually "friend-zoned"

    I'm the life of the party, the first one to laugh and to make a hilarious comment to make you laugh. I have gorgeous bedroom eyes and a spongebob smile. I'm "fluffy" and fashionable, lady lumps adorning my robust physique. I have an education and will gladly sit with anyone and...
    anb1983 anb1983
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2013

    I've went on 2 dates in high school,

    nothing serious. Growing up in a divorced, dysfunctional home, I grew up taking care of my parents more than them taking care of me, taking care of my little brother, and sisters. All I know is taking care of others, school, and work. I'm 22 have zero self confidence, a negative...
    collegestudent83 collegestudent83
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I am convinced that I am unlovable. I meet guys that start off great and then days later they ignore me and lie to me. What is it about me? Am I cursed? I even had someone I considered a good friend blocked me on my messenger without a reason. Is it because I have a son? Is it...
    KatDaRosa KatDaRosa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2012

    I Am Unlovable

    I am 25 years old, I have never been in a relationship and no one has ever been remotely interested in me.
    Paige888 Paige888
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    I keep saying this but in the end it really is

    what it all boils down to- If my own parents can't love me how could anyone else? I have trouble making friends because when I message them or talk to them I feel like I'm interrupting something else they would much rather be doing. Or I feel that they're only speaking to me...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    Everyone around me is married

    or in a relationship...no one even asks me out on dates....I get that I'm not attractive but even some of the worst people are in relationships so why do I struggle with that? I have no friends and I talk to my family only once in awhile. When I'm not working I'm in my...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    To be honest I can't remember

    who I am. Not literally. Since the beginning of June, I have lost at least 6 friends. I don't know who I am anymore. I know everyone goes through issues but I think I am depressed. Not sad, but I am unhappy. Everyday. Morning. Night. 24/7. I can't help it. Of course I have days...
    hannahastin hannahastin
    16-17, F
    Jul 4, 2014

    The Loneliest Number

    "Hostility comes from loneliness, from not seeing yourself like a drop falling into the ocean of humanity like everyone else."- Mehmet OzAfter years of constant loneliness, one begins to come to conclusions about oneself. That they are different. That they are special. In my case...
    Torcularis Torcularis
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2013

    A lot of people like me

    but now that I've been single for a year and 3 months now I'm contemplating whether I'll ever be loved. There's no worse feeling than being alone and trust me...I deal with that feeling every day
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2014

    Where Do I Start?

    Actually I will have to correct that statement. I know I'm lovable. On an intellectual basis there is plenty of evidence that I'm loved. But I don't FEEL lovable. And it's important to feel it deep in your soul! Why am I like this? I don't know.
    lovelyprincess21 lovelyprincess21
    22-25, F
    Oct 24, 2013

    Oh! God where do I start,

    lol, I'm three things!! I'm a drama queen, an attention wh@re AND I care way too much! Like I'm the world most annoying person......but that's who I am I can't change that!! But no one really loves that!! I feel like I'm unlovable all the time! But when I love, or when I care, I...
    Kittyxfreak Kittyxfreak
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 13, 2014

    Likable, But Not Lovable.

    I am a little different to a lot of people who are in this group in that i have no issue making friends and i am outrageously confident, it is quite simply that no one really thinks of me as a potential gilfriend. I am not a stunner by any stretch of the imagination but i don't...
    lostsheep lostsheep
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 9, 2010

    I am unlovable. Everyone

    that cares about me leaves me in the end :( why does it happen so much to me I try to be a good girlfriend and they all just walk away leaving me cold broken and alone
    smilebright21 smilebright21
    18-21, F
    Jul 16, 2014

    I have only had one woman in my life love me

    for me. but time went on and we eventually fell out of love. Now I can't seem to find it again. I am a good person, I have a kind heart, I respect women. I don't know where I am going wrong. it hurts every day to be alone. I try putting my self out there only to be tossed...
    justthatguy1978 justthatguy1978
    36-40, M
    May 17, 2014

    Sometimes I get really into my head.

    People think I'm very calm and balanced on the outside. I don't show much emotion and I've been accused of being unfeeling. The truth is so much different. I love so deep and so hard that it actually scares me. Everyday I see people who should be unloved. People who are...
    1awkwardgirl 1awkwardgirl
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    I thought I had a friend

    but he was just using me for sex. He said I was not pretty or smart and made me feel the most awful human being. I am starting to think I may be unlovable. If not even someone who I thought was my friend, who I was always there for liked me for real I must be unlovable, right? I...
    linnie333 linnie333
    26-30, F
    Sep 11, 2015

    I Definitely Am Unloveable.

    my parents didn't want me. my family told me stories to pacify me because nobody wanted to deal with me. all boyfriends dumped me for someone else. or used me. i didn't graduate high school. couldn't finish college cause i couldn't afford it. when i asked my parents for help...
    itzpms itzpms
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jan 8, 2012

    Everyone I have ever lived with has rejected me

    quite soundly, except for my (now deceased) mother. That includes my father, college finance, husband, and all five siblings. I have determined that I am not, however, worthless, since I have a great deal to give from an emotional distance, anonymously. But I do wish I could...
    peeweezers peeweezers
    1 Response Jan 31, 2015


    Not even a face a mother could love only hate was it too pretty, too ugly, too willful to weak, too wise too stupid to humble too sure of itself they only love me till they realize they can't fix me They only love me till I do something they don't like They only love me till...
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2009

    The Vicious Cycle

    I will be 25 years old next month, but have the love life of an aimless teenager. I've dated many times, but have never had a relationship last longer than two months. For some reason, I always go for the attractive ********. It is a pattern that has been going on since I was 16...
    jadenkay jadenkay
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2013

    Listen Up You Lot.

    Listen up you lot. I know this for a titanium-strength fact. I have no doubt in my mind whatsoever that not only are two members of this group are fantastic, inspiring, wonderful and intriguing young women, but I also would wager ALL of my worldly possessions that they are 100...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2007

    Whose Happy?

    If you watch much TV you would come to the conclusion that happiness is obtained by being rich, beautiful, popular & in many cases a slutty, drunken *****. (Sorry if that comment is offensive, but it’s the harsh truth) The glamour and glitz of Hollywood. Everyone is beautiful...
    frankm76 frankm76
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    I Just Can't Figure It Out...

    I just can't figure out how many people can be in love with someone who treated them like ****. I've talked to numerous women who stayed with abusive boyfriends even after they knew they were abusive. Sometimes its physical abuse. Other times its infidelity. One woman I talked to...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Sep 7, 2011

    I Know....

    The only people who I KNOW love me, are SOme of my freinds here on Ep, family? NO, friends outside ep, NO! even my edx boyfriend, i doubt he loved me, because if he did, he would have treated me a hella lot better than he ******* did.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2010

    The Opposite Of Love

    The opposite of love to many would be hate, but to me it is emptiness. When love left, I didn't't feel hated just loveless, and more importantly unlovable. I'm not saying I have given up, as much as I have stopped expecting to be and feel loved, that way I'm not disappointed. If...
    badyourguy badyourguy
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2010

    I thought i was a gem in the dirt

    but turns out i was just a rock
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    My mom loves my sisters more

    than she loves me, I've always been the one who thinks differently about things and is not afraid to say it. I am actually quite a sensitive person. Very sarcastic and I'm always up for a laugh. My friends constantly tell me that I'm funny which is nice but I feel like that's...
    Larissa18283 Larissa18283
    18-21, F
    Oct 9, 2014

    I Am

    My friend tells me she doubts anyone will ever stay and put up with me. I take so long to get to know - i dont let people in because i know they won't like what they find. I'm outrageous, deep, intense, emotional. So i want to hide that for as long as possible. I'm also a...
    jasminjane jasminjane
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2008

    Story Of My Life

    I finally got up the nerve to ask a girl out. I was in another state at the time, so we talked non-stop for about a month, I managed to come home fora weekend and we met. I thought things were going well, but now a month later she decides I remind her too much of her best friend...
    kellhorn kellhorn
    22-25, M
    Jul 30, 2013

    Its True

    I dont think i am, i know i am. Almost every one i have ever loved has told me i am in one way or another. It doesn't bother me nearly as much as it did when i was younger. i suppose thats because im used to it now. I remember the last thing my mom told me before she left when i...
    Artemis17 Artemis17
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 10, 2010

    I Dont Wanma Sound Desparate

    Not to sound desparate but I wish I had a guy to shower me with attention and love. I can wait for Mr wright ...but I want a Mr right now
    Theartrejunkie Theartrejunkie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2013
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