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I Think I Am Unlovable

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    Why Not Enough? - Every time someone hurts me the only thing I ever ask is why? I want to know what's wrong with me that makes that person feel like Im not enough, like Im not...
    PerfectRainbows PerfectRainbows 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 18, 2012

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    Please? - Hey guys! Please, please, please comment here to let my friend livigayle know she does matter and that there ARE people out there who support her and care about her and...
    AlyShine AlyShine 18-21, F Oct 16, 2012

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    Whose Happy? - If you watch much TV you would come to the conclusion that happiness is obtained by being rich, beautiful, popular & in many cases a slutty, drunken *****. (Sorry if...
    frankm76 frankm76 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Likable, But Not Lovable. - I am a little different to a lot of people who are in this group in that i have no issue making friends and i am outrageously confident, it is quite...
    lostsheep lostsheep 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    I Dont Wanma Sound Desparate - Not to sound desparate but I wish I had a guy to shower me with attention and love. I can wait for Mr wright ...but I want a Mr right now
    Theartrejunkie Theartrejunkie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    I keep saying this but in the end it really is what it all boils down to- If my own parents can't love me how could anyone else? I have trouble making friends because when I...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I Know.... - The only people who I KNOW love me, are SOme of my freinds here on Ep, family? NO, friends outside ep, NO! even my edx boyfriend, i doubt he loved me, because if he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    It'S True - I've been reading through the stories on this site, &i Find some sort of solace knowing there are others. But when I read the comments they are always the same. Get out...
    cd07 cd07 18-21, F Jun 30, 2013

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    Rejected, Rejected, Rejected… - Rejected. Rejected. Rejected. Being rejected seems to invariably be the outcome whenever I try to become closer to or even talk to a woman...
    AspergersandMe AspergersandMe 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Something Inside Me Is Broken - I don't understand why, but I am unlovable. I am beautiful, intelligent, caring, successful, etc, but my personal life is a mess. Men I've dated...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    56 And Still Trying To Fit In - I am not a bad person. I love animals and have adopted several. I don't have a mean bone in my body but I do have expectations of others. Also, I...
    Alone1957 Alone1957 56-60, F Feb 23, 2013

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    I Definitely Am Unloveable. - my parents didn't want me. my family told me stories to pacify me because nobody wanted to deal with me. all boyfriends dumped me for someone else. or...
    itzpms itzpms 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    I'm a smart, good looking young girl with all the potential in the world, but I hate myself. All my life I've never been good enough by anyone's standards. Everyone wants more and...
    angellee89 angellee89 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    What Is Wrong With Me? - I am convinced that I am unlovable. I meet guys that start off great and then days later they ignore me and lie to me. What is it about me? Am I cursed? I...
    KatDaRosa KatDaRosa 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    With Only A Thought - I cannot fully understand how one should interact with others. I can be charming, caring, sincere, even joke. Yet when it comes down to the end of the day it...
    KarchAmadeo KarchAmadeo 18-21, M Sep 22, 2013

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    I'm Beginning To Feel Like I'm Impossible To Love. - Im a 27 year old woman. I've suffered from intermittent depression and anxiety since childhood. I moved out of home at 17 years...
    skiba skiba 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    My Problem - I have no problems whatsoever getting dates and boyfriends... Getting them to STAY with me is another matter entirely.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    I honestly don't know what is wrong with me. I know I am young and still have plenty of time for love, but I just feel like something is missing from my life and I think that's...
    lostchinchilla lostchinchilla 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Nondescript - January of this year was when I started having my suspicions about me being unlovable and an all-around boring person and, honestly, that isn't healthy. It's those...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 30, 2011

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    Story Of My Life - I finally got up the nerve to ask a girl out. I was in another state at the time, so we talked non-stop for about a month, I managed to come home fora weekend...
    kellhorn kellhorn 22-25, M Jul 30, 2013

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    Unlovable - I am writing theese words because I have to find a way to channel theese emotions that are rambling inside of me. I am, and I have always been unlovable. People seemed...
    blackbirdie blackbirdie 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    Its Hard To Say Verbally....but - I just don't think I'm that kinda girl.  I've seen the girls who meet guys all the time and date constantly.  I've seen the girls who meet guys...
    Pooh1608 Pooh1608 18-21, F 6 Responses May 27, 2011

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    Consider Myself As No Boyfriend Since Birth - ..When I was in my college years..particularly 2nd year college...I never have a boyfriend ever since birth till I met this guy...
    Jeaned19 Jeaned19 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    Unlovable - I'm not entirely sure how to write this down, but I don't seem to be lovable. I'm short and fat and have depression, which I'm pretty sure is why I am unlovable; girls...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    Too Damaged... - Because I feel or do the following: 1. I can be very closed up and quiet in person as I worry that I will say or do something wrong or embarrassing. I don't open...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 14 Responses Jul 3, 2011

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    It's Been Proven - I think people can't love me because of my looks, and my issues. I have had several lovers who have tried, but because of my self-loathing and depression, it's...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Please? - Hey guys! Please, please, please comment here to let my friend livigayle know she does matter and that there ARE people out there who support her and care about her and...
    AlyShine AlyShine 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2012

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    The Opposite Of Love - The opposite of love to many would be hate, but to me it is emptiness. When love left, I didn't't feel hated just loveless, and more importantly unlovable. I...
    badyourguy badyourguy 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 26, 2010

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    Sometimes -  I know I'm not really unlovable. But sometimes it feels like that, especially when my father dislikes me, and no one loves me. (But I know there are people who do...
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres 26-30, F Nov 13, 2012

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    I Want to Be Loved -      I've been loved.  I've loved.  I understand love.  I just don't feel loved.  I have a lot of reasons for this...
    intothewoods intothewoods 26-30 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I Just Can't Figure It Out... - I just can't figure out how many people can be in love with someone who treated them like ****. I've talked to numerous women who stayed with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Sep 7, 2011

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    If you dont like me, as I do you; I understand. because who would really choose a daisy, in a field of roses?
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    Why Am I Unloveable - What do Women want?. 64 million dollar question.its so obvious most Women go for looks I am a British Guy who has been on a few dating sites and sent messages...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    Listen Up You Lot. - Listen up you lot. I know this for a titanium-strength fact. I have no doubt in my mind whatsoever that not only are two members of this group are fantastic...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    I Am - My friend tells me she doubts anyone will ever stay and put up with me. I take so long to get to know - i dont let people in because i know they won't like what they...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    I Don't Think I Am Unlovable, I AM Sure About It... - I think that one of the most difficult things for me is to accept myself the way I am. I don't like myself, I have depression...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I'm Black, Fat, & Ugly Female - I have always felt worthless and incapable of anyone other than my of and on mother to actually care about me.about me, I wish I had someone to...
    emarie760 emarie760 26-30 13 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    Unlucky In Love. - Why is it that every single time i open my heart to someone they step on it and throw it away? I genuinely don't know what i do wrong.. maybe i attract the wrong...
    spectrasoul spectrasoul 18-21, F Oct 16, 2012

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    It's Always Been Someone Else... -         I guess I've felt like this for a while. Ever since at least 5th grade, I had multiple insults thrown at me. I was called stupid...
    shootingstarsxlove shootingstarsxlove 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2011

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    Love Me... Please!!!???? - I've never had a boyfriend!! And I guess I'm okay with THAT, but its the fact that nobody has ever even said that they liked me..as more than a friend...
    bulletinmybutterflywing bulletinmybutterflywing 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 10, 2007

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    I hurt the ones I love through ignorance and selfishness. I never see it till too late. I have lost love.. I no longer deserve it. I cannot accept it... I loved my angel.... It...
    popuptarget popuptarget 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    Still Hoping For That Someone... - I have always been in love with love, and that is exactly my problem. I cannot find a true love, someone who loves me unconditionally just as I...
    lolita053 lolita053 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    I Am Unlovable - I am 25 years old, I have never been in a relationship and no one has ever been remotely interested in me.
    Paige888 Paige888 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    But Then I Think I'm Wrong - Sometimes I feel like there is just no one out there who can relate to me, and fall in love with me, and I don't like opening up to anyone in my close...
    TheMarlboroMan07 TheMarlboroMan07 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Whose Happy? - If you watch much TV you would come to the conclusion that happiness is obtained by being rich, beautiful, popular & in many cases a slutty, drunken *****. (Sorry if...
    frankm76 frankm76 46-50, M 6 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Ex Made Me Feel Unloveable Through A Roller Coaster Relationship... - So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F Jul 8, 2013

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    Am I Not Good Looking Enough For You? - i dont know why but girls just seem to avoid me, its strange because i try so hard to be the nice guy and treat girls they way they should...
    TheCreativeMoose TheCreativeMoose 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    Ive Done All The Right Things, And Im Still Not Good Enough - the man i love has told me he knows what love feels like and it will never happen with me. i am a busty woman, with an...
    rottenbananapeel rottenbananapeel 22-25, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Where Do I Start? - Actually I will have to correct that statement. I know I'm lovable. On an intellectual basis there is plenty of evidence that I'm loved. But I don't FEEL...
    lovelyprincess21 lovelyprincess21 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Single For Life: Perpetually "friend-zoned" - I'm the life of the party, the first one to laugh and to make a hilarious comment to make you laugh. I have gorgeous bedroom eyes and...
    anb1983 anb1983 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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