I Think I Can Change Myself And Others

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    In My Opinion

    I think people do have the ability to change both, themselves and others. Many people feel that cannot change others. At least that's what I see here on EP. It could be we are talking about different things. For example, I have changed my husband in many ways, but is he what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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