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I Think I Can Change Myself And Others

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    I think people do have the ability to change both, themselves and others. Many people feel that cannot change others. At least that's what I see here on EP. It could be we are talking about different things. For example, I have changed my husband in many ways, but is he what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    This statement ever rings true. For years I'd carried the weight of the past with all it's regrets, pain, and consequences. Fairly recently I came to the realization that I couldn...
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    I cannot change that my ******* of a dad tells me and my bro he don't care about is and that we never did anything with him but that's ok he's gonna miss out on the rest of my life...
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    The problem isn't that I don't know who I am. I know myself all too well. I know what excites me. I know what I fancy. And it is nothing acceptable or reasonable in this life...
    Awesg Awesg 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was a bit easy going when younger... Going out w guys and making out. I was selective about sex but still had a handful of partners over time. My bad I was honest told hubby...
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    So much has happened the last month so much stress and chaos..I'm trying to tackle each thing one at a time,but it has all been very emotionally draining I'm still in the mist of...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    To THE ONE lovely WHO who I met one day of July, to THE ONE sweet amazing WHO who always put my hands on her everytime we sit next to each other, to THE ONE innocent WHO who I...
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My ex and i broke up a couple of years ago and we both agreed that this relationship is not going to work and being just friends is better. But I love her i always did, and for the...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    it's hard to be yourself in a world that constantly compares to everyone else! it's exhausting being judged all the time by people who are supposed to love u first hand! I am me...
    CasseMoi CasseMoi 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    this is more of a someone smiled at me and changed my day moment. It had been a really bad day at school, I'd failed another math test yet again, failed to get into the choir I...
    Shasta112 Shasta112 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    For once I wasn't in a hurry grocery shopping& had been looking at these cool lamps. Energy rocks in a wire bowl type lamp. I dunno I like it. Anyways, they only had 1 on display...
    Sugasug Sugasug 41-45, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    But yet accepted the things I can change I had this person to inbox me once a cheater always a cheater which was kinda hateful to me as I read it but it didn't affect me because I...
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    I believe I am in s emotionally abusive relationship with my husband who I love more than just about anything in the world, this time I went back home to visit family and I could...
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    It is very hard ... to accept you exist in my work place. At this point of my life, I just wish God will just wipe you off and let you get lost. No I don't hate you but I hate...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    But it seems like all I'm doing is ignoring it. It's been almost half a year and I'm still crying over it. All I know how to do is distract myself. I really thought I'd be better...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    alcoholism and self loathing has destroyed many things. i hurt my best friend and even though i cant change the past i can accept it. she has a new boyfriend and you should see her...
    Kogane Kogane 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I don't really know how to feel my boyfriend has recently been pushing me away. I broke my ankle in a car accident that we got in together and he has taken care of me but now that...
    teacup224 teacup224 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Be Happy...... Enjoy every moment of your life. Life is too short to waste on grudges. Laugh when you can, apologies when you should, and let go of what you can't change.
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 22

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    It's hard to accept that you have a good husband and great baby daughter that you love to death . But a stepson that you don't have any bond and any love. Is that make me evil? I...
    Shakti35 Shakti35 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I think each human was born to find someone (or someones) who would shape the way they think or act. Its a really nice feeling when you find them. The decisions you make now affect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 21

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    your* and I really do. One man has changed my life forever and I dont even know what he looks like. I am very grateful I was found because I was at my lowest low.. Thank you Sir...
    Tstanley86 Tstanley86 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    U & Me forever this way www.nidhisuraj.com There are so many Love Stories in this world. Few stories become so famous but few are unsaid and been buried with time. Few...
    evan003 evan003 18-21, F Jul 21

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    i think i want a new relationship. one that uses the word beautiful more than the word *****!
    DeAnnsharon DeAnnsharon 41-45, F Jul 20

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    If I could change anything at all about this statement it would be the word "you're"... I really liked this experience but the incorrect grammar is killing me😂
    Dahlia2020 Dahlia2020 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    That's kinda hurt, I once fell too deep and i found it impossible to shut away the acute feeling of that emotional pain, I waited all day and night, only ended up with...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    U & Me forever this way www.nidhisuraj.com There are so many Love Stories in this world. Few stories become so famous but few are unsaid and been buried with time. Few...
    evan003 evan003 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Today, I and my officemate Rema are texting about our boss Sheena. Rema texted me how commanding Sheena was and giving her too personal orders already out of her job description...
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Many times I made mistakes, couple of those actually. Some of them were committed with my conscious mind working, admittedly telling me it's not proper. Yes, I know the values, the...
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    I really need to change and I've known this for a long time. I would like to be a kinder person I mean like.. I'm nice but I just want to be the kindest I could be.
    kianaleaf kianaleaf 13-15, F Jul 19

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    This long-term relationship started back in 2012. I said yes to him when he asked if i can be her girlfriend. One year later, i found out that my long time crush and his gf broke...
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    My mother badmouths me a lot and it spoils my sense of being crazy. I am 23 yr old and a dropout from a prestigious college. I am not giving excuses for it like i used to before...
    Bllahblah Bllahblah 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Back when I was still in college, I was always submitting promisory notes in the finance department at times I can't fully paid my account and this happened before we took exams...
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Long ago, during my college years, one of my girl classmates approaches me on day asking me " why do you keep on looking at me? are you lesbian? Shocked, I answered her with one...
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    people do change, I learned that today.
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    My life revolves around things I cannot control. Including things I SHOULD be able to at my age. It caused me to self harm for years. It wasn't until recently I realized I self...
    thisfruitloop thisfruitloop 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Half of me is soooo glad it's Friday and the end of another ****** week in a job I hate and the other half is dreading another lonely weekend sat home dwelling on all the **** in...
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    I've decided that today was the day that I started to really promise myself that I was going to work on getting better. I have a lot to tackle, but I know that I can handle it. If...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 15

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