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I Think I Can Change Myself And Others

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    I think people do have the ability to change both, themselves and others. Many people feel that cannot change others. At least that's what I see here on EP. It could be we are talking about different things. For example, I have changed my husband in many ways, but is he what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F Oct 2

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    I knew a guy when we were kids, but we grew up in different cities, I met him again over 3 years ago, and as soon as we recognized each other we started dating. He was the type who...
    Aurora90 Aurora90 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I don't want to be the person on the sidelines anymore. I want to make a difference and stray from my "friends." All they do is make people feel bad about themselves. I want to...
    Konalover0210 Konalover0210 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    It's true I think one single person can change your life forever, that's Sebastian in the picture he has helped me overcome many things and is still helping me accomplish things I...
    ayumipamyurin ayumipamyurin 18-21, F Oct 17

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    After 5 years, my husband is moving out. In July he told me he thought he was gay. It's October now, and the movers are coming this week or next. I don't want to be here during...
    joujoubee joujoubee 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    I am always trying to make this world a better place for everyone. I don't see color, religion, sexual preference I see everyone as inhabitants of Earth. Life is like a pond and...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 17

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    Have You Ever Felt That If You Cant Change Something Its Better Off Left Alone? Who Felt This Way? -Feed Back
    tanasia tanasia 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 4

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    The best thing about this site is that I can be myself and there's no lies when people meet me because they can read previous stories about me and they can see what I'm like as a...
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    The things which keeps me to move on is now my cosmetics and shopping. I buyed lately for me a full bag of cosmetics. Creams, face masks, make up, perfums. I felt great! I realized...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Every morning, I wake up mad at you because you aren't here and we don't talk anymore. I spend my days miserable because you are gone and I sit wondering why I couldn't make you...
    Xamad Xamad 22-25, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    My appearance is something I continuously struggle with every day of my life. But it has to change. Not me- I don't have to change, but my view, my PERSPECTIVE of myself NEEDS TO...
    queercutie queercutie 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can't change my past, I can't change my childhood. I'll never be able to change how I was treated when I was little or the events that still occur today. But I can make a...
    safetoread safetoread 51-55, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    As I look put the window I think to myself tomorrow this will all be a distant memory
    phoenixprincess phoenixprincess 70+, F 4 Responses Oct 14

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    Initially I thought that I could achieve change with someone else's help.... I even discovered that there were people in my life who were willing to help but every time they asked...
    Emeraldteo Emeraldteo 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A person can definitely change your life, there is no doubt about that. Everyone that comes into your life changes it. I think that we learn something about ourselves from everyone...
    alhsya02 alhsya02 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    I opened my 3rd eye chakra after getting rid of psychic parasites who resided on it. Now I can manifest thought immediately. I was good on that before but the opening of the 3rd...
    Silverwolf86 Silverwolf86 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ive been talking to this girl since freshman year in high school and she basically became my best friend throughout high school. Ive had feelings for her since about sophomore year...
    Desko12 Desko12 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 7

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    It's hard to accept it. It's been over a year and I still think about her. My friend showed me a recent photo of her yesterday and everything just crumbled. She seems like she has...
    slashy11 slashy11 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    My husband is not the man for me. I have been with him for 17 years and whilst he has some good qualities it's the bad ONE that I can't live with. He's a drunk. Mind u according to...
    Cflo Cflo 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    Yup story of my life. I can only imagine what others have to say about this.
    Ramrod01 Ramrod01 22-25, M Oct 7

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    This is quite hard for me to write. I am a very busy person, I work 7 days a week (2 days charity work, 5 days full time) I run the house, look after my rescue animals attending as...
    fuerza23 fuerza23 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Yesterday someone made me feel bad with my own body and i cant stop thinking about it. Im pressuring myself to be skinny with my bones showing because i dont like to see fat im my...
    beatrizc beatrizc 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    I feel as though there is some major calling for me out there. Some hidden niche that I can exploit make my presence felt. I have a few fields I am looking at but they all seem...
    WillRogers1223 WillRogers1223 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I used to be happy. Until I experienced the world worst breakup. We knew each other for five years, dated for eight months, and have been broken up for two years...and I still...
    NikkiNova NikkiNova 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    I'm so fu***** angry ! With myself . I let you destroy me with your words . Accepting my past mistakes and forgiving myself has been the hardest thing I've had to do . Even through...
    boriquanaty boriquanaty 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    When I was little I was physically, verbally, and sexually abused. I try to move past my past but it seems nearly impossible. I don't sleep at night, I have picked up some nasty...
    tinyec96 tinyec96 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 2

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    Why do I sabotage myself? Why do I go through the texts and the pictures? Why do I make myself angry.. it's always just enough to put me into a tailspin. It's never enough to give...
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    Do you believe in love at first sight ? I do now the day I meet my now boyfriend I knew I loved him but for now I'll keep it to myself. Anyone with me ?
    mixedlove mixedlove 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 26

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    It's been a while since I've been on Guessing I'm going to blog things not to sure.. But I've made change.. I've started to go back to school and further my medical career. I'm...
    GoddessHalo GoddessHalo 22-25, F Sep 28

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    I am trying to accept that even after we choose each other it didn't work out. After all we have been through. It is such a hard pill to swallow. I feel so lost through these days...
    pink1110 pink1110 22-25, F Oct 3

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    So I am finding peace within myself through practice and the experiences of life. It's so wonderful. I am not letting every meager thing bother me. Instead, I am taking it a SECOND...
    TheMeBMini25 TheMeBMini25 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 8

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    When you are at your lowest point, you are opened to the greatest change. Strength dosnt come from what you can do, it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn't do...
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F Oct 12

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    Someone talk to me I'm a female 21 year old and I'm very stressed at this moment in my life .. Need someone to talk to that can empress me and make me forget about this ugly life
    lalilove lalilove 22-25, F Oct 13

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    My boyfriend has been gone to jail for almost 3 weeks, tomorrow I am going to see him for the first time since he left. He has less then three months left and its just difficult...
    Fkinnon Fkinnon 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Definitely, if I were to see a girl smile at me, it instantly cheers me up and I'll keep thinking about it for the rest of the day. I even remember the last day in school before...
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I'm deleting my ep account cuz 1 there are too many creepy guys on here 2 I don't think it's making me see things for whAt they are I've lately been over reacting a lot. Bye all...
    Gabriella20xx Gabriella20xx 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I'm ready to change...:) -feeling New
    up97 up97 16-17, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    What is life? Life can be a number of things, maybe even anything. I've seen it, in the wealthy and the poor. In both the sane and insane. Life has no face or name to hold it down...
    sighted sighted 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 27

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    My past is full of regrets. The usual stuff: things I've said to people, things I didn't say. Then, people I've let slip out of my life. There's one person in particular that I...
    Hellcat43 Hellcat43 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Can some one help me I can't let go of anything and it's so hard to change please help me! :(
    cwebb1221 cwebb1221 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    Okay so as a child I was physically and emotionally abused on a pretty fairly regular basis. My father left our family and never looked back when I was at the age 4 or 5. Even...
    NellieNike NellieNike 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 7

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    I just can't get over the fact that I have asymmetrical face. 😓 it annoys me all the time for the fact that when I speak my right upper lip goes up and the other one stay in...
    vivaalinda vivaalinda 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 12

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    My husband and I went to an ice cream shop yesterday and when the young man took our money I told my husband that I thought he had the cutest smile and asked if I could tell him...
    lalalagirl40 lalalagirl40 41-45, F 9 Responses Oct 12

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    "You can't change how anyone feels, that's up to them how they react to you. You just keep being the best damm man you can be cause it's good for you." *rolls up sleeves* "Ok then...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I really believe that one person can make everything different for you in your life. Infact I have someone in my life that has infact changed me and made me a better person :)
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    I am in a relationship with a female. I never ever thought I would start dating a female until this one girl asked me to kiss her and if we feel the spark to pursue it. We kissed...
    moeco moeco 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 17