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I Think I Can Change Myself And Others

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    I think people do have the ability to change both, themselves and others. Many people feel that cannot change others. At least that's what I see here on EP. It could be we are talking about different things. For example, I have changed my husband in many ways, but is he what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    I believe i only can change myself :-)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I had a best friend that hurt me so much. I was emotionally hurt, I was emotionally affected. I never thought getting into high school was like a life risk. I felt like a failed...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I've been posting a bit in the more "depressed" part of Experience Project more because i have unsaid things I don't feel too comfortable sharing with family. So I look towards...
    xxRaindrop xxRaindrop 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    My life story by me and fou y'all. I grew up a sad crying baby,i was clumsy all the time. I drove a barney car into a glass case then got bit by a big dog. I was bullied at school...
    mgosset2 mgosset2 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I've realised something from reading over my other experiences, it seems you can be so miserable in a relationship but something always keeps you hanging on. It's all a lie. It's...
    Jin959 Jin959 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I don't think it takes one person to change my life. I think the only person who can change my life is myself however I do believe someone else can enhance it or make it even...
    LUzunov LUzunov 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    The greatest or the worst Usually the persons we let get closest to us have the most impact on our lives. And being that they are involved in our lives, they often can influence...
    MissRejected MissRejected 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My wife admitted of having an emotional affair of a co-worker after I have caugth a txt message and a picture with an email account made for them.She works on nigths and the guy in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 13

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    Who's to determine what cannot change? What about hope, possibility, and chance? Everything is energy and it all has its force. Life was born from 1 simple source. Change is...
    lonelee13 lonelee13 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I know i cant change a lot of things, but i going to try to change the way i ate No bead No milk No met (like salami and jam and all that) No deserts Wish me good luck :D
    antomg1 antomg1 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I definitely believe that one person can change your whole life. This can happen on many levels, whether it be romantically, you're career path, or just the way you are the world.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I have been having problems with myself. And that has led to other problems. I grew up in such a terrible home. I grew up to violence by myself and by others, and I grew up with...
    xxRaindrop xxRaindrop 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I am thinking way too much at times. but some things need to be thought about. the #1 thing that is making me see life in a different way is who I am giving my time to. it seems...
    2batinman 2batinman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    idk if I'd ever be able to accept the fact that being in a relationship the person has/gotta have friends too but why would a woman have to have male friends ? or men women? so I'm...
    mergirl123 mergirl123 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    Well I don't think they can :P I know they can! If you truly care about someone then they can influence you in many different ways :P They can either push you to better yourself or...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    the last 12 hours ive been fighting what was left to me, trying to get rid of past experience s because u kno its unrealistic in ur new relationship is emotionally draining, I...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F Apr 19

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    With every step I take. I'm forever conscious of the quest for inner peace. The stillness of mind while everything around forms reality that resonates. - When I survey where I am...
    complex7 complex7 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I'm trying to accept that life is not a joyful ride, that it is actually pain and sorrow also. I should be able to accept, that sorrow and pain are part of the beauty of life. And...
    Bluehalo Bluehalo 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    If I could go back and give myself one piece of advise it would have been. "don't run away. There's so much on the horizon" ...oh well. I'm right where I need to be for a reason...
    greeneyz83 greeneyz83 31-35, F Apr 11

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    I was asked once what would I change in my life if I had such chance ? I thought hard about it and the only things that I found was avoiding hurting people and thanking to those...
    laughingsoul laughingsoul 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    And I do... for every relationship. I gaze at them. Analyse them and turn into what they want. Problem is that this takes no account of what I want and who I am. Then I get...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 17

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    I'm tired of my world being turned upside down over and over and over. My head is spinning and has been for five years. I have changed so much over that time. I have become a...
    ABlueEyedNobody ABlueEyedNobody 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for years, lived together for two years. Early this year I moved out on my own and we agreed to stay together regardless. I had grown unhappy...
    mythicalmedusa mythicalmedusa 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 21

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    People have changed so much
    VictoriaDynes VictoriaDynes 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I think one person could change your life depending on the person and the knowledge they carry along with the admiration you have for them or what key part they carry in your life
    caiseyi caiseyi 22-25, F Apr 13

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    Hi and excuse the punctuation or lack of due to my phone screen not functioning properly I am involved in a charity ballet organised by a lady from my cycling club for a good...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 16

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    I know that you are in control of your life and your experiences but some times you meet that one person that flips everything upside down. You begin to question things that were...
    Tenthusiast26 Tenthusiast26 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am trying to accept that the father of my child and I, do not work well together. But it's difficult when you fell in love with the person they use to be.. There were very good...
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    My ex boyfriend, which is my first boyfriend in high school. We were in our freshmen year that time when we started dating. I felt like the happiest kid alive when he said, "YESSS...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    It's all my fault you are acting like this now. You don't need to be him, you don't need to look like him, you don't need to copy him nor be one of the guys like him. Baby, you're...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    My and my boyfriend were together 4 years and we love each other very much still as friends. I've moved on and kept my business to myself, he's now met someone awful who posts...
    lharker92 lharker92 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 14

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    So this is it.I'm 21,male,Indian and a loner.I've been hurt by a lot of people in my life,but thats all in the past.I now need a job,but I have no family support,I live away from...
    sakthiachu sakthiachu 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Guys, I know this sounds very superficial, vain and stupid. I've got like three little dimples on my forehead caused by chickenpox when I was small, and they drive me insane. When...
    jonkomeester420 jonkomeester420 16-17, M 5 Responses Apr 22

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    The days seem longer. Time seems to be slipping away. The walk seems almost unbearable. Not to mention your feet are starting to hurt. At this point you are completely exhausted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 14

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    I add a smile to everything I wear and that has worked great for me. Smiling is definitely one of the best beauty remedies. If you have a good sense of humor and a good approach...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    i want to complete my study,, but i can't here cause I'm Syrian ,, what's the solution?? I'm worrying about my future!
    Hani97 Hani97 18-21, M a week ago

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    I think I've accepted my mental illnesses by now. It's been years and I've had no help but I think I'm okay.
    GhostlyAngel GhostlyAngel 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I told my husband that out marriage is not working. We have been at war for what seems the entire span of our relationship and it's not improving. We separated briefly and I came...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Accepting the fact that I can't change how much people care or not, no matter how much I care is one of the hardest things ever, but I'm learning to accept and move on. People take...
    Debbiefrangipani Debbiefrangipani 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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