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I Think I Can Change Myself And Others

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    I think people do have the ability to change both, themselves and others. Many people feel that cannot change others. At least that's what I see here on EP. It could be we are talking about different things. For example, I have changed my husband in many ways, but is he what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    There is something not quite right about me. I'm sure lots of people say this and you just think 'Yeah well nobody's perfect..' But I actually think there is something quite wrong...
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    I do believe that smiling at others can change their negative attitude to a positive one. I have been depressed and others have smiled and spoken a nice word to me and it made all...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't think I can change my future cuz of my depression. No matter how hard I try to let go of my depression and my past it still keeps me in the dark. Everyday I'm fighting it...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    one person can change it for the better, and one person can change it for the worse. That one person who changes it for the better, could also be the same person who changes it...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F Mar 20

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    It is hard but the more i accept the fact I cannot change people the more content i am in myself
    timshep1102 timshep1102 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    and no matter how strong willed or determined we are there are things we must accept we cannot change. Things like you can't make people stay in your world, you can't make them...
    Chrye Chrye 51-55, F 7 Responses Mar 17

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    Is it wrong for me to worry and care too much for people? I mean I love helping others, i really do, I don't mind it at all, but, I'm starting to realize that I worry too much and...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    For quite some time now I have been struggling with an over riding sense of unhappiness with the state of things in my life, starting with the long term issues in my marriage...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 7 Responses a week ago

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    Every time i think about you, i have to remind myself that if you wanted to talk to me you would.
    KarenDew KarenDew 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Trying to change my mind. Trying to invent a new me. Trying to shed the bad and gain the new and better version of myself. Trying to trust myself. Trying and seeking answers. Self...
    Anonymouscoast Anonymouscoast 22-25 Mar 3

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    Warning: Gratuitous venting ahead. Not nearly as exciting as gratuitous nudity. I feel a little sick. I'm standing here at the end of something. Some days it feels like the end...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 11

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    So growing up I knew who I was, what I wanted. I had the confidence to go out and get it had no self doubt had a social life. I knew looking at my name who I was. Getting married...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I understand that I messed up in my life and I can't go back and that kills me honestly and their are lots of things I wish I could change but I try to look on the bright side but...
    shyguy747 shyguy747 13-15, M Mar 11

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    LAST LETTER BEFORE HER DEATH Sitting here looking at the sky thinking It's really hard to pass a day without any text from you how I deal my life without U I am not blaming...
    romeowacco romeowacco 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    I'm able of doing many small changes, but my core will still the same.
    HeterosexualTransexual HeterosexualTransexual 18-21, T Mar 7

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    I think I'm just going to block myself again for the second time. **** just doesn't worth much for trying anymore
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F Mar 17

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    One day I'm gonna look back on all these years of struggling and I'm gonna say to myself " I made it." This is what keeps me going.
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am determined to move on and forget about you, rather than you causing me misery. Every time I see you, hear your name, even see your friends I wanna disperse into a puddle of...
    blxnde blxnde 16-17, F Mar 3

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    All my life I would always walk with my head down because I was ashamed of how I looked. My mom is very beautiful however and everywhere we go I would always hear people give her...
    Purpletears17 Purpletears17 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 16

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    That's right. Don't feel sad if someone leave or hurt you. Noone but You. If you have yourself,you can meet right person someday. I believe it.
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F Mar 19

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    Its common sense. Even if/when time travel existed, you either wouldnt be able to change the past at all or you wouldnt be able to without the present being altered as well.
    AnAnonymousPanda AnAnonymousPanda 16-17, M Mar 10

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    If I could go back in time to fix some things I would , but that's not an option ,therefore I will change my future.
    Maalaa Maalaa 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Im a girl Loving a man who cant Love me back ),: im a chiLdish super friendLy cute Lovely girL uggh im sweet im asking if whats wrong with ME ? why he cant LOVE me Like do why he...
    crazytwentytwo crazytwentytwo 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    One of the patients I looked after today died. He was four years old, blonde hair young lad, only child to a middle aged German couple. Finished work and stills feel heavy inside...
    Sift Sift 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 6

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    Never go into a relationship that you can't handle with the strongest storm and tightest schedule... "Remember boys are not toys" "Love is not a game" If you can't stand with men...
    AlphaLion AlphaLion 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I keep on trying and I keep on accepting these things it's just Idk anymore Idk what's stopping me I keep on accepting that things are over but Idk what to think anymore just I...
    shyguy747 shyguy747 13-15, M Mar 12

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    I have always thought one person can turn someone's life around or a simple gesture can make someone's day. Its the small things in life that are the biggest rewards.
    Kman4You Kman4You 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    There are inspiring people everywhere. In history, you read life stories that really make you think about your own. Like Anne Frank. I accept I am inspired by my rabbi.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My best friend came into my life, and he changed me for the better. He made me grow into a stronger person, and helped me develop the confidence I need in life. He's change my...
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    If you do nit create change, change will create you.
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    A while ago I asked a question on here: “Is it even worth trying to quit an addiction if said addiction is one of the few sources of joy in your life?” Well, I am now...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I broke up with my ex,I realized I was obsessed with him too much.i tried my best to keep him,but now I realized I can't change the truth he stop loving me.i have to move on ,it's...
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 4

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    im loving a person who cant love me back </3 its sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hurt ),:
    crazytwentytwo crazytwentytwo 16-17, F Mar 5

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    Where can I buy cheap but good furniture?
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I like too wonder a lot, dream a lot and think a lot. I am an open book. I often wonder if all the people I use too know and like in my life would still remember me if I were going...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    but really I'm trying to change the things I can. I'm not doing a very good job at it.
    untamablekitty untamablekitty 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    For example, when you have a baby,nyour entire life has to be reorganized and your way of life and the way you look at things changes completely. all because of one little person...
    meeeghanp77 meeeghanp77 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    It is the one the hides behind the mirror until you face it. We all have the power within ourselves to become more, better, happier, etc. It takes effort, sometimes knowledge...
    ProgressivelyCurious ProgressivelyCurious 61-65, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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