I Think I Hate My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 90 People

    Everyday it's something different.

    Although I think hate is a harsh word. I just feel like... It shouldn't be all on me. Why should I be the only one that hurts. I stare at him hoping that he would notice me but he don't. He don't take the time the look up from his phone. I often look at him hoping to see...
    dsuzy dsuzy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    I have never been so annoyed by one person in

    my life. The things that he focuses on, the things that make him laugh... Etc. He can't look at me and know that I'm so unhappy or he's just clueless too it. I almost think he just holds me here to torture me. It's because he loves me. It's all just a pretty little cover for his...
    dsuzy dsuzy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

    He Is Emotionally Dead

    The one thing that I need the most is a significant other who I lean on, someone to support me and my wants and needs, who is loving and caring and wants me to feel better. Every time I tell my husband something is wrong he just gets mad and we get into a huge argument which ends...
    aloneandunhappy aloneandunhappy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2013

    My Husband the Insecure

    My husband was an Army private when he suddenly returned home due to an illness (meaning that he never told me he was coming home, I didn't know until I got the call to pick him up at the airport).  Before he left he was strong, confident, good with finances, and secure in...
    chasingforyears chasingforyears
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 22, 2009

    I Hate My Husband

    I feel incredibly stressed at the moment as I have so much going on in my life. My husband is so unsupportive. If I cry he tells me I'm irrational and just like my parents. He puts me down all the time. I've suffered with depression, am paranoid and over sensitive. I pretty much...
    Idontmind Idontmind
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2011

    My Husband Who I Really Cant Stand Anymore

    Ugh the past two years hve been hell!!!!!!!!! He came home from his deployment with a few issues but nothing to major well they gave him some meds for anxiety and they made him an ******* so he was taking off of those...well then he slept with my who i thought good friend of...
    jamie0605 jamie0605
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2010

    I Too Think I Hate My Husband

    i really dont know who to turn to about this but thanks to google i found this group to open up to.I dont know exactly when this whole feeling started but i cant control it anymore.Sometimes he doesnt evven do anything that would upset me but for some reason the sight of him...
    ev11 ev11
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 30, 2010

    And He Flirted With The Bride

    Im seething with rage and miserable about this. He has been so detrimental to my mental well being. We have just gotten back from a wedding this weekend, his half brother that he did not grow up with but who has a great adult relationship with got married to a really super...
    Hildagard Hildagard
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

    Help Me!!!!!

    I think I hate my husband....I have been married to my husband since june of this year. We dated for 3 years. The problem???? his exwife lisa....I have just had it. The ex is really something. I told him when we got engaged...I am fine with him and his ex talking about the kids...
    gabiollie gabiollie
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2009

    Feeling Anger Towards My Husband All the Time....

    Me and my husband met 6.5 years ago and married for almost 3 years.  Things started out really great, but than he accused me of cheating which I would not in a million years do to anyone.  Then I told him to take a hike.  Then we became friends and then he was...
    SMAA SMAA
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

    Does Any One Really Care

    hi all my store is i have been with my husband for 35 years are aniversery is today i have two kids a 31 year old son and a29 year old girl i have two greadsons 5 and 9 iam 49 years old now a went to die its been loveless for over 10 years now i olny stay because i have no place...
    tankladie tankladie
    46-50, F
    Sep 27, 2012

    Is It Me?

    Here is my story been married 19 years. I am an LPN ( nurse) and now back at school. Last time I went we did not have kids yet. I was working full time and going to school also. He said that he thought he did not love me halfway through my classes because I did not give him...
    blondemommy75 blondemommy75
    36-40
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2013

    I Just Hate And Love Him....

    My hubby and I been married for over a year now. He's very sweet but moody. While I'm an observer and I would say sensitive as well. Every time i ask him to do something or just simply ask him about something, he would yell at me which i hate. He's always on the defensive tone. I...
    k2kkisses k2kkisses
    22-25, F
    Jul 20, 2011

    I Hate Him But Love Him

    My husband and I have been with each other for 12 years.  Most of our marriage has been a struggle: financially,emotionally and physically.  By physically I don't mean he has been aggressive towards me, but towards the items we own.  We have never really been...
    tigereyes310 tigereyes310
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2009

    My Husband the Addict

    I have been with my husband for 16 years. He was a functioning addict when I met him. I didn't know for a few years after dating that he did drugs. We both have had our flaws in the relationship, but his doesn't stop. We have seperated because of his drug problem. We have argued...
    icpain22 icpain22
    36-40
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2009

    Whats Wrong With This Person

    My 'dear' hubby and I were lying in bed a few nights ago when he began to talk about different things. He began by talking about a woman he used to date who is hanging onto a married man while he wife watches. To my knowledge they are getting a divorce. She dated this man...
    dangfool dangfool
    70+, F
    Nov 25, 2012

    I Too Think I Hate My Husband

    i rally dont know who o turn to about this but thanks to google i found this group to open up to.I dont know exactly when this whole feeling started but i cant control it anymore.Sometimeshe doesnt evven do anything thatwould upset me but for some reason the sight of him makes...
    ev11 ev11
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 30, 2010

    I Hate My Husband!

    I'm pregnant and i think he doesn't care. If he cares he should find a job! If he cares,he should help me do the house chores. He is 32 yrs old ,and I am 23. I can say that I am mature than my husband ,i always think for our future. He always says that he is searching for a job...
    neednewlife neednewlife
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2012

    I Dont Know If It's Hate Yet...

    I've been married to my husband for about two years now, been with him for 5. I can't honestly say I hate my husband but it's getting there. I feel like I've lost who I am, I feel like he has completely changed. In the beginning he was so good to me, wanted to hear about my...
    wishingforhappiness wishingforhappiness
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2012

    Never, when I truly need him to step up,

    he is worse than ever! Angry with him, to the point of hatred! I have never hated anyone, now the man I once was madly in live with I despise!
    Froggy420 Froggy420
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2014

    Another Hated Husband!!

    Yes, i think i hate my husband too. I hate almost everything about him. His lies, his ex-wife, his friends, his irresponsability, his eating habits, his lack of sexual desire, his everything. I think i'm still with him because i don't want to go through another break-up. I can...
    gelatina gelatina
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 14, 2009

    Reasons Why I Think I Hate My Husband

    Reasons why I am really starting to detested my husband I have to practically drag out of bed in the morning no doubt he will have a few nasty things to say to me like shut the **** up, he gets at least two sleeps ins a week I haven’t got a lie in ,in a very very long time...
    wendydoo wendydoo
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 6, 2012

    I Too Think I Hate My Husband

    i rally dont know who o turn to about this but thanks to google i found this group to open up to.I dont know exactly when this whole feeling started but i cant control it anymore.Sometimeshe doesnt evven do anything thatwould upset me but for some reason the sight of him makes...
    ev11 ev11
    18-21, F
    May 30, 2010

    Hate Is Such A Strong Emotion Maybe Just Disgust

        So we are struggling with every day life...I mean really struggling. He (my hubby) alcoholic, drug addict. Very hard to live with all the fits of rage, well life with him has been any thing but a fairy tale.I have took care of every thing, always.So now I am broken, my...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

    Is It Him Or Me Very Emotional?

    Me and my husband were married for almost 5 months. We known each other in college, he was my senior and we decided to be together 4 months after we met. Total up we've been together for almost 4 years. For your information, I am very sensitive and emotional. I can easily cry if...
    Creck Creck
    22-25, F
    Nov 11, 2012

    I Hate My Husband Too

    we got married 6 month ago, we dated for a half year, i loved him when  got married, but after we got married and started leaving together i start seeing real him, he doesnt like to shower, he hates cleaning his ears that you can see a caramel in his ear, he is soooo stinky...
    donna87 donna87
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2010

    I Really Do Hate Him...

    I've been with my husband for seven years, and our second wedding anniversary is coming up at the end of April. We met through our jobs as I was just clawing myself up out of a really, really bad chain of events and hit it off immediately. We moved in together within a month and...
    doodily doodily
    26-30
    Mar 4, 2012

    I Think I Hate My Husband

    My husband and I have only been married for a little over a month and already I feel so fed up with his bull crap. I seriously feel like I'm starting to harbor feelings of extreme hatred towards him. We met when I was 9 and he was 12 and became childhood friends. We began dating...
    jociepoo jociepoo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2011

    Losing My Mind!!!!

    When we first started dating he was my dream. Then I fell for him and he started to be crappy. But we worked thorugh most of it and eventually he asked me to marry him . half a year later he said he needs to get out of thouse because of my family so he brings me a flower to let...
    Meakle Meakle
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013

    I am still in my shite marriage to my

    "beloved"husband It's up and down relationship mostly down I m still here because my job is the area can not afford to quit also I can not afford to move house neither He has got nastier as time goes on this morning he was half awake on the couch this is where he sleeps 6 out...
    wendydoo wendydoo
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014

    I Should Have Married A Man

    So I met my husband when he was 18 and I was in my 20's. I had a career, a car and my own apartment. He on the other hand, was still living with Mom and working at a local pizza hut. After 3 years together, he came to me one day and told me he was sick of being trapped in his...
    rougefox97969 rougefox97969
    31-35
    Apr 3, 2012

    Why Should We Have Children When I Already Have You To Raise

    I met my husband 6 yrs ago, during college. We dated for a year before getting engaged, then waited until "one if us had a good job with benefits" to get married. Of course, that was me when I changed my major to go to Nursing school. Once I graduated, got a job and rented a...
    responsibleadult responsibleadult
    22-25
    4 Responses Jun 13, 2012

    Need Some Advice.

    I found this website while Google-ing, and I'm really glad I did. Hopefully someone out there can give me some advice or direction. I'm really scared of the unknown, and I'm living far away from friends and family. Here it goes... We got married less than 6 months of meeting...
    Jenelle360702 Jenelle360702
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    What Gives

    This man cannot undrstand how his words really effect how i see him. The only way that i can get him to shut up after he has been drinking is to tell him that i am recording him. Now if thats what it takes, then who the hell am i married to. Am i the only dumbass here? I know...
    redheadhawkins redheadhawkins
    41-45, F
    Jul 7, 2013

    Correction: I know I hate him.

    Gotta let this anger go and the only way to do that is to let him go.
    truthandbeauty truthandbeauty
    36-40, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    Im Pretty Sure I Hate My Husband...Is That Normal??

    Me and my husband have been together for about 2 years now, married for 1, with a 3 month old son and we just found out im pregnant again! The problem is that lately I've had this underlying hatred for him. He has a history of lying to me about alot of stuff, Luke watching...
    KeleighG KeleighG
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 21, 2013

    Trapped

    I feel so trapped. Married husband within 3 months of meeting him, had two sons from a previous and we were happy on our own so why I said yes was down to the fact I thought a secure family would help. Been with him 17 yrs because he won't go, my sons are grown up and live...
    earthlady earthlady
    41-45
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2011

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