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I Think I Hate My Husband

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    I have never been so annoyed by one person in my life. The things that he focuses on, the things that make him laugh... Etc. He can't look at me and know that I'm so unhappy or he...
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Everyday it's something different. Although I think hate is a harsh word. I just feel like... It shouldn't be all on me. Why should I be the only one that hurts. I stare at him...
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I Just Hate And Love Him.... - My hubby and I been married for over a year now. He's very sweet but moody. While I'm an observer and I would say sensitive as well. Every time i ask...
    k2kkisses k2kkisses 22-25, F Jul 20, 2011

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    Whats Wrong With This Person - My 'dear' hubby and I were lying in bed a few nights ago when he began to talk about different things. He began by talking about a woman he used to...
    dangfool dangfool 70+ Nov 25, 2012

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    My Husband the Addict - I have been with my husband for 16 years. He was a functioning addict when I met him. I didn't know for a few years after dating that he did drugs. We both...
    icpain22 icpain22 36-40 3 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    Hate Is Such A Strong Emotion Maybe Just Disgust -     So we are struggling with every day life...I mean really struggling. He (my hubby) alcoholic, drug addict. Very hard to...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    I Too Think I Hate My Husband - i rally dont know who o turn to about this but thanks to google i found this group to open up to.I dont know exactly when this whole feeling...
    ev11 ev11 18-21, F 1 Response May 30, 2010

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    Help Me!!!!! - I think I hate my husband....I have been married to my husband since june of this year. We dated for 3 years. The problem???? his exwife lisa....I have just had it...
    gabiollie gabiollie 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    I am still in my shite marriage to my "beloved"husband It's up and down relationship mostly down I m still here because my job is the area can not afford to quit also I can not...
    wendydoo wendydoo 26-30 Jan 18

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    I Really Do Hate Him... - I've been with my husband for seven years, and our second wedding anniversary is coming up at the end of April. We met through our jobs as I was just...
    doodily doodily 26-30 Mar 4, 2012

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    Feeling Anger Towards My Husband All the Time.... - Me and my husband met 6.5 years ago and married for almost 3 years.  Things started out really great, but than he accused...
    SMAA SMAA 26-30 4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Another Hated Husband!! - Yes, i think i hate my husband too. I hate almost everything about him. His lies, his ex-wife, his friends, his irresponsability, his eating habits, his...
    gelatina gelatina 26-30 5 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Losing My Mind!!!! - When we first started dating he was my dream. Then I fell for him and he started to be crappy. But we worked thorugh most of it and eventually he asked me to...
    Meakle Meakle 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    Im Pretty Sure I Hate My Husband...Is That Normal?? - Me and my husband have been together for about 2 years now, married for 1, with a 3 month old son and we just found out im...
    KeleighG KeleighG 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Is It Him Or Me Very Emotional? - Me and my husband were married for almost 5 months. We known each other in college, he was my senior and we decided to be together 4 months after...
    Creck Creck 22-25, F Nov 11, 2012

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    What Gives - This man cannot undrstand how his words really effect how i see him. The only way that i can get him to shut up after he has been drinking is to tell him that i am...
    redheadhawkins redheadhawkins 36-40, F Jul 7, 2013

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    I Too Think I Hate My Husband - i rally dont know who o turn to about this but thanks to google i found this group to open up to.I dont know exactly when this whole feeling...
    ev11 ev11 18-21, F May 30, 2010

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    I Hate My Husband! - I'm pregnant and i think he doesn't care. If he cares he should find a job! If he cares,he should help me do the house chores. He is 32 yrs old ,and I am 23. I...
    neednewlife neednewlife 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2012

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    I Think I Hate My Husband - My husband and I have only been married for a little over a month and already I feel so fed up with his bull crap. I seriously feel like I'm starting to...
    jociepoo jociepoo 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    I Hate My Husband - I feel incredibly stressed at the moment as I have so much going on in my life. My husband is so unsupportive. If I cry he tells me I'm irrational and just like...
    Idontmind Idontmind 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    I Dont Know If It's Hate Yet... - I've been married to my husband for about two years now, been with him for 5. I can't honestly say I hate my husband but it's getting there. I...
    wishingforhappiness wishingforhappiness 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Is It Me? - Here is my story been married 19 years. I am an LPN ( nurse) and now back at school. Last time I went we did not have kids yet. I was working full time and going to...
    blondemommy75 blondemommy75 36-40 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Why Should We Have Children When I Already Have You To Raise - I met my husband 6 yrs ago, during college. We dated for a year before getting engaged, then waited until "one if us...
    responsibleadult responsibleadult 22-25 4 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    He Is Emotionally Dead - The one thing that I need the most is a significant other who I lean on, someone to support me and my wants and needs, who is loving and caring and wants...
    aloneandunhappy aloneandunhappy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2013

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    My Husband Who I Really Cant Stand Anymore - Ugh the past two years hve been hell!!!!!!!!! He came home from his deployment with a few issues but nothing to major well they gave...
    jamie0605 jamie0605 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    Trapped - I feel so trapped. Married husband within 3 months of meeting him, had two sons from a previous and we were happy on our own so why I said yes was down to the fact I...
    earthlady earthlady 41-45 3 Responses Sep 18, 2011

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    My Husband the Insecure - My husband was an Army private when he suddenly returned home due to an illness (meaning that he never told me he was coming home, I didn't know until I...
    chasingforyears chasingforyears 26-30 4 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    Need Some Advice. - I found this website while Google-ing, and I'm really glad I did. Hopefully someone out there can give me some advice or direction. I'm really scared of the...
    Jenelle702 Jenelle702 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    I Hate My Husband Too - we got married 6 month ago, we dated for a half year, i loved him when  got married, but after we got married and started leaving together i start...
    donna87 donna87 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    Reasons Why I Think I Hate My Husband - Reasons why I am really starting to detested my husband I have to practically drag out of bed in the morning no doubt he will have a few...
    wendydoo wendydoo 26-30 Feb 6, 2012

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    Does Any One Really Care - hi all my store is i have been with my husband for 35 years are aniversery is today i have two kids a 31 year old son and a29 year old girl i have two...
    tankladie tankladie 46-50, F Sep 27, 2012

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    I Hate Him But Love Him - My husband and I have been with each other for 12 years.  Most of our marriage has been a struggle: financially,emotionally and physically. ...
    tigereyes310 tigereyes310 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2009

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    And He Flirted With The Bride - Im seething with rage and miserable about this. He has been so detrimental to my mental well being. We have just gotten back from a wedding this...
    Hildagard Hildagard 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I Too Think I Hate My Husband - i really dont know who to turn to about this but thanks to google i found this group to open up to.I dont know exactly when this whole feeling...
    ev11 ev11 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30, 2010

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    Hello... I just joined the group and feel so glad to find a group where I can feel safe being honest about my marriage. My husband hates me. We were happy at one point and I think...
    MissyCA MissyCA 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    All I tried to do was be nice to him all day because I so desperately want it to work because I really love him he jus doesn't care nemore at all I tell him what I want and he says...
    ugotmeigotu ugotmeigotu 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I want to start out saying that I love and care about my husband, but he has been driving me crazy with what I consider selfishness lately. We have been together for 7 years and...
    cmsjay cmsjay 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Should I leave my asperger husband? I have been married for 9 years and have 2 boys. My youngest has autism and does not talk. My kids prefers to be with me as my husband rarely...
    Angell2014 Angell2014 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Should I leave my asperger husband? I have been married for 9 years and have 2 boys. My youngest has autism and does not talk. My kids prefers to be with me as my husband rarely...
    Angell2014 Angell2014 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Should I leave my asperger husband? I have been married for 9 years and have 2 boys. My youngest has autism and does not talk. My kids prefers to be with me as my husband rarely...
    Angell2014 Angell2014 36-40, F Apr 2

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    Should I leave my asperger husband? I have been married for 9 years and have 2 boys. My youngest has autism and does not talk. My kids prefers to be with me as my husband rarely...
    Angell2014 Angell2014 36-40, F Apr 2

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    Should I leave my asperger husband? I have been married for 9 years and have 2 boys. My youngest has autism and does not talk. My kids prefers to be with me as my husband rarely...
    Angell2014 Angell2014 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am sooo glad i read all the comments! probably a bit out of date but it is reassuring me! my husband has similar traits. When i think about some of the things: he does argue and...
    holloway17 holloway17 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    My husband is talking to a girl he cheated on me with ... We've been married for 16 years ... And I don't know what to do ... the conversation was on Facebook and she contacted him...
    AngelinaRosa AngelinaRosa 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Really annoyed with him today ... He thinks it's funny to point out my flaws but all he did was hurt my feelings
    AngelinaRosa AngelinaRosa 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    He is a Marine and has been in corporals course for a week now, pretty much like boot camp for corporals who want to become sergeants. I know he has been stressed and tired, but...
    BluePhoenix005 BluePhoenix005 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So this morning we got into a huge fight that had been boiling since Sunday... He insists on texting instead of talking. Majority of his texts make no sense because he's in such a...
    acollier2013 acollier2013 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Life is difficult, Everyday communication is painful. It's getting worse every week. I'm starting to dread the weekends, even though I'm glad to be off work.
    mandyisadiva mandyisadiva 41-45, F Apr 1

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    My mother in law is mean. My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    So my husbands parents have always been weird to me. One because they are not happy together and didn't even really raise my husband and they are rude and clingy. So even before we...
    mad4maddie mad4maddie 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Let me tell you about my sister. She is 3 years older than me, was very jealous of me as a child, was a bully to me until I left home before her and has always been a broody type...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 1 Response Mar 22