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I Think I Might Be Falling For My Best Friend

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    We Have Been Friends For 10+ Years

    We have been very close for years. He makes me laugh. He is there for me always, no matter what is going on in his own life....and I have been there for him as well. I thought we were more like brothers and sisters, but noticed that he responded to me in an intimate way when we...
    love2balive love2balive 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2008

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    I Do Not Think That At Alll

    I dont think it i know it. He's just perfect. I cant stand the way he loves her more than me. It tears me open but i'm hhiding it for her sakes. The feelings for him has left me torn. He liked me back at one time, but we had lost that time. When we did i grew more depressed and...
    Emogirl13IsEMO Emogirl13IsEMO 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 16, 2011

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    Sometimes.  I Mean I&#...

    Sometimes.  I mean I'm not going to lie.  I've had crushes on a few guys since Dave and I got together.  And I even asked myself what it would be like to be with a one of them.  I wouldn't say that I'm actively falling for any of my best friends right now but...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2007

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    Twisted & Confused

    we have been friends for almost 15 years. we are part of a unique group of close friends. he lives with my ex, whom i am on very good terms with. he used to be openly in love with me. there has been suspicion that he continues to be in love with me. i feel like i have been tring...
    sassii sassii 26-30 Dec 13, 2008

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    Yeah, and Just So You Know,...

    Yeah, and just so you know, my best friend is a girl.
    MrHavok MrHavok 16-18, M Feb 25, 2007

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    No. ...

    no. i don't like women in that way lol
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F Jan 23, 2007

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    too hooked on brody to fall for even the hottest richest man
    binfamous binfamous 26-30, F Feb 25, 2007

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    Best High School Friends

    So me and my best guy friend met only about a year ago. My friend introduced me to him and since then we have been best friends. Throughout our friendship, he dated my best friend and two other girls that I don't talk to, mainly because they don't go to the same school as me and...
    dancergirl126 dancergirl126 16-17 1 Response Sep 7, 2012

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    Why We Were Meant To Be

    So this guy is my best friend. He liked me freshman year but i blew him off. He got a girlfriend. Then she broke his heart. I was there for him to mend his heart and something changed. I was looking into his eyes and realized i had feelings. Now i need to explain why i am so...
    Swiminmyheart Swiminmyheart 16-17, F May 29, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I think I'm falling for my friend she always helps me with my ex probs but she overall has a better personality I'm the type that don't care bout physical appearance I just love...
    joetugalante joetugalante 18-21, M Mar 20

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    I met my (former) best friend right here on EP six years ago. We connected straight away. In a very short space of time, I felt like I had known him for ever. We spent so many...
    Cleansed Cleansed 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I just want to say that I love my best friend. He's the best thing that's happened to me since I moved to this dead old town and I love him so much I get the urge to hug him just...
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    My best friend wants to move across the country to be with her boyfriend who moved there recently for graduate school. If they weren't profoundly in love with each other, I wouldn...
    RelianceOnScience RelianceOnScience 22-25, F Apr 2

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    It's just hard and confusing. I don't like being a boy's best friend -It always leads to falling in love which is something that I absolutely don't want- and also, I don't like...
    Mary0710 Mary0710 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    This guy has cheated on me the 2 past times we have dated, but I keep falling for him. He's a nice guy, it's just that I can't keep letting this happen, and my mom has basically...
    Done453 Done453 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    It is currently April 2014, and I have been texting her since September. She is the person I could turn to when no one else was there for me. The person I could speak to about...
    AwesomeGardevoir AwesomeGardevoir 16-17, M Apr 9

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    Falling for someone really fast and it feels so good. I feel like its meant to be and its hard. Being so far but imma going to try my best to make it work
    OhAustin OhAustin 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Yes.....I have a best friend......LifeAfterBlake!.....And i met him here,on EPI'm not gonna waste time explaining how much he means to me...........cause he already knows......I...
    TheLegendaryStubbleBeard TheLegendaryStubbleBeard 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I have a best friend, her name is Jaszmin. We've been best friends since freshman year and slowly my feeling for her have built up. Now two and a half years later I love her. I...
    Emiliodecker Emiliodecker 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I haven't told him, but I love my best friend, ever since I started talking to him 4 years ago, he's one of the best things that has happened to me. Coincidently before I met him...
    pappa94 pappa94 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
    dontlosehope28 dontlosehope28 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    My best friend and I were friends for 3 long years. Sadly our friendship is over, but I don't want to dwell on that. She's changed. She's not that girl that I knew anymore. But I...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F Mar 21

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    She's more of a sister to me but I'm really scared I might mess up do something and lose her just like the rest. She's my best friend and I don't wanna lose her but sometimes I...
    smilezlove143 smilezlove143 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    My best friend on EP blocked me for asking her not to talk down to me any more. I blocked her in return because she might as well not be looking at my profile. This was a woman I...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    My best friend, Josef:) ily my homie:)
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F Apr 8

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I wouldn't say I actually hate her. If anything, I'm jealous and hurt. Our parents were friends since before we were born so we grew up together. Inseparable throughout grade...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

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    You know what I think , I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I love my best friend, but I don't think it's necessary to have contact everyday just because of that one fact. Simply because we have a stronger bond than most, doesn't mean we...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I have been grieving over my best friend since we both grew apart. She turned into a mean spirited person and started just being awful to me and my family who had always treated...
    SubmissiveArtist SubmissiveArtist 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I think I'm falling for someone. It's unfair that we can't talk enough because if time differences. I need them closer.
    thefallenstar thefallenstar 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am head over heals in love with my best friend. Scratch that. I have 2 best friends with whom I am in love. First, there is my husband. We have been through more than any 2...
    staystronglivelong29 staystronglivelong29 26-30, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and hanging with his friends pretty much the whole time. I haven't really got comfortable with them until recently. See, what...
    edlineuser edlineuser 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've known my girl best friend, Francine, for 8 years now. She is very bright, very funny, very nice, and the best friend anyone could ask for. I am the luckiest guy in the world...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I am falling for a crossdresser. I love him and who he is and I would never change him. I told my family, which consist of my mother and sister. Mom was accepting, my sister was...
    bbsw1963 bbsw1963 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    So I kissed my best male friend on lips. It is more like an expected one but it was still very satisfying. He has been someone who is really supportive and we get along really well...
    koomi koomi 18-21, F Apr 2

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    At school me and my friends have a group, with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F a week ago

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    He's my ex. He's my best friend. Apparently we still "like" each other but wtf I mean we can't be more. No way. Not when our friendship means so much to me. I just can't take that...
    serephina serephina 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    He's been my best friend since 2nd grade. I think he feels the same about me, but I don't want to risk ruining our friendship. Can anyone help?
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I may not only love, but be in love with my best friend. I have never been a fan of her boy friend that I unfortunately introduced her to, thinking they would be a quick hook up as...
    EccentricTree EccentricTree 18-21 Mar 25

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi, i'm Sara, i'm 14 years old, and i'd like to have a guy best friend 14-18 years old, i have a lot of female-friends and i don't have a problem on making female-friends but i've...
    SaraKh286 SaraKh286 13-15, F Apr 5

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I want a best friend that will be by my side 24/7. Who will always be there if you need help. Who I can act crazy around with. Who do everything together. Who doesn't care if I'm...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F a week ago

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    Okay, I told my best friend of 13 years that I have feelings for him, he said he feels the same. He then went on holiday and while he was on holiday he called ME asking me for...
    ClaireD97 ClaireD97 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My whole life ive always had pets and they were always there when unreliable people stabbed u in the back and lied to ur face and etc...i think i would be truly alone and depressed...
    RedBats RedBats 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have many friends but i just want that one best friend. Like i want to be a best friend to someone and be their best friend only. Someone to con