I Think I Want a Divorce

ProsHe cooks, he cleans,  he brings home free food, and pays half the rent.ConsHe's a jerk.  He stares at other women.  He flirts a lot.  He does not hear me when I talk, but takes advice from other women.  He called me a bad name...

Yes, it's true. I've been married 7 years and have thought of divorcing my wife for at least the last 4 years. It's just that when things are bad, they are REALLY bad. I don't blame her entirely; I admit I am partly to blame. You...

Wow this is going to be complicated....
13 years ago I married my third husband. My first was abusive, my second one died. I already had girls 12 and 15, I became pregnant between the engagement and the wedding, which was a shock...

My wife and I have been married for 11 years and have two amazing sons aged 10 and 7. They are my life. My wife suffers from anxiety disorders. When she is on her medication, she is fine. The problem is that she can't be counted on to...

The wind blows whispers of happiness and the river rumbles of laughter;The sky signals clouds of hope andthe sun glistens radiance of joy;She lays listening, watching, and waitingfor things to change;The trees stands as a fortress or...

I have been married to my husband for 25 years. I am now 45 years old. We have 2 great kids who are 11 and 9.

Like many families, we own a nice home, have 2 good jobs, we have a camper and boat and we run all the time for sporting...

I have known my husband for over 20 years. Been together for only 4. Lucily we have no kids together.but just bought a home together 8 months ago. I have always known he was self centered and arrogant but his loyalty is what attracted...

I have nearly finished this book and followed a blog on the net which outlined the essential questions to ask yourself. I just wanted to share this blogs link and recommend that people who are struggling read buy the complete book for...

From today's DailyOm.com:
Divorce With Grace
March 20, 2008
A Life-Altering Decision
Like the act of marriage that binds two people together, divorce is the result of a life-altering decision. It is the dissolving of a relationship...

So here I sit typing away on my computer as my wife sleeps. It's 10:30 but I'm sure she was asleep by 9:30. This is how our weekends go. No TV together, little talking, no companionship of any kind. The same as weeknights. I guess...

I finally found enough courage to say him "lets go to counselling together" his answer didnt surprised me....he said "you go ! I wont !" .......ı think at least he knows whats in my mind now.
I am not going to play this game...

I just wanted to update everyone to the current state of my situation. Things are falling apart AND falling together. It’s the strangest…sensation?...feeling?...I’m not even sure how to classify it…it’s beautiful and horrible...

So I been married to my wife for 6 years now. And the way we got married was not coventional. I just got out of a year long relationship and started going out again. I met her and we mingles for a few months. In the meantime I was...

hi, I m 27 year old and married for 4 years.
well i married to my girl friend of 5 year duration, when i got married time was not right i requested to delay it for few months but my gf parents were very much after marriage, i agreed to...

M and I have been married for more than 10 years. M is kind, shy, loving and gets along with my family. But I don't love her. For some reason, I can't. One Sunday morning in February of last year, I was frustrated and blurted out that...

So, the shit has hit the fan in my marriage. This past week has gone from bad to worse than I ever imagined.
I'll give you the shot version:
Husband found out I cheated. He didn't kill me or even kick me out. Instead he's being super...

It's great to have a platform to vent, but how about a succinct and straighforward checklist if you will, from those that graduated from (1) "I think I want..." to (2) "I know I want..." to (3) "I got a divorce"? It would be awesome.
I...

I've been married to L for 23 years.  We have two kids - 17 and 13.   We both work and make good money.  Neighborhood is great.  Kids are great.   And frankly, I'm the husband that many women wish they had.  Granted, that looks...

ı am feeling like as ı am stuck in to the marsh. More ı try to get out the more ı am sinking :( why all my ways are closing ? or why everytime ı came up to a dead end road ? I cant breath anymore, ı dont want to think what is...