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I Think I Will Be Alone Forever

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    Forever Alone... And Loving It. An Attempt At Affirmation.

    I am sick of feeling defective and abhorrent. I need desperately to embrace my inability to find love or companionship. Here it goes... I am happy alone. I have found joy in solitude and strength from having only myself to depend on. I have only myself to thank for my...
    8alchemist8 8alchemist8 36-40, M Jan 25, 2013

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    Long distance relationships are bad • The

    most caused problem of two pepole breaking up is 'DISTANCE' therefore I will be forever alone as LGBT groups in my area, aren't for teens my age :'(
    Dario912 Dario912 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 23

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    No One To Love!!!!!!!!!!!!

    My name is Michael and I don't know what is but I can't find nobody to like me. No girls want to talk to me, if I am lucky enough to conversate with a girl, I have nothing to say. My so - called "friends" do not invite me to parites or to hang out with them. If I don't say...
    Mikey747758 Mikey747758 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    Too Complex

    Hi Just found this website. Feel in need of talking to somebody, may be just getting an honest opinion. I do have friends, but I do think they're too kind to me.. So, I'm 28, divorced. Very lonely. I do have friends, loving family. Can say I've achieved something in my life in...
    uecfrjdf uecfrjdf 26-30 3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    A Prince Who Would Never Come

    It all started when I became a teenager. The skies were blue, roses were red and everything was beautiful. Never had I seen any rejection in my life. My parents had always told me that it is not the looks but the personality that matters!Like a hopeless romantic, I believed that...
    sangitangi sangitangi 18-21 3 Responses May 13, 2012

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    I Just Dont' Believe In Love Anymore...

    I've been around; I've met guys; I've talked to guys; and I just don't buy the love bullshit anymore.  Maybe it happens to some people, but those people aren't like me.  I don't think I am capable of being loved by the opposite sex.  Maybe lusted/desired.  Maybe liked, but...
    Pooh1608 Pooh1608 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    White Crayon In The Box

    I'm a 19 yr old female that hasn't been in a relationship since my freshman yr in high school. That means I haven't had a boyfriend in 6 yrs, I know I shouldn't worry about it because I'm still young but I've seen my friends in relationships, classmates get married, and I can't...
    fitnessJunkiee fitnessJunkiee 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2013

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    01sparkly 01sparkly 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    A Time And A Season

    For everything there is a season and a time for every matter. Peace of mind cannot come from weeping and wailing. On the contrary, this will lead to more suffering and greater pain. The man who cannot leave his sorrow behind him only travels further into pain and travels alone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    There are certain times in your life,

    when, if you're single, you think that's the way it will always be. I'm currently in one of those times. My friends are all married, getting married, having children or have children. I'm what feels like the last one. I suppose there are a number of reasons why I feel this way...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I Too Have Lost Hope...

    It is a very sad time in my life, because I have lost so much of my hope and dreams that I used to think about when I was younger.  My mom and dad got divorced when I was in 8Th grade, I am 29 now. But even before they were divorced, we never had the...
    kthinton kthinton 26-30 4 Responses Apr 9, 2009

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    Oh ..................

    ...........
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 5

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    And Thats....okay

    i am bothered quite often by the fact that people can't stand the fact that i am actually quite happy and content being "alone" (i use the word "alone" meaning in a "love/significant other" way) i have a great family, i love my job, i have the cutest bestest doggie in the world...
    thebigjared thebigjared 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2010

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    Mmm Alone Forever???

    Do you ever think that you're desyined to be alone forever? Because you ****** up everything so bad so you feel like why would anything go right for you now? These is not a sympathy story, just how i've felt over the last yeat, i chose a lot of **** guys and i made a lot of...
    GeeGeesWorld GeeGeesWorld 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    I've loved and I've lost .

    .. Wonder if I'll be able to find somebody for me
    ChrisMackin ChrisMackin 16-17, M Apr 5

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    Assuredly there have been times of joy

    and belonging in my life but there have also been long stretches in my life where I felt uncared about and unloved. Such feelings led to lengthy battles with depression as well. And the perpetual yearning to fill my empty heart; to be known, to be loved; the tears I cried and...
    ProgressNotPerfection ProgressNotPerfection 41-45, M Mar 6

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    Alone Forever =/

    I want to love..but i think i will be alone forever.I realize that coz i dont know..i push others away..many times.I m afraid what will happen next.Its the first time i write about this but i feel that i ll stay alone..After my prince,i thought i loved someone which i still feel...
    annasangels annasangels 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 9, 2009

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    Destined To Be Alone Forever

    In my life, I've met a lot of different people, like everyone I had good times and bad times. Even in the good time I always knew I was going to be alone, no matter how many friends I made I knew somehow or someway I'd always be alone. It's not that im not positive, if anything...
    Sinlaw Sinlaw 18-21, M 1 Response May 4, 2010

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    Will I Be Alone Forever

    I think I've set myself up for failure. My taste in men is very narrow. I am a larger black woman, 48 years old, and I have always found myself attracted only to men outside my race, especially white men.Why is it that my taste developed towards white men? They are the least...
    blaqbbwkween blaqbbwkween 46-50, F Nov 20, 2013

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    I Surmise I'll Be Alone Forever

    I'm sure if i had a chance to peep into my future for a second I'll see that I'd be alone and sad just like I am now, only older. That's the severe truth. I don't see why anybody would want to spend life with me. I don't like to affront myself but I'm too messed up in my head...
    OfftheBeatenPath OfftheBeatenPath 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Sad And Lost In This World

    I'm not that old but when I was 8 I lost all my friends and my beloved dog just because of my brothers medical problem. We had to move from S.A to vic. It was not easy fitting in Victoria but I had to try for my brothers sake. At the moment I have one friend but that my fault I...
    MoniqueCarter MoniqueCarter 13-15 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    Eternity Alone

    Since i was a kid I've always been the loner. My first girlfriend came along when I was 19 years old. We had a child and ended up seperating about 2 years ago after she decided an ex boyfriend was the love of her life. Since then I have gone on several dates, but not one has...
    421nomore 421nomore 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2010

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    My Name Is Aaron, And I Believe In A Fated Destiny.

    This is my story. I am a 29 year old man. I grew up with loving family and friends. However, I've been alone a great majority of my life. When I was younger I developed an attraction to girls later, I'd say around 15. Lol, I can still remember talking to girls on the phone when I...
    FatedDestiny FatedDestiny 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    This Might Be Long...It Just Might.

    So I am quiet and reserved gal. Sometimes I choose to be quiet and sometimes it just comes in my nature. I also can't really start or keep a conversation with guys. When I was younger I used to hang out with mostly boys but up until the 7th grade I started being quiet and shy and...
    abigail39118 abigail39118 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Everyone Always Leaves

    They very rarely mean to leave, but they do, friends are only with us for a limited time before they leave, they come into our lives and we are glad for the company, but before too long, they must go, they die, or find someone or some thing more important, and then they are gone...
    djpanda djpanda 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    Forever?

    I really believe that I am cursed. That I will be alone. I will grow old and bitter. I don't want to feel like there is nobody out there. But I can't deny the feeling.
    quietandcalm quietandcalm 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    I Feel A Profound Lonliness

    I really don't understand my feelings exactly but I feel like I am alone in a crowded room. I have not really made any attempt to make any friends at the college I attend, honestly I just shy away and isolate myself. I feel alone but I am the main perpetrator of my condition. I...
    AtATangent AtATangent 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2013

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    I Will Spend My Life Alone

    My spirit is so broken that I know I will be alone for the rest of my life. I hope it's not long.
    UrbanSWF UrbanSWF 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    Fail.

    Failed relationship after failed relationship, even a divorce thrown in there for flavor. My expectations are too high - I know this. The thing is, my expectations are personality-based. I want someone who won't lie to me. I want someone who will treat me with respect and not...
    vivalafireball vivalafireball 26-30, F 2 Responses May 29, 2012

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    No Prince To Sweep A Princess Away

    I am 27 and just moved away from the area I grew up. I have never been married, or even been proposed to, and have never been pregnant. Ever since I was a teenager, I have been in and out of relationships because guys cannot keep up mentally or financially. I am very diverse in...
    LostLonelyLady LostLonelyLady 26-30 Jul 13, 2013

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    Impossible To Like

    I think it is actually impossible to have any feelings of attraction towards me. This is weird because well I'm not that bad looking I mean I'm okay...I guess and it's not that I'm bad to people it's just every woman I've ever loved has rejected me
    PIerce6 PIerce6 18-21 4 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Real Deal.

    People just say "forever alone" if they have been single for a few months. But me? No. I have been alone my entire life. Yeah I know 15 years isn't that long, but in those 15 years of my life, I've only been attracted to one or two people... I want to at least be interested in...
    Izphilli Izphilli 13-15 2 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    I've been living alone

    for 4 months now after me and my wife separated. The past week has been busy and keeping me occupied. But today has been a hard day. I very much miss seeing my girls(13&15) my 13yr old will talk to me but my 15 yr old will not and has not for about a month. I embarrassed her...
    jxsingle67 jxsingle67 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Boredom And Sadness

    Today is a Friday night, I should be here complaining that everyone I know is going out at night and I'm here alone.But this is such a mumbo jumbo because I don't have any friends to share something like that., even less someone worthy.I really wanted to get used to it, I wanted...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    oneepicboss oneepicboss 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I Battle This Thought...

    Almost constantly I struggle with the thought that I will be alone forever. I fight it. I can't seem to beat it permanantly. It's always there... Haunting me.
    drcynic drcynic 22-25, M 5 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Never As Good As The First Time.

    It's cliché I know but I hope it's not true. It's been over a year and a half and find myself in this dilemma. In my 38 years I had never experienced soulmate love,unconditional love despite having been married previously. And what kills me is the idea that it will never occur...
    Calviv11 Calviv11 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Pretending

    went to my mom's tonight for a super bowl party.  i loved that all three of my kids were there.  i loved spending time with my mom.  my stupid brother came but i guess he has to be allowed at some functions (love you bro). i hated watching the people there with "other halves...
    litabug3 litabug3 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    Batman

    For as long as I can remember I've always been the only one looking out for me and I was always ok with that because I didn't know any better. And now that i'm older I think that it was for the best, because I know that anything I would have gotten from my parents would have...
    lilmskitty3 lilmskitty3 16-17, F Feb 16, 2012

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    I Just Want To Be Alone

    My parents died in a plane crash when I was 8. I divorced my first husband for cheating. My second husband and 6 month old daughter were killed in an auto accident 3 months ago. I think it is my fate to go through life without attachment to others.
    MadisonS MadisonS 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    I Think "i Will" Be Forever Alone

    Hi I am Alex I am a almost 17 years old. I know I am still young....but I just feel like no one is out there for me. I see girls I think are cute but I am just to shy to say any thing to them, and girls that I did like and tried to tell them how I felt but the all rejected me...
    ShadowDemon13 ShadowDemon13 16-17, T 1 Response Jul 17, 2011

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    Forever Alone?

    These thoughts of being forever alone started this summer. A girl told me she used to like me. I realized that I was completely clueless to when someone likes me. If I can't tell when someone likes me, then I'm never going to find someone interested in being with me. There for I...
    Blacklight20 Blacklight20 18-21, M Nov 20, 2013

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    After talking with a female friend I found

    something very interesting that she said. She said since I'm in my thirties I've never been married and don't have any children women probably think there is something wrong with me. If I'm still single there has to be something wrong. Why don't any other woman want to be with...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 16

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    I Am Not Happy This Way

    I was only left alone recently and the sadness I see in these posts is heart wrenching.
    BMSel BMSel 36-40 Aug 24, 2013

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    I'll Never Find Anyone

    I'm a 17 year old girl and I've never kissed a boy or been on a date. I've literally been to one party and had to leave early. I just get so depressed sometime because I feel like I'm the only person who doesn't have someone to hold. Someone to love. Someone who likes me back as...
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    It's like I want to be with someone right now.

    But not just anyone. I want to be with Raoul and only Raoul. I want to marry him and just be done with chasing people. I want him to love me the way I love him. I won't force though. I've fallen so hard for him to where I don't even think ill ever be with anyone else. But as...
    Redspikex Redspikex 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    Is It Going To Get Better?

    IM 29 YRS OLD, IM A SINGLE MOM TO A LITTLE BOY. THE LAST FEW YEARS OF MY LIFE WERE VERU DIFFICULT. i GOT INVOLVED WITH A MAN THAT I WORKED WITH, PERSUED ME VERY HARD. IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME BEOFRE I WENT OUT WITH HIM. WE DATED ON AND OFF FOR 2 YRS. THERE WERE RED FLAGS THAT I...
    d212 d212 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    But I think it takes a strong person to remain alone when they feel like they haven't met the right one yet. It would be easier to settle. Don't do this because in the long run you...
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I do think i will always be alone because i tend to get overlookd for girls who are more outgoing and flirt
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I feel like I'm supposed to be alone. I don't get upset or depressed over it, I just don't think I could possibly get along with other members of the human race. At a young age, I...
    BrickTheWolf BrickTheWolf 13-15, F Apr 1

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    I forged new ground today, making it a point to indulge in meaningless Facebook drama for upwards of a quarter hour...many faces did I gaze up, stopping at those most fair and...
    windynight54321 windynight54321 31-35, M Apr 1

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    I just know it EVERYONE that I work with is with someone I'm the odd one out I'm not using online dating because of bad experiences anyone who do takes an intrest I find out there...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I can't see myself happy in the future. I like to imagine that I get married and have 2.5 kids and a cat. But in reality, I'm not lovable. Most likely I'm going to be married to my...
    shafaz shafaz 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I will never change who I am just to make me look better or to fit in with the crowd. We should all try to stand out
    Skykillers7 Skykillers7 13-15, M Mar 28

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