I Think Im Bi

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    I feel like I've taken

    such a ridiculously long time to figure myself out. I've been wondering about my sexuality for about 5 years now. It's been a constant cycle of denial and "maybe I am, maybe I'm not". I still don't know. I had a 9 month relationship w/ a guy. And I'm pretty sure I was in love w...
    feelingfoolishlame feelingfoolishlame
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2016

    I just told my mom I was bi today really nervous

    and scared and her response was "you want to lick vagina" XD she didn't really care as long as I was happy. Awesome mom I swear
    taylorsky taylorsky
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2016

    At least bicurious. Shhhh!

    Don't tell anyone. I find girls attractive.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    Sometimes I ********** to lesbian ****.

    And I don't know if that make me bi because I still like men.
    Lightning54 Lightning54
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2014
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    I've never had a significant other

    but If i do, I wouldn't mind it being a girl or guy.
    Crispycereal Crispycereal
    22-25, M
    Nov 28, 2015

    I'm very fortunate to have a boyfriend who's

    understanding with my confusion. it's always a battle of "do I love girls more then guys, or do I just find girls really pretty." what I'm wondering is....is it normal to almost fall in love with a girl while being in a relationship with a guy because I feel this happening all...
    zkaka3000 zkaka3000
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    I'm a novice cross dresser

    and I fantasize about pleasing another man when dressed as a girl.
    thom2332 thom2332
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 1, 2014

    im really only attracted to guys

    when im horny... what does this mean? am i bi or just into weird things?
    Kta123 Kta123
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    I don't know, but I feel like I am I have a

    homophobic bully so now isn't the time to publicly come out as orientation-confused
    EvanRLC EvanRLC
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 20, 2016


    I'm 29 years old and have always been in heterosexual relationships despite the fact that i constantly fantasize about being with another woman. I had the opportunity years ago to fulfill the fantasy but self consciousness held me back from fully enjoying myself. Now I'm in a...
    Brownie29 Brownie29
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2013

    So back when I was younger,

    I would always play with girls more often than boys (as any typical girl would). Every now and then I would be hanging out with a girl friend or something. And we would be having tons of fun. And I would get that great feeling of friendship. That feeling that told me that this...
    ShyBi416 ShyBi416
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    I've been with a few guys

    but I've always fantasize about kissing a girl, which I have never done, i have had a few girl crushes as well. i really wanna try kissing a girl though.
    Tori97rugby Tori97rugby
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2016
    Chloe43 Chloe43
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 11, 2016
    Smileydork Smileydork
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    Ive heard that everyone has attraction to the

    same gender to some degree, but idk for a while now Ive just been really wanting to branch out and explore it some more, so i guess ill be looking to add some dudes who likes dudes mb
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 8, 2016

    I'm not sure but I just can't get over the

    thought of being with a girl.
    deleted deleted
    18 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    I think I am. I find myself attracted to

    both men and women. So either gender, message me. I love to chat
    ThePerfectMate19 ThePerfectMate19
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    Ever since I was in year 7 (11 years old )I

    started liking girls the same way I liked boys, they were just so similar yet different and yeah, I now have told my whole family and feel so much better as they support me, I can't wait to meet people similar to me! :)
    shannonhillxo shannonhillxo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2016

    I'm not in a relationship the know,

    but I have had a girlfriend, nothing serious, but being on this site I've just realized that I do get turned on when thinking about guys in that way. It may have something to do with the cross dressing craze I have, but I'm not too sure.
    Carlygirly2040 Carlygirly2040
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 6, 2016

    I've always enjoyed lesbian ****

    and it makes me hotter then straight **** but I've never experimented with a girl. I'd like a text/kik girlfriend to chat/experiment with. Real girls only! Message me.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 3, 2014

    I think I'm bi... I don't know.

    I don't know. That's what I keep saying every time I contemplate my sexuality. I haven't thought about it in months. I just get so confused and frustrated. It's like I'm not supposed to know. I feel like I could be in a relationship with either men or women. For men it feels...
    MarioT96 MarioT96
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    I think I have been attracted to

    and curious about women for a while, but was too scared to acknowledge it... I am still not really sure what role it will play in my life and how active it will be. My Sir wants me to explore it and test my limits, I'm hoping to find the right woman to allow me to try.
    giggletree giggletree
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    The girl i like kissed my neck even

    though it was for a joke It felt so gud...
    zenii15 zenii15
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    Guys are hot and masculine.

    Girls are pretty and soft. Both great. So why should I limit myself to only one? I'm not really confused about it. I like to frickle frack guys and kiss girls. Is that really so weird??
    ShesSimplyKenny ShesSimplyKenny
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2015

    i think im bi i probably am ohh well its not a

    bad thing i guess im dating a girl {long distance} so far it actually has been great
    ilovetturtles ilovetturtles
    13-15, F
    Jan 18, 2016
    amyXD amyXD
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2015
    Gingie0 Gingie0
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2016

    so I totally love guys!

    and d!ck!! lol.. but I spent the night with a girlfriend last night. I know she likes me and we've like kissed and stuff a few times.. but last night we were pretty drunk and it got taken to a whole notha level!! ;) lol.. I'll just say my mouth, hand and arm actually got a cramp...
    sexxibaby4u sexxibaby4u
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    So i think i might be bisexual.

    Like ive always loved girls but i would find myself recently thinking that oh that guys a good looking guy. But im not sure ive had a few gay experiances. i was young probably 10 or 11. Im not sure what to feel any help.
    personft personft
    18-21, M
    Jan 10, 2016
    beautifultradergy beautifultradergy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2016

    I guess I'm not sure

    since I've even so much as kissed a girl. I suppose only time will tell.
    Englishrose93 Englishrose93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    One night after hitting the bars my guy friend

    and I had oral sex and I enjoyed it
    basictom basictom
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    tbh I really don't know I think about girls the

    same way I do boys and I had have this thing for Paige from wwe
    Xkelly Xkelly
    16-17, F
    Feb 27, 2016
    Whothehellcares1 Whothehellcares1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    I'm not really sure yet,

    but I think I like girls too.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    Had A Taste And It Felt Gooooood

    It's a long story but basically I lost my virginity a few weeks ago. It was really bazaar. Amazing but totally strange. Anyway, I have thought of sex a lot since then. In the build up to me losing my v a girl licked me down there and it was the most amazing feeling ever. I have...
    deleted deleted
    37 Responses Jun 13, 2011

    Growing up I was always boy crazy & I still am

    but when I was 13 I watched lesbian **** for the first time & that's the only type I can get off too.. But I found myself starting to look at girls more and I'm having so many confusing thoughts. I think I'm bi. I've been with a few girls and it was amazing but I still love guys...
    kaitybobaityxo kaitybobaityxo
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    I've known this since I was 10

    and now I'm 13. I haven't told anyone yet and I don't think I ever will. Except you people. 😐😬
    YourOneAndOnlyReject YourOneAndOnlyReject
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Mar 28, 2014

    Wanting to get with a girl.

    . but not knowing who will and how to "ask" lol..
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    I'm married, but separated

    and I've recently noticed and attraction and feelings towards women. I feel so confused by this and talking about it to my friends seems to make them a little uncomfortable. I definitely want to explore these feelings and I'm just looking for someone to talk to!
    brittiany1212 brittiany1212
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    ok so i have always liked boys

    and found them to be sexy but lately i have been thinking sexual thoughts about 2 of my best friends who are girls. Am i weird or something?
    pokegirlemily pokegirlemily
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2016

    Yeah I kinda want to know how it would be like

    being with a girl :* I wanna try it
    jenna543 jenna543
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    I don't know if I'm gay now

    because I have a girlfriend after being straight literally my entire life or if I'm just bi
    Imjusdayy Imjusdayy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2016

    I am into women, but sometimes I want a man.

    .. Why do I feel like this!!!
    Crossdress4life Crossdress4life
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    Well, I just like people

    that are attractive. It shouldn't matter what's in their pants or what's not in their pants.
    julie0300 julie0300
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2014

    I'm very curious about sleeping with a girl.

    I don't fantasize about a girl doing anything to me, I just want to pleasure her. I want to see if I like it but am too shy to try to talk to girls. even when one was very clearly interested in me at a concert and I felt her up a bit I couldn't make myself try to go any further...
    AdrianSharpe AdrianSharpe
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 20, 2015

    I dunno... do you ever find yourself not

    wanting to admit these attractions, but remember it's anonymous here and realizing the only one who doesn't want to know is yourself? I had a Victoria's Secret ad in my room when I was 10 or younger and thought it was the hottest thing ever before I evereven explored my body...
    VeraFiora VeraFiora
    22-25, F
    Nov 2, 2015
    beautifultradergy beautifultradergy
    26-30, F
    Apr 6, 2016
    Guitarist0991 Guitarist0991
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    Actually, I know that I am definately bi & have

    been for as long as I can remember.
    ukbuster ukbuster
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2016

    The only reason why I say this is

    because my friends teenage daughter flirts, pokes my sides and even grabbed my hips when she snuck behind me. I've been resisting and I never had sexual urges from a woman before. It's different
    PTigress PTigress
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Sep 15, 2014
    Smike3129 Smike3129
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    i still have the urge to be with a guy.

    but don't know what too do.I don't want to just jump in to some dateing sites. in fare of what kind of people are really on there.
    pojimop pojimop
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2016

    I remember when I was younger.

    My mom picked me up from school one day. We were driving home, and I looked out the window and said to her 'I think I'm gay'. She said 'how could you be? you like boys'- which was true... I liked boys, but I also liked girls. I thought something was wrong with me, I thought I...
    CallMeNobody CallMeNobody
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    Idk it's oh so confusing:/ I think I am

    but don't really want to express it so I hide it away.
    FlyAnna19 FlyAnna19
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2016
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