I Think I'm Falling In Love With My Boyfriends Bestfriend

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    My Boyfriend Passed Away Two Weeks Ago...and Now I Am Falling For His Bestfriend..

    Hello,Here's my story.I met my boyfriend when I was 16 and I was conveinced that he was my true love and destiny.  Even if both of us had partners before, we still see each other on the side.  Fate wasn't really favoured to our relationship so we decided to just part our ways...
    JJT143143 JJT143143
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2011

    I'm In Love With My Boyfriend's Best Friend

    Hello. I'm Brooke.(21) For the sake of my story I'm going to change names. Jake (27) is my ex-boyfriend. We were together a little over 2 years. We have a BEAUTIFUL little girl named Caymen Rae. When I was pregnant, my friends kinda ditched me & I had no choice but...
    beautifulmess1 beautifulmess1
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Sep 5, 2009

    I Think I Am In Love With My Boyfriend's Bestfriend

    (For the sake of privacy, I changed the names in this story) Nearly 3 years ago I was at a state sport tournament away in another state. That weekend I met two guys specifically that played for the guy's team for our club, I hadn't ever heard or met them before. They were *Alex...
    misskaitlin misskaitlin
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    Let's start with the fact

    that I am 26 years old, have found the man I'm most likely going to marry, & am pretty stable mentally. (As stable as a woman can be ;D ) I do get a little sentimental & commercials can make me tear up (some of them are just so sweet!), & I suppose that I'm just a bit of a...
    EpicMoose EpicMoose
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2014

    My Boyfriend Is In Jail And Im Falling For His Best Friend

    My boyfriend has been in jail for 7 months and he will be gone another 4. I love him dearly but for the last 3 months his best friend and I have become pretty much best friends and I think I'm falling for him. Nothing has happened between us but I get the feeling he likes me. I...
    hitexan hitexan
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2012

    I'm In Love With My Boyfriends Friend.

    *names are changed to keep anonymous* Alrighty… Where to begin… I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and things with us, well with me have just changed. I do not see him in the same amazing, loving way that I use to. I see him as more of my child than as a significant...
    secretmetal666 secretmetal666
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2011


    so i think im in love wit my boyfriends best friend and we have a kid together so it makes things for me so akward having feelings for his best friend..we have soo much in common an in a way we secretly flirt i think...its so weird last night it shook me up cuz i had a dream that...
    tornbetweenthe2 tornbetweenthe2
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 4, 2009

    I usually pay no mind to my feelings,

    I'm happy with my bf anywats. it's good to just keep things the way they are.
    KayaNakaku KayaNakaku
    18-21, F
    Oct 23, 2014

    Japan, Marines, Relationships, Falling Appart.

    So. Im with this guy who is stationed in Japan. and so is his bestfriend. I dont know what to do anymore. becuase i think i might be falling in love with my boyfriends bestfriend... I dont know what I should do. I dont know what is going on. I really care about both of them. My...
    vfoy vfoy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

    He raped me once. I kinda liked it.

    We kiss for hours at a time. We have sex secretly. My other boyfriend seems so in love with me though. I don't know who to break up with.
    thecoolmom thecoolmom
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    My bestfriend has been showing me lots of love

    But lately he's been being different since I have a boyfriend But idk I get moment where I feel like hugging him and my heart beats faster. I feel the same with my ex But I can't feel it for my boyfriend :/ I'm so confused
    mariishere mariishere
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014


    ok.. well i don't have a lot of experience with talking with people online because I often think it's too simple because conversations are a little bit more difficult because you miss intonations etc.. but i'll try to tell my story as good as I can because i really hope someone...
    fellicia fellicia
    Nov 12, 2013

    I was dating this guy

    for a little over a year; due to recent circumstances we decided to just be friends. Lately we've been try a work on things to get back to where we used to be. However, it scares me to think that I've started to get strong feelings for one of his best friends, who happens to be...
    gigi1993 gigi1993
    22-25, F
    Aug 25, 2014

    Security Blanket Or The Chance To Grow

    My story is unfinished. It's still being written. I'm still living it. There is so much that comprises this story. It isn't a simple scenario, at least not in my eyes. But I will try to paint a vivid picture so you understand where I'm coming from. The background of me and my...
    offthechane offthechane
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2013


    Okay so, I have this friend who is a guy and he's a pretty awesome one. Let's just call him Mr W for this occasion. I've recently developed these feelings for him and there's this whole story dedicated to him and I'm sorry if this bores you, I am gonna go into detail. So my...
    abbeylott abbeylott
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2013

    My Best Guy Friend Crush Flirting Relationship?

    well where should i begin... my best friend and i are always flirting with each other At first he always told me about the girls he was talking to but now he tells me nothing anymore. He said he was changed and done with playing, he wants a seriouse relationschip. He want's to...
    nermienworld nermienworld
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    Hallo.. Like been ages i dont post anything on

    this apps. Well i just want tell a story.. I think i fall with my best frend. My best friend have a girl friend but shes in coma like almost 2 years.i feel sorry for him. Hes been a good boyfriend for his fiance did i mention that he almost marriage with hes GF. But like a month...
    arkhamel arkhamel
    31-35, F
    Feb 12, 2015

    It's A Mass Chaos.

    I've been with my boyfriend now for about a little over a half a year. Started out rough, but got much better as time went on. I met his best friend, and instantly connected...I guess I was even talking more to his best friend than I was to my boyfriend. I didn't notice though...
    kv02 kv02
    13-15, F
    Dec 2, 2010

    Made The Wrong Choice 5 Years Ago...

     OK. So really long story short - I met my boyfriend through my best friend, who ended up marrying one of the guys in his group of friends. I initally was supposed to be coming out to this side of town to meet "Brian", and ended up causing an argument between him...
    JandBcib JandBcib
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2009

    we became friends yesterday on the bus he began

    talking and we exchanged contacts in everything we talk all night he's tried kissing me always hugs me but it's kinda awkward cause I have a bf but I love his friend at the same time being a teenager suck anyways I'm just like tf
    deleted deleted
    Oct 15, 2015

    This is not the way it was supposed to go.

    I'm Rosalind (21 years old) and I have been with my boyfriend Benvolio (22 years old) for 6 months. Not incredibly long of a relationship, but so far a very close and caring one. I've known Benvolio for two years and we went on a few dates early on, but I didn't start having...
    ReservedRosalind ReservedRosalind
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2014

    I'm Not In Love (yet)

    Don't get me wrong, I loooooove my boyfriend with my heart and soul and I do not have one single cheating gene in my body. If I feel like I need to move on from someone, then I just cut em loose and move on to the next. No need to cheat. But this situation is waaaay different. I...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

    I have a crush on my boyfriends friend.

    I just wanna kiss him and make out and then **** him.
    Emmalee410 Emmalee410
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015

    I'm Lost =[

    So I'm 21 and I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years almost 5 years. I have had two kids with him. I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter and we only were dating for not even a year. He proposed to me when I was 4 months pregnant and I accepted. Anyway, I...
    Llang8 Llang8
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2012
    unsinkable unsinkable
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    So I recently got a new friend

    and she's beautiful I've always liked guys but like ever since we've been hanging out and her coming to my house and stuff I've been getting these weird feeling for her at night I think about her in my bed and stuff please tell me I'm not the only one 😭 what do I do
    deleted deleted
    May 12, 2014

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