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I Think I'm Falling In Love With My Boyfriends Bestfriend

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    It's A Mass Chaos.

    I've been with my boyfriend now for about a little over a half a year. Started out rough, but got much better as time went on. I met his best friend, and instantly connected...I guess I was even talking more to his best friend than I was to my boyfriend. I didn't notice though...
    kv02 kv02 13-15, F Dec 2, 2010

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    unsinkable unsinkable 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Bestfriend

    Okay so, I have this friend who is a guy and he's a pretty awesome one. Let's just call him Mr W for this occasion. I've recently developed these feelings for him and there's this whole story dedicated to him and I'm sorry if this bores you, I am gonna go into detail. So my...
    abbeylott abbeylott 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    Japan, Marines, Relationships, Falling Appart.

    So. Im with this guy who is stationed in Japan. and so is his bestfriend. I dont know what to do anymore. becuase i think i might be falling in love with my boyfriends bestfriend... I dont know what I should do. I dont know what is going on. I really care about both of them. My...
    vfoy vfoy 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Made The Wrong Choice 5 Years Ago...

     OK. So really long story short - I met my boyfriend through my best friend, who ended up marrying one of the guys in his group of friends. I initally was supposed to be coming out to this side of town to meet "Brian", and ended up causing an argument between him...
    JandBcib JandBcib 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    I'm Lost =[

    So I'm 21 and I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years almost 5 years. I have had two kids with him. I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter and we only were dating for not even a year. He proposed to me when I was 4 months pregnant and I accepted. Anyway, I...
    Llang8 Llang8 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2012

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    So I recently got a new friend

    and she's beautiful I've always liked guys but like ever since we've been hanging out and her coming to my house and stuff I've been getting these weird feeling for her at night I think about her in my bed and stuff please tell me I'm not the only one 😭 what do I do
    Mollylovespussy Mollylovespussy 22-25, F 1 Response May 12

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    I was dating this guy

    for a little over a year; due to recent circumstances we decided to just be friends. Lately we've been try a work on things to get back to where we used to be. However, it scares me to think that I've started to get strong feelings for one of his best friends, who happens to be...
    gigi1993 gigi1993 18-21, F Aug 25

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    My Boyfriend Passed Away Two Weeks Ago...and Now I Am Falling For His Bestfriend..

    Hello,Here's my story.I met my boyfriend when I was 16 and I was conveinced that he was my true love and destiny.  Even if both of us had partners before, we still see each other on the side.  Fate wasn't really favoured to our relationship so we decided to just part our ways...
    JJT143143 JJT143143 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2011

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    Security Blanket Or The Chance To Grow

    My story is unfinished. It's still being written. I'm still living it. There is so much that comprises this story. It isn't a simple scenario, at least not in my eyes. But I will try to paint a vivid picture so you understand where I'm coming from. The background of me and my...
    offthechane offthechane 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    I Think I Am In Love With My Boyfriend's Bestfriend

    (For the sake of privacy, I changed the names in this story) Nearly 3 years ago I was at a state sport tournament away in another state. That weekend I met two guys specifically that played for the guy's team for our club, I hadn't ever heard or met them before. They were *Alex...
    misskaitlin misskaitlin 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    I usually pay no mind to my feelings,

    I'm happy with my bf anywats. it's good to just keep things the way they are.
    KayaNakaku KayaNakaku 16-17, F Oct 23

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    I'm In Love With My Boyfriend's Best Friend

    Hello. I'm Brooke.(21) For the sake of my story I'm going to change names. Jake (27) is my ex-boyfriend. We were together a little over 2 years. We have a BEAUTIFUL little girl named Caymen Rae. When I was pregnant, my friends kinda ditched me & I had no choice but...
    beautifulmess1 beautifulmess1 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Doubt

    ok.. well i don't have a lot of experience with talking with people online because I often think it's too simple because conversations are a little bit more difficult because you miss intonations etc.. but i'll try to tell my story as good as I can because i really hope someone...
    fellicia fellicia 22-25 Nov 12, 2013

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    I'm In Love With My Boyfriends Friend.

    *names are changed to keep anonymous* Alrighty… Where to begin… I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and things with us, well with me have just changed. I do not see him in the same amazing, loving way that I use to. I see him as more of my child than as a significant...
    secretmetal666 secretmetal666 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    Let's start with the fact

    that I am 26 years old, have found the man I'm most likely going to marry, & am pretty stable mentally. (As stable as a woman can be ;D ) I do get a little sentimental & commercials can make me tear up (some of them are just so sweet!), & I suppose that I'm just a bit of a...
    EpicMoose EpicMoose 26-30, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Ughhhh

    so i think im in love wit my boyfriends best friend and we have a kid together so it makes things for me so akward having feelings for his best friend..we have soo much in common an in a way we secretly flirt i think...its so weird last night it shook me up cuz i had a dream that...
    tornbetweenthe2 tornbetweenthe2 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    He raped me once. I kinda liked it.

    We kiss for hours at a time. We have sex secretly. My other boyfriend seems so in love with me though. I don't know who to break up with.
    thecoolmom thecoolmom 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    This is not the way it was supposed to go.

    I'm Rosalind (21 years old) and I have been with my boyfriend Benvolio (22 years old) for 6 months. Not incredibly long of a relationship, but so far a very close and caring one. I've known Benvolio for two years and we went on a few dates early on, but I didn't start having...
    ReservedRosalind ReservedRosalind 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    My Best Guy Friend Crush Flirting Relationship?

    well where should i begin... my best friend and i are always flirting with each other At first he always told me about the girls he was talking to but now he tells me nothing anymore. He said he was changed and done with playing, he wants a seriouse relationschip. He want's to...
    nermienworld nermienworld 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail And Im Falling For His Best Friend

    My boyfriend has been in jail for 7 months and he will be gone another 4. I love him dearly but for the last 3 months his best friend and I have become pretty much best friends and I think I'm falling for him. Nothing has happened between us but I get the feeling he likes me. I...
    hitexan hitexan 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    My bestfriend has been showing me lots of love

    But lately he's been being different since I have a boyfriend But idk I get moment where I feel like hugging him and my heart beats faster. I feel the same with my ex But I can't feel it for my boyfriend :/ I'm so confused
    mariishere mariishere 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I'm Not In Love (yet)

    Don't get me wrong, I loooooove my boyfriend with my heart and soul and I do not have one single cheating gene in my body. If I feel like I need to move on from someone, then I just cut em loose and move on to the next. No need to cheat. But this situation is waaaay different. I...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    I think I’m in love with my best friend and we are both female and straight. I have never felt this way about another girl, she makes me feel safe, and beautiful and loved. It...
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    I say 'think' because I'm not sure. Every night before I drift off to sleep I imagine he's cuddling up to me, but when I think about us kissing and 'doing it' my skin starts to...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Dec 9

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    Tomorrow's Monday and I get to see my teacher crush first thing in the morning! In so excited 😁 Idk why, but when he flirts with me he has me smiling the whole day, which...
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    It's December, soon it'll be January and once I realize it I'll be graduating. Soon I will have to say good-bye to him. I don't think I'm ready, but I know I have too. At the...
    twloha14 twloha14 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm really, really scared. I'm pretty sure the feelings are mutual but I always have that voice in my head saying, "you're just being delusional...she doesn't really want you...
    Friendlee Friendlee 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    It's hard to understand how I got here. I had this really awesome guy. Great dad, great husband. For two years. He was here, I swear he was. Where did he go? Why did he go? Who is...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    I'm in deep love with my best friend, and have been for over a year. A few months ago, I was forced to move away to find work, and try and restart my life following the break up...
    aldream221 aldream221 31-35, M Nov 19

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    During English class today and he walked past me and said, "Someone smells like Froot Loops. I don't know who it is, but I will find them. And I will eat them." and we were both...
    scarlettjayne scarlettjayne 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Last summer, I went to a weeklong music camp where I met a guy who's a year older than me. He and I and a couple of other people ate all our meals together, so we kind of got to...
    Nightingale73 Nightingale73 16-17, F Nov 22

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    I Love Mark Wahlberg In 2 Guns. He Makes Me Laugh My *** Off.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I see how it is. It's a game of "How many people can viciously break my heart in one week!" One a day! Monday - Success! Tuesday - Success! Whoppyfuckingdo
    ebonetta ebonetta 13-15, F Nov 18

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    The past few weeks I've just been feeling so hopeless and I hate it. I was happy for a while - I think last summer, I was the happiest I've been in years, but over the past month...
    Nightingale73 Nightingale73 16-17, F Nov 29

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    Alright. I know I might be judged severely. But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I'm head over heals in love with somebody. That sounds great, but it's not as simple as that. Both myself and the person I'm in love with have over the last 6 months gone through...
    tpol75 tpol75 36-40, M Dec 8

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    I'm in L_O_V_E with an awesome man that I've been with for 15 years. Together, we have 8 kids. I had 3, he had 4, and we adopted one together. Not EVERY day, but here and there...
    quackenmills71 quackenmills71 41-45, F Dec 1

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    Do you think I'm attractive?
    NoraGrey NoraGrey 13-15, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm bored so... If you think I'm attractive then cool, if not then ok.
    JazLife21 JazLife21 13-15, F 7 Responses Nov 25

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    I've had sleep paralysis for years, so I'm used to those kinds of hallucinations, but sometimes I hear someone say my name when I'm fully awake and there's nobody there. i think I...
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F Dec 3

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    Straightened/Natural Hair Glasses/Without Glasses To be honest, never really liked this group because just about all the pictures were of pretty people and some of them were...
    thequietpanda thequietpanda 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I think I'm attractive. Self confidence all the way. I'd like to live my life happy with what I've been given rather than hate myself for what I don't have. I got boobs and a butt...
    torrest1031 torrest1031 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    Just a question for all of you here. This group says "I do you think I'm attractive Lol" What is the question??? Because I was just attacked in my experience for saying I...
    torrest1031 torrest1031 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I'm completely done with this. I'm a bad girlfriend and a bad friend. People should stay away from me. i don't wanna go to college so I have nothing to live for...
    bigca1697 bigca1697 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well am 21 and for the last past 10 years I was in love with the same boy I never had a bf and it took me 10 years to tell him how I felt let's say he didn't take it well and said...
    missaquji missaquji 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I recently have come into contact with someone whom I met through a friend of mine. She had I have been dating for about 2 weeks now. I'm in love. She's such an amazing person. We...
    Atlas0Scar Atlas0Scar 18-21, M Dec 1

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