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I Think I'm Ugly

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    Ask Amy.

    "... when you talk about yourself or talk to yourself or you have that tape running through your head about yourself, try to picture you talking to your own daughter or your younger sister. Because you would tell your younger sister or your daughter that she was beautiful, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    I wish I looked less ratchet.

    Not even asking to be pretty just hoping to look decent. Argh.-.
    Deltedcuzthisislame Deltedcuzthisislame 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Just One More Ugly Girl...

    I am Asian, 15 years old, living in America. I don't think I'm ugly for being Asian, there are really gorgeous Asian women and girls around. Since I've started on school, I've been called ugly, numerous times, by several students. When many girls are becoming prettier and...
    Kicking3peaches Kicking3peaches 13-15 7 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    Being Ugly Is One Of The Most Depressing Things Ever

    What I hate most about being ugly is the limitations. It really breaks my heart that I can't go out anywhere without nearly everyone staring at me, some pointing and some even laughing. To walk through the mall and not even get a flirty 'hello' but those other girls/guys get...
    jesscharnelle jesscharnelle 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    I Am Ugly.

    I'm not fat. I'm not disfigured. I'm ugly. I'm disgusting. When you're ugly, the person you love and the person who loves you is never ever the same person. I wish I could make someone as happy as they make me but I can't. I deserve to be hated. I deserve every second of...
    pigstastegood pigstastegood 18-21 21 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    You Know You're Ugly When ...

    You know you're ugly when ... -- in a class or group photo they put you way in the back. -- you scare little kids; they try to get away from you. -- week after week, month after month, year after year, no one asks you for a date. -- you feel invisible; people ignore you...
    meezkite meezkite 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    I'm sick and tired of people trying to lie to me

    and tell me I'm pretty. I'm f-ucking disgusting. I mean I can see and do look in mirrors. Plus they don't see all my scars. Plus I know some guys can't see past my ddd.
    AWGIsPerfection AWGIsPerfection 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 27

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    The Ugliest Girl At School Hash Story

    And sadly that was me its always have been I go to a school where everyone's mostly black as soon as I started one gitl considered called me ugly mostly every guy at my school think I'm ugly retarded and worthless. Even some females do. It's pretty bad I know people talk about...
    ZE13 ZE13 13-15, F 13 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I Don't Like The Way I Look

    my eyes pop out of my head, I'm short, I have a big nose, I'm scrawny, and I have really big feet
    nickyjane nickyjane 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Ugly :(

    I'm 13. All my friends are gorgeous. And I'm tall, you could call me flat chested. My friends say I'm pretty but that's easy for them to say.... Boys don't call me cute or pretty. Boys don't ask me out. Boys don't even bother to talk to me...
    LacingUpChucks LacingUpChucks 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Uncomfortable

    I am 16. I wouldn't say I'm fat but I'm not skinny either but I look at all the other girls and I can't help but think wow she's pretty compared to me and skinnier. I feel so fat compared to everyone else as well as ugly
    sabrinamorris sabrinamorris 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    My Confidence Has Decreased Drastically

    I was always confident and happy I my own skin, probably because I was very young and didn't think about apparences as being important. When I was 13 I realised I was a tad chubby and after trying I lost a stone. I felt horrible about myself, but it was for myself it was not due...
    Ilovecuddles Ilovecuddles 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    Ugliness Becomes Me

    Well, I've been called ugly all my childhood until I was about 17ish.... From fat, racial slurs, to just plain ugly... Its hard to change after hearing years of negativity.... I guess after graduating from high school things did change for me. People started calling me pretty...
    1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    Never-Ending Torture.

    So I go through this cycle. Half of the time I'm aware of the fact that I'm not beautiful and the rest of the time I think I'm beautiful, but then I look in the mirror and realize the truth. It is emotional torture. All I want is to be beautiful. Or if I'm going to be ugly, I...
    evskillet evskillet 18-21 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Why Is Every Girl Prettier Than Me

    i walk down the hallways see a pretty girl and immediately put my head down. why is every girl prettier than me. its like they taunt me with their long beautiful hair. there slim perfect bodies. there perfectly sculpted faces. and it just hurts. i dont see anything good about me...
    LiveLoveLaugh6 LiveLoveLaugh6 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    I know im ugly, but i honestly dont think i

    deserve to have my name written all over the bathroom wall at school about how ugly, fat and stupid I am, or have people come up to me and compare my face to a pile of crap
    KatWynn7137 KatWynn7137 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Ugly.

    I'm ugly. I'm 13 and weigh 126 pounds. I'm 5'4. I have pale skin & lots of freckles. My acne is not too bad, but it's there. I have big feet & ugly toes.I have braces. My eye lashes are too short. I have just plain brown eyes.. Long brown hair. I really don't like my appearance...
    Freckleface99 Freckleface99 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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    To any woman out there

    who feels unattractive, go in your bathroom, lock the door, and look in the mirror. There. You're the hottest person in the room. Now wave like Miss America...
    ConspicuouslyNormal ConspicuouslyNormal 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I've been told so many times

    that I'm beautiful, it actually irritates me. What in the world do they see? I can look in a mirror and honestly say I think I'm ugly, because thats how I see myself. No one I have met has ever called me ugly, I've always been called pretty or cute but I don't understand what...
    AbandonedKitten AbandonedKitten 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Thank God For Personality

    They the lord that I have a nice personality, and I'm funny and that stuff because I'm not pretty. No argueing it. I'm ugly. I know I am. I get mistaken for a boy almost all the time. And I'm just not that good looking. except for the eye's. My eye's are the one good thing about...
    BellaRayZamora BellaRayZamora 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    Sure.. Why Not

    Not the exterior me soo much - I'm a work in progress but I like myself... even internally, I know that I'm a kind person but right now, there's just something that is making me feel "insufficient." Inside I'm empty bc of the love I lost and that can make you feel REALLY ugly...
    ActionMax ActionMax 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    Only Ugly People Say That Beauty Is On The Inside

    I was sitting on the school bus one day, not bothering anyone just listening to my iPod when the girl in the seat in front of me turned around and asked what I thought about beauty. I said that beauty was on the inside, it depended on your personality. Well both her and all her...
    Whisper15 Whisper15 13-15 6 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    Being Ugly Has Ruined My Life

    Looking the way I do has ruined my life. I was born with a large circle strawberry birthmark on my right cheek. People use to stare at it discusted and I was often made fun of by strangers. I was bullied throughout my school years, perhaps due to ...
    Faws Faws 18-21, F 12 Responses May 5, 2010

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    I Don't Feel Good About Myself Anymore.. I Feel Ugly.. </3

    I don't feel pretty, but i get told i am everyday. I don't feel skinny, but i only weight 107 pounds. I don't feel young, but i'm only 14. I don't feel smart, but i'm passing all my classes. I don't feel free, but i have no restrictions. I don't feel happy, but i have every...
    RikkieRoo RikkieRoo 13-15, F 2 Responses May 27, 2012

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    I'm A Fail Of A Person

    I have a very broad, almost square like face. I tend to be quite spotty, I have freckles too. I would consider myself a healthy weight or slightly over (I'm 119 and my height is 5'1.) All my other friends look like models which doesn't help my self esteem. I can't talk to many...
    mysteryteen mysteryteen 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    Waywardsilence Waywardsilence 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 26

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    I'm Tired Of The Big Lie

    If you have ever lamented your looks because you know that you are not physically attractive, you have heard this lie: "It's what's on the inside that counts." There is the ever-popular cousin to this lie: "Everyone is beautiful in their own way." Sure, you can be a...
    LizzyBeth68 LizzyBeth68 41-45 8 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    I'M Too Ugly To Be Truth

    I'm very ugly. My family and friends always told me that I have the ugliest eyes ( big face and tiny eyes). I have really disgusting and deform face , and weird body. I don't know how i have lived in 25 years. I hate taking photo of myself. I hate going out because I don't want...
    Hoangvy Hoangvy 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    I Know So.

    I'm an ugly person, inside and out. I hate it when people go, "Oh, you're so wonderful" and "Oh, you're so pretty," on these sites because it's such a blatant lie. You don't know me. You've never seen me. I'm actually offended that you think I'm idiotic enough to believe or be...
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    I Am Ugly

    I have acne I am a 15 year old girl and its bad i go to a dermatologist it doesn't really help When everyone looks at me I swear they look disgusted I can't stand it I am a social reject because of my ugliness How can an ugly person fit in?
    Windygirl18 Windygirl18 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Looking in the mirror is horrible.

    I rub my face wanting to scrape it all off. I look so disgusting. I hate my body, all this fatness makes me want to puke. God, why can't I be beautiful?
    Sylar506 Sylar506 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I don't think I'm ugly I just couldn't find an

    experience saying "I don't think I'm sexy" I'm a young girl but just don't feel sexy my butt is small and I'm not very curvy -_-
    MaddieX0 MaddieX0 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I'm Hideous

    ive been ugly all my life. im a 27 male, and i kant say my life is the worst, but i've had a tough life. im korean. live been racially attacked most my life, no friends, no family, no gf, little money, i live in minnesota. i'm skinny, always been, ive contemplated suicide, and i...
    kclr27 kclr27 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Ugly Troubles

    So yes, I'm ugly! I have this syndrom thing going on and many people (mostly strangers) told me before. So their's no doubt about that! The thing is.. I'm also human! I had this guy I had to pair up with last week in college, he was such a nice and sweet guy. I really want to get...
    refusingtogiveup refusingtogiveup 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Sad

    at the age of 27 after my firstbreak up no boys court me..ithink i'm very very ugly..even i'm a nice girl..
    lyn31 lyn31 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2013

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    Ugly Ducklin

    When i was younger i hardly had boyfriends so it always made me wonder was it because i was ugly? I remember one boy i was obsessed with him his name was victor and i was round his house one day and he was being a bit off with me but i wanted him so much not in a sexual way as i...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    How Does Looks Affect A Persons Life?

    I have a question that maybe has crossed other people minds besides mine. How does looks affect a persons life? I have heard all the positive quotes like, beauty is only skin deep, everyone is beautiful in their own way, it's whats on the inside that counts, beauty are in the...
    thlonely thlonely 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    You Feel Like You Don't Deserve It.

    I know there are many people like me who just can't take a compliment,just because they feel like they don't deserve it. I know how it feels you look at yourself and see something different, you wish that you looked different and that you didn't have that many flaws. Sometimes we...
    Trulyyoursxo Trulyyoursxo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2013

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    Born This Way

    I'm 18 years old and almost every day a stranger tells me I'm ugly (except for the days where I decide to stay home and do nothing) I can't say they are wrong, cause I know I am indeed ugly. It's ok, you don't have to tell me that beauty is inside (we all know that people are...
    refusingtogiveup refusingtogiveup 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    one time when I was in 6

    or 7 grade there were two girls sitting on the city bus in the wayyyyy back. They were pretty but I'm not sure if they were older than me. I think they might've been though. Anyways I was sitting a couple seats in front of them. and a lady was sitting right across from me. we...
    addictedtoashx3 addictedtoashx3 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Sigh

    It depresses me when I look in the mirror and realize we only get one to life to live...and I have to spend it looking like this. :-(
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 10 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    Hideous

    People online always tell me I'm pretty, so do my family ... No guys ever tell me I'm pretty, or cute, or beautiful ... I looked worse in middle school but I'm still not happy with my appearance ... I'm too thin, my hair doesn't fix right, my teeth are a little yellow, I have...
    InsecureBlonde InsecureBlonde 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Lost Love

    For three years I have fought to keep my husband from texting an old friend. She sends him nude pics. He begs for them. He's says it's just a game. But the game has sent me on a downward spiral that I will probably never recover from. She's pretty much more than me. And I've lost...
    Gjreeder Gjreeder 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    Yeah, But Its Not Think, Its Know...

    I wish I was pretty enough for my friends, for my boyfriend, for my family. I wish I was the skinny girl I use to be, I hate the jokes from my parents, and my brother and his girlfriend. I hate being called ugly, and fat daily. I am practically starving myself to get skinny...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    I'm not posting this looking

    for attention or anything like that. I am posting because I have been extremely insecure my whole life. I have put myself in this thinking process of if I don't look hot, sexy, or gorgeous, I'm not a worthy person. I envy women who are comfortable with themselves, because I wish...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Too Ugly For Love...

    Ever since I can remember I was bullied for being "ugly". I have really bad eyesight and had to wear big, thick glasses as a kid and when I got older I began to have an acne problem. I have also always been really pale and, you know "tan" is the "in" thing and my weight has...
    Onedayacometwillfall Onedayacometwillfall 26-30 27 Responses Jul 20, 2010

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    I Wish

    i wish i was more good-looking e__________e
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 28 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    I hate that I think I'm ugly

    and I think about it everyday. It is so stupid but it is always there in my head. I used to be 5 in a rating scale in middle school now people have said I'm a 7 but I feel I'm a 6 1/2 especially without makeup. Idk I feel people lie to me to make me feel better. I have a bf and...
    Sweets55 Sweets55 22-25, F Mar 17

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    I don't think I'm completely ugly,

    but I don't think I'm drop dead gorgeous either. I think I'm just average. :/
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    My Everyday Struggle

    First of all, to the readers, i'm not fluent in english so please be patient with me. I had these feelings everyday that I've always kept in my mind because I'm too ashamed to share it. Well, no one cares about it cause i always try to hide my true self that i am really a weak...
    warriortears warriortears 22-25 11 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    So Ugly.

    I'm 15 and have rosacea. Rosacea is a skin disease which causes my face to burn and get bright red. When my face has a flare up my chin, cheeks and forehead get bright red. I also have seborrheic dermatitis which causes me to have flakes in my eyebrows, hair and face. I feel so...
    theredfacegirl theredfacegirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Okay. So I have this friend who is just very unattractive. But see she gets ALL the boys! Everybody wants to talk to her! But the thing about it is that she's somewhat outgoing but...
    fatty234 fatty234 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    I know I'm ugly. Tell all signs you might be ugly. 1. You are in late 30 either have had 1 partner or none 2. You always get friend zoned. 3. Even the nieghbirhood pro...
    socalsissi socalsissi 36-40, T 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I think I am ugly Every time I look in a mirror I frown or become sad I have no idea what my BF Sees in me I also can't stand pictures of me I look ugly n weird in them I...
    Weirdgirl218 Weirdgirl218 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Well at least I think my nipps are. I've got inverted nipps. I don't know what to think of them or what anyone else will think. I'm meeting up with someone soon and I'm scared that...
    LazyCatEmma LazyCatEmma 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't think I'm pretty... Estoy fea Dx I may be confident but my appearance... Leaves something to be desired
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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