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I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong

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    Why be with someone if you want to do anything

    ANYTHING with someone else.? You should always want it to be your spouse because your spouse should be your soul mate .
    RacialRainbow RacialRainbow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    But many love altering it.

    Or banning it. Greedy morons.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Jun 15

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    It absolutely disgusts me to see how many

    people on here talk about cheating on their spouse. Not only does it disgust me though, it depresses me greatly. No wonder people are so terrified of commitment these days. We see all these people who married the WRONG person and ended up in a ****** marriage. Maybe if people...
    EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    cathouscc11 cathouscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Never Going To Happen.....

    My husband and I have been married two years and together 7. We aren't perfect, we have are disagreements and fights. We also have wonderful moments and times together, which is worth every fight. My husband has been cheated on by previous partners, so he always has that fear...
    BrownEyedGirl09 BrownEyedGirl09 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Why Do I Feel So Out Of Control During My Divorce?

    It was 02:30 in the morning, I was on my third glass of wine and hadn’t eaten in 3 days. I had been in my pyjamas for 36 hours straight and chain smoked 40 cigarettes (AND I don’t even smoke!)There was a pile of laundry on the couch waiting to be ironed, used tissues...
    nakeddivorce nakeddivorce 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Is it considered cheating

    if you catch your man webcamming with other women?
    stuckNWEbbz stuckNWEbbz 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    I've never told anyone this

    and I'm going to get burned for this I was single and persued by a married man I fell for him n we had an affair he was in the first year of marriage I ended it after 3 months
    Confused848 Confused848 26-30, F Nov 14, 2014

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    I believe this statement wholeheartedly however

    in a marriage there needs to balance of love and intimacy and so many other things. We can't always be what our spouse hopes for or may have been in the past but not now!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Why do people go out of their way to lie

    and cheat rather than just leave?
    sprinkles11 sprinkles11 31-35, F 41 Responses Jan 20

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    http://www.statisticbrain.

    com/infidelity-statistics/ More than half of men and women both have affairs.
    BreastLoverInNM BreastLoverInNM 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 28

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    Marry the person you love!

    If you stray from them, tell them. What of they cheated on you? Would you like it? It's all about communication, people. This is why America has a 50% divorce rate.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Cheating is not a trophy.

    I believe it should always be dealt with with a divorce.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    My Wifes Infidelity

    I've been reading through various blogs trying to understand what happened over the last six months that is ending a 19 year relationship with my wife. It wasn't until my wife told me that she was having an affair with a co worker (9 years younger) that I understood what was...
    TampaBill1 TampaBill1 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I will never ever be the other woman.

    It's not fair to the other person. If you're unhappy in a relationship just end the relationship. It hurts less than being betrayed. Plus if you end the relationship before pursuing someone else, the other person won't have a legit excuse for slashing your tires or any other...
    keishajo keishajo 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2014

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    Recently I stumbled on a situation

    that disturbed me. My wife and I work together and I noticed she would do a little dance every time a certain individual was present. I dismissed it at first thinking that she was just happy that day. After a while I noticed that it occurred every time he was around. A short...
    Jackal208 Jackal208 56-60, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Save one instance. If the spouse is not

    taking care of their children, if they're not willing to communicate with you, if you can't divorce them due to you having to pay amnesty on their sorry ***, they don't appreciate or respect you nor your children, they don't want to go therapy,.......then I believe you should...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    The idea behind getting married is to devote

    yourself to one person. If you don't want that then don't get married. If you can't do it anymore then get a divorce. Don't go sneaking around behind your spouse's back. It's a different age. You don't need to be married to have children with someone. Getting a divorce is not an...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 26-30 4 Responses Jan 26

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    My Cheating Wife

    I always believed in the whole marriage experience. I believed that the marriage vows were sacred, that it was a bond between two people who not only loved each other but trusted and respected each other. My wife was, or so I thought a kind, caring person. I watched how she...
    pirage79 pirage79 31-35, M 12 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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    But then monogamy is something incomprehensible

    to some! It is a foreign idea based on social cohesion, but these days it is unnecessary because of national identity. Disease and fear of it is the main control over the polygamy of the majority, but what is worse? Lying to a spouse or living a lie with a spouse?
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    feeling depressed and heart broken.

    my boyfriend broke up with me because he had found the love of his life and the relationship is already a year old when he confessed it to me. i love him so much and its really hard on my part that he cheated on me and left me and for him beong happy with someone else.
    maybs04 maybs04 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Adultery

    The word in the bible that the Lord uses is adultery. It is also one of Gods commandments and should not be taken lightly. He gave it to us for a reason and that was so we would obey his wishes if we wanted happy and  loyal marriages. Adultery is a sin in his eyes and ...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    It is so dammm wrong.

    Just ask yours truly, my broken and reeling children and the carnage of relationships that have been left in the wake of our dying marriage. Ugh
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12, 2014

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    I think it's infidelity

    when you and your partner have an agreement to be exclusive to one another and someone breaks that. I don't think it's infidelity if it's an open relationship, poluamorous, etc. The whole issue for me with infidelity is that it breaks a bond and a trust that takes along time to...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F Jun 4

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    Think irrespective of gender bias,

    and more in proximity to your most trusted faiths! In a nutshell, the crux of the entire content is self-control and true compatibility. That which is adorable, pious, most precious if cannot be given, should not be touched. Those that relished from the bestest (exceptions...
    Elitevenkat8kashyap Elitevenkat8kashyap 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    my husband loves me still

    and thats why he decided to tell me honestly that he met someone who he now feels he loves as strongly as he loves me. they didnt get physical yet but he is saying its reaching that level... do you believe in love for two people equally? is that an infidelity if he confines to...
    alexiaburton alexiaburton 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    starwars580 starwars580 18-21, M 4 Responses May 6

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    We have not been intimate

    for 3 yeArs we have loads of problems we dont kiss we dnt hug we dnt sleep in the sMe room but that doesnt mean either one of us want to be unfaithful that is no wAy to work your problems out. We go to counceling raise our kids together under the same roof have meals together...
    jennaveivea jennaveivea 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    Please rephrase it to in my marriage.

    Stop deciding how other people define their relationships.
    Savourycandy Savourycandy 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    If you do not want to be faithful in your

    marriage, then you should just divorce and start a new relationship. It's simple... there is no need to hurt your spouse.
    sweeteveryday sweeteveryday 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Marriage Requires Fidelity!

    Marriage may be outdated, I don't know. I am in favor of it, and think any two people should marry if they choose. But marriage requires fidelity! Without that basic trust that he is devoted to you and can control himself there is no reason to be married. Marriage may not be...
    msfeminist msfeminist 51-55, F 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Even in a general relationship.

    If he or she cheated on someone to be with you, I don't think I can trust them to be faithful to me. I know there are always exceptions to the rule but I'm still wary of those who have cheated. I've been cheated on, and I've had been on the other side where they've told me they...
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    I Dont Know What To Do. Is It My Fault?

      Hello Everyone. Im hoping someone has a similiar experience as this.About a year ago I started to resent my wife for things that I shouldnt have. We were stretched financially and I felt that whatever I said didnt matter but whatever someone else said did. I started to get...
    sirclizz sirclizz 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    This Is My Opinion... Everyone Is Tempted

    Even though you stand before God and your family and make this commitment and even if you're a Christian you can be tempted. You can be tempted to judge someone, to lie to a friend, to cheat on a test, or just about any temptation you can be susceptible to fall short. We all do...
    Matchless Matchless 41-45 1 Response Oct 4, 2008

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    Hi I'm new here. I'm not sure

    where to turn. I feel so lost and lonely. I recently found out my husband has been carrying on a relationship with my twin sister for 10 years+. I have been with him for 17 years. She even broke up with him and dated someone else for a while and after they split my husband...
    jenc12 jenc12 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    I would be lying if I said I've never struggled.

    The first 2 years of marriage can be tough, especially having married at a young age without having dated many guys. Lucky for me, the issue was resolved before it became a real problem. Satan wants to get in the middle of Christian marriages and have them destroyed. And the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong.

    I personaly think infidelity is hands down wrong with out any excuses. The sad part is that people often get into marriage without fully understanding what it means and represents. When you say youre vows " for better or for worse" i think that should be carried through...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F 9 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Well my marriage will officially be over this

    time tomorrow. My ex is getting on a plan to Japan for his new duty station and jettisoning out of my life. I don't know if his girlfriend is going with him or not, but I do know that I won't miss his cheating lying a$$. I know my daughter will miss him at first, but that will...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Please Don't Marry Me If You Still Want To Play The Field

    I don't think people should get married if they can't stay committed to the other person. It causes so much hurt. Not only is the spouse hurt, but so are the kids, and extended family. All because of the selfish act(s) of one person. Trust is broken and may never be repaired for...
    diggingout diggingout 36-40, F Jul 12, 2012

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    We suspect that my husbands sister is cheating

    on her husband. she has made several trips out of town to see her "friends" from the town she grew up in. thanks to social media we can see she has been spending her weekends away with the same guy. we all thought the trips were a bit fishy, and her 14yo seems to think mommy has...
    marie022 marie022 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Through nearly 25 years of marriage I have

    NEVER cheated on her,because there is no need. She has stuck by me through thick and thin. When I didn't have a penny to my name she was there. When I finally became successful she was there. She's a little heavier now but she's had 3 of my children and hasn't let herself...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F Jan 21

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    It's been a few days

    since me and my husband argued about the situation we had that involved another woman. And I feel crushed by the whole situation . We are both Christians and I don't know what to do or how to feel towards him. Any advice?
    Mrsflores0917 Mrsflores0917 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Being an unfaithful spouse is the worst thing

    you can do to another person. It has the potential to ruin someone physically, mentally... It can destroy lives and families. It can devastate entirely. It can reduce someone to the shell of who they once were, doubting and criticizing themselves when they shouldn't be. I am...
    oneawkwardcactus oneawkwardcactus 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 24, 2014

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