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I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 24, 2014

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    http://www.statisticbrain.

    com/infidelity-statistics/ More than half of men and women both have affairs.
    BreastLoverInNM BreastLoverInNM 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 28

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    cheating Is wrong in the first place

    if u do it in a marriage ur ****
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom 18-21, M Aug 17

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    I think it's infidelity

    when you and your partner have an agreement to be exclusive to one another and someone breaks that. I don't think it's infidelity if it's an open relationship, poluamorous, etc. The whole issue for me with infidelity is that it breaks a bond and a trust that takes along time to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 4

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    If you do not want to be faithful in your

    marriage, then you should just divorce and start a new relationship. It's simple... there is no need to hurt your spouse.
    sweeteveryday sweeteveryday 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    My Cheating Wife

    I always believed in the whole marriage experience. I believed that the marriage vows were sacred, that it was a bond between two people who not only loved each other but trusted and respected each other. My wife was, or so I thought a kind, caring person. I watched how she...
    pirage79 pirage79 31-35, M 12 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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    Cheating is not a trophy.

    I believe it should always be dealt with with a divorce.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F May 18

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    Hi I'm new here. I'm not sure

    where to turn. I feel so lost and lonely. I recently found out my husband has been carrying on a relationship with my twin sister for 10 years+. I have been with him for 17 years. She even broke up with him and dated someone else for a while and after they split my husband...
    jenc12 jenc12 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    feeling depressed and heart broken.

    my boyfriend broke up with me because he had found the love of his life and the relationship is already a year old when he confessed it to me. i love him so much and its really hard on my part that he cheated on me and left me and for him beong happy with someone else.
    maybs04 maybs04 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Adultery

    The word in the bible that the Lord uses is adultery. It is also one of Gods commandments and should not be taken lightly. He gave it to us for a reason and that was so we would obey his wishes if we wanted happy and  loyal marriages. Adultery is a sin in his eyes and ...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Well why you married.

    ..why you keep married to a lie? Free yourself and make things right before cheating.
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F Aug 5

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    Anyone want to talk about marriage?

    I need to vent. PM me please!
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    We suspect that my husbands sister is cheating

    on her husband. she has made several trips out of town to see her "friends" from the town she grew up in. thanks to social media we can see she has been spending her weekends away with the same guy. we all thought the trips were a bit fishy, and her 14yo seems to think mommy has...
    marie022 marie022 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Hmm. I wonder what is

    that draws people to cheat in marriage? I'm sure they know it's wrong, but what's the appeal? I can only guess that they prefer a fantasy to reality. Cheating may be their way of escaping the realities of their relationship, rather than face the challenges head on they flee into...
    lillyunbelievable21 lillyunbelievable21 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    This Ashley Madison scandal is not entertaining

    me, it's making me sad. So many cheating partners and people willing to cheat with them breaks my heart. These users KNOW what they're doing. This is not a site you stumble across on accident, it's an intentional choice.
    DrLizzyFreud DrLizzyFreud 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    If you aren't going to honor your vows,

    please don't get married.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F a week ago

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    I don't understand why people stay in an

    unhappy relationship, or why they don't do everything in their power to make it better. Infidelity seems like the deepest dishonesty I can imagine, and the deepest selfishness. To my mind, the choices in an unhappy relationship include: committing to giving healing 100% effort...
    lovevolves8 lovevolves8 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F Jan 21

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    But then monogamy is something incomprehensible

    to some! It is a foreign idea based on social cohesion, but these days it is unnecessary because of national identity. Disease and fear of it is the main control over the polygamy of the majority, but what is worse? Lying to a spouse or living a lie with a spouse?
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    I've never told anyone this

    and I'm going to get burned for this I was single and persued by a married man I fell for him n we had an affair he was in the first year of marriage I ended it after 3 months
    Confused848 Confused848 26-30, F Nov 14, 2014

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    If you don't feel the same then break

    up/divorce! Instead of cheating and making everything a lie!
    PsychMarshmallow PsychMarshmallow 26-30, F Aug 14

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    I Dont Know What To Do. Is It My Fault?

      Hello Everyone. Im hoping someone has a similiar experience as this.About a year ago I started to resent my wife for things that I shouldnt have. We were stretched financially and I felt that whatever I said didnt matter but whatever someone else said did. I started to get...
    sirclizz sirclizz 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    The day of my wedding i took my vows

    before God to be united as one with my Husband until death do us part,that includes being faithful to those same vows until God chooses the time we are to depart this earth.I do not understand how a man or wife can stray from those vows,yes we all have problems in our lives,but...
    coastiewife36 coastiewife36 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    RICHARDLOVESME RICHARDLOVESME 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    Even in a general relationship.

    If he or she cheated on someone to be with you, I don't think I can trust them to be faithful to me. I know there are always exceptions to the rule but I'm still wary of those who have cheated. I've been cheated on, and I've had been on the other side where they've told me they...
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    I would be lying if I said I've never struggled.

    The first 2 years of marriage can be tough, especially having married at a young age without having dated many guys. Lucky for me, the issue was resolved before it became a real problem. Satan wants to get in the middle of Christian marriages and have them destroyed. And the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    But many love altering it.

    Or banning it. Greedy morons.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Jun 15

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    Please rephrase it to in my marriage.

    Stop deciding how other people define their relationships.
    Savourycandy Savourycandy 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    starwars580 starwars580 18-21, M 4 Responses May 6

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    Why be with someone if you want to do anything

    ANYTHING with someone else.? You should always want it to be your spouse because your spouse should be your soul mate .
    RacialRainbow RacialRainbow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Well my marriage will officially be over this

    time tomorrow. My ex is getting on a plan to Japan for his new duty station and jettisoning out of my life. I don't know if his girlfriend is going with him or not, but I do know that I won't miss his cheating lying a$$. I know my daughter will miss him at first, but that will...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I think married or not it should not be allowed

    or accepted ! I don't believe in 2nd chances . U cheat an ur cut off . When u truly love some one u don't feel the need to b unfaithful 100 !!!
    ev23 ev23 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    It absolutely disgusts me to see how many

    people on here talk about cheating on their spouse. Not only does it disgust me though, it depresses me greatly. No wonder people are so terrified of commitment these days. We see all these people who married the WRONG person and ended up in a ****** marriage. Maybe if people...
    EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    My Wifes Infidelity

    I've been reading through various blogs trying to understand what happened over the last six months that is ending a 19 year relationship with my wife. It wasn't until my wife told me that she was having an affair with a co worker (9 years younger) that I understood what was...
    TampaBill1 TampaBill1 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Why Do I Feel So Out Of Control During My Divorce?

    It was 02:30 in the morning, I was on my third glass of wine and hadn’t eaten in 3 days. I had been in my pyjamas for 36 hours straight and chain smoked 40 cigarettes (AND I don’t even smoke!)There was a pile of laundry on the couch waiting to be ironed, used tissues...
    nakeddivorce nakeddivorce 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    Why do people go out of their way to lie

    and cheat rather than just leave?
    sprinkles11 sprinkles11 31-35, F 40 Responses Jan 20

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    This Is My Opinion... Everyone Is Tempted

    Even though you stand before God and your family and make this commitment and even if you're a Christian you can be tempted. You can be tempted to judge someone, to lie to a friend, to cheat on a test, or just about any temptation you can be susceptible to fall short. We all do...
    Matchless Matchless 41-45 1 Response Oct 4, 2008

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    my husband loves me still

    and thats why he decided to tell me honestly that he met someone who he now feels he loves as strongly as he loves me. they didnt get physical yet but he is saying its reaching that level... do you believe in love for two people equally? is that an infidelity if he confines to...
    alexiaburton alexiaburton 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong.

    I personaly think infidelity is hands down wrong with out any excuses. The sad part is that people often get into marriage without fully understanding what it means and represents. When you say youre vows " for better or for worse" i think that should be carried through...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F 9 Responses May 27, 2009

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    I've been married for 15 years.

    7 of which my husband spent cheating on me, just sex with random. No relationships, just sex. He hasn't cheated in over 5 years. He try's hard to make up for it. Will I ever get over it? I had hoped I would be over the anger by now. Will there ever be trust again?
    Almosthippy Almosthippy 36-40 2 Responses Aug 9

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    The idea behind getting married is to devote

    yourself to one person. If you don't want that then don't get married. If you can't do it anymore then get a divorce. Don't go sneaking around behind your spouse's back. It's a different age. You don't need to be married to have children with someone. Getting a divorce is not an...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 26-30 4 Responses Jan 26

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    cathouscc11 cathouscc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Being an unfaithful spouse is the worst thing

    you can do to another person. It has the potential to ruin someone physically, mentally... It can destroy lives and families. It can devastate entirely. It can reduce someone to the shell of who they once were, doubting and criticizing themselves when they shouldn't be. I am...
    oneawkwardcactus oneawkwardcactus 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 5