I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong

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    Anyone want to talk about marriage?

    I need to vent. PM me please!
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 16, 2015
    starwars580 starwars580
    22-25, M
    4 Responses May 6, 2015

    Well my marriage will officially be over this

    time tomorrow. My ex is getting on a plan to Japan for his new duty station and jettisoning out of my life. I don't know if his girlfriend is going with him or not, but I do know that I won't miss his cheating lying a$$. I know my daughter will miss him at first, but that will...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    Hi I'm new here. I'm not sure

    where to turn. I feel so lost and lonely. I recently found out my husband has been carrying on a relationship with my twin sister for 10 years+. I have been with him for 17 years. She even broke up with him and dated someone else for a while and after they split my husband...
    jenc12 jenc12
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    If you aren't going to honor your vows,

    please don't get married.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Aug 24, 2015

    Its been wrong in most religions But they are

    the famous offenders Who damaged the ranks of believers By posing as the flock But violating so much That many shun church And hope god was an alien Since society gets worse And the church allows it Plus wants tithes And volunteers Like nothings wrong...
    OddButResilient OddButResilient
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 10

    my husband and i have been together

    for 30 years. in the last two years i found out he was cheating on me with someone he knew when they were 15. i gave him divorce papers signed 4 times. and every time i gave it to him he found an excuse why not to sign it. but he tells me he wants a divorce frequently...
    jaws92 jaws92
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Jan 24

    cheating Is wrong in the first place

    if u do it in a marriage ur ****
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom
    18-21, M
    Aug 17, 2015

    Being an unfaithful spouse is the worst thing

    you can do to another person. It has the potential to ruin someone physically, mentally... It can destroy lives and families. It can devastate entirely. It can reduce someone to the shell of who they once were, doubting and criticizing themselves when they shouldn't be. I am...
    oneawkwardcactus oneawkwardcactus
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    The day of my wedding i took my vows

    before God to be united as one with my Husband until death do us part,that includes being faithful to those same vows until God chooses the time we are to depart this earth.I do not understand how a man or wife can stray from those vows,yes we all have problems in our lives,but...
    Kodiakgirl80 Kodiakgirl80
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2015

    My fiancé and I said we would be open with one

    another about everything, but when I learned he had intimate relations with a married female friend of his, I was disturbed right to the core. She disgusts me, but his actions were just as gross. He says he went for it because he had lower self esteem and she was the only one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    Mama’s Baby, Apa's(Apa is Korean

    for Daddy) Maybe-My last child nearly broke up my 24 years long marriage after only 8 years.Quickly and gently I removed my barely toddling son from the bed with my napping wife. In five seconds I had forced a pacifier in to his mouth,taken him out of the bedroom,and the door...
    Eyewasthere Eyewasthere
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 17, 2015

    This Ashley Madison scandal is not entertaining

    me, it's making me sad. So many cheating partners and people willing to cheat with them breaks my heart. These users KNOW what they're doing. This is not a site you stumble across on accident, it's an intentional choice.
    DrLizzyFreud DrLizzyFreud
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    But then monogamy is something incomprehensible

    to some! It is a foreign idea based on social cohesion, but these days it is unnecessary because of national identity. Disease and fear of it is the main control over the polygamy of the majority, but what is worse? Lying to a spouse or living a lie with a spouse?
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    http://www.statisticbrain.

    com/infidelity-statistics/ More than half of men and women both have affairs.
    BreastLoverInNM BreastLoverInNM
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    My Cheating Wife

    I always believed in the whole marriage experience. I believed that the marriage vows were sacred, that it was a bond between two people who not only loved each other but trusted and respected each other. My wife was, or so I thought a kind, caring person. I watched how she...
    pirage79 pirage79
    31-35, M
    12 Responses Mar 13, 2012

    I think it's infidelity

    when you and your partner have an agreement to be exclusive to one another and someone breaks that. I don't think it's infidelity if it's an open relationship, poluamorous, etc. The whole issue for me with infidelity is that it breaks a bond and a trust that takes along time to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 4, 2015

    while i sit at home my husband is out leaving

    me to wonder who he is with or where he is. does he just want me to think that he is with her or is he really? we got into a huge argument and he said he was leaving. he left for a whole day and then came home from work yesterday only to not come home again today........
    jaws92 jaws92
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Jan 28

    I don't understand why people stay in an

    unhappy relationship, or why they don't do everything in their power to make it better. Infidelity seems like the deepest dishonesty I can imagine, and the deepest selfishness. To my mind, the choices in an unhappy relationship include: committing to giving healing 100% effort...
    lovevolves8 lovevolves8
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2014

    Married for 14yrs, together 20.

    Deep down I think I suspected he was cheating right from the beginning of our relationship, I just chose to ignore it. Over the years a few incidents came about all concerning my H and how he keeps secrets and lies when it comes to women. Just last August, a week after our...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    The idea behind getting married is to devote

    yourself to one person. If you don't want that then don't get married. If you can't do it anymore then get a divorce. Don't go sneaking around behind your spouse's back. It's a different age. You don't need to be married to have children with someone. Getting a divorce is not an...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 26, 2015

    It absolutely disgusts me to see how many

    people on here talk about cheating on their spouse. Not only does it disgust me though, it depresses me greatly. No wonder people are so terrified of commitment these days. We see all these people who married the WRONG person and ended up in a ****** marriage. Maybe if people...
    EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    Why do people go out of their way to lie

    and cheat rather than just leave?
    sprinkles11 sprinkles11
    31-35, F
    34 Responses Jan 20, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 7, 2015

    feeling depressed and heart broken.

    my boyfriend broke up with me because he had found the love of his life and the relationship is already a year old when he confessed it to me. i love him so much and its really hard on my part that he cheated on me and left me and for him beong happy with someone else.
    maybs04 maybs04
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    Not just in marriage.

    In general. If you have a commitment to someone, they should be your one, your only. Loyalty is always amazing. Beside, the only sides and mains I want are the ones on my plate.
    Littlemisslollipop Littlemisslollipop
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 30

    If you do not want to be faithful in your

    marriage, then you should just divorce and start a new relationship. It's simple... there is no need to hurt your spouse.
    sweeteveryday sweeteveryday
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    Cheating is not a trophy.

    I believe it should always be dealt with with a divorce.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 18, 2015

    I would be lying if I said I've never struggled.

    The first 2 years of marriage can be tough, especially having married at a young age without having dated many guys. Lucky for me, the issue was resolved before it became a real problem. Satan wants to get in the middle of Christian marriages and have them destroyed. And the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    I've been married for 15 years.

    7 of which my husband spent cheating on me, just sex with random. No relationships, just sex. He hasn't cheated in over 5 years. He try's hard to make up for it. Will I ever get over it? I had hoped I would be over the anger by now. Will there ever be trust again?
    Almosthippy Almosthippy
    36-40
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    My mom ****** around on my Dad

    for over 2 years with her senior citizen boss. Now we know why she made soo much. Not anymore. Dad made sure Everyone knew about it and now she jobless. They dated (her and my Dad) for awhile later on, until he found out she was ******* someone else on the side again... He's...
    RKZeus24 RKZeus24
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 11

    Even in a general relationship.

    If he or she cheated on someone to be with you, I don't think I can trust them to be faithful to me. I know there are always exceptions to the rule but I'm still wary of those who have cheated. I've been cheated on, and I've had been on the other side where they've told me they...
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    Adultery

    The word in the bible that the Lord uses is adultery. It is also one of Gods commandments and should not be taken lightly. He gave it to us for a reason and that was so we would obey his wishes if we wanted happy and  loyal marriages. Adultery is a sin in his eyes and ...
    RESCUE RESCUE
    61-65, F
    9 Responses Sep 19, 2008

    I feel that Infidelity is Marriage is wrong.

    When a couple is married,they take their vows before God to love and honor their spouse until death do they part.Infidelity is not love,nor is it honor.Nothing about Infidelity is right.The recent Ashley Madison scandal proves that Infidelity is alive and strong.I know this will...
    Kodiakgirl80 Kodiakgirl80
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    If you don't feel the same then break

    up/divorce! Instead of cheating and making everything a lie!
    PsychMarshmallow PsychMarshmallow
    26-30, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    How could you betray someone you love like that?

    That;s why this "i am the other woman" experience is so disgusting.
    PrincessValkyrie PrincessValkyrie
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    My Wifes Infidelity

    I've been reading through various blogs trying to understand what happened over the last six months that is ending a 19 year relationship with my wife. It wasn't until my wife told me that she was having an affair with a co worker (9 years younger) that I understood what was...
    TampaBill1 TampaBill1
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Nov 19, 2013

    I grew up with a father

    who could not fathom how men cheated on their wives. I heard him say multiple times, "It's not that hard to be faithful." He set up boundaries for himself, such as never to be alone with another woman. He never let's himself email/text other non-related women with things not...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 29

    Although I myself have committed this sin

    myself. It is wrong! I think that if a person man or woman should feel it necessary to stray then they should not be in a committed relationship!
    justsayin4897 justsayin4897
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2015

    Well why you married.

    ..why you keep married to a lie? Free yourself and make things right before cheating.
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    Aug 5, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    My husband had an affair with his ex wife

    for over a year....I love him and he swears he is sorry and it's over with her...that he thought it would allow him to have a relationship with his other kids again and he was wrong and he says he loves me. After this many years I hate to through it all away. I am kinda lost but...
    KaClovesU KaClovesU
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jan 23
    Regrets472 Regrets472
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2015
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