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I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong

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    Of Course - I think when a couple promise to forsake others at the altar, in front of their friends, family, and God, then yes, it is WRONG!
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    I'm Trying... - I recently discovered that my husband cheated on me. I believe it when people say its the most heart wrenching thing imaginable. I have to admit I was quite blind...
    Aceanator Aceanator 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    Wow, Just Wow... - First, I understand that some don't see infidelity as a problem and I'm not trying to put down anyone for thinking so. But I'm not one of them. I do not and will...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2011

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    Wedding Vows Are Covenant With God - People who cheat once they are married have a lot of control issues. It is wrong to stand before a church/Justice of the Peace/Rabbi/Priest...
    Micayla Micayla 61-65, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    This Isnt Exactly A Story - think of your kids, at least. get a divorce
    DebraNiomie DebraNiomie 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    This Is My Opinion... Everyone Is Tempted - Even though you stand before God and your family and make this commitment and even if you're a Christian you can be tempted. You can be...
    Matchless Matchless 41-45 1 Response Oct 4, 2008

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    Recently I stumbled on a situation that disturbed me. My wife and I work together and I noticed she would do a little dance every time a certain individual was present. I...
    Jackal208 Jackal208 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    Stupidity Is Why - like jeopardy, the question to that answer is... WHY WASTE YOUR TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU DONT WANT?!?!?
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    If I Were The One Who Created This Group - I wouldn't have said " I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong" but "I know Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong" and disgusting!
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Apr 23, 2012

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    Unhappy - I got married 9 years ago, and just realise that I don’t want to be here.
    nonspeciale nonspeciale 31-35 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    Confused And Dont Know What To Do! - I have been married for almost 20 years to a man that is older than me, he is content to do nothing and I want to go do things. I'm very...
    emmily1130 emmily1130 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Just Discovered The Cheating - I found the cell phone bills which show constant daily phone calls of every morning and every night during the drive to and from work, constant test...
    reallynotready reallynotready 36-40 3 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    It Is - What is the point of getting married to a person if you're just going to be unfaithful to them? You should know that at the very moment you say "I do" that you want to be...
    EmiliaR124 EmiliaR124 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2011

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    Thoughts On Marriage And Divorce - After much thought I have come to the conclusion marriages are harder to keep together now more than ever. I have been married and divorced going...
    Khusn11 Khusn11 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    He's Been Unfaithful Multiple Times, And Yes, I'm Still Trying To Fix It - In our relationship these are some of the things my husband has done to cheat -caught on multiple dating...
    nelliebum nelliebum 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Adultery - The word in the bible that the Lord uses is adultery. It is also one of Gods commandments and should not be taken lightly. He gave it to us for a reason and that was so...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    I Think My Marriage Is Really Over... - I have been married for 2 years now. We have been together for a total of 6 years. Before we took those all important vows, and said those 2...
    luvlost09 luvlost09 26-30, F 9 Responses May 27, 2011

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    Unhappy - I got married 9 years ago, and just realise that I don’t want to be here.
    nonspeciale nonspeciale 31-35 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Please Don't Marry Me If You Still Want To Play The Field - I don't think people should get married if they can't stay committed to the other person. It causes so much hurt. Not...
    diggingout diggingout 36-40, F Jul 12, 2012

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    Very Simple - Why get married if you want to sleep with other people? Stay single if that's what you want. It really burns my butt when I see personals sections for people...
    Lushesb Lushesb 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    To Be Honest... - ...I think its pretty much always wrong.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 20, 2008

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    What Do You Think? Forgive Or Move On? - I've been married for 30 years to the same man. At the beginning of our marriage he was physically abusive as well as mentally abusive but...
    butterfly422 butterfly422 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    So... Don't get married... :)
    echoalpha echoalpha 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My Cheating Wife - I always believed in the whole marriage experience. I believed that the marriage vows were sacred, that it was a bond between two people who not only loved each...
    pirage79 pirage79 31-35, M 12 Responses Mar 13, 2012

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    My Wifes Infidelity - I've been reading through various blogs trying to understand what happened over the last six months that is ending a 19 year relationship with my wife. It...
    TampaBill1 TampaBill1 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Should I Explain This! -  When you marry someone it's exclusive!!!! just u and ur partner no one else... I so will hate if the person i marry cheats on my that's when i end...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Advice Or Opinion - Make Sense? - A man or woman is only infidel when the marriage isn't right, right? So why put yourself in a place where you are discomforted? It is simple...
    cheddarc2020 cheddarc2020 18-21, F Mar 23, 2011

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    Marraige - my wife has had a 3 month online facebook, texts and calls. i found out 20 dec 2011. we are trying to get by this... but i doubt i ever will. she shows no affection to...
    irishman2012 irishman2012 41-45 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    You Took a Vow - I think infidelity is wrong in general, but in marriage I think maybe it's a bit worse. If you're just dating someone and you cheat, you broke a trust but when you...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Mar 7, 2009

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    Never Going To Happen..... - My husband and I have been married two years and together 7. We aren't perfect, we have are disagreements and fights. We also have wonderful moments...
    BrownEyedGirl09 BrownEyedGirl09 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    I Have Been The Other Man.... - Just before my 40th birthday, I started an affair with a 23 year old married woman.  It was a thrilling run for 6 years.  But just as it started...
    davbor davbor 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 11, 2012

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    I Dont Know What To Do. Is It My Fault? -   Hello Everyone. Im hoping someone has a similiar experience as this.About a year ago I started to resent my wife for things that I...
    sirclizz sirclizz 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Either Your In It Or Your Not - I don't believe in cheating, especially when your married.  You take vows to your spouse, to love them and be faithful till death do you part...
    bellamomma bellamomma 31-35, F 10 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    What To Do Now - In 2010 my wife sister had an affair watching the outcome I told my wife's sister she opened a door in my wife's head thinking it'll be alright everyone will...
    Brocks0815 Brocks0815 26-30 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    It Disgusts Me - and I fear it. It defeats the purpose of committing yourself to someone. You become friends, you date, you love each other, and if you so choose (that's right...
    MidKnightStorm13 MidKnightStorm13 22-25, F 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong. - I personaly think infidelity is hands down wrong with out any excuses. The sad part is that people often get into marriage without fully...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F 9 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Cheating Can Have Lasting Effects On Everyone Involved.... - I have been with the same man for 11 years, and I knew before I married him 3 years ago that he was a cheater.  We...
    SunnyGirl407 SunnyGirl407 26-30 3 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    Why Do I Feel So Out Of Control During My Divorce? - It was 02:30 in the morning, I was on my third glass of wine and hadn’t eaten in 3 days. I had been in my pyjamas for 36...
    nakeddivorce nakeddivorce 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    My Husband Had An O R G A S M And Did Not E J A C U L A T E. - My husband and did not have sex for about 3 days. When we finally did, I felt he had an o r g a s m but did not e...
    pinklady40 pinklady40 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Loyalty vs faith - I WAS in love with a celebrity, but i never met him nor does he know i exist. Probably because it was due to the fact my hubby was far away from me n he was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 6, 2011

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    A Promise - To me, marriage vows are among the most important promises you make in life.  One of those vows is to be faithful to your partner.  To break that promise, to...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 9 Responses Nov 4, 2008

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    Marriage Requires Fidelity! - Marriage may be outdated, I don't know. I am in favor of it, and think any two people should marry if they choose. But marriage requires fidelity...
    msfeminist msfeminist 51-55, F 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    My Dad Was A Cheater - My dad has been cheating on my mom for a VERY long time. Even before I was born, he was doing that. I remember my little sister who is 4 years younger than...
    jennywawa88 jennywawa88 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Wrong! - It is also illegal! I think if you cheat on your partner, you will never be happy in your life ever........ I have to principles: Once a cheater always a cheater What...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    Wandering Heart - I was married close to 22 years the first time.In the beginning it was a great relationship.We started having kids first a girl then 3 years later a boy.Our son...
    doneitagain doneitagain 51-55, F 4 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    Searching For My Patricia - In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    What To Do Now - In 2010 my wife sister had an affair watching the outcome I told my wife's sister she opened a door in my wife's head thinking it'll be alright everyone will...
    Brocks0815 Brocks0815 26-30 May 31, 2012

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    Please Help Me - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and I have never before been in love with someone. During this time we spent a good amount of time in a long...
    lost44433 lost44433 22-25 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    No Reason As To Why...... - Less than 4 weeks ago my husband told me that he cheated on me. Not because he wasnt in love with me but because he felt rejected by me when I didn't...
    lopezshanique lopezshanique 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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