I Think It Is Hard to Find Honest, Trustworthy Friends

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    People keep saying it's my fault nate left me.

    That I let him take advantage of me because of our ten year friendship. And all I keep hearing is guys and girls can't be friends without falling into some sort of romantic relationship. But I disagree. I want to become more independent and not have my world revolve around...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2015

    Before I really had problems with friends I

    used to call everybody my friend. I think that's where majority of people's problems come from when it comes to friends. They label everyone as their friend, and they really aren't their friend. You call these people your friend, then they're not there for you when you need...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2014

    For everyone who is thinking people don't

    notice the small things that are done. At least for me the smallest gestures, wishing me a good day, seeing if my colds any better, just sending a smile to me brightens my day in ways that make me feel honored to call you my friends. Thank you all so very much for touching my...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 18, 2015

    That's Because...

    Nothing worth anything is ever gotten through the easier process and then been coveted for the struggles endured to know it.
    deleted deleted
    Apr 11, 2011

    My friend who is a girl told me this morning

    that she would call me this afternoon. Its night time now and she still has not called me or even attempted to contact me since morning. She always says she is never busy for me yet she fails to keep her word. I am not sure whether I should trust this person anymore. Would love...
    Accg23 Accg23
    26-30, M
    Aug 16, 2015

    If I Find Them, I Try to Hang Onto Them

     because you never know when you might find another. 
    NaomiZero NaomiZero
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2009

    Is impossible to meet a guy in my level!

    !! Other the guy is extremely dirty, or they act like children around good looking girls. Or have super annoying habits; eating with zero table Manners, back stabbing, low confident. Thus I guess I'm always ping everything on my own. Just meeting someone close to my level is...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 23, 2015

    Can Find Any Friends

    but is harder to find a true friend that you can be real friends with in my life.  If you find one then it won't be long before they move some where else and they say "I'LL keep in touch." but don't. I have had only 2 true friends that have contacted after a while...
    mtvlm mtvlm
    41-45, M
    Mar 20, 2009

    A friend will only be a friend

    when he/she is honest and trustworthy, if not that person is not a friend for me. I don't believe in 'I am friends with that person because else I am lonely' if I need to feel lonely to find a true friend, so be it. But I am sure, one day, I will meet that person, and then I...
    GentleReader GentleReader
    16-17, M
    Jan 26, 2016

    It can be hard to find good friends,

    but I think it also depends on where you are looking for friends. I've learnt that places like EP are not really good places to go in search of friends. Although I did unintentionally stumble across some really great friendships, I think that's a rare thing. I am so blessed by...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015
    twodemons twodemons
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2015

    It really IS hard to find true friends.

    When I was about 6 years old, ( that's very young I know) I had a best friend. We did everything together and we lived our own little world. When we were 12 years old, we were still close but I started talking with other people. So after a while, I became closer with those...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing
    May 2, 2014

    I would just like to find a woman

    who is accepting of who I am
    insideout25 insideout25
    36-40, M
    Nov 23, 2015

    I've given up on this to be honest.

    They're easy to find online because most people that spend a lot of time online do it because they don't really have any friends so they understand others like themselves. But forget trying to find them in person. That's what I've given up on. I keep having really weird...
    HannahSavannah HannahSavannah
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    Yes , it's very hard ,

    if we want online friend .
    kajal80 kajal80
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    Its damn so hard so so

    so damn hard!!!!! I'm angry 😠
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2015

    Sometimes the people most worth it aren't found

    as easy, but when you find them it's awesome
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    I don't understand why a person will promise

    something important and then have no follow thru or personal strength to keep that promise it unfortunately damages the relationship sometimes beyond repair!
    deleted deleted
    Jan 28, 2016
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