I Think It Is Okay To Be Gay

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    When I was younger I had a huge huge crush on a

    girl and I knew people weren't going t except me so I tried to forced myself to like boys and igs it worked but not all the way now I like boys
    Angel2345 Angel2345
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2014

    My strange friend. We knew each other

    since middle school. The first day we met we kind of fought at lunch. We made up. I think twice maybe three times we were close to fighting each other. She's really cool and we're "friends" with almost everyone at school. We're close but not so close. Closer than ever though...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    10 Responses Mar 15

    Nothing's Wrong About It

    Hell its OKAY more than okay actually. As long as you know what you're doing and you can handle it. It's the matter of having fun and being yourself. You don't have to be someone else for the society to accept you. F*** them for those who judge and makes you feel like **** as if...
    Pwringles Pwringles
    22-25
    5 Responses May 3, 2013

    I do think it's okay to be gay.

    What's wrong with being gay? I act like every other guy and yet I love differently. (If you've read my other posts on my profile, than you get that I send this message a lot) If love is so terrible for gays to have, than why do straight people have it too? There's only...
    Greenman777 Greenman777
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jan 12, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 19, 2015

    I think no I know it is ok to be gay.

    I don't care what people say it is totally and forever ok. I will never change my opinion on that. And all of you people who think it's not ok to be gay. Well you know what. The devil has a reserved spot for all of you in hell. Enjoy.
    Gayprince1234 Gayprince1234
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jan 14

    Add me guys! :) I'm John

    and the best thing that happened to me was accepting my gayness, I met like minded people who understand and accepts me for who I am. Basically trimmed the fat. #toxic
    johniscute johniscute
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015

    there is nothing wrong with being gay,

    Les, straight or Tran. we are who we are meant to be and nobody has the power to tell you who or how you are supposed to be. so just learn to be proud and remember you are not alone. ??
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    Mar 16

    My First Gay Kiss :)

    He was 14, I was 16 I believe. He was so sweet. I never was really nervous about the sexual acts with him because we were both clean and healthy and had already made plans each time. But I was weirdly shy about being romantic, as much as I wanted to show that boy a little extra...
    heebymeepy heebymeepy
    22-25, M
    Jul 20, 2013
    aprildraws aprildraws
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    Yes absolutely it's okay to be straight,

    bi and most certainly gay who you are and desire to love and be with is every persons right and life to live i know it was who i was to be from youth i always had friends who are and knew i was happy being around them and now i am one of them and it is okay
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    Nov 3, 2015

    I think it's okay especially

    if you're a lesbian that's just wonderful.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian
    22-25, M
    Mar 17, 2015

    Just looking for ppl around my age to talk to?

    dosnt matter if ur gay straight male or female?dont mean to sound desperate just looking for freinds that's all..
    Siadz Siadz
    22-25
    Nov 7, 2014

    hey..i m a man having booby like gl .

    .love to talk wid a aged fat gay
    didimoni didimoni
    36-40, F
    Apr 12

    Since fifth grade I knew

    that my best friend was not what you would call "straight". Even though I am his best friend, he doesn't trust me with his phone because he says that he had some inappropriate stuff on it. A few days ago, he gave me his Tumblr username so I can friend him. When I did, I saw...
    Ashbarg Ashbarg
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    I love being Bi 🌈🌈🌈 I think it's okay

    ❤️ boys are amazing 😂👌👏
    AndyRomero AndyRomero
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 21, 2014

    If people want to be gay,

    that's their choice. Nobody has the power to stop those people from making their own life choices.
    JK7452 JK7452
    22-25, F
    Mar 19, 2015

    Gay,bi,lez,alien...all fine.

    Who can judge where your love lays on,or your preferences.And if they judge,what does it matter? Ain't their life...maybe they don't have one? I do not know. I love human beings freely expressing their souls,and we are all the same and at the same time different.Ain't beautiful...
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    Apr 4, 2014

    So many people, even some of my friends.

    . think that it's a choice to be simply gay. I cannot vouch for those who are bisexual because I was bi curious for quite some time. It's not always a choice you make, but you aren't always born "different". Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of, and you really have to realize...
    Puretexan11 Puretexan11
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2014

    whats the problem, people should not have to

    fall into a category, does it matter if same sex love each other wheres the harm
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 17, 2015

    Love Is Love

    Why wouldn't it be? Why does gay or lesbian or straight or bi or trans or pan or whatever sexuality you are have to be in a different category from the rest? Why can't we just talk about love?  Yeah, I think it's okay to be gay, and I also thnk it's okay to be white, and I also...
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2012

    I don't mind if anyone's gay,

    I fully support their decision, BUT I feel weird cause idk but I like to look at c0*cks and gives me a bo*ner. But when I see the body of a guy it's not appealing. Like only their c0*ck is what I'm interesting to me. And like I get h*rny of thinking about sucking my own c0*ck...
    brownzugar brownzugar
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    Absolutely,It's Perfectly Fine To Be Gay.

    .Gay People Were Born Exactly The Same Everyone Is. It's Not Like Gay People Chose To Be Gay,Did You Choose To Be Straight Bi/Whatever Your Orientation Happens To Be? In The Words Of The Comedian Ron White "We're ALL Gay,It's Just What Level Of Gay You Are?" LET'S STOP HATING AND...
    JusBri JusBri
    46-50, M
    Mar 16

    Think It Is OK To Be Gay

    I have been gay for many years and have met many guys to have fun with and as this day I still love it.
    huntmar huntmar
    70+, M
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 16, 2014

    I think I'm gay.. A bisexual I think.

    Indon't know, I'm confused.
    JustStrongEnough JustStrongEnough
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2014

    I am in LOVE with a young man I met through an

    online networking site for gay men. I met him 2 months ago (roughly) and am falling HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM. It's currently 3AM and I cannot sleep thinking of him. He has become like the center of my life! I'm a 26 year old man, he is 20. Even the age difference does not...
    freeman2222 freeman2222
    26-30, M
    Nov 4, 2014
    Philli8807 Philli8807
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2014

    I'm personally not gay

    but my best friend is and she has a girlfriend and they are super cute and in my class one time we were doing debates and my group got "should gay marriage be legal" and this kid in my group was like no that's wrong and it's against the bible and everyone in my group was like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 26

    To all beautiful, fabulous,

    awesome gay people out there, I'm telling you, it is ok to be gay. It's YOUR life, YOU decide what happens and what doesn't. Don't let the haters out there get to you. I'm here to support you and you can tell me anything. Just saying if you are ever made fun of, tell me and that...
    LurkingShadow LurkingShadow
    13-15, F
    Feb 3, 2015

    Yes

    I think it is okay to be gay. hell I am bisexual. of course I am not Out of closet other than on here....After seeing my parents reactions to hearing about someone is gay, it scares me to death to come out about being bisexual. I am bisexual, and i think it is okay. I think its...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2012

    gay ar fantastic people

    and are so sweet
    janetjanet janetjanet
    51-55, T
    1 Response Mar 16
    MeeeKazz MeeeKazz
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    Does this count as "abuse"?

    When I was around 13 or 14 I was in the bus station toilets and after a while of being in the cubicle I realised there was someone peering through a small hole in the wall and I could hear they were clearly ************, I could tell for a few different reasons that this guy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jul 10, 2014
    apris apris
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    Hey, I want to make more gay friends

    and I'm bored a lot of the time. So message me and we can be friends :)
    DavidHartRyan DavidHartRyan
    16-17, M
    Mar 3, 2014

    Being gay is unique. You're different from all

    the rest and that's great! You stand out from the crowd! One day gay marriage should be allowed in all the states of the USA. I think it's so cool to be gay. But if you get criticism that's okay! Ignore the criticism. This is a free country and you can do anything that you feel...
    Oscarrios570 Oscarrios570
    13-15, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2013

    Gay means happy. Therefor I say

    if they are happy, let them be. I guess I'm not credible because I'm bi, but whatever
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack
    13-15, F
    Dec 7, 2014

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