I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2010

    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 25, 2009

    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger
    6 Responses Oct 3, 2010

    I'm young and I'm not sure

    if I love boys or girls. This isn't a bad thing, but I'm just so confused. I am a female.
    hannahbee2243 hannahbee2243
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    It's good to be back again here :) haiss it's

    been 4 months since I deactivated this acc. Last time I was talkin bout my girl who's now is my ex. Well still have communication, but not the same as before. I'm happy that she's happy now with her life, she's been married to her man 1month now :). and me I already moved on...
    jihyo jihyo
    22-25, F
    Jul 16, 2015

    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    Aug 28, 2013

    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3
    Sep 10, 2013


    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    22 Responses Jul 12, 2008

    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Aug 25, 2012

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