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I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger 18-21 7 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    Finally

    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 25, 2012

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    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 13-15 Sep 10, 2013

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    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    I think love does'nt defines restriction,

    laws, rule the thing that matters is how honest and good could u be to be in love...we should't judge people based on their sexual orientation.. they have their every right to lovd....
    skyling638 skyling638 18-21 Mar 21, 2014

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    Love is love! Enough said.
    Roo502 Roo502 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I do if you truly feel for someone other things shouldnt matter, I would love you regardless.. It also helps if a person your talking to comes for a surprised visit with roses lol...
    Nobullshyt Nobullshyt 22-25, F Apr 23

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    Ten months (EXACT) older than my boyfriend. And I enjoy every single minute of it. ^^ also, EP PHOTO Y U NO WORK. That is all ^^ love you, you...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    "No matter how many gorgeous faces you set your eyes upon, If you already set your heart out for someone, You will hardly notice anyone." :)
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    So I took it and answered honestly. At the end they said I was an androgynous cross dresser. I kid you not. That is about as far away from my true sexual identity as you can get...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 4 Responses Apr 15

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    Hiii !! I am really bad at saying what I feel to others so I decided to write it down a little. These days people think it's awesome to be queer, to these people, I am sorry but...
    nekonyan6 nekonyan6 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    Nothing physically keeps men from wearing a dress and high heels. Nothing physically prevents women from playing football or driving trucks. Not really. and even the things that do...
    InfiniteCorker InfiniteCorker 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I have never told anyone i haven't found it needed and i don't want to tell anyone. Sometimes i feel like a male in personality and even express it inside of clothing. But i do...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    As a little kid, I hated dresses and I always played with those Tonka trucks instead of barbie dolls. I would always play as a boy in games with friends, and when we played "Family...
    SamanthaJC SamanthaJC 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I don't think people should be limited by gender stereotypes. I am a pansexual gender blind person. gender and sexuality Are diverse so you should accept that. But if not -and you...
    rosy10010 rosy10010 18-21, F Apr 9

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    Here we go. Hi everyone, its nice to meet you. I have some news that I need to tell people, but its very hard for me so i'll start with strangers first... Sorry if you don't care...
    Rowsie Rowsie 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Filling out these surveys is helping me not think about the bullies of my yesteryears. :) Name five latest favorite songs: 1. Fight Song by Rachel Platten 2. Feel The Light by...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F Apr 6

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    Who are the world’s fastest slower or recreational runners? A new analysis of more than a million recreational marathon participants at major marathons around the world finds...
    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    I think sexism and chauvinism offends both men and women. It's obvious why women are affected by this phenomenon - objectification of women, s*xual harassments towards them...
    Gayooshit16 Gayooshit16 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    In the last week I have been so confused about my gender. I mean, I like being feminine but I hate having a /girls body/. I gate having curves, a chest and a girly face. I mean. I...
    InfiniteHigh1 InfiniteHigh1 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I've identified as bisexual most of my young life. I've always felt drawn to women both emotionally and physically, even as a young kid. Recently I've been strongly questioning my...
    incvndescent incvndescent 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am complicated and don't really think of my own feelings. I feel so much for people,but they will never understand. This person i love,but can't be with called me today and said...
    classykitty classykitty 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    1. I am creative. 2. I am sensitive emotionally. 3. I am into details and can express myself really well, some say I am rather eloquent and articulate. 4. I am very friendly... it...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F Apr 5

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    I am a biological female and I identify as genderfluid as of right now. Lately I've been feeling more masculine and wanting to be a guy more than usual. Bluh it's messing with my...
    amandathegay amandathegay 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I just can't stand when people call transgenders "it's" or "he-she" or "she males". They have a pronoun (or maybe none at all) that they would like to be called. If you're unsure...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a born Catholic, so naturally my parents are against it. However, I honestly have no idea what to think of gays/lesbians/homosexuals, because while one voice in my head tells...
    ArtInsanity ArtInsanity 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I believe that we are all created equal. It isn't right to say that someone is better simply because of their gender. if I see someone hit a woman or man for no reason, I will try...
    tannernoniii tannernoniii 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I started watching anime at a very young age and since then i have been obsessed with it. As a kid most of my time was occupied by watching kids shows on Cartoon Network, playing...
    CandyDreamsx CandyDreamsx 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    okay , so, when i was little i thought i was supposed to be a boy. I didn't like girl things that i knew people expected me to like. when i met boys though i knew that wasn't right...
    arrivedaria420 arrivedaria420 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    We have reached peak nostalgia. Movies based on toys and games, remakes of those movies you liked when you were younger, and revivals of shows like and and.... These are strange...
    stubagmalno stubagmalno 36-40, M Apr 8

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    I'll probably get crap for this but I don't care, this is terrible. Each one of you girls has fathers, and unless you're lesbian, you've lusted over men before. To say all guys are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I made this account back when I was still brushing off the problems I have with my gender identity. I've had problems with my body since I was three and learned the difference...
    Shirogane Shirogane 18-21, F Apr 21

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    I’ve now been a girl for more than a year and I must be one of the happiest girls ever to have lived. Okay I could wish I had been born a girl. And so often people thought I was...
    Iamsasha Iamsasha 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Kate is awesome and we both kind of "mother" each other, as in take care of each other. it's funny XD
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M Apr 18

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    My binder came yesterday x3 I am so happy with how well it works! And it's weirdly comfortable owo I'm so happy right now like yaay I feel so nice in it
    Foreverlucia Foreverlucia 18-21, F Apr 21

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    I'll make it easier for the boys and give 10 reasons. 1) Women endure hours of labor just to bring u into this world. 2) Men are undeniably attracted to lesbians despite their...
    iamprefect iamprefect 18-21, F 4 Responses