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I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    I think love does'nt defines restriction,

    laws, rule the thing that matters is how honest and good could u be to be in love...we should't judge people based on their sexual orientation.. they have their every right to lovd....
    skyling638 skyling638 18-21 Mar 21, 2014

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    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 25, 2012

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    Finally

    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    I'm young and I'm not sure

    if I love boys or girls. This isn't a bad thing, but I'm just so confused. I am a female.
    hannahbee2243 hannahbee2243 13-15 1 Response Jun 29

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    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 13-15 Sep 10, 2013

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    It's good to be back again here :) haiss it's

    been 4 months since I deactivated this acc. Last time I was talkin bout my girl who's now is my ex. Well still have communication, but not the same as before. I'm happy that she's happy now with her life, she's been married to her man 1month now :). and me I already moved on...
    jihyo jihyo 22-25, F Jul 16

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    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger 18-21 7 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    JohnL2015 JohnL2015 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    vickybiggs vickybiggs 18-21 6 days ago

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    80% female 20% male Your brain leans female. You think with your heart, not your head. Sweet and considerate, you are a giver. But you're tough enough not to let anyone take...
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    I come from a cultured family. What I'm about to share does not mean I don't love my nuclear family, it's something I've grown used to and accepted. I want to share this because I...
    hilodeluz hilodeluz 16-17, F Jul 17

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    I would like to say a bit about this topic because it seems to be like a hot topic right now. I do not believe you can be born the wrong gender. I believe that if you were born a...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    My name is Shannon, and much like my name, I am Genderfluid. It's been about 3 months since I first even heard of the term. I have always been genderfluid but I only recently...
    Shaneless Shaneless 16-17 Jul 16

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    I miss you on so many levels. I just shake my head at myself for allowing these thoughts to escape my head out here. But, I fear, if you do not know you are loved, or missed, by...
    MsRebel MsRebel 31-35, F Jul 16

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    so many people think physical strength means ones more superior. its not if you ever had to endure physical pain vs emotional,the emotional is much worse. we tend to live in a...
    screechowl83 screechowl83 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    1: I am biologically female but actually am genderfluid- This means I'm sometimes a boy sometimes a girl sometimes both sometimes mixed sometimes none. I am whatever my brain tells...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 Jul 14

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    jp20156 jp20156 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    jillmyers91901 jillmyers91901 13-15, F Jul 14

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    Ok, I need some advise. About gender, yes it's a really awkward thing to ask about :/ I am born a female, I had thought I was a boy 100% from the ages of 6-11. When I was 12, I...
    AudioTravylerRavenwolf AudioTravylerRavenwolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    The only thing I see on here is neglected men who are truly in pain while the women of EP are getting all of the attention no matter how meaningful their post is. There are so many...
    Mastixz Mastixz 13-15, M Jul 14

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