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I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 25, 2012

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    I think love does'nt defines restriction,

    laws, rule the thing that matters is how honest and good could u be to be in love...we should't judge people based on their sexual orientation.. they have their every right to lovd....
    openheart92 openheart92 18-21, F Mar 21

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 13-15 Sep 10, 2013

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    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger 18-21 7 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Finally

    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I think I even made a post on ep once saying I didn't "understand" what it meant to be transgender, and that it just "didn't make sense to me". I thought of it as a "fetish" or...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I'm pansexual, I am capable of loving any gender. I also tend to fall in love for personality, not just looks. I'm capable of bring sexually attracted to someone with just a...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I came across this term about a week ago, and I think it might have been my "aha!" moment. I've been trying to find myself lately, and a lot of mornings I wake up and I feel like...
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    In Matthew 16:18, Jesus says, "You are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church." For centuries, this was read in a perfectly straightforward way, but since the Reformation...
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    Hi people! I think I have several types of synesthesia. I only just found out that it was a thing not everyone has, so I am still quite new to the idea. These are the things...
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    My story begins in May of 2014. I had a small circle of friends online with which I hanged out with regularly, like every single day, even if it was to talk about our daily life...
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    I told one of my friends something really personal about me. Something I never really told anyone. I told him I may be transgender FTM and I'm thinking of taking hormones. At this...
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    Here's to you, dad. You sicko. My first sexual relationship was with you. You thought I'd forget. You thought I was too little to remember. You knew I didn't know any better. You...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Had a great day with my best friend yesterday ^_^ He's the opposite gender to me. He texted me asking if I wanted to come with him for his passport interview. After his interview...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    When I was younger I had a huge crush on this boy in my school. It was at that time when the boys hadn't hit puberty yet but some of the girls had, and I was one of the lucky few...
    dontyouforget dontyouforget 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I don't understand why boys and girls can't be best friends without everybody thinking that something's going on. It's really annoying. There's nothin wrong with having a best...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I was a girl until the end of my childhood, then the whole "female" spectrum didn't feel right. I experimented with being "male" but it didn't feel right either. It felt like I was...
    Hakbae Hakbae 18-21, T 1 Response Sep 6

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    I think yes, it is actually required. There is nothing shameful about sex. However lines must be drawn on discussing about it. I myself drew lots of lines. Lots of ethic...
    NonchalantEros NonchalantEros 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 9

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    1. I love to read. 2.I love to write. 3.I write lesbian novels in my spare time. 4.I procrastinate a lot. It's a terrible habit that I need to break. 5.I love all people, race...
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    1. I hate my real name, so I prefer to be called Skyler (or Skye) 2. I'm a Scorpio. 3. Anime and Manga's make up 90% of my daily life. ._. 4. Sleep makes the other 10% of my...
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    Hi Everyone , I wanted to explain a little bit on how I've been feeling lately towards a few different things. First I've kinda come out as a Cross-Dresser , I love wearing women's...
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    If you haven’t read Every Day by David Levithan, I’d highly recommend it. It’s narrated by A, who is seemingly non-binary.
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 Aug 29

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    I came out as transgender to my friend a while back. I had decided not to tell anyone until I get out of high school so I wouldn't ruin my relationships. When I told my friend this...
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    Yes, girls and guys can be friends without being a couple. I don't get how some people think it can't happen. Anyway, my friend Kaimana is so weird and funny but he's great. He's...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    It reminds me that I am small, that our troubles and experiences are small. I see that in the grand scheme of things this is all temporary and there is so much more than what is...
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    I would love to converse with someone right now. I don't care about age or gender. I have just been drinking and it seems like the right thing to do.
    purposebuilt purposebuilt 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I've only came across the term this week, so I don't know that much about it. But I felt like I could relate to it. I'm biologically a girl, and sometimes I feel like one but...
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    How do you know if you're sexually attracted to a specific gender? I get strong sexual desire and when I do sometimes to let off steam I fantasize, but it's never about any guy...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    In response to FAQs: 1. I'm not here for flirting, cybers3x or a relationship. 2. I do not want you to get me pregnant. 3. I have a father. He may hate my guts, but I do not need...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    My friend and I have been best friends for 5 years now. Back in January, he asked me to go out with him & I said "Yes!". We dated for a few months then one day after school, while...
    LoveIsAConfusingThing LoveIsAConfusingThing 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why do mostly men add me do their circle? I mean it's usually men that like men or that they are bisexual or men that like wearing thongs or are transsexual and others with...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M Aug 27

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    people. gay is not an adjective, it's the definition of a man who is attracted to the same gender. okay, it used to be an adjective, but surely people aren't saying "this is so...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F 1 Response a week ago

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    If you haven’t read Every Day by David Levithan, I’d highly recommend it. It’s narrated by A, who is seemingly non-binary.
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    If you haven’t read Every Day by David Levithan, I’d highly recommend it. It’s narrated by A, who is seemingly non-binary.
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    My ex girlfriend still calls me a lesbian woman even though I was very clear with her that I'm bisexual and genderqueer. You would think she could maybe understand, given the fact...
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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
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