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I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 25, 2012

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    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I think love does'nt defines restriction,

    laws, rule the thing that matters is how honest and good could u be to be in love...we should't judge people based on their sexual orientation.. they have their every right to lovd....
    openheart92 openheart92 18-21, F Mar 21

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 13-15 Sep 10, 2013

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    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Finally

    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger 18-21 6 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Hi all my ep friends, I have observed that there are so many wounded hearts in this world which scream to be heard. Stories of love which have failed to blossom for any reason...
    anuragch11 anuragch11 18-21, M Jul 14

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    Love never is wrong...true love.Now, a 75yo with a 30yo seems extreme to me.What do you think?
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well I've noticed this and I wanted to ask..... Why are some people aginst interracial couples?
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Alright, this became a thing recently. Why does it matter if I am male or female. I believe in gender non-binary, a thing where I refuse to conform to the gender roles & stigma...
    RokerVazi RokerVazi 18-21 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Is it ok to kiss the same gender but not for sexual reasons? I personally think it's ok
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    What the hell. As a female rape victim, I understand the point of view from men, but NO ONE suffers more or less depending on the gender...it's to do with how many times it's...
    Betruetoyourselfxx Betruetoyourselfxx 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    This is actually 150 things about me. This was made by Nathan something from tumblr "150 cute questions" 1. Who was the last person you held hands with? -no one? 2. Are you...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    This is sort of getting out of hand. I can't control it any longer. It seems that my efforts to appear as normal and okay as can be are... failing. Never in my entire life have I...
    minecrafter4343 minecrafter4343 13-15, T Jul 17

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    Well I do think I was born the wrong gender. Or at least sort of. I was born in a male body, but my mind is much more female , I think so much more like a woman. I am much more...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i came out like years ago about my gender my family still does not understand or want's to understand i've try all i can to teach them by showing them information from wikipedia...
    transfag transfag 16-17 Jun 27

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    I am by nature a very sexual being. I can be the most sensual and submissive female in bed but truthfully in my everyday life I am more masculine. I naturally attract men who are...
    bytemyascii bytemyascii 36-40 Jun 30

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    1. What's your favourite candle smell? ...clean linen 2. What female celebrity do you wish was your sister? ... Chelsea Handler 3. What male celebrity do you wish was your brother...
    xoHrabina xoHrabina 26-30, F Jul 4

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    I am a Girl biologically and I have always liked wearing dresses and painting my nails and doing my makeup. but recently when I do those thing it feels like I'm faking it feels...
    confusedLGBTteen confusedLGBTteen 13-15 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Anyone love to snuggle with the same gender? It's not that I love it it's that I wouldn't care what gender they were. To be honest id snuggle anyone LOL
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So to start the story, i've not always been really close to all of my cousins, since my parents don't really bring us together, but there's one cousin who's a guy, and one year...
    LilyGlass LilyGlass 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I sometimes wonder what it would be like if we lived according to our sexual instincts. I've sometimes imagined a world where it was normal to be naked and people can just have sex...
    truthhurts511 truthhurts511 22-25, F 16 Responses Jul 12

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    It was the first time I had ever been in love. I met this person on a role playing website; nothing bad or inappropriate, just a place to talk and write stories together with...
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm not transgender but I recognize the fact that they are people and happen to be born in the wrong type of body. Not their fault. I recognize that they have rights or should have...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I am a male, and I love women. I've only ever dated women. But lately I have felt sexually attracted to men. Even with these feelings, I wouldn't have a relationship with another...
    mrconfused123 mrconfused123 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    1. I was kicked out of the house at age 15 because my step dad and I fought all the time. My mom was tired of having to replace the windows, glass door and the holes in the walls...
    GlamGasm GlamGasm 22-25, T 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Basically my selectivity comes from an incident that happened to me when I was around 13 years old. I was in secondary school and I went though a phase where I was confused about...
    oknyritchie oknyritchie 18-21, M Jul 2

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    I mean, I tried to see what I liked but I had issues ( and still have) that stop me from exploring my sexuality. In honesty, I'm afraid. Because of my experiences what if I was...
    LiesandLace LiesandLace 18-21 Jul 17

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    For the past year maybe, I've been learning more about my gender and sexuality and learning about those in general. I'm a confirmed pansexual, but I'm wary and confused about my...
    galaxyclockwork galaxyclockwork 13-15, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I'm am so very confused about my gender. I was born in a male body. Grew up male, but started to crossdress at a young age 5ish, I'm now married 21 years to kids, I love my wife...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 13

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    This might seem like it has no relevance to the subject, but its why i hesitate with decision concered with gender identification,,,, Right ive wrote several stories that are...
    pascal2012 pascal2012 18-21 5 Responses Jul 8

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    If you’ve ever interacted with me before you’ll probably already know that gender is something I talk about a lot. I wanted to write an official story about it so my views...
    BewareTheGonzo BewareTheGonzo 13-15 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    A foreign language teacher was explaining to her class that, unlike their English counterparts, French nouns are grammatically designated as masculine or feminine. Things like...
    FiercyTiger FiercyTiger 26-30, M Jul 4

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    I tried to tell my mom that I was genderqueer but she can't wrap her head around it. I keep explaining that there are more than two genders but she thinks that I'm pretending to be...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets 13-15 1 Response Jul 9

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    1. I have black hair 2. I have blue eyes 3. I am empathic 4. I don't like conflict 5. I will fight for those I love 6. I play piano/keyboard/organ 7. I have studied degree level...
    vequin vequin 41-45 5 days ago

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    I'm new here. I'm sorta confused about my gender. Sometimes I can just be me but other times, my gender matters because the bathrooms and locker rooms are segregated and when I...
    thunderstruck14 thunderstruck14 18-21 2 Responses Jun 25

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    It is assumed that girls don't eat a lot well I eat more than my dad at dinner most times and I can destroy a nice burger and steak. I curse like a sailor I am obsessed with...
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F Jul 13

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    If anyone can relate to this, its never been easy to explain and has left counsellors blank with no clue what im talking about when ive tried,,bare with me>>>> The majority of my...
    pascal2012 pascal2012 18-21 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I was born a female. Sometimes I feel like a girl, other times like a boy. But I mostly feel like a guy. I like to dress in clothes that hides my gender, I feel uncomfortable...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I have no idea what I am now, growing up through life identifying as straight, had three girls I like, two of them was a "meant to be" relationship, more like a friendship tbh...
    pascal2012 pascal2012 18-21 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm physically male. But I'm emotionally and mentally a female for the most part. I do like some guy stuff like guns , cigars and sports. Other than that I love female things...