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I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Finally

    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger 18-21 7 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 16-17 Sep 10, 2013

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    I'm young and I'm not sure

    if I love boys or girls. This isn't a bad thing, but I'm just so confused. I am a female.
    hannahbee2243 hannahbee2243 13-15 1 Response Jun 29, 2015

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    It's good to be back again here :) haiss it's

    been 4 months since I deactivated this acc. Last time I was talkin bout my girl who's now is my ex. Well still have communication, but not the same as before. I'm happy that she's happy now with her life, she's been married to her man 1month now :). and me I already moved on...
    jihyo jihyo 22-25, F Jul 16, 2015

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    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 25, 2012

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    Men have feelings too, and I know that men know that too. And what the fuq is a man card anyways? I grew up using a card called the REAL MAN CARD, there's a difference. And plus...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000 13-15, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'm pansexual btw...and I support my transgender and genderqueer "cousins"! LOVE Y'ALL! Stay strong lovelies! It only gets better once you accept who you are. :D
    eharber97 eharber97 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I am. Most of the times I say "I wish I was born a boy. " and I think everyone do -for ftms-. But, being transsexual has positive sides too. We know how most of the women "think...
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 1 day ago

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    I told my dad i have gender dysphoria acting like "I don't know anything about it". but actually I already define myself as FtM. I did it to make him believe me, because I am not...
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 2 days ago

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    Cadwallader pretend pregnant belly order form Number of bellies you want to order: Number of babies in each belly: Genders of babies: Size of belly or bellies when your belly...
    Tomoe001 Tomoe001 31-35, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Cadwallader pretend pregnant belly order form Number of bellies you want to order: Number of babies in each belly: Genders of babies: Size of belly or bellies when your belly...
    Tomoe001 Tomoe001 31-35, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was born female but I feel like a male. I don't like being called "she" or with my female birth name. I don't like being considered as feminine. I don't like dress feminine. I...
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 2 days ago

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    People who are homophobic are just stupid people. Homophobia is just as bad as racism, it's discrimination... People think wrongly about LGBT youth, and become homophobic! Most...
    ScienceOfSouls15 ScienceOfSouls15 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    OK here is another stereotype i hate if a girl is in her 20's younger or older and says she's a virgin people are like all right good for you if a guy is people are like seriously...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M a week ago

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    I think it's extremely shallow when someone avoids a person after someone admits to have a crush on them. If someone had a crush on me, even if I didn't like them and no matter...
    LBBitch LBBitch 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have a question for you all. have any of you experience, not really a change in personality, but an ability to show your true personality when you transitioned? it may seem to...
    Volner Volner 18-21, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I love being male and female. Starting to realize their are so many rights and wrongs about life because of it. Our thoughts on relationships needs to be rewritten. But that's for...
    lovemichelle71 lovemichelle71 41-45, T a week ago

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    I get mine waxed monthly and every time there is less hair, he follicles are giving up. I've never liked hairy legs, on either gender. I enjoy the look and feel of smooth well...
    donontario donontario 61-65, M a week ago

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    Hubby has been embarrassed about his sexuality for some time and recently has been telling me that he should have been born as a woman. Had I know this a couple of years ago when...
    dottypuddinghead dottypuddinghead 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    Hubby has been embarrassed about his sexuality for some time and recently has been telling me that he should have been born as a woman. Had I know this a couple of years ago when...
    dottypuddinghead dottypuddinghead 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    https://youtu.be/72Ovm3XfVps This is a song I wrote called (The end will be nice) but it's about being a tomboy and not liking pink, and going shopping! Hahaha I sure dont! In the...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F Jan 31

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    Just saw the Danish Girl yesterday, and although it had a tremendous emotional impact and was very psychological in some aspects, i feel like there was some awkwardness. And i mean...
    Noodlepudding666 Noodlepudding666 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Dysphoria. When I am a girl i like my hair long (how it is) When i am a boy i only want it short When i am in between/neither it doesn't usually matter I am tired of always...
    skinnylove14 skinnylove14 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 31

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    so today I realise I am 35 male, could be straight/gay/ bi/ wanna be cross dresser. who loves heels, women's clothes painting my nails and generally exploring what it is too be an...
    janeinchains janeinchains 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 31

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    a am 100% female. for those of you who don't exactly know what gender fluidity is and may think it's something else but sometimes I feel more masculine and sometimes I feel more...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 30

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    It just depends on who's being the man! Cinnamon Roles! Not Gender Roles! http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12/magazine/whats-so-bad-about-a-boy-who-wants-to-wear-a-dress.html?_r=3...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T Jan 28

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    This is a NY Times article that I found a very good read. It's the closest dissertation that I have ever found that treats gender as non binary. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T 1 Response Jan 28

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    I don't know what I exactly am. Sometimes I feel like a man and I behave like one. I'm not like a woman. And I hate it mostly to wear female clothes... they feel weird. I like wide...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 28

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    maybe not mine, exactly, but i'm always confused about gender in general: i'm glad i was assigned as i was, but it's more of a matter of thinking it's the best fit. i often...
    astrifer astrifer 22-25, F Jan 27

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    I just came out as trans. Would like to talk about it with someone
    tyguy21 tyguy21 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 27

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    1. I am 18 years old. 2. I really like the colours pink and mint green. 3. My favourite seasons are Autumn and Winter. 4. I pretty much have all the symptoms of Social Anxiety but...
    emjm013 emjm013 18-21, F Jan 27

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    This sure is a different way of looking at it!!!! Evolving View of Marriage At the San Francisco Marriage Counter... Clerk: Next. Patron: Good morning. We want to apply...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 27

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