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I Think It's About Love, Not Gender

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    Finally

    I have always believed that it's about love and not gender.  And so many people just don't understand.  If my husband (who I'm having problems with at the time) were a woman, I would still love him/her.  I didn't fall in love with his penis.  I fell in love...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 12, 2008

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    What Is Wrong With Being In A Civil Partnership?

    I don't understand what is wrong with being in a civil partnership? I am not in one myself but I don't understand why people say "oh, he's so gay" as an insult. I imagine it is really offensive! I reckon 10-15% of my school are gay or lesbian, and even though we have talks on...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 13-15 Sep 10, 2013

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    I think love does'nt defines restriction,

    laws, rule the thing that matters is how honest and good could u be to be in love...we should't judge people based on their sexual orientation.. they have their every right to lovd....
    skyling638 skyling638 18-21 Mar 21, 2014

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    Too Many People!

    Just too many people judge others before they have even offered the pleasant civilities of a greeting. Too many people are slow to being kind to others. I want to be more than others are prepared to be, without judging them foolishly and missing out on an opportunity of showing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Even More Confusion!

    Biologically, homosexuals shouldn't exist. It makes no sense whatsoever, in terms of reproduction and survival of the fittest. I like to stick with cold, hard science, but it has trouble explaining why there are people who get over the gender barrier. This probably sounds like a...
    growingyounger growingyounger 18-21 7 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    Loving Her

    I used to consider myself bisexual...I don't anymore. I got confused and thought more about which label I should slap on myself more than what it was that my heart simply felt. Now I don't really consider myself anything other than who I am. I have a boyfriend and we've been...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I'm young and I'm not sure

    if I love boys or girls. This isn't a bad thing, but I'm just so confused. I am a female.
    hannahbee2243 hannahbee2243 13-15 1 Response Jun 29

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    Love Should Only See Love And You Reall Need To Look And Understand What You See May Not Be Real

    i agree love should see only love. i love my best friend at first and did not know the truth i just knew we loved to kiss each other and touch each other.  i learned had learned how to make him wiggle all over and get supper wet.  He loved it when we took a bath with...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 25, 2012

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    It's good to be back again here :) haiss it's

    been 4 months since I deactivated this acc. Last time I was talkin bout my girl who's now is my ex. Well still have communication, but not the same as before. I'm happy that she's happy now with her life, she's been married to her man 1month now :). and me I already moved on...
    jihyo jihyo 22-25, F Jul 16

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    Being judged because of your sexual orientation

    is a commonplace thing today. I really don't understand the concept of people who have narrow mindedness and impose their thoughts on society. What problem could anyone have if two people of the same gender happen to like and love each other? Love comes in on forms so why do...
    revelation1 revelation1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    You Cant Help Who Ya Fall In Love With......

    Ive always been into men...still am in a way but never in a million years did i ever imagine i would fall in love with a woman!!!! my best friend of 10years!!!!!! It was a very confusing time back then but i am comfortable with the fact now....you should never be ashamed of love...
    fitbit1980 fitbit1980 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Love Is Unconditional

    Regardless of gender, love comes in all forms and it happens for a reason. You love that person for who they are not what they are.
    LauraNorder LauraNorder 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Looking Around, You See Everyone Falling In Love

    If the point of this category is to make a stand against people who believe a man can't be romantically in love with another man, or a woman with another woman, or that someone born with the wrong gender identity should just learn to be 'normal,' like 'the rest of us,' then I'm...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    I never planned to fall in love with a woman,

    nor did I plan to fall in love at all but we met and it happened, neither of us knew the reasons why, but our Love we could not deny! I love my girl, Leslie!
    MyGirlLeslie MyGirlLeslie 46-50, F Aug 17

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    Related Experiences

    I am writing in this group just because I think this is completely absurd. I mean, everyone has different opinions and if an individual (the women) feels comfortable in the home...
    weirdcharlie weirdcharlie 16-17, T 17 mins ago

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    Note - Have made on of these before but it started late on and i didnt put in my opinion enough detail about my experience so far in my life of being a transgenderIntroduction per...
    louisenufc louisenufc 13-15, T 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Note - Have made on of these before but it started late on and i didnt put in my opinion enough detail about my experience so far in my life of being a transgenderAnother note...
    louisenufc louisenufc 13-15, T 1 hr ago

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    I am pansexual. (attracted to all genders. Its not bi, don't tell me I'm bi) but I have a slight preference for transvestites. I find women so beautiful. and I like the dominance...
    hollymayt hollymayt 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I let them rest as they are. I'll never really get my mind around the whole transgender thing enough to truly understand, but it's no reason to hate either. And I wouldn't urge...
    Th3Ch3shir3Kat Th3Ch3shir3Kat 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Can someone explain to me more about the genderqueer spectrum? I support it of course, but there's some things that I don't understand about it. thanks in advance!
    aphpan aphpan 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm weird. I'm a woman, a mom even. Very happily married to my best friend who is a mtf CD. I like being a woman but really struggle with it, more comfortable dressing and acting...
    herjonny herjonny 36-40, T 1 day ago

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    i don't think i'm a girl but i don't think i'm a boy either. i suppose i enjoy being feminine but i just don't feel like an anything?? it's strange and i worry a lot about how...
    caity16 caity16 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I agree. I don't really think about my gender often unless it comes up in debate or discussion. In fact, I prefer to base my identity around other things that don't relate to...
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Things have gone really up and down and I think I'm in a pretty crucial time, because before school ended things really changed a lot. I missed around two months because I couldn't...
    Mjaah Mjaah 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    The body is just the car. The soul is the driver. Sad and mad come from roles. Roles forced. Sad and mad come from no caring Or deprivation Which is oppression. But...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    my favorite is 'Funeral Parade Of Roses'. Nothing is taboo and the girls are soooo pretty i'm in love. Made me feel like a girl again. I had to ***** and watch in my panties...
    SeanMe SeanMe 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    http://wp.me/p67thY-1g hi guys please read my blog, let me know how you feel about it
    whatishappening15 whatishappening15 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Digesting Latest Functions as well as Local Handles for your game - Fifa 16 FC Barcelona's Lionel Messi is again the face of the FIFA video game collection. He will appear on the...
    MQYANG MQYANG 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    8 months ago I came out as a transgender male because for the past year or so that's how I've felt and I've been happy with finally being myself. Sometimes I still like to wear...
    virtualricki virtualricki 16-17, T 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    (This father is absolutely awesome ~ bb) Dad cheers when son picks an Ariel doll: 'I let my boys choose their life' Randee Dawn TODAY A story with a surprise ending all began...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    so these 3 blondes are discussing what gender they think their baby will be. the first one says "I'm having a girl because i was on top" and the second one says "I'm having a boy...
    ProbablyUncomfortable ProbablyUncomfortable 13-15, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Today I finally convinced my dad that it's unreasonable for him go be policing my hair so much and that I should be able to do what I want with it. I cut it all off and I haven't...
    sunshinebucky sunshinebucky 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    As a guy, it really bothers me seeing other males leave thirsty-*** comments on girls posts. I mean, I adore the other gender just as much as any other guy, but calm the hell down...
    JuanJohnJ3rry JuanJohnJ3rry 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    You know that person who can't watch a single baby product commercial without "aweing" at the smiling & giggling babies? Yeah, well, that's me. I'm that person. I just adore kids...
    waywardgirl98 waywardgirl98 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Some days being gender fluid/a gender can be really annoying it doesn't help that no one knows. I'm not sure which I am either :/ Today I feel like a guy problem is I'm biological...
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 22

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    Note - Have made on of these before but it started late on and i didnt put in my opinion enough detail about my experience so far in my life of being a transgenderIntroduction per...
    louisenufc louisenufc 13-15, T 1 Response Aug 19

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    I want to make sure the people posting on this topic consider this when they ever think about posting on here or anywhere.... based off looks. Side note: My perspective is that...
    Maricopa Maricopa 18-21 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm Shanequa/Montgomery.. Sometimes I get a bit upset when people always use a feminine pronoun for me. It's like they don't see who I am, but I see myself clear as day. Some days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 19

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    Men and women can definitely just be friends. Most of my close friends are male, I've been hurt more by other females than not. None of my friends have been sexually involved with...
    Teldra Teldra 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I'm married, and I love my wife very much. I don't make any secret of my love for girls clothes and shoes. I don't go out where men are found. I enjoy tanning and getting pedicures...
    prettylegs1968 prettylegs1968 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm scared I'm going to ruin my life, scared I'm go to hurt and ruin my wife's life, scared to be rejected by family and friends, scared, scared, scared. I'm 61 years old and I've...
    EmmaAG EmmaAG 61-65, T 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I don't know why. I just do. I like "manly" men in the traditional sense. I like womanly duties and the idea of taking care of my husband and children. I feel like "feminists...
    applesasch applesasch 18-21, F 1 Response