I Think It's Best to Leave It Alone

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    So after all of this time.

    .. The ex just couldn't NOT text me. We have nothing to talk about, its over and done. He has text my family and they pretty much gave him very little of a response. Apparently that wasn't good enough to stoke the fire... so he decided to BLOW UP MY PHONE for HOURS!! He still...
    MizzyH MizzyH
    41-45, F
    Jan 5, 2014

    I Sure Do

    First off why would someone Try There damndest to Destroy you? Because of your decision to Leave? Or your decision to be happy. I'm sorry I decided to move on my with my Life and you can't exsept that I am going to be happy. I think it's Best  To leave it alone. Because...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2008

    Repeat Cycle

    I can't go through it again. I cant have him phone me/email me/ text me and tell me he loves me and he made a mistake and he can work on getting us to how we used to be. He knows Im weak and I will say yes to anything he suggest. But after two weeks of hell thinking about him and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 8, 2008

    Unfortunately

    Yes at this time I feel it is best to leave it alone.  It makes me so sad to say this but my heart can't handle the pain.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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