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I Think It's Okay to Have Sex With the Lights On

It's okay to view your own action in progress! 658 People

    Can't Think Of A Better Way!

    The only times I recall having sex in the dark was with the first girl I ******. I have to qualify those experiences by saying she and I had seen each other's fun parts in the light, but were at a "lover's lane" area when she decided to let me **** her, finally.  The first time...
    SwGaMan SwGaMan
    61-65, M
    Jan 2, 2013

    Nothing Wrong With This

    There's no right or wrong to this.  It's my perception that a lot of people save their love-making for the end of the day, anyway, after everything else has been taken care of.  It's a nice way to round off our ever busy 24 hours, too.  Since a lot of us...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    4 Responses May 26, 2009

    Illuminate Her Beautiful Form

    Full lighting, candles, moonlight, just some form of lighting to intensify the experience. I want to be able to enjoy the outline of her body, the sexy curves I am running my tongue along, and the ability to make eye contact while I make her **** get so hard. I want to be able to...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 15, 2012

    It's the best way! Great to see the reaction

    in her eyes and face. And stimulating to look at her naked body. I would not want to have sex with someone so prudish or sensitive that she wanted to do it in the dark, don't worry about any imperfections!
    sensual999 sensual999
    51-55, M
    6 Responses Feb 2, 2015

    Of Course It Is!

    You'd think by now most people would be over all these Puritan sexual hang ups. It's not only alright to do it with the lights on, it's alright to do almost anything you can Imagine provided all parties are FREELY consenting adults, who haven't been pressured through emotional...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 22, 2013

    Illuminate Her Beautiful Form

    Full lighting, candles, moonlight, just some form of lighting to intensify the experience. I want to be able to enjoy the outline of her body, the sexy curves I am running my tongue along, and the ability to make eye contact while I make her **** get so hard. I want to be able to...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 15, 2012

    It takes a special connection to leave the

    lights on. Insecurities abandoned......the desire to see and lust after your partner overcoming your own physical faults. It is a special moment indeed.
    awhitedot awhitedot
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    Not Just "okay" But Awesome

    I realize our society puts a lot of pressure on women to have perfect bodies, and this causes many women to have body-image issues. But women need to understand two things about men when it comes to having sex with the lights on, 1) We are very visual creatures. We don't have the...
    iRant iRant
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 3, 2011

    Also In Daylight

    I suppose it's also ok in daylight, although it's longer than I can remember since we did it in the daytime either. I guess it's just the routine we find ourselves in. At night, in bed, just before sleep. Lights off. I suppose some of it has to do with the fact that both my...
    samedeepwater samedeepwater
    51-55, M
    Oct 22, 2012

    Why Not

    Unless you are ashamed of either yourself or the person you are with them enjoy the sights.  If you are ashamed then why are you even going there.  The mind is the most powerful sex organ in the body and can use all the stimulus it can receive to achieve the most...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois
    Jan 10, 2010

    Yes..definitely..all senses must be alert

    and source to stimulate senses. Light is an inspiration..for you can admire and notice the changes in profile and bulges or wetness..that slide..and moreover..the fact watching in mirror while touching is also motivational. If, you have trying out sessions, light...
    Perksplayhot Perksplayhot
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    I'm not sure why you would want them off,

    if you're that turned off by seeing who your with, get another aprtner
    donontario donontario
    61-65, M
    Jan 23, 2016

    All the Senses ...

    For me, good sex involves all of our senses.  So I like to be able to see and be seen.  To watch and be watched.  It's all part of the anticipation ... the build up ... the excitement.  That's not to say that sex in the dark isn't fun too ... a little sensory...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Oct 3, 2009

    I Do

        i think it's ok to have sex with the lights on . you  can actually see each other .
    deleted deleted
    Aug 10, 2009

    I am a very visual being.

    And part of that is looking at my partner when we are in any number of situations. One of which is having sex. I love to look into my partner's eyes and see their reactions to my touch. I especially like to gaze into my partner's eyes when I am, very slowly, well... I think you...
    luvthehobby101 luvthehobby101
    56-60, M
    1 Response Feb 2, 2016

    Sex Affair Of Bahria Foundation College

    rajeeshkhanna1994 rajeeshkhanna1994
    18-21, M
    Aug 9, 2012

    There's Another Way?

    My partner told me that one of his favorite things about having sex with me, is that I don't ever shut the light off. That most of the women he has been with are very uncomfortable with themselves, and prefer sex in the dark... I'm comfortable with my body -- I'm not thin or...
    simplencountry simplencountry
    22-25, F
    Oct 6, 2012

    For hubby and I, it is the only way.

    We want to look at each others nude body and to be able to look each other in the eyes. Hubby loves to watch me suck him and we watch each other during mutual ************. Seeing is a big part of the intimacy.
    louiselloyd louiselloyd
    70+, F
    13 Responses Oct 29, 2014

    I think it's more than Okay I think it is the

    right think! I mean why would you want to do it in the dark - vision is one of the senses that will most stimulate you so put ALL the lights on!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    Sometimes It's Better That Way

    Not only is just "okay," sometimes it is preferred to have the lights on.  For example, when wearing fun customes.  What's the point of the costume if the lights are out?
    SomeguyinUT SomeguyinUT
    Jun 11, 2009

    Yes! Do it!!! To be able to see your partners

    face and gauge their expressions! To be able to laugh and joke and enjoy the fun of what you're doing as well as sharing the intimacy and the moment you are both in.......
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Jan 13, 2015

    Lights On!

    I love having the lights on during sex.  I need to see EVERYTHING.  I want to see it all and I also want my partner to see it all.  I not only want to feel every touch, but I want to see it as well.I love seeing her hand glide down my chest to my stomach, I love seeing her...
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 4, 2012

    I Like To See Who I'm F*****g......

     and barring any unforeseen circumstances, preferable....
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    14 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    Sucking Boobs

    So my boyfriend and I have been having sex. I recently wanted to satisfy him with oral sex. But even though I love everything I am still in need of one more thing. I want him to not just do his stuff but to do more on me. He just kisses my breast but wont do more. I feel or...
    neelam29 neelam29
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2012

    You Can Keep Your Hat On!

    It's okay! It really is! There's no mystery, what do you think you look silly with that hardon, with it sticking out like that, like a mine detector looking for it's mine (as one boyfriend put it!)? It's okay, you can see me, and I can see you! It's okay! It's not strange or...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2013


    i always have the lights on when am ******. that way i can see her beautiful body & that nice ***** while am down there licking & watching my **** goin in & out which is major turn on plus u can see the pleasure in her face as your pounding her. am ready
    kingspinnr kingspinnr
    36-40, M
    Dec 22, 2010
    engineerwathiq engineerwathiq
    36-40, M
    Aug 9, 2015


    Why on earth would you want to not see and enjoy your partner in the light.... Your hands can still explore everything about them.....but watching your partners enjoyment add so much to the experience. expressions......tensing of muscles....eye much is missing in...
    harleylover1970 harleylover1970
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jan 25, 2012
    TheDevilsSon666 TheDevilsSon666
    51-55, M
    Aug 23, 2015
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