I Think It's Sexy When a Man Stands Up and Protects His Woman

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    It Is Hot

    now anyone who knows me know i am not one to play the defenseless female and would probably go up against the devil if i had to, but honestly it is hot when a man will stand up for and be protective of his woman. Over protectivness is a turn off but willing to fight for is hot.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 1, 2009

    Some Day My Prince Will Come...

    Not only would I find it sexy when he stands up to protect me from others, but I would find it incredibly sexy when he stands up and protects me from myself.  Oh...to have a man like that in my life...someone I can count on to be there for me when I am in trouble, when...
    purpleriz purpleriz
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 9, 2009

    A Real Man Will...

    A real man will stand by his woman through it all. Don't just be macho and fist fight or duel to win her approval. Stand by Her! Mr. Lenny Kravitz knows the score!
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2009

    I Might of Not Been His, But I Wanted to Be.

    In elementary school a girl was peer pestering me into doing something that I didn't want to do. I told her no and we ended up arguing. I dunno if the guy next to us was just tired of us arguing. But he shut the girl up and I had a huge crush on him for the next...
    rhawn rhawn
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2009

    Yeah, Guess I'm Old Fashioned That Way

    ~ I want a man who will stand up for me & in front of me if needed. It doesn't mean that I think I can't do it for myself, it's just that I see it as a manly thing to do. Heehee! My exes NEVER stood up for me. NOT ONCE, & it still bugs the HELL out of me now. Of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2009

    I Certainly Agree

    It is a primal sort of a thing. It brings out the protector in the male and makes the woman feel worthwhile and... well, protected. When we go back to the caveman days woman was the gatherer and child-raiser and man was the protector and hunter. I think that much like the fight...
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    Apr 1, 2009

    Chivalery!

    I love it.   I think it shows that they care about their lady.  Chivalery is dying.  I think it's sad.
    ShatteredOne ShatteredOne
    31-35
    Jul 26, 2010

    Oh Come On....

    who wouldn't love for her honor to be defended by a special male friend or lover. Golly it is the traditional role of men in story books for goodness sake. We all, even if in secret, want the story book plot, climax and ending!! I have endured abuse from a few people in my life...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2009

    Knight In Shining Armor

    It's not that I'm some fragile little girl that *needs* a protector, but the idea that a guy would be willing to, is just incredibly attractive! He shouldn't be some macho man sexist with a big ego either. He shouldn't want to go around punching anyone who gives him/me a dirty...
    Lifestooshort252 Lifestooshort252
    22-25, F
    Jul 29, 2013

    Yes, of Course

    i do find this sexy and so much more. i want to find the man who will stand up for me this way. My knight in shining armor. Well, maybe not the armor ... to much to get off when the time is right!
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2009

    :)

    I am not talking about a man that is a bully either but I like being in the company of a man that will protect me. If we are out dancing, for example, and some jerk won't leave me alone then I like for my guy to take me by the arm and lead me off the dance floor. I don't...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Nov 7, 2010

    I Like A Guy That Is Like This

    Its not that hard to stand up for your girl. I like it when guys do that. It makes me so happy. To know that they will always protect their girl. I like to say that I have found this kind of a guy. Because, he protects me in my dreams. Even though he thinks that he isn't this...
    acjf acjf
    22-25, F
    Feb 15, 2011

    Not That I Need It, But It's a Nice Gesture

    I never get into situations where it would be required and even if I did, I think I would be able to handle it myself pretty well. If not, I would undoubtedly be with friends and they would back me up, so it's not something that I anticipate ever needing, but were an issue...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    26-30
    Apr 1, 2009

    Got this PM the other day.

    .. While it is not Pervish, it brought up to what was in my mind a good question ... jibbler * Hello, if you and your guy went to a large party and while you are there a very good looking guy flirts with you, would it be more exciting to you if your man saw it but kept his...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 3, 2014

    :)

    I am not talking about a man that is a bully either but I like being in the company of a man that will protect me. If we are out dancing, for example, and some jerk won't leave me alone then I like for my guy to take me by the arm and lead me off the dance floor. I don't...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2010

    I think its sooooo sexy

    when a guys does this, but hate when a guy just laughs and stands by letting his friends or people just gang up on his girl. Getting mad when his girl don't defend him back wondering why. Then when you have a talk about it say they were just joking and should learn how to take a...
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx
    18-21, F
    Jul 17, 2014

    I like well-behaved women,

    the ones that go around picking fights in public. I'm a peaceful man at heart, and don't like getting involved in troubles that are better off avoided. That being said, if someone attacked unprovoked my mother, sister or girlfriend/wife, they would be very, very sorry. I...
    TheRedTie TheRedTie
    31-35, M
    Jan 13
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