I Think I've Fallen Out Of Love With My Husband

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    My husband and I are growing apart

    and I don't know what to do about it. I shouldn't have married him in the first place although he's a lovely guy. He's just not the right person for me. The idea of splitting up is so frightening. The financial implications and the effect on our child. I guess I'll stay put and...
    missraspberryberet missraspberryberet
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

    So I told my husband of four years

    that I want to go to couples therapy so that we can communicate better. I am sick of feeling alone in this relationship while he controls every aspect of our lives. There are nights when I cry myself to sleep because I am so incredibly unhappy in my life right now. He replied...
    VanessaD88 VanessaD88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    "i Hate My Husband"....................

    I hate his arogance, his self-assurance, his conviction that he would have me at his feet no matter what. I hate my disposition to please him and I hate the pedestal I built for him. I hate how I empower him to control me, use me and abuse me. I peristed to stick around with hope...
    Anto815 Anto815
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2011

    Cliche'

    I still love him , but I'm not sure if I am still in love with him ... That sounds so silly to me ....but at the same time it is really stiring up some unhealthy emotions .... We have lived in an almost sexless marriage for the past two years , and i did everything I could think...
    DalekAnn DalekAnn
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 17, 2012

    So-called "family"...

    .....don't you hate it when they are total hypocrites that hold ANY and every mistake you've ever made against you?
    asus146 asus146
    51-55, F
    Aug 18, 2014

    I Haven't Fallen In Out Of Love With My Husband...

    I love him...on the surface...he's a wonderful provider a great dad...he keeps the house going...but when it comes meeting my needs emotionally...he's not there. Stress at work...other thoughts...more important things...and maybe there is me. Infact he asked me today to get my...
    marlon70 marlon70
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2011

    Have you ever felt alone in your own home?

    On your own bed? Have you ever come across on making a decision, moving forward or staying, either one it will hurt so much.
    Syuz Syuz
    36-40, F
    Jan 17, 2016

    I used to be sad when my husband would leave

    town and happy upon his return. Now I am happy when he leaves and sad when he gets back.
    typsygypsy typsygypsy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2014

    I think I am. Because of his wreckless

    decisions. He doesn't even give a damn about our son. He just goes with what his father says. Drinks whenever he wants and never gives a damn if he's hurting my feelings as long as he's happy. I still love him but I'm not sure if i'm still inlove with him.
    itsmeSheenaRose itsmeSheenaRose
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    Today is our 20 year anniversary.

    It's amazing how two people who have been together this long can be on such different pages. While yes, he's made an effort recently to show interest and respect, we are in no way fixed and perfect. But he thinks we are and I'm afraid this means he's going to get comfortable...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2014

    Dear Room Mate

    i glance over at you, see u reading that book.. always doing something to entertain urself.. but never taking the time to walk over and see what im up to or ask if im ok... nope i guess we are just roommates who share this apt of urs and 2 beautiful kids. its always been a rough...
    drakent21 drakent21
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2010

    Someone Help…...

    This story is so long (aren't they all) but I'll try to keep it short. I've been married to my husband for 10 years. We started living together the minute I was on my own when I was 19 married when I was 22. So I never have been "on my own". Anyway I went to college we, waited on...
    AnniesReady AnniesReady
    31-35, F
    Jul 12, 2012

    So Confused.

    I married my husband when i was about 20, he is 5 years older though that dose not really have an impact, at times though i feel like i was really pressured into marrying him. we currently have no children as i am still finishing up school. The problem is, i feel like i am...
    blackat56 blackat56
    22-25
    1 Response Oct 25, 2011

    Marriege is not for self centered people.

    Marriege took a lot of efforts, to cover each other imperfection, to love in every single moment. Men, fight for your loved ones, don't make a mistake you cannot risk. Once she's gone, she will never return.
    Syuz Syuz
    36-40, F
    Jan 16, 2016

    I've never met a man

    so full of empty plans and promises. When his mouth moves I don't even listen anymore. It just breaks my heart otherwise :(
    typsygypsy typsygypsy
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    Fallen Out Of Love Because Of Alcoholism

    My husband is a wonderful, caring, and passionate man. He married me when I had four young kids from previous relationships and is a great step dad to them. However, he is a functional alcoholic. He drinks mostly beer every day sometimes up to 12 a day and doesn't get "drunk...
    Absadieefg Absadieefg
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2012

    9

    Nine years. As of January first. Nearly 12 since we met. I knew right away we'd be friends. It only took a month to realise We could be more.  9+ years of our lives we've given each other. About three years ago (during a deployment)  he had a black out drunk night, three weeks...
    Bugleta Bugleta
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2012

    Fallen Out Of Love

    I am 26 years old and married my high school sweetheart when I was 20. We've been together for 11 years and married for 5 of them. We have two beautiful daughters, 2 & 5. I have gone through many changes in the last 2 years and grew up. I've gone from wanting to only be with my...
    confusedmom85 confusedmom85
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 27, 2011

    I Never Imagined I'd Be Here Now

    I think I've fallen out of love with my husband. Not something I ever thought I'd feel much less admit, but it's where I am now. I loved him once, before his lies and betrayals, his denials and deflections. And yet despite all his betrayals and hurtful behavior, I've stayed with...
    Joygirl14 Joygirl14
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2009

    His Constant Yelling Has Diminished My Feelings...

    Hubby and I have been married for almost 10 years. This is his second marriage, my first. Hubby has 2 daughters (one is a sophomore in college, on is a junior in high school) from his first marriage, and they live about 300 miles south of us. Althought there have been stressed...
    JoeyTX JoeyTX
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 15, 2011

    I Have Fallen Out Of Love

    I know I have fallen out of love for my husband.  I have no romantic feelings towards him period.  I only kiss him or hug him one, when I am feeling down and really need a hug, and two, so family don't really know what is going on.  we don't want them to know that our marriage...
    wendi62604 wendi62604
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2011

    Young Wife, Young Mother... What Now?

    Sometimes I wonder where my family and friends were to tell me "What are you thinking?? You are only 19!"  It was a whirlwind of a real life "The Bachelor"  Dream vacations, dates, and an 18 year old girl who never belonged.  I was in "love".  Looking back it was an immature...
    TheHappinessProject TheHappinessProject
    26-30, F
    May 31, 2012

    I have been battling the lack of intimacy

    and sex with my husband since before we married.... He is an amazing man and loves me dearly... I fault him at times for being distant and prude and not having any *****, I am being resentful but that is all I know how to feel. I want a family, have children, if I stay, that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 1, 2015

    So my husband and I just got into a huge

    argument and I told him to please leave our house, he did. We have been fighting a lot lately and I am not gonna lie I think I was just getting mad at him over small things because in my heart I knew I wanted things to end. I care for him A LOT, I mean how could I not I've been...
    Marie40106 Marie40106
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 22, 2014
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