I Think Judgmental People Need To Focus On Their Own Lives

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    You're too busy telling me whats wrong with my

    own life when you probably have a heap of unsolved problems. lol.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 15

    Don't Try To

    Don't try to figure me out Not now or on any day You won't find what you're hunting and I'm not your easy prey Don't try to judge me when you don't know the facts You'll spend your whole life trying to read and understand all the impacts Don't try to expose what I am or what you...
    Spitbak Spitbak
    46-50, M
    Jul 30, 2011

    I think it's interesting

    that when you post stuff it's an invitation for them to make fun of you feeling down. They kick you when you're already down because you know it's always their business and they know best about some strangers life. $ucken people.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    The reason why most of us fail in life is

    because we always pay attention to someone else's goals, beliefs, etc. instead of our own. You should stop being judgemental for your safety.
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3
    16-17
    Feb 23, 2015

    Sorry that I actually have a life

    and don't watch **** all day seriously grow the **** up👌
    escape1424 escape1424
    16-17, F
    Jun 21, 2014

    I don't understand why people think

    that judging others is wrong. I judge people all the time and I don't mind if you judge me, it's your life. You can judge for good or bad.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 23, 2015

    Seriously..... you need to focus on yourself

    and your life. Why are yo I always focused on other people and their lives anyway? Usually when you are extremely judgements you have low self esteem and insecurities, and for people not to notice them you point at other flaws to make yourself feel better.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 28, 2014

    Focus People!

    On yourself. Only good can come of it.
    NotLarryBubkiss NotLarryBubkiss
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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