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I Think Loneliness Is Painful

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    Everyone is avoiding me

    and blocking me and ignoring me and my pain. Why just because I'm a guy; I'm not allowed to have feelings, why when girls look at me they feel disgusted before even talking to me? Why when girls talk to me the try to change me and not love me for who I am? How come because I'm a...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 30

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    Really need someone to talk to,

    feeling sad 😔😞
    gisel607 gisel607 18-21, F Jul 15

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    I am so lonely that is hurts

    so much. I spend most of my days non stop crying to the point I am sick from stress, my panic attacks come up, anxiety, and I end up crashing asleep because of it. Am honestly sure I am starting to go through depression again because I am finding it so hard to be happy anymore...
    Boadicea1 Boadicea1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    The worst kind of loneliness is having people

    around you but still feeling lost, different, a burden.... Alone...
    gabscaussigh gabscaussigh 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

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    Everyone feels lonely at some stage

    but no one deserves it all the time . If u see someone by themselves sit with them I know this is something we learn in school really young but it's so true .
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F Jul 28

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    I Feel It

    I believe i can literally feel my heart ache from loneliness sometimes. It's getting harder and harder to believe that I'm not going to die alone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 6, 2010

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    It's to the point I look forward to bedtime all

    day. When I am asleep I don't have to "feel" anything. I can be anywhere I want with anyone I want. I want to sleep all the time, it's the only escape from this loneliness I can get.-
    PinkChick888 PinkChick888 36-40, T Apr 27

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    It's one of those nights

    when I find it really hard to fall asleep and not think about being alone. I crave intimacy and touch, I want to be hugged. Seems like it's too much to ask.
    WhisperingSoftly WhisperingSoftly 31-35, F 2 Responses May 25

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    I'm so f***** lonly I hate this I suffer to

    much with this I hate life and want to die
    Sarahsworldofpain Sarahsworldofpain 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Margaretxo Margaretxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Loneliness is a feeling

    that strikes when you are missunderstood and there is no one to share good or bad...even tho sometimes you are surrounded by people. I think that's the worst kind of loneliness you can feel. I would say you have yourself,and that's a lot but sometimes not even yourself seems to...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I can't take it anymore.

    .. its so hard to deal with all this pain... i am so alone, no one cares, everybody leaves... i dont have reasons to be here anymore, there's no purpose. i dont know why i am writing this here, i dont know if i am trying to call for attention or if i am telling goodbye... but i...
    TrueLondon TrueLondon 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6

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    "Bring Me To Life" How can you see into my

    eyes like open doors? Leading you down into my core where I've become so numb Without a soul my spirit's sleeping somewhere cold Until you find it there and lead it back home (Wake me up) Wake me up inside (I can't wake up) Wake me up inside (Save me) Call my name and save me...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F Jul 10

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    I have zero friends and I'm

    so alone. I've realized loneliness is one of the worst feelings somebody could experience. I mean real loneliness too. Not when you're bored and alone and want something to do on Friday night. The loneliness you feel every single day. When you go to school and see everyone...
    LilahLovett LilahLovett 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    Am I the only person

    that hates being independent. It makes me feel sad and lonely , and I get so upset when my friendships don't laste
    dollkylik dollkylik 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 17

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    Loneliness

    The loneliness i am feeling inside is like a parasite that suck my sanity away. The pain is so severe and so painful. I hate how it make me feel so depressed and just want to get myself drunk to forget the loneliness inside. Yet when i get sober, the loneliness still here and i...
    TinaFeyforever TinaFeyforever 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2013

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    To keep my story short- i had it very hard in

    my life. I dont know why people treated me this way, that i became sick, but i cant find answers to this. All i feel is pain, shame and hurt. I had abusive parents and at school nobody ever reached out to me. Otherwise i was hurt there too. Like im not human, like im not worth...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Apr 10

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    Yesterday was my 21 first birthday,

    first year I spent by myself. The love of my Life has abandoned me for his mistress , he prefers her because she's fun and she doesn't like to complain like I did .. I know you might say I may be young, well I am, I thought I had found the love of my life at a young age, I met...
    diamond1ntherough diamond1ntherough 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 10

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    Suffering

    The wind has dried my tears, and yet my heart is crying still. My soul is filled with pain and yet I am empty Lord. Memories crowd around me, holding ,touching. Yet I am lonely Lord. The wind has tossed the sands and the footsteps are fading Lord. The wind has dried my tears...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    Yesterday my best friend shot himself.

    He lived beside me too. At first I couldn't believe it, but I knew it was true. I've never experienced this kind of sadness in a while.
    PrincessUniverse PrincessUniverse 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    berangere berangere 66-70, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    That Empty....Hollow Feeling...

    When you are trapped in the bottom and completely broken, loneliness is the worst poison. The times when you are faced with something no one else can really relate to and all you can do is go home and sit there alone, you start to think that no one really cares. Because no one...
    JustJacob JustJacob 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Loneliness Is Painful

    I HAVE BEEN LONELY BEFORE AND IT IS VERY PAINFUL SO IF YOU ARE LONELY AND NEED A FRIEND JUST LET ME KNOW I WILL BE HERE REACH OUT I WILL BE YOUR FRIEND AND TALK TO YOU,YOU ARE NO LONGER ALONE
    PROUDGRANDMAOF6 PROUDGRANDMAOF6 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    I hate being lonely,

    but I see it's worth it in the end..... I think I'm being cheated on..... ;-; My girlfriend doesn't talk to me like before, and I see her just push me away. She says she's busy and has stuff on her plate but I'm not sure of its true or not. It's been two days that she doesn...
    pewpew6488 pewpew6488 22-25, M Jun 17

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    I am a person who loves to make people happy.

    I am always helping my friends. But when I need help, they just don't seem to care. I have them my everything, they wouldn't do **** for me. I just got replaced really easily by some bad people... I don't think I have any true friends. I am all alone. I am having family problems...
    Hamoudiss34 Hamoudiss34 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    Understanding Loneliness

    Loneliness does not come from having no people about one,but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself,or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible. If a man knows more than others he becomes lonely. But loneliness is not...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    You Bet It Is

    Never underestimate the physical, emotional  and mental pain of loneliness.It kills people.The elderly give up  slowly but surely. They've  lost their partners,sit in homes, wait for a visitor till that hope has  gone to the wayside as well.I have a soft spot in my heart for...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 18 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I feel loneliness is an emotion more

    than a state of being. Then more I try and fight being lonely the more I see it's not as all encompassing as I once thought.
    Wonderinsoul Wonderinsoul 22-25, M Aug 31

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    There's A Difference Between Being Alone And Being Lonely...

    I quite like being alone. I've always been a bit of a loner, and I enjoy my time to myself. If I'm around people for too long, I really start to crave some time alone. I'm not a lonely person. I very rarely feel lonely, even when I am alone for long periods. But sometimes...
    BowieGirl BowieGirl 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    All i can see is darkness.

    There is complete nothingness. I feel like people can see through me as though I am a walking spirit. I don't matter. Nothing matters and so why feel anything? I am too tired to feel. And so the days just blend together into one never ending shade of gray. I punch thing...
    CannibalizeTheMerciful CannibalizeTheMerciful 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    The plan was to drink till the pain over.

    . But what's worse.. The pain or the hangover
    davisbre davisbre 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    Just remember when you think your free,

    that crack inside your ******* heart is me. I've reached the speed of pain .
    cartwright66 cartwright66 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    gisel607 gisel607 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    The Problem With Lonliness

    I feel it way too often and no you don't have to be physically alone to feel it. I believe that living with one's self is the hardest person to live with. Not liking yourself or feeling unworthy of the company of others makes you feel very, very lonely. So, being alone with...
    Libbilee Libbilee 61-65, F 3 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    I am watching The Office

    and I wish I was Pam and I met Jim and I was cute and funny and in love.
    okjackie okjackie 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    His Daughter,For A Little While.

    The following story is about a man who lost his beloved and loving daughter in tragic circumstances,having also lost his wife a few years previously he found himself alone in life.His other daughter living in Canada and not being close to him. He stopped every morning on his way...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    I agree loneliness is painful

    but not as much as stepping on a Lego. It's hell on earth. Not even satan would be cruel enough to create that monstrosity
    ILoveYourSmile ILoveYourSmile 13-15, F Jul 10

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    Loneliness

    Im just lonely. When I'm around friends I can't help but to be envious of their intimate relationships. Why is it only me, why when I like someone so badly they dont notice. I'm so tired of being alone, just to feel the warmth of someone else hand touch yours. A beautiful kiss on...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 3 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Being gay makes me feel

    so alone and lonely. Like some people think it's a ******* joke. People don't treat you the same. it's sad because not everyone will accept you for who you are. it's like you always have to find a way to please everyone to like you. :(
    Margaretxo Margaretxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    loneliness isnt always physical.

    loneliness is the feeling you get when you feel like nobody understands. the feeling you get when you're standing in a crowd of people that love you and you feel so alone and separated. loneliness is a horrible feeling.
    tristinhunt tristinhunt 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    "Pain is when you're slowly dying on the inside

    & you are way too weak to speak about it so you keep it silent & suffer, alone".
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    I'm so tired feeling

    so depressed , sad and lonely everyday. I'm so tired not getting appreciated. I'm so tired of all the rejections.
    Margaretxo Margaretxo 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    They moved on happily.

    .. Effortlessly ... And you?
    deadpoetry deadpoetry 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    In the Mirror In the mirror,

    a reflection. A Victorian nightgown, moves from my hand. A reflection. A cow, round and slow, my own nakedness. I stumble to you , I cry. Somewhere from out of a museum, You, a bald square statue, Two stars that flicker more now. You stumble towards me and cry. You whisper, I...
    mafields mafields 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Sometimes the pain inside is

    so deep . I mean pain just a signifance that life can be a dark and scary thing .
    Musicrocks3 Musicrocks3 16-17, F Jun 6

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