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I Think Men Are Used and Abused

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    LilAnnie LilAnnie 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    Men Being Abused In America

    1 IN 4 WOMEN, 1 IN 9 MEN IN UNITED STATES ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES In households with incomes under $15,000 per year, 35.5% of women and 20.7% of men suffered violence from an intimate partner. 43% of women and 26% of men in multiracial non...
    Asianblue Asianblue 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    I Think All People Are

    but the statistics on men are limited by the fact that it's not common or accepted for them to speak up about it. They're told to grow a thicker skin, that it's a woman thing to be used and abuse, as if anyone deserves that sort of treatment. As if their "man card" will be...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers 18-21, T 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Not Talked About As Much As It Should Be,

     I see way to many women who use and abuse men mentally more then anything and it's frustrating cause they don't think they deserve or need to be protected as if standing up to those women makes them weak or something. I wish more people would talk about it and do more about...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    Caring

    There are many men today who have caring and compassionate hearts and just like a woman they to are being used and abused. I have read many stories on EP about men who have been truly hurt, used and abused by there partners and I find it heartbreaking. These men have given their...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    I Call For the Return of Equality!

    It really pains me to see how men are treated in everyday life and I now think that a lot of men have just grown to accept it as normal or they do not challenge it through fear of being labeled a chauvinist. Men seem to be treated terribly and women just seem to get away with...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    I Madder Then Hell and I'm Going to Take It Any More!

    That's it! Today I go home I am going to tell her to stop washing my freakin clothes and for God sake stop making my **&^% dinner! I can see now that I am being used and abused! She always says she irons my shirts because she likes for me to look nice! What a load of crap...
    JustSillyStuff JustSillyStuff 46-50, T 8 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    A Lot of Men Are Abused...

    I originally wrote this as a response to a quote from someone that domestic violence against men is nowhere near as prevelant as domestic violence against women but I ended up telling the story that happened to me and it felt good to finally tell it so here we go...
    chrisuk chrisuk 22-25 2 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    Men Are Used and Abused Alot More Than You Think

    Men are expected in general to be providers.  Alot of women take advantage of that and expect the man to do everything for them and use them.  Other men are abused with crazy women that beat on them and cry domestic violence if the man fights back.  I would not...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Feminism Has a Lot To Answer For!

    I think that feminism has given many women the right to act in an unbelievably selfish way. A lot of women have stopped appreciating men for being men by encroaching into their world.  I think that they have managed to not only leave our men feeling used and abused but they...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 14 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Yes You Are Poor Babies!!!

    Men are used and abused for many things.  Some women use men as a meal ticket while others use them as their protector while still others use them for their on sexual gratification. One of my EP friends I think put it best in one of his stories when he said if a woman acts...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 70 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    The Shocking Truth About Domestic Violence, Part One

    For decades feminists have ferociously villified the whole male sex over domestic violence. They have portrayed marriage as dangerous for women because it pairs them with those violent beasts known as men. They have forced laws and customs of police enforcement that facilitate...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    And Its Fun For Me.....

     I really enjoy using and abusing men. I love having a man pay me more attention each time I do,Seems to keep them wrapped around my pinky.  I would never  intentionally hurt them,I do warn them I am this way.Its not my fault they choose to play.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Don't Use Men...appreciate Them.

    I am absolutely sick of cutsie little princesses. They enjoy sucking in all of the nice men,  wearing them out and then throwing them away. My efforts to help them assert themselves again take years. STOP IT NOW!
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 16 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    By Some Women

    They are tricked and taken advantage of when it comes to some women. The nice ones in my mind seem to mostly be attracted to girls that could care less about them. Some men are used to make the girl's boyfriend jealous, other men are verbally abused my their wives, etc even when...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Don't Hurt Your Brothers...

    Yes.Men are not just genitals or bank balances. I'm speaking to all genders with this advice. I am a BDSM Mistress and I treat all males with respect.Respect Men and They (Most Likely) Will Honour You.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    My Ex-girlfriend Was Very Violent

    I’m a big guy, so I feel ashamed of admitting that I was abused by my little girlfriend. My friends all thought that I was so lucky to have a women like her. Only my roommate knew at the time. My girlfriend would get mad if another girl would say something to me or if I didn...
    Fordguy2011 Fordguy2011 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    A Shell

    Not to say that men are not strong and not able to handle an awful lot, but when we as women constantly berate...and verbally abuse men for all the things they "don't" do they become defeated and stop trying. Men like to be acknowledged and supported....why give them such a hard...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    They Love It

    they love it or they wouldnt come back for more
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Girlpower Too Far

    i think men are taking a very submissive role these days and i see many of my friends being pushed around and abused by women. They are afraid to retaliate in ANY way to avoid been seen as a chauvanist, we need equality back please
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 9 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    The Business Of Relationships

    I found this quote online that quite nicely wraps up my take on the whole "his money for her lovin" aspect of marriage. The disclaimer is that I am indeed one of those men who is paid well and through personal habits and good genes happens to be getting better looking with age...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    I Wasn't Always Like This

    I used to be a generous man. I used to be truthful to a fault. Once upon a time, I was happy and giving of my time and help to others. I used to be one of those "live and let live" types. And then I married. My dedication to truth and giving was my foundation, and I thought...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    Time To End Non-religious Circumcisions

    Some years ago, the death of one girl in Egypt from a circumcision caused an international firestorm that forced the Egyptian government to act. But is male circumcision any safer? It apparently is considerably less safe! In our own backyard over a hundred boys a year are dying...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 25 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    Me Too

    Not only are men used and abused we are also misunderstood and stereotyped. Cheers!  
    Nanoose Nanoose 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    Although There Is No Research To Back This Up..

    Perhaps I am wrong, but I am inclined to believe there are as many men abused as women.  However men tend to remain silent about what they have endured due to the way our society views abused men.     It seems men do not have the same type of freedom that women have...
    sherry123456789 sherry123456789 46-50, F 24 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    SpongeBOB gave me homework, and he gave me the task of completing this "story/experience" ... He's not going to be happy with me, because I really don't have any facts or logic to...
    Forget2Trust Forget2Trust 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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    And I try to avoid them whenever possible. Possibly sometimes it's cultural; many cultures discount females as weak and insignificant without dreams save that which the community...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 20

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    Everyone in this group has probably had some bad experience with men who are close to them who they should be able to trust. Just to state the obvious I guess to show you I...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I hate when people think they are better than you all because they could do one worthless thing better than you can.
    GuardianWarrior245 GuardianWarrior245 18-21, M Mar 29

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    It seems some like to hide behind a computer as they can get away with being a rude jack@ss that way. I think manners are important and treating people with respect (until they...
    Thatredheadchick Thatredheadchick 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I just think humans are weird :3
    ILYBlackVeilBrides ILYBlackVeilBrides 13-15, F a week ago

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    For those of you... mostly female I expect who are subject to this kind of conversation in private messages from a stranger.... Most days I would happily block this type of...
    PhoenixM4 PhoenixM4 46-50, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    my father mentally , physically, and emotionaly abused me as a child
    JamesB20 JamesB20 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Looking for a female online s€x slave Willing to complete tasks to satisfy my every s€xual desire unquestioning! Main rules 1 you will not question my tasks, unless there is a...
    bemyslavegirl bemyslavegirl 26-30, M Apr 5

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    A bloody nightmare awakens locked memories of torment of pain. Days old emotions of bitterness and hate. Spit in my face, grab my throat, slap me repeatedly...the mere recollection...
    blackxrosexyuuki blackxrosexyuuki 18-21, F a week ago

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    My dog, Rizzo, has been a wonderful friend and companion for the past 13 years. He came to our family as a rescue, after having been abused and neglected.He has always been a...
    slver slver 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Breakfast At IHOP! Lyssa got called in to go to work in a few hours and her husband was already at work so she called up her sister to see if she would take her two sons for...
    Chelebub Chelebub 51-55, F Mar 29

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    Yes I do, even as a gay male I find them to be very interesting. I've never had a problem making friends with some of them, straight or gay. I think they find me non threatening...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    This thought occurred to me a few years ago. I just figured that we were all being used for a reason but I'm not sure why at all. I'm really not good at coming up with answers to...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    " New York State Senator Joseph E. Robach 2300 W.Ridge Rd , Rochester , NY 14626 Ph ( 585 ) 225-3650 ; NYSENATE.GOV , Albany NY 1227 robach@nysenate.gov ; robach.nysenate.gov...
    AATHREYAARBEEKAY AATHREYAARBEEKAY 36-40, M Apr 2

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    So this experience sounds a bit objectified towards British men so I am going to try my best to not objectify them but I do confess that most men that I find attractive just so...
    JamiLynn23 JamiLynn23 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    The ONLY way men and women can just be friends is if they are not at all attracted to each other. Instinct always wins.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 21

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    ****** nasty old men wasting time on here , stop talking to young girls even if their interested . Horny creeps
    Suzanne22 Suzanne22 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm a straight girl, but i find women's bodies are way more interesting than men's..
    Loyalty91 Loyalty91 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Asian male here. I'm glad to know that we're not forgotten about. I'm attracted to all types but I always felt like no one was attracted to Asian men.
    GDlifestyle GDlifestyle 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I think it's disgusting how the role of the father seems insignificant to many people. Scorned women often bring their kids up to resent their fathers which is wrong. Not all...
    thisisanick thisisanick 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Period. I think it's been this way since the beginning of time. But I've come to learn recently not all men want a Barbie doll woman. Curves are in baby! I'm not blonde, I don't...
    Alexicutie Alexicutie 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    Well I think I may have found one! Only time will tell. He seems honestly interested in me and my thoughts. And of course I did not find him on ep. They are a rarity even if they...
    littlebikiechick littlebikiechick 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I happen to be a gay guy, so I have to say they are very attractive
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I think all to often men feel it's hard to be involved with their kids after the family falls apart. I just put my three to bed and my baby is sleeping next to me now as I type...
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    If I had a wife,I would not like to see her have sex with other men. Yeah, I'm a freak that way. If you are into this, pls don't add me. ty.
    webalias3 webalias3 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    People are too quick to put someone down or be nasty just because they have different opinions or act differently. What differences does it make to them what that person does. It's...
    AriaSteel AriaSteel 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Back in school,boys were my best close enemies.:).i used to fight with them often.i dont know why,i never came to terms with them..But now i'm studying in a women's college.so,i no...
    keerth keerth 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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