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I Think Men Are Used and Abused

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    My Ex-girlfriend Was Very Violent

    I’m a big guy, so I feel ashamed of admitting that I was abused by my little girlfriend. My friends all thought that I was so lucky to have a women like her. Only my roommate knew at the time. My girlfriend would get mad if another girl would say something to me or if I didn...
    Fordguy2011 Fordguy2011 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    LilAnnie LilAnnie 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    My Daddy Was, And I Know Other Guys

    It's very infuriating for me to know that some guys actually put up with being physically abused and just take it because they are too embarrassed that other men will think there wusses. Or maybe they take it because they go by the "don't hit girls" rule.  I used to have a ex...
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2011

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    Girlpower Too Far

    i think men are taking a very submissive role these days and i see many of my friends being pushed around and abused by women. They are afraid to retaliate in ANY way to avoid been seen as a chauvanist, we need equality back please
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    Mother's Wisdom

    My mother and I were discussing one of my male friends, who was dating a woman whom no one else trusted. I wondered why we were all so harsh on her; she seemed decent, and really, none of us knew her that well. She responded in a surprising manner: "If a man is financially...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F 12 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    Me Too

    Not only are men used and abused we are also misunderstood and stereotyped. Cheers!  
    Nanoose Nanoose 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    Feminism Has a Lot To Answer For!

    I think that feminism has given many women the right to act in an unbelievably selfish way. A lot of women have stopped appreciating men for being men by encroaching into their world.  I think that they have managed to not only leave our men feeling used and abused but they...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 14 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    I Call For the Return of Equality!

    It really pains me to see how men are treated in everyday life and I now think that a lot of men have just grown to accept it as normal or they do not challenge it through fear of being labeled a chauvinist. Men seem to be treated terribly and women just seem to get away with...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    The Shocking Truth About Domestic Violence, Part One

    For decades feminists have ferociously villified the whole male sex over domestic violence. They have portrayed marriage as dangerous for women because it pairs them with those violent beasts known as men. They have forced laws and customs of police enforcement that facilitate...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Don't Hurt Your Brothers...

    Yes.Men are not just genitals or bank balances. I'm speaking to all genders with this advice. I am a BDSM Mistress and I treat all males with respect.Respect Men and They (Most Likely) Will Honour You.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Yes You Are Poor Babies!!!

    Men are used and abused for many things.  Some women use men as a meal ticket while others use them as their protector while still others use them for their on sexual gratification. One of my EP friends I think put it best in one of his stories when he said if a woman acts...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 67 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Men Being Abused In America

    1 IN 4 WOMEN, 1 IN 9 MEN IN UNITED STATES ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES In households with incomes under $15,000 per year, 35.5% of women and 20.7% of men suffered violence from an intimate partner. 43% of women and 26% of men in multiracial non...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Time To End Non-religious Circumcisions

    Some years ago, the death of one girl in Egypt from a circumcision caused an international firestorm that forced the Egyptian government to act. But is male circumcision any safer? It apparently is considerably less safe! In our own backyard over a hundred boys a year are dying...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 25 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    And Its Fun For Me.....

     I really enjoy using and abusing men. I love having a man pay me more attention each time I do,Seems to keep them wrapped around my pinky.  I would never  intentionally hurt them,I do warn them I am this way.Its not my fault they choose to play.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    The Business Of Relationships

    I found this quote online that quite nicely wraps up my take on the whole "his money for her lovin" aspect of marriage. The disclaimer is that I am indeed one of those men who is paid well and through personal habits and good genes happens to be getting better looking with age...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Although There Is No Research To Back This Up..

    Perhaps I am wrong, but I am inclined to believe there are as many men abused as women.  However men tend to remain silent about what they have endured due to the way our society views abused men.     It seems men do not have the same type of freedom that women have...
    sherry123456789 sherry123456789 46-50, F 24 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    I Madder Then Hell and I'm Going to Take It Any More!

    That's it! Today I go home I am going to tell her to stop washing my freakin clothes and for God sake stop making my **&^% dinner! I can see now that I am being used and abused! She always says she irons my shirts because she likes for me to look nice! What a load of crap...
    JustSillyStuff JustSillyStuff 46-50, T 8 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    They Love It

    they love it or they wouldnt come back for more
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Men Are Used and Abused Alot More Than You Think

    Men are expected in general to be providers.  Alot of women take advantage of that and expect the man to do everything for them and use them.  Other men are abused with crazy women that beat on them and cry domestic violence if the man fights back.  I would not...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    I Think All People Are

    but the statistics on men are limited by the fact that it's not common or accepted for them to speak up about it. They're told to grow a thicker skin, that it's a woman thing to be used and abuse, as if anyone deserves that sort of treatment. As if their "man card" will be...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers 18-21, T 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    A Shell

    Not to say that men are not strong and not able to handle an awful lot, but when we as women constantly berate...and verbally abuse men for all the things they "don't" do they become defeated and stop trying. Men like to be acknowledged and supported....why give them such a hard...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Don't Use Men...appreciate Them.

    I am absolutely sick of cutsie little princesses. They enjoy sucking in all of the nice men,  wearing them out and then throwing them away. My efforts to help them assert themselves again take years. STOP IT NOW!
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    I Wasn't Always Like This

    I used to be a generous man. I used to be truthful to a fault. Once upon a time, I was happy and giving of my time and help to others. I used to be one of those "live and let live" types. And then I married. My dedication to truth and giving was my foundation, and I thought...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    A Lot of Men Are Abused...

    I originally wrote this as a response to a quote from someone that domestic violence against men is nowhere near as prevelant as domestic violence against women but I ended up telling the story that happened to me and it felt good to finally tell it so here we go...
    chrisuk chrisuk 22-25 2 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    Not Talked About As Much As It Should Be,

     I see way to many women who use and abuse men mentally more then anything and it's frustrating cause they don't think they deserve or need to be protected as if standing up to those women makes them weak or something. I wish more people would talk about it and do more about...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    Caring

    There are many men today who have caring and compassionate hearts and just like a woman they to are being used and abused. I have read many stories on EP about men who have been truly hurt, used and abused by there partners and I find it heartbreaking. These men have given their...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    By Some Women

    They are tricked and taken advantage of when it comes to some women. The nice ones in my mind seem to mostly be attracted to girls that could care less about them. Some men are used to make the girl's boyfriend jealous, other men are verbally abused my their wives, etc even when...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    I once believed this.

    Until one day out fishing at a near by pond where I had never caught any thing but insect bites it came to Me that this was My whole problem,I kept fishing in the same pond over and over.Now I look for ladies who are happy and love and respect Herself 1st.These are qualities We...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    We blast men for feeling this way. Well ladies, we are not either. You remember that whole equality thing, right? In fact MEN make the world go around and they do it for us. So...
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Wow this group... Y u gotta be so rude? xD
    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Band - Rollins Band Album - Weight Song - Wrong Man
    WindsofChange2015 WindsofChange2015 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So I was at a party on Sunday. I know. Who has parties on Sundays? Anyway it was an adult party, so there was a lot of standing around with a wine glass in a room full of people...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    We totally are~ I love it when men call me an "it" or something~ Women are property of men~
    HushDarling81 HushDarling81 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 mins ago

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    I want dirty old men to use me anyway they want, tied up and then thrown away afterwards ;)
    Sextoyyy13 Sextoyyy13 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's happened to me before. I share my biggest, um smallest lol, secret about my micropenis online and the people I share it with just want my pics for their own perversions...
    littleweewee123 littleweewee123 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I want to be used and left. Bruise me and do me until you're satisfied. Always been a fantasy of mine
    CumDump99 CumDump99 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I fantasize about being controlled dominated and used until I'm completely ruined and worthless then thrown away
    need2Bcontrolled83 need2Bcontrolled83 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    I think it's so sexy to see a fat or pregnant woman with stretch marks. Don't why but I find them so hot.
    Chubbyhubby230 Chubbyhubby230 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    One thing I don't understand, is that you're not supposed to call the mentally retarded the mentally retarded anymore. What ARE they supposed to be called? It keeps changing. Us...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    I don't like theway men think. Even the so called good ones are bad.
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I believe it for sure but I do believe stats prove that many men often want more. As in some kind of physical connection or lasciviousness to happen. I don't think most women are...
    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I can't believe that people would ever begin to think that women are inferior to men. Different, of course, but then so is one man different from another, one woman different to...
    naturesboy naturesboy 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Over the pass few months I've been back going to the gym and trying to get in shape.Also I chat on this site and yahoo IM at times and I've come to know many women who don't think...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I Don't like Saying that. I derive No Pleasure in calling Men to task. What is to Be Said, though, When MEN see Women running around "Dressed as Men" AND THEY SAY NOTHING ?? It's...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Jan 11

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    So I was asked to take some pictures the other night to show off my new shoes. I have a pair of patent leather 4 inch stiletto pumps with locking ankle straps. I was told to get...
    Photogeek47 Photogeek47 26-30, M Jan 1

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    I am Asian, 30, and no girl has ever found me attractive as a guy. Over the past year or two I started really investigating this. I've been on about 4 dating sites now as well as...
    Sentiphant Sentiphant 26-30, M Jan 17

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    When you are physically attractive men make it there personal goal to shower you with attention and take interest in anything you say .But when you lose it (which you will) that...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M