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I Think Men Are Used and Abused

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    I Wasn't Always Like This

    I used to be a generous man. I used to be truthful to a fault. Once upon a time, I was happy and giving of my time and help to others. I used to be one of those "live and let live" types. And then I married. My dedication to truth and giving was my foundation, and I thought...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    And Its Fun For Me.....

     I really enjoy using and abusing men. I love having a man pay me more attention each time I do,Seems to keep them wrapped around my pinky.  I would never  intentionally hurt them,I do warn them I am this way.Its not my fault they choose to play.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Time To End Non-religious Circumcisions

    Some years ago, the death of one girl in Egypt from a circumcision caused an international firestorm that forced the Egyptian government to act. But is male circumcision any safer? It apparently is considerably less safe! In our own backyard over a hundred boys a year are dying...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 25 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    The Shocking Truth About Domestic Violence, Part One

    For decades feminists have ferociously villified the whole male sex over domestic violence. They have portrayed marriage as dangerous for women because it pairs them with those violent beasts known as men. They have forced laws and customs of police enforcement that facilitate...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    Caring

    There are many men today who have caring and compassionate hearts and just like a woman they to are being used and abused. I have read many stories on EP about men who have been truly hurt, used and abused by there partners and I find it heartbreaking. These men have given their...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    The Business Of Relationships

    I found this quote online that quite nicely wraps up my take on the whole "his money for her lovin" aspect of marriage. The disclaimer is that I am indeed one of those men who is paid well and through personal habits and good genes happens to be getting better looking with age...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 9 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Mother's Wisdom

    My mother and I were discussing one of my male friends, who was dating a woman whom no one else trusted. I wondered why we were all so harsh on her; she seemed decent, and really, none of us knew her that well. She responded in a surprising manner: "If a man is financially...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F 12 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    By Some Women

    They are tricked and taken advantage of when it comes to some women. The nice ones in my mind seem to mostly be attracted to girls that could care less about them. Some men are used to make the girl's boyfriend jealous, other men are verbally abused my their wives, etc even when...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    My Daddy Was, And I Know Other Guys

    It's very infuriating for me to know that some guys actually put up with being physically abused and just take it because they are too embarrassed that other men will think there wusses. Or maybe they take it because they go by the "don't hit girls" rule.  I used to have a ex...
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2011

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    Feminism Has a Lot To Answer For!

    I think that feminism has given many women the right to act in an unbelievably selfish way. A lot of women have stopped appreciating men for being men by encroaching into their world.  I think that they have managed to not only leave our men feeling used and abused but they...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 14 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Although There Is No Research To Back This Up..

    Perhaps I am wrong, but I am inclined to believe there are as many men abused as women.  However men tend to remain silent about what they have endured due to the way our society views abused men.     It seems men do not have the same type of freedom that women have...
    sherry123456789 sherry123456789 46-50, F 24 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    My Ex-girlfriend Was Very Violent

    I’m a big guy, so I feel ashamed of admitting that I was abused by my little girlfriend. My friends all thought that I was so lucky to have a women like her. Only my roommate knew at the time. My girlfriend would get mad if another girl would say something to me or if I didn...
    Fordguy2011 Fordguy2011 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    I Think All People Are

    but the statistics on men are limited by the fact that it's not common or accepted for them to speak up about it. They're told to grow a thicker skin, that it's a woman thing to be used and abuse, as if anyone deserves that sort of treatment. As if their "man card" will be...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers 18-21, T 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I Call For the Return of Equality!

    It really pains me to see how men are treated in everyday life and I now think that a lot of men have just grown to accept it as normal or they do not challenge it through fear of being labeled a chauvinist. Men seem to be treated terribly and women just seem to get away with...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    Yes You Are Poor Babies!!!

    Men are used and abused for many things.  Some women use men as a meal ticket while others use them as their protector while still others use them for their on sexual gratification. One of my EP friends I think put it best in one of his stories when he said if a woman acts...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 67 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Me Too

    Not only are men used and abused we are also misunderstood and stereotyped. Cheers!  
    Nanoose Nanoose 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    A Lot of Men Are Abused...

    I originally wrote this as a response to a quote from someone that domestic violence against men is nowhere near as prevelant as domestic violence against women but I ended up telling the story that happened to me and it felt good to finally tell it so here we go...
    chrisuk chrisuk 22-25 2 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    They Love It

    they love it or they wouldnt come back for more
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Don't Use Men...appreciate Them.

    I am absolutely sick of cutsie little princesses. They enjoy sucking in all of the nice men,  wearing them out and then throwing them away. My efforts to help them assert themselves again take years. STOP IT NOW!
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    I once believed this.

    Until one day out fishing at a near by pond where I had never caught any thing but insect bites it came to Me that this was My whole problem,I kept fishing in the same pond over and over.Now I look for ladies who are happy and love and respect Herself 1st.These are qualities We...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    A Shell

    Not to say that men are not strong and not able to handle an awful lot, but when we as women constantly berate...and verbally abuse men for all the things they "don't" do they become defeated and stop trying. Men like to be acknowledged and supported....why give them such a hard...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Men Are Used and Abused Alot More Than You Think

    Men are expected in general to be providers.  Alot of women take advantage of that and expect the man to do everything for them and use them.  Other men are abused with crazy women that beat on them and cry domestic violence if the man fights back.  I would not...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Girlpower Too Far

    i think men are taking a very submissive role these days and i see many of my friends being pushed around and abused by women. They are afraid to retaliate in ANY way to avoid been seen as a chauvanist, we need equality back please
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 8 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    LilAnnie LilAnnie 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    Don't Hurt Your Brothers...

    Yes.Men are not just genitals or bank balances. I'm speaking to all genders with this advice. I am a BDSM Mistress and I treat all males with respect.Respect Men and They (Most Likely) Will Honour You.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 3 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    I Madder Then Hell and I'm Going to Take It Any More!

    That's it! Today I go home I am going to tell her to stop washing my freakin clothes and for God sake stop making my **&^% dinner! I can see now that I am being used and abused! She always says she irons my shirts because she likes for me to look nice! What a load of crap...
    JustSillyStuff JustSillyStuff 46-50, T 8 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Men Being Abused In America

    1 IN 4 WOMEN, 1 IN 9 MEN IN UNITED STATES ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES In households with incomes under $15,000 per year, 35.5% of women and 20.7% of men suffered violence from an intimate partner. 43% of women and 26% of men in multiracial non...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Not Talked About As Much As It Should Be,

     I see way to many women who use and abuse men mentally more then anything and it's frustrating cause they don't think they deserve or need to be protected as if standing up to those women makes them weak or something. I wish more people would talk about it and do more about...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    It's funny when people call us pigs. The first thing that pops up in my head after the "great... another one who thinks men are pigs" is that pigs are considered the cleanest...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    Yes I totally agree ;) anyone keen to text
    Sextme6996 Sextme6996 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 27

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    Well women are simply not inferior. I used to be an orderly in a hospital and often visited the maternity ward. Just for the record. From what I've heard on the ward from the women...
    OlioB OlioB 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    This is really bugging me and I need to get it off my chest. It seems like to me there is far too many people walking around, turning their noses up and thinking they are superior...
    chelsieshay2626 chelsieshay2626 18-21, F Dec 13

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    I do think they are because of the new apps and inventions. I mean, you can use it as anything now. I do think it's a good and bad thing at the same time.
    Music2323 Music2323 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I think women are beautiful and i can't express how beautiful they are. I hate when they say they're not and i want them to know they are. They're wonderful kind but because of...
    Jin777 Jin777 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I do think manners are very important,my parents raised me,to have respect for people,so I do,and am a mom,and my child,has respect for others.Sometimes I meet up,with people that...
    momonsite momonsite 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Especially the ones who aren't virgins. I'm so sorry that I decided that I was sexually autonomous and free to make my own decisions against what you think. Having sex with someone...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    And i am one of them i think ? I can never seem to like black people, sometimes i think i am a racist, sometimes i am not! Maybe its because i was raised in a area having hate...
    iamjustbeingme iamjustbeingme 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    However the actions displayed are abnormal. There are many EP users with mental health on here and in reference to only the genuine sufferers I'm not sure if it possible but...
    blackinc blackinc 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    cassiecc11 cassiecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Muslim men have much larger, more powerful penises than us Hindu men and that makes them superior men to us.
    delhiabhi delhiabhi 22-25, M Dec 7

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    Why do some women think this is fair?Judging a guy based o his looks is perfectly acceptable, but if he does it you go mental. :s Why are looks THAT important?
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 6

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    Yes, men have more muscle tissue than we do, women. They have different hormones to us, they don't have a womb nor can they give birth to a child. There are major differences...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 35 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sexy time where are my asian men ?
    CaribbeanBarbie CaribbeanBarbie 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I like my men Arabian. Especially the ones down in Yemen. Damn!!!!!!!!! they are so ****** hot, u don't even know.
    ThatOneBlackGurl ThatOneBlackGurl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I am a man myself, and my opinion is that women are just as good as men. I am not saying this to get on the girls side, just an opinion.
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 16

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    Men you're not original. You jump immediately to let's trade pics send one then start demanding select poses or Specifics while You yourself can only send 1-2 pics. Trust me ... A...
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    So I've recently met a few men on here that I can, perhaps, be just friends with. I've been just friends with men in the past. Only once did a friendship end without a reason given...
    ttbridge ttbridge 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I love tattooed men!!! It is sooooo hot maybe it's bc I tattooed as well ;-)
    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    News flash, gentlemen: Ladies can do things too! We are all equal, get it through your thick skulls! We're just as smart and capable as any guy! So grow the hell up! EDIT...
    ADawnS ADawnS 18-21, F 24 Responses