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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Sometimes when I see a woman dressed modestly I

    find it more of a turn on than if she'd be dressed imodestly , as if I have to use my imagination to imagine what is being covered by her clothes.
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    Rosesanddiamonds Rosesanddiamonds 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    RoxannaDW RoxannaDW 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    1.) a genuine air of kindness 2.) a sense of humor born from excess wit an intelligence 3.) someone UNAFRAID of communication--even the hard topics 4.) hard working 5.) Humble 6...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Mar 29

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    Some peeps find me pretty damn hot, some people think I'm pretty or cute, some peeps think I'm not really that pretty, some think I'm ugly af. Friends say I'm cute, and I honestly...
    casssss casssss 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I've always looked at myself in the mirror or photos and just thought eww.. I don't understand how some have said they find me attractive. To begin with its only happened like...
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I went for a walk with a new friend, and she started talking about a guy who had started talking to her, and asked me if she should give him a shot, and go on a date with him. I...
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Someone who has a great personality makes them instantly more attractive. It's usually the people who are often over looked by others because they may not be as attractive as some...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Oké, so since I was like 8 years old I never was an attractive guy who was told he is pretty. Expect By family.. I actually was always the strange guy with weird looks and...
    bosslim bosslim 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    It's just really weird...I mean I don't think I look good, people tell me I'm cute. I think my white hair is a birth mistake, people say I'm lucky. I think I'm annoying, people say...
    Awakened92 Awakened92 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Well of course i'd be shocked. I mean i'm a bit insecure and i have low self esteem. Honestly, i'm only shocked when an attractive person (guy) thinks i'm good looking. Mostly ugly...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Im tired of being ugly. Boys think I'm ugly... EVERYONE thinks im ugly. I look at myself in the mirror and I dont even think im attrative. Im fat too. I need to loose like 25...
    bubblegumbetch bubblegumbetch 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Yep! I usually feel like i'm repulsive! I don't feel like I look very attractive at all so when someone flirts with me I usually am so dense to it! I always think it's a joke even...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm 5'6" and weigh 240 lbs I'm Irish by blood and have a lot of body hair. My eyes are blue my hair is brown and red if you get the light right and the 240 is fat not muscle. Put...
    draganaeros draganaeros 22-25, M Apr 7

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    I look like some garbage bag with a paper bag with a face. I just think of myself of some nerdy, geeky, idiot Otaku. And since I'm Asian, people think I'm not so attractive.
    baconOtaku baconOtaku 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't think I'm attractive. Some people think I am. But I don't
    ashleyrocksxoxo ashleyrocksxoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It makes me so upset when people feel bad about what they looked like. I think that every single one of us is attractive just the way we are !! It only takes the right person to...
    dreamsandmagic dreamsandmagic 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Smiling is confidence. Not in a cocky way, a sincere way. It's very attractive. Very approachable.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I always wonder where I could meet attractive people - when I'm single. I'm successful, fit, attractive. It seems like there aren't any men that are a good match for me out there?
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Smiling is contagious and makes someone much more attractive. It brightens up my day to see someone smile. I especially love when the person your crazy about smiles at you. The...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    Smiling can make the ugliest person attractive and the darkest day brighter. Why don't we smile more? Why do we have to be so serious? Here, let me put a SMILE on that face.
    SouthlandNative SouthlandNative 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Women are always crazy about accessories that will enhance their looks and high heels shoes are top on their list. The stiletto heels have always been hot favourite among...
    cabrielking cabrielking 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    So this experience sounds a bit objectified towards British men so I am going to try my best to not objectify them but I do confess that most men that I find attractive just so...
    JamiLynn23 JamiLynn23 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ever since I have had to stay on the hospital on and off for kidney failure, I haven't felt the slightest but attractive. Not sexy or hot or beautiful or even pretty. Just sickly...
    cartermurrows cartermurrows 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I believe smiling is very attractive and cool when this act of kindness is performed by others. Brightening up another's day is what it is all about. There are days when we all...
    olderpregnantmom olderpregnantmom 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Honestly no one aside from family had ever told me that until I was about 18. I'd been holla'd at by guys in cars, but that's not the same at all. I was a weird kid. Not...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I've never been the most attractive guy and I knew it. In high school I was overweight and I really didn't care to ask anyone out because I knew what the answer would be. After...
    Jbsc21 Jbsc21 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Somedays i feel attractive Even sexy. But most of the time i don't feel attractive. I need new clothes, i need to work out, and i need to start eating healthy...all these skinny...
    stinabobina stinabobina 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I fins it attractive ^.^ Just not to the point where it's extreme. But I am like a sucker for guys with snake bites in particular.
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F Apr 4

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    It's always been a problem for me to accept when people find me attractive. Like the other day some guy was like 'dang you so sexy sweetheart!' And I just found really weird :s
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I always see myself as average-looking and usually try to blend in to the background. Because of that, it can be very surprising when someone tells me I look attractive. I'm not...
    smilingirl smilingirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm always confused as to why some people find me attractive! While I appreciate it, I can't help but wonder, y'know? I'm not the best looking person in the world ;/////; but it's...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Yes. I think this so much! It started with an app called Whisper. It's an app where you post all of your secrets anonymously. I posted one once about my growing depression, and...
    rebellovesong259 rebellovesong259 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I don't understand this war that rages among women. Why must we judge one another or insult one another? Why can't we be happy for a woman who is gorgeous or has worked hard to...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 4

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    I think serial killers or psychopaths are attractive. Even when they say people are merely instruments, materials to them. When people like that or who has a resemblance to those...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    I can't stop thinking of my master. He is my world, I would give up everything for him. He may be a little older than me but I truly love him and I feel that he loves me too. If he...
    792kiss 792kiss 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I do .. People actually think I pretty ..but I really cant see it ,well If they think I am ..let it be !! I is shocking when you see your self in a way ..and people see you in a...
    ludee94 ludee94 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    I do not like her like that but I do think she is very pretty
    ILoveBaxter ILoveBaxter 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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