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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    I think that is one of the things

    that most attracted me to my wife 30 years ago, she was 16 and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen, she just dressed in a pretty, modest and even plain and a bit odd way. She stood out from the other girls, she was just different, even in summer it was long sleeves...
    mistermisery mistermisery 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2014

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2014

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    My other picture got deleted. Lol. But I ain't like it anyways. So what yall think?
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    I don't have a dp but if u wanna see a pic of me just message me and il send you one, let me know what you think ?
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    I don't wanna know if I'm attractive... Just a selfie4u
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    Some days I feel like I'm attractive, but most I don't. Some people have called me attractive and it really boost my confidence. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't put me on a pedestal...
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    Hey girls I want to know if you think I'm attractive :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey girls I want to know if you think I am attractive :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Here goes nothing! I'm just a curious person lol. Do you think I'm attractive ???
    nicole2020 nicole2020 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't think I look good what do y'all think
    mariner31 mariner31 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I want to know if you think I'm attractive cause I don't think I am
    butterflypink butterflypink 16-17, F 15 Responses Jul 25

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    Well I'm actually quite curious am I attractive?
    spankedteenboy spankedteenboy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 24

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    The answer to you question people is YES & NO. Not everyone one in the world will find you attractive. But looks only count for the first few minutes of meeting someone. It's the...
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69 26-30, M Jul 24

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    This is fun! Do you think I'm attractive?
    CandiReal CandiReal 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 24

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    I always have felt like the ugly duckling... now I feel I have kinda grown into myself ... so yea am I attractive to you?
    alyssamae90 alyssamae90 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 24

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    I attract others like flies. It doesn't matter what I'm wearing, or what I'm doing. Unless I am looking down and am avoiding eye contact and smiling, people catch my eyes and...
    AlwaysNastasya AlwaysNastasya 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Sometimes it's just nice to hear a few people tell you your beautiful. It's a boost of confidence. So I want to know if you think I'm attractive.
    Ariesgirl81 Ariesgirl81 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 21

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    What do you think? 😂😂😂
    mindstruggle mindstruggle 22-25, F 68 Responses Jul 21

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    Yeah, having quite a bit of problems with my self-image lately. If you think I'm unattractive, please at least tell me what it is so maybe I can try and fix it or something...
    chelsea768 chelsea768 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    What colour eyes do you think I have.. Having a debate green/hazel/brown
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 20

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    What d'ya think ?
    xxmonkeynessxx xxmonkeynessxx 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    I usually don't care what people think of me. But my mum said something just before and it's made me wonder. So I'd like all opinions. I won't answer seedy stuff
    LittleBeelzebub LittleBeelzebub 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 18

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    What do you think? Ok. I guess I'm looking for attention but hey, that's what I got.
    Shilfer Shilfer 16-17, F 42 Responses Jul 18

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    Eww😷😷... Comment... I don't think it looks good
    emlovesriding emlovesriding 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 17

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    What a throwback ! I think I was about 4 in this. Look how cuteeee
    BriGags BriGags 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Can I ever find a girl who can de-virginise me? :-)Am I attractive?
    ShynessVirgin ShynessVirgin 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 15