I Think Modesty Is Attractive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 522 People

    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2014

    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter
    22-25, F
    Jul 23, 2014

    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2012

    Honestly, I am more attracted to girls

    who don't show off their body. I care about their mind and personality, plus beliefs too.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2016

    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

    You don't have to be indecent to be attractive.

    You don't need to lace your words with profanity and vulgarity to be heard. I think women who dress and act with propriety show respect and dignity for oneself and others. One can express their views articulately without shouting it or demeaning others, that's why to me, modesty...
    WynterSolstice WynterSolstice
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2015

    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 1, 2010

    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

    It is not an easy to find quality these.

    days I am really lucky to have a modest woman. It is one of her traits that I love the most.
    Cierzo Cierzo
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Mar 17, 2016

    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2011

    Most people today have no class

    or self-respect for themselves.
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2015


    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 28, 2014


    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 19, 2013

    I think that is one of the things

    that most attracted me to my wife 30 years ago, she was 16 and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen, she just dressed in a pretty, modest and even plain and a bit odd way. She stood out from the other girls, she was just different, even in summer it was long sleeves...
    mistermisery mistermisery
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 2, 2014

    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2012

    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2010

    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2014
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