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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I think that is one of the things

    that most attracted me to my wife 30 years ago, she was 16 and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen, she just dressed in a pretty, modest and even plain and a bit odd way. She stood out from the other girls, she was just different, even in summer it was long sleeves...
    mistermisery mistermisery 41-45, M Oct 2

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I just gave a young teenage girl advice here on how to be attractive. This is from my humble point of view and obviously my own trials and errors. Was wondering if perhaps my views...
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    What I find attractive, I'll separate in 2 categories; Visually and Personality. Visually: Being a straight 18 year old, I find certain things attractive in females. Females that...
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    So do you think i'm attractive? :D
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    Do you think I'm attractive lol 😝
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    Am i attractive? 1-10 ( i dont think i am:(
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    I know i am attractive but at times i feel like I'm not because I'm so thin :( i have a fast metabolism & its so hard for me to gain weight. What do u think?
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    Am I attractive since I've cut my hair?
    enoch1005 enoch1005 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 20

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    I know am attractive please don't get it twisted!: ) it personally interest me to read or hear what other people opinions of me are.. So positive or negative opinions are highly...
    Vezem Vezem 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 28

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    Maybe you could rate? Just wondering what would be considered attractive for asians
    Nought Nought 18-21, M 5 Responses Sep 29

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    Me (in white) and my bestfriend (in black) And we already know that we are attractive.. Angry ***** in.. 3.. 2.. 1...
    leohobs leohobs 26-30, F 18 Responses Oct 3

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    What the hell, might as well do it right? Am I attractive or nah?
    Janasai Janasai 18-21, F 19 Responses Oct 4

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    Am I attractive or naw #2fab4u
    Myanaconda99 Myanaconda99 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    Am I really attractive? I know guys say it, but really?
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    Like, am, even though I know black guys aren't generally seen as attractive...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Mama thinks I'm model material. What do you think?
    TheWhimsicalHeart TheWhimsicalHeart 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    I think this group needs to end. Honestly I don't think it's benefiting people in the way it was intended too. Many older man are commenting on girls my age photos and its just...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F 36 Responses Oct 10

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    what do u think?  1-10?  just curious.. i mean i don't think im ugly or anything but well i just wanna know lol
    CuteMandi CuteMandi 13-15, F 130 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well, what does everyone think?????
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 20

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    I was wondering if you guys think it's suits me lol
    BraedenPhillips BraedenPhillips 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Guys what do you think? Do I look hot?
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    So, guys, what do you think?
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22

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    I don't think I look cute :(
    Lewisukbro Lewisukbro 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 22

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    Am I????? I really don't know. What do you people think???
    bloodofcour bloodofcour 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 22

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    A lot of girls don't even bother to look at me. I don't think I am cute :(
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M 7 Responses Sep 22

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    Good or bad, what do y'all think?
    aparadiso08 aparadiso08 22-25, F 27 Responses Sep 23

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    Just wondering what people think... Please be honest
    red00 red00 16-17, F 19 Responses Sep 26

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