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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2014

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    I think that is one of the things

    that most attracted me to my wife 30 years ago, she was 16 and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen, she just dressed in a pretty, modest and even plain and a bit odd way. She stood out from the other girls, she was just different, even in summer it was long sleeves...
    mistermisery mistermisery 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Everybody's perspective of modesty is different.

    What's modest or immodest to you may be modest or immodest to the next person. Actually if you think about it, modesty is more of an opinion than fact. Who in this world can give me a solid proven fact of what modesty is? Yes, it tells you how to dress, but it does not say...
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2014

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    Its strange that how so many peoples here , want to know that either they are attractive or not .. so many peoples i met in life specially girls, are always speaking about they...
    Feelslike90sagain Feelslike90sagain 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Seriously... Don't post here and ask for opinions on how you look if you can't handle the fact that different people have different opinions on what is attractive. NOT EVERYBODY...
    jo5h jo5h 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 2

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    I was wondering what face would be most attractive in my circle of friends. I'm doing this PURELY because I am legitimately curious. So, if you don't mind, rate them in order of...
    OBuddyOpal OBuddyOpal 13-15, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think I'm more attractive this way. What do you think? ._.
    CalderReed CalderReed 13-15, M 5 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Do you think I'm attractive? I've been told I am and told I am not
    funmonday funmonday 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 2

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    I saw everyone else doing this so i wanted to try ... do you guys think I'm attractive? Don't tell me I'm attention seeking or need to realize it for myself >.< I just wanna...
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F 16 Responses Jan 2

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    I honestly don't care of people find me attractive or not I love the way god made me Everyone needs to understand that god made us all beautiful in our own way :) So everyone is...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Vanity aye? Never been the most attractive guy but I feel like my personality picks up the slack, or maybe thats just wishful thinking lol
    Kafkadreams210 Kafkadreams210 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    No...I didnt forget to post a photo of me... What I would like to know doesnt have to do at all with looks, by the way, the ones posting their photos, most of them taken from...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I just would like to know what every one thinks because apparently I am not attractive in any way if I have never had a serious relationship or actual boyfriend so please help me...
    bdsmlover009 bdsmlover009 13-15, F 16 Responses Jan 5

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    Hi! Ladies, do you think i´m attractive? :) Be honest please! :)
    buzus buzus 31-35, M Jan 6

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    I am attractive?. My family tells me I am a dog. I think I am princess.
    reydog reydog 46-50, F 20 Responses Jan 7

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    Be honest please guys. Do you think I'm attractive? :p
    kaleidoscopic21 kaleidoscopic21 13-15, F 18 Responses Jan 8

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    Do you think she's attractive? Her name is Rose Byrne. She's an actress I believe.
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 16

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    Well, it's been awhile since I posted my last experience about this topic. During that time, I became legal- finally!!! So, I would like to know if you think I'm attractive. Please...
    Leopard3487 Leopard3487 18-21, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    So any of you guys think I'm attractive at all?
    Lushxd Lushxd 16-17, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just woke up lol In my opinion I'm pretty. I have flaws but who doesn't? It took me a long time to be comfortable with my appearance and I had a rough time when I was a teenager...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 161 Responses 1 day ago

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    Am I attractive I have had that question in the back of my mind for a long time
    Hanily11 Hanily11 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Don't you notice when a women ask if there attractive it's usually 30-50 years old answers
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    For all of you losers who constantly come to this experience category that clearly states "I want you to know if I'm attractive" and write the exact same meaningless comments "get...
    3dayweekend 3dayweekend 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Be honest attractive or nah?
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M Jan 20

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    I'm curious as to what your opinions are. Am I attractive or not?
    QuilltonX QuilltonX 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Come onn. You guys can't deny that I'm attractive ;) btw I haven't gotten to brush my teeth in a while so don't mind them
    dvkota dvkota 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Do I look attractive or slutty :D
    ElleTheLizard ElleTheLizard 18-21, F 22 Responses 5 days ago

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    I didn't realize I have been comparing myself to my friends my entire life. I am on the left. I feel very insecure because my 3 year old daughter said my friend here on the right...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 47 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Hey everyone do u think this is a good body just started working out and would like to know what u all think :)
    MRDeclano MRDeclano 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I hate photoshop lol!!! Can make you look so perfect, turn ugly into dreamy, make the old look young etc. I was wearing fancy cloths and I was thinking " hey you look good" well...
    Mixedemotions2k Mixedemotions2k 13-15, M 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Most of the girls posting this crap are so worried about what other people think. I'm not the most confident girl but I don't go around posting a picture of myself for old horn...
    kkam34 kkam34 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 11 </