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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Everybody's perspective of modesty is different.

    What's modest or immodest to you may be modest or immodest to the next person. Actually if you think about it, modesty is more of an opinion than fact. Who in this world can give me a solid proven fact of what modesty is? Yes, it tells you how to dress, but it does not say...
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    I think that is one of the things

    that most attracted me to my wife 30 years ago, she was 16 and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen, she just dressed in a pretty, modest and even plain and a bit odd way. She stood out from the other girls, she was just different, even in summer it was long sleeves...
    mistermisery mistermisery 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    a little old but whatever. I feel like I'm not really that attractive but I'm not ugly either ha?
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    alejandraXD alejandraXD 16-17, F 23 Responses Dec 8

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    lovedyoumom lovedyoumom 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    ninjajudtin ninjajudtin 22-25, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    denimman2014 denimman2014 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 8 Responses Nov 20

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    Does anyone think I'm hot or nah
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    Hey, just wondering what other people think when they see me. Am I someone you'd date, girls? Or not?
    Misterbluuee Misterbluuee 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 20

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    Why the hell not. Thinking of changing my hair to a different colour soon.
    Mselisa Mselisa 16-17, F 55 Responses Nov 20