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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Modestly Dressing My Wife

    We decided a long time ago that a dress code that presented her in modest fashions was an important part of her becoming a more proper wife and over the years we introduced a standard dress code that set how she should be dressed modestly in fashions that please me (and her). She...
    noelfrax noelfrax 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 9

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Sometimes when I see a woman dressed modestly I

    find it more of a turn on than if she'd be dressed imodestly , as if I have to use my imagination to imagine what is being covered by her clothes.
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    RoxannaDW RoxannaDW 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Related Experiences

    Okay so Im posting again. Some people told me that they cant really give me their opinion because the last photo had effects and makeup on it. So this time... Its an ordinary pic...
    gotawishy gotawishy 16-17, F 17 Responses Jul 20

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    When i say this group i laughed , but i said hey why not . So to the woman on this site may i ask . Do you think im attractive?
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    If you honestly think im attractive i want you to tell me so i can show you the true ugly in me lol jk but let me know (:
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F 28 Responses Jul 13

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    Do you think im attractive?
    cheysweetheart cheysweetheart 13-15, F 12 Responses Jul 21

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    I know I'm about a get a whole bunch of you sayin I'm desperate.. But it's cool! Think what you want to think!(':
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22 13-15, F 8 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Just wondering if anyone thinks I'm attractive? No rude comments please or sarcastic ones. But hey if you think I'm attractive hmu.
    joshmygosh joshmygosh 18-21, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Who doesn't want to know the answer to this question. You must admit that you've longed to post on this subject; you've seen this topic and you've wondered who will find you...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    This picture is pretty lame but I guess it fits the 'attractive' pose altho Im having doubts if I really am...uh attractive? Loool ㅠㅠ😅
    gotawishy gotawishy 16-17, F 28 Responses Jul 12

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    Haha everyone else is doing it so I may as well! Am I attractive? I don't find myself attractive but I wanna know your thoughts :)
    MyOwnSpectrum MyOwnSpectrum 16-17, M 14 Responses Jul 12

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    I personally don't think im that attractive to be honest but I would love to hear what others think just a rating 1-10 will do :)
    MCDC1990 MCDC1990 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    Am I attractive....? I don't think so but maybe other people might think so..... TADA! Here it is
    Weretiger Weretiger 26-30 1 Response Jul 12

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    I honestly have no clue whether I'm attractive but I'd like an honest answer I think I'm about average.
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M 9 Responses Jun 29

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    Hey I want to know if any of you think I'm attractive
    Elisharocks12 Elisharocks12 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 30

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    Do you think I'm attractive? ((:
    ControversialBitch ControversialBitch 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 5

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    UNPOPULAR OPINION TIME: I've noticed people tend to be nice and say you're pretty just because they feel bad. I've noticed, that usually, you can tell by the number of hearts on...
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 80 Responses Jul 5

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    What do you think? I've been told I was attractive but not sure if I really am
    artsyintolerable artsyintolerable 13-15, M 5 Responses Jul 6

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    Does anyone think I'm attractive because I have really bad insecurities with myself and I really wanna know if I am :) be honest wanna know the truth
    brittyb97 brittyb97 16-17, F 47 Responses Jul 8

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    Am I attractive? I think I'm ugly
    batmans69 batmans69 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Why are there so many people in the 13-15 age range wanting to know if us strangers think y'all are attractive? Honestly most of y'all are cute in a slight awkward way because your...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 10

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    It wouldn't hurt to know what y'all think haha. Am I attractive or naw?
    HunterMoore HunterMoore 16-17, M 12 Responses Jul 11

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    I personally don't think I'm attractive, but I want your opinions. I'm bi and no, I am not wearing a tiny hat lol it's just in the background
    CodyWolf777 CodyWolf777 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm DJ Stevo and my debut mixtape is coming.Do you think I'm attractive?
    YourFavouriteWhiteBoy YourFavouriteWhiteBoy 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    In the name of curiousity, do you think im an attractive? Somehow i always doubt it when my friends told me so. Thanks for the answer.
    gomezonfire gomezonfire 22-25, F 34 Responses Jul 13

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    I have never been called ugly or attractive . ( i jus wanna know what do u think about me ?
    patrickpatterson patrickpatterson 18-21, M 9 Responses Jul 13

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    You think some people do this for attention? I can't believe people need complete strangers to tell them they're attractive. Smh.😐👎
    Mikaylaxo Mikaylaxo 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    am I attractive? If you think so hmu
    joshmygosh joshmygosh 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Well do you think I'm attractive?
    KingJones97 KingJones97 16-17, M 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    What I don't understand is, beauty isn't all about showing skin or your hair done or the duck face, or sticking your tongue out. If it's you then it's okay, but if your doing...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sadly i hate my appearance, what do you guys think? A gay emo asian girl lol :P Idk im feeling ugly lately, am i attractive? Never once thought so.
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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