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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Sometimes when I see a woman dressed modestly I

    find it more of a turn on than if she'd be dressed imodestly , as if I have to use my imagination to imagine what is being covered by her clothes.
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 9

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Well, what does everyone think?????
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    I'm noticing a trend of youngsters asking if they're attractive. The answer for the 2500 of you is yes, some one is out there waiting for you. Now get back to your studies. Cause...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    What do U guys think? Am I attractive? Just give the Truth I can handle it I just wanna see what people think.
    ToxicTurtle ToxicTurtle 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 24

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    Look I don't need someone's approval to think I'm pretty. And I'm not going to ask random people on the internet to think if I'm beautiful enough to go out if public and show my...
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    What do you girls think? If you think I'm attractive message me :)
    baller3454 baller3454 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 6

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    What do you girls think? Message me if you think I'm attractive :p
    baller3454 baller3454 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 7

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    Well actually, my dog wants to know if he's attractive or not. So what do y'all think?. (Ladies, he's single btw) 😏😉
    DaltonCraig DaltonCraig 18-21, M 11 Responses Aug 23

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    Why do people post in here, when they know they are attractive? Like it obvious you think your pretty, cause your boobs are hanging out. & the whole look your making with your face...
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    ? 😁 anyone think I'm attractive ?
    mdavis1029 mdavis1029 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    Just want to say that there's no need to idolize the people we see in the media or have to critique ourselves based on impossible standards. Every single One of you is beautiful...
    helloimdeupi helloimdeupi 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 25

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    Do u think I'm attractive ?
    Tistana Tistana 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Yo, do you all think I'm purdy or what? If not, how can I become attractive? XD
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 26 Responses Aug 31

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    I seriously don't think people find me attractive.... do they?
    WhitBit123 WhitBit123 18-21, F 27 Responses Sep 3

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    Lets make this a better question I want to know what you think is most attractive about me. Don't rate just say ______ feature and why don't, rate just answer . I know I'm...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 7

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    I don't think I am that cute or that attractive
    Lewisukbro Lewisukbro 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Do you think I'm attractive? XD XD XD
    forders forders 13-15, F 23 Responses Sep 11

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    I want to know if you think I'm a attractive with out you ever seeing my face. An applause to you if you understand what's I'm implying
    internetrodo internetrodo 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    I think I'm relatively attractive. I just like posting photos and meeting new people
    Roseandrea Roseandrea 18-21, F 31 Responses 3 days ago

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    I still don't know weather people seriously find me attractive or if they're just messing with me.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 15 Responses Aug 20

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    I just want to know if people find me attractive, so tell me I'm pretty!
    JMatthews99 JMatthews99 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Hello beautiful people. Just wondering which image looks better, and could you also say whether I'm attractive or not, it might cheer me up
    InMiseryWeSeekBacon InMiseryWeSeekBacon 16-17, M 7 Responses Aug 22

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    Aren't I attractive? xD ;3
    TheOnlySmartKing TheOnlySmartKing 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Do you find me attractive?
    jakeyd125 jakeyd125 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    This is what attractive is :)
    maurylight maurylight 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 29

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    Ok last one went missing lol but here it is again. I remember hearing I was ugly and at times I heard I was cute so don't lie am I attractive or not? This pic or profile pic your...
    thingy1jrc thingy1jrc 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 30

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    Attractive or nahhhh lol ^^
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 72 Responses Aug 31

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    This Bothers Me... Everyone Honestly Tells Guys Their Opinion. But If Its A Girl.. Everyone Has Something To Say Like... •She's Fishing For Compliments. •Insecurity Isn't...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    It isn't about your body, not how big your boobs are your how tiny your waist is or big butt. It's not about the make up or if you have blue eyes. It's not about if your black...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    I'm soooo attractive and you know it's true I'm just so fab
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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