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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Modesty creates mystery,

    a desire to pursue & discover the hidden treasures.
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 9

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Sometimes when I see a woman dressed modestly I

    find it more of a turn on than if she'd be dressed imodestly , as if I have to use my imagination to imagine what is being covered by her clothes.
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 16

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I'm a straight male. does any female think Im attractive?
    ollie27 ollie27 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Ok last one went missing lol but here it is again. I remember hearing I was ugly and at times I heard I was cute so don't lie am I attractive or not? This pic or profile pic your...
    thingy1jrc thingy1jrc 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    This is not a cry for attention, this is a cry for advice. If I wanted random people to start telling me that I'm attractive I would post this in 'I want to know if you think I'm...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 6 Responses Aug 6

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    Why do you need complete strangers to tell if you're attractive? Obviously you must have low self esteem. It doesn't matter about your looks anyhow. Society wants you to think that...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 1

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    Am I attractive? Girls always say I'm cute but does it mean I'm attractive or am I like a little puppy cute?
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 15

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    What do U guys think? Am I attractive? Just give the Truth I can handle it I just wanna see what people think.
    ToxicTurtle ToxicTurtle 13-15, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Look I don't need someone's approval to think I'm pretty. And I'm not going to ask random people on the internet to think if I'm beautiful enough to go out if public and show my...
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate how some people post in here saying that everyone in here is an attention seeker or is just posting about their little insecurities. Honestly, posting pics of yourself...
    ItsSarahYeah ItsSarahYeah 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    Soooo do you think i'm attractive? I'm so desperate to know..........lol
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 13

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    Actually I don't care wether you think I'm attractive or not. I don't need to be validated for my looks by you. I'm very happy with how I look.
    Krist0f Krist0f 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    You know, I'm really self-concious about how I look, so I really want you to tell me how attractive you think I am...I know it's an interesting angle and I know that it's really...
    piecestothepuzzles piecestothepuzzles 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 14

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    Actually I wanna know if you think my Chevys attractive 😍😍😍 dat *** tho
    Karianne6614 Karianne6614 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I want to know if you think I'm attractive lol.
    themFeels themFeels 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 18

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    I want to know if u think I'm attractive 😎a
    Anthonyverdin Anthonyverdin 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm wondering how many girls think I'm attractive
    shadowstalker6890 shadowstalker6890 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Well actually, my dog wants to know if he's attractive or not. So what do y'all think?. (Ladies, he's single btw) 😏😉
    DaltonCraig DaltonCraig 18-21, M 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why do people post in here, when they know they are attractive? Like it obvious you think your pretty, cause your boobs are hanging out. & the whole look your making with your face...
    MaggieTaylor22 MaggieTaylor22 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    ? 😁 anyone think I'm attractive ?
    mdavis1029 mdavis1029 13-15, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just want to say that there's no need to idolize the people we see in the media or have to critique ourselves based on impossible standards. Every single One of you is beautiful...
    helloimdeupi helloimdeupi 16-17, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    So my girlfriend said to me I look like a lady killer. But I have doubts that im as attractive as she says I am
    NathanHaymes NathanHaymes 18-21, M 9 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm completely comfortable with who I am but I have no idea if the average person finds me attractive so I'm just curious. Good or bad, I can take it :P
    arshar94 arshar94 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    Am I attractive? Be honest...
    Adamexxx Adamexxx 13-15, M 19 Responses Aug 1

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    Hahah just yes or no am I attractive??
    AaronBennett AaronBennett 13-15, M 22 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm not the most attractive girl out there I know, but this is me, and I wouldn't change for anyone ;)
    Ellamira Ellamira 16-17, F 16 Responses Aug 10

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    Was just wandering if anyone out there actually finds me attractive? :)
    Swilletts11 Swilletts11 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Okay the title might sound a bit misleading.. I don't want to know if I'm attractive its just people keep saying this picture is fake and I stole it and I didn't and it's annoying...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm really not air headed or want to know if I'm attractive or not, I just want to make y'all smile! I'm such a weirdo. I can't believe I'm posting this. Oh well. Live. Love. Laugh...
    mattinthehat mattinthehat 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Who do I look the most like?? Obviously I'm the top right. And how old would guess me at and the one who looks most like me at. Wand who is more attractiver out me and the one who...
    MyDesireIsHim MyDesireIsHim 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 18

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    HI!!!!!! i'm ok with how i look, but if you're reading this, you don't need others telling you if you look attractive or not. be happy with what you look like (:
    queentheresa queentheresa 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't care if i'm attractive but i just wanna you to tell me if if u like my style wearing those clothed do i look good in them or not :) (this picture was taken in my sister...
    DarkHawkSLO DarkHawkSLO 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 19

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