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I Think Modesty Is Attractive

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    Modesty

    Whispers so silky soft... Reserved nature enthrals..  A warm-tender smile Calm and unassuming  Loyalty rules it. No room for OTT Modesty screams volumes to the rest... Modesty is wise,.  integrity and sweetness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    I know. That's rare I guess.

    But as far as long term situations go, modesty is so damn mysterious and sexy. I cover myself up, but I'm pretty toned. If I were ever allow a girl in, she'd appreciate that modesty. Right? Because I could never be okay with being loved more for physical traits than emotional...
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2014

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    Modesty, to a certain extent,

    is incredibly classy and refined. I still wear bikinis to the beach, but I make sure that I'm not scantily clad at any time. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2014

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    You don't have to be indecent to be attractive.

    You don't need to lace your words with profanity and vulgarity to be heard. I think women who dress and act with propriety show respect and dignity for oneself and others. One can express their views articulately without shouting it or demeaning others, that's why to me, modesty...
    WynterSolstice WynterSolstice 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    Modesty Is A Must!

    i am totally all for modesty! let's leave something for the imagination - something for the special someone. i try to teach my step-daughter modesty she is 10 i've known her since she was 2 married her dad when she was 4. i've always made her wear shorts under dresses and skirts...
    Momwink Momwink 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Dress To Show You Respect Yourself...

    If you deliberately dress like a hooker, you are going to attract trashy men. There is absolutely no advantage in dressing like that to attract a man, Let's be real....If you dressed a donkey up in a short skirt, it would get a date in some dodgy clubs :) For me, the smart money...
    est941 est941 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Refreshing

    In a world where seemingly all girls, even 12 year olds- act and dress like hookers, I find modesty attractive. I like it when there's something left to the imagination.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Its Attracts The Right Guys

    I think the not so nice guys look for the girls who show way to much skin and there clothes hug there bodies but the good guys look at the pretty girl who hide her figure for her future husband Thats what my mom told me
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    While at lunch today (Chilpolte) I noticed you

    sitting with your friends. I'm assuming they were your friends. You were so different than the rest. The other women were doing their best to be noticed in their dress. All lower cut, tons of make up. You, simple blouse, very little make up if at all, you had on a hint of...
    smilestoenjoy10 smilestoenjoy10 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    I Like The Avatar

    there is nothing wrong with the experience avatar,  she is not amish looking but rather she looks like a feminine homemaker.  many women dress like her including myself.  my husband requires modesty and femininity.  If I don't look like a feminine modest women in any dress my...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Honestly, I am more attracted to girls

    who don't show off their body. I care about their mind and personality, plus beliefs too.
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Being Modest Is Being Our Usual, Attractive Selves

    In the same vein as my belief that there's too much emphasis placed on artificial rather than natural beauty, I don't think women and men have to get dressed to the nines, or to wear the most recent "in" choices in fashion and footwear to be considered attractive. ...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2009

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    Ok, Not As Modest As The Avatar For This Story!

    I just think you don't have to show all you have to be attractive........I feel dang sexy (attractive) when I'm modestly dressed but my clothes fit in such a way as to reveal my figure without showing skin! Skin comes later........
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    Most people today have no class

    or self-respect for themselves.
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    Modesty Beyond Just Dress

    Here is my confession,  my husband did not know of all of the experiences I joined.  He said that some were inappropriate for a modest lady. Although he did not disagree with any of my experiences, the stories from other member where not appropriate for me.  some are obviously...
    jumperpetti jumperpetti 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I'm Experimenting With Modesty, And It's Changed My Life!!

    "I'm a grad student getting my M.Div. at Candler Theological Seminary at Emory. I'll be turning 30 next year, and I've recently noticed that I heal more slowly, need more sleep, and have more trouble staying thin. I say I'm a feminist who doesn't buy into the beauty myth, because...
    LadyLaurenJayne LadyLaurenJayne 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I suppose it started from " body self-image"

    issues. I am still rather "slight of stature" and liked the way modest skirts and tops tended to diminish what I considered to be my "negative" aspects while accentuating my positives. It is one thing to be an underage straight "A" high school sophomore. It is another to be an...
    dressyalex dressyalex 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    While I Agree That The Avatar Is A Bit Extreeme, We're Not Amish For Goodness Sake.. But..

    I do agree that too many girls "let it all hang out" so to speak, and then wonder why they attract such jerks.. Some women aren't terribly bright in that arena..  yes it's nice to leave something to the imagination while still taking pride in your appearance and looking your...
    anaspiringwriter anaspiringwriter 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    I noticed that the most attractive people don't

    really have anything too interesting to talk about. I think people you don't notice have a lot more to offer conversation wise and personality. Pretty people spend so much time on their looks and forget about their personalities, so I think pretty people got it bad lol. You are...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    I think that is one of the things

    that most attracted me to my wife 30 years ago, she was 16 and one of the most attractive girls I had ever seen, she just dressed in a pretty, modest and even plain and a bit odd way. She stood out from the other girls, she was just different, even in summer it was long sleeves...
    mistermisery mistermisery 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    It Really Is

    Why would someone, male or female, want others to stare at them and lust over their bodies? I am a very sexual person with a healthy libido and I am single, but I still have no desire to let my butt or breasts hang out of my clothes. I want people to get to know me and like me...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2012

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's

    perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood with the most skimpiest of clothing and college men having their hands all over them. Me: What do you think about modesty? James: It's probably...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    i had this random pic in my photo album so what do yall think.😂😂😂😂
    GEOPHYSICISTMAN GEOPHYSICISTMAN 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Since I'm bored what do you think
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 60 Responses 3 days ago

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    really missing the type of weather when I could where a top like this every day!! this cold has been making me miss summer more than ever. what do you think?
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    What do you think? Not sure of the outfit .. ^o^
    Chloe1o Chloe1o 16-17, F 17 Responses 4 days ago

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     I'd like to think I am!! c: does anyone else think I am attractive, cute, ect...?
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    So what do you guy's think am I attractive
    Katelyn02 Katelyn02 22-25, F 96 Responses 5 days ago

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    ik im not attractive but eh whst do u guys think :/
    aaron4455 aaron4455 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Idk if I'm attractive or not can anyone tell me?
    Mason545 Mason545 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    In my opinion I don't think that i am
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I posted a pic before like this idk but what do y'all think
    heyitsmaddie heyitsmaddie 18-21, F 55 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't find myself attractive.
    sparksfly24 sparksfly24 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 6

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    Just curious how people think
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 6

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    don't be to mean lol but yall know what to do. what you think
    vergeofdistruction vergeofdistruction 31-35, M Feb 5

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    So what do you guys think? I have pretty low self esteem when it comes to my looks to be honest, like I'm okay with how I look and everything, but I wish I could be prettier, and I...
    galacticsplash galacticsplash 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 5

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    Just curious idk why I don't think I am personally
    Blackcheetah Blackcheetah 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    Give me an idea of what you think
    ridge1776 ridge1776 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Weight loss progress, I guess I'd like to know what other people think. I'm proud of how much I lost, yet still not completely happy with myself.
    haileyx3 haileyx3 18-21, F 60 Responses Feb 3

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    Liberating new shorter cut. What ya think?
    forbidden67 forbidden67 46-50, F 21 Responses Feb 2

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    This is not a question about if I look attractive, I just figured this was the best place to ask, if I should get a new haircut, and if I should grow it long or trim it.
    yomomma141 yomomma141 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    So I was scanning through the groups so I saw this was popular group but I see also a lot people get hate on here so what do you think?
    dynimitecookies dynimitecookies 13-15, F 15 Responses Feb 1

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