I Think My Boyfriend Doesn't Love Me Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 220 People

    andreaxdrea andreaxdrea
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    I really miss you, my world is nothing without

    you, can you please come back? Can we please go back to the jolly days that we had? :( you don't know how many times i picked up my phone, opened whatsapp, typed a message without sending.... I really want to tell you about every thing that's happening in my life, but deep...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 30, 2015

    Recently when I say "I love you" to him he says

    "ok" or "that's nice" it's really hurtful .. He use to say it back all the time
    kumaroo kumaroo
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2014

    Bored With Me

    I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now... he moved here from Germany because of work and we have been together ever since. I moved out of my parents house to get an apartment with him... For the last year he been very smothering and has to know where I have been...
    berry2469 berry2469
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2011

    Doesn't Care Anymore

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We were each others first boyfriend and girlfriend. We always had ups and downs but it just constantly seems to be down for the past few months. He blames me a lot for all of our relationship problems and says it is because I...
    aaa1s1 aaa1s1
    4 Responses Mar 30, 2012

    When we first got together,

    everything was perfect. We talked, he told me how beautiful I was at my worst, we cuddled, we kissed like there was no tomorrow. 8 months later I feel so unwanted by him, he doesn't make conversation with me, we don't go out anywhere, I barely get a peck on the cheek, we don't...
    jordlaurie93 jordlaurie93
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    I Don't Think He Cares Anymore...

    For two years and 6 months I've been seeing my boyfriend. Over the summer, I declared a break because I was tired of always fighting and I cheated. I was wrong, but in my defense we were done. I didn't plan on getting back with him, but he came to NY to try to work things out...
    neverdidateachh neverdidateachh
    18-21, F
    Jan 23, 2012

    I think my boyfriend is in love with someone

    else. He just hasn't realized it yet. He's in constant contact with his best friend Samii , always texting her and always the first to like her pictures and statuses on Facebook. Whenever I'm with him he is texting her back instantly but whenever I'm texting him it always takes...
    always1121 always1121
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2014

    I Don't Know If He Loves Me.

    I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months. We met on the internet and just clicked right from the get-go. There was never a doubt in my mind that he was the one for me. We're happy and seeing eachother as much as possible, and we talk for hours every day. He is my...
    Wounded123 Wounded123
    2 Responses May 3, 2011

    im the kind of guys who can be in love mood 24

    hours. .. i cant talk to my GF without sweet words.. she surprised me that she have cold feelings. .. some times .. she can busy all the day and go to sleep without talk to me... she ignoring me with here busy since one year... and i still try to make her care of me.. but no...
    yzn88i yzn88i
    26-30, M
    Jan 21, 2015

    I Need Strong Advice, Please Help

    me and my boyfriend have been together nearly two years, i lost my virginity to him, i have supported him 100%, I've helped him, I've nearly lost my family for him, but i just don't see him being there for me.   at the start of our relationship, we where always out and...
    xnikkix1990 xnikkix1990
    15 Responses May 30, 2008

    Feeling So Sad & Confused

    I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have been living together the same amount of time too. He is my brother-in-law's 1st cousin, so it is sort of weird how him & I ended up together. He is also 10 years older than I. He has been extremely distant the last 6 or 7...
    sadinaustin1 sadinaustin1
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2008

    I get treated like completely trash

    and he has never been able to be faithful to me and this type of stuff is what keeps me there. I really want to put an end to this cycle. Lord, please give me strength.
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for six years, mostly bad than good, and the bad times were really bad phases. He was my first serious boyfriend and I have lost my virginity to him, so it was a pretty big deal for me. In the beginning he was loving, affectionate, and selfless, and always gave me the...
    killingmesoftly92 killingmesoftly92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015

    My boyfriend would rather sleep at his mother's

    house than sleep with me. He said he misses his family and wants to stay over there for a week. This really concerns me because one day if we have kids and stuff is going to disappear to sleep at his moms
    gemicorn gemicorn
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    He really doesn't... I don't

    even have to guess, he told me. And I'm okay with it oddly enough.
    YouKnowWho15 YouKnowWho15
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2015

    I Have Lost All Hope

    In the short years of my life I though I had everything figured out but it seems I was wrong. I always though I was gonna find Mr wright and I was gonna have a happily ever after. My ferry tale has ended so soddenly. The person I was supposed to be with does not love me any more...
    Periwinkle88 Periwinkle88
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

    My boyfriend of 7 years has no respect

    for me. We have a beautiful little girl that's about to be 2 next month. I always catch him spying on his exes and other random girls. I've caught him flirting with some too. He has cheated on me plenty of times in the past. I'm still so in love with him. I'm only 22. He was my...
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Mar 27, 2014


    My partner and I have been together for over 2 years and our relationship hadn't been the best. I found out a few months back that he had cheated on me and it just broke my heart. I decided to stay with him as we has just had a baby but things just don't feel right. He tells me...
    heavanscross heavanscross
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    I Never Thought This Would Be My Story...

    I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 38 at our work 3 years ago. I remember the first time I saw him, I was new and he came up to me and said hi. First it was a crush, then I really liked him and after our first date we were a couple. The beginning was so magical and...
    DeniseS21 DeniseS21
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    I was upset the other day with my bf about

    marriage stuff. He hasnt even planned yet to talk to his parents about marrying me. And when i was crying he hugged me but he didnt say anything !! not a word! Im in a really complicated situation as I ran away from home but i dont live in my country of birth. so my visa would...
    mikapuffs mikapuffs
    22-25, F
    Feb 9, 2016


    I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years the first years we were unseperable.  Then I got use to everything and everything became a little dull for a while however he recently moved 3 hours away and we are working out this relationship somehow.  I really realize that...
    Plumeria414 Plumeria414
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2009

    In fact, I fester over

    whether he ever loved me.
    oddpodd oddpodd
    22-25, F
    Mar 5, 2016

    my boyfriend love is dead

    because he owns me some money and he has owed me that money for three months and he is not willing to pay me and he promised to pay me .but it doesnt mean he don't have money he has money...so he is quitting our love we shared
    gathii gathii
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    So He Is He Keeps Threatening Me..

    He want me to ave a termination really scared..
    halfdead101 halfdead101
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    4 years of good and bad,

    not an equal amount of both...more bad than good and most bad times were very bad times. not only are we 9 years apart, we are completely different in every single way possible. I have always thought that there should b a compromise or understanding of some sort. I have also...
    dkemama dkemama
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015

    After being together

    for a long time my boyfriend doesn't put in the loving effort like he used too. He would always take me out and spoil me with gifts but now its been over 4 months since we have gone out together. There has been plenty of times that he realizes im upset and distant and i then...
    dfe213 dfe213
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    Well first of all I love my boyfriend with all

    of my heart but lately I've been feeling like he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I try so hard to be the perfect girlfriend and I know I'm not perfect but it's killing me that I can't make him happy anymore. He's been avoiding me lately and when we do...
    Jayden3 Jayden3
    22-25, F
    Feb 7, 2014

    my boyfriend isn't the sweet caring guy he use

    to me I feel worthless to him he doesn't care I'm hurting he just makes fun or me
    sugarplum44 sugarplum44
    26-30, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    He Doesn't Notice Me Anymore

    I have been with my partner for 18 months he is 25 years older than me im 22 and he is 47,at 1st things were great i truly believed that I had met my  soulmate and I loved him because he was different....now I just dont know anymore he never notices me anymore he never tells me...
    XxBlackCat100xX XxBlackCat100xX
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2012

    K.o. Game Over... Or Is It?

    My boyfriend and I have been together not quite two years. Just like any other relationship, our relationship has gone through many changes since the beginning. At first, my boyfriend was fun loving, happy, and head over heels in love with me as in any other brand new...
    bibliomaniac1266 bibliomaniac1266
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    I don't really know what happened?

    The first 6 months was so much fun. We did things together, we partied and our sex life was amazing. When we moved away together that all changed. We hardly do anything. All he wants to do is nap allll the time. He always turns me down for sex.. Or has some excuse when I try to...
    teeballz teeballz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2014

    So Confused...

    ayooxjaelyn ayooxjaelyn
    26-30, F
    Oct 16, 2013

    He wants to have sex

    and I don't know if I want to yet :/
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 10, 2016

    I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me

    anymore. Hello everyone, me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 2 months now. In the beginning, also before we became a couple, he was very sweet and caring and like he couldn't keep his hands off me. Throughout our relationship we had a lot of fights and...
    blakexoxo blakexoxo
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2014
    fauxlady fauxlady
    26-30, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    My Boyfriend Won'T Listen To Me.

    My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot lately. It usually starts out being about something small, and then it just keeps going until he's shouting at me telling me that I'm making him jump through hoops for me. When I try to tell him that I didn't ask him to he just ignores...
    LittleHurricane LittleHurricane
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2013

    It Doesn't Feel Like My Boyfriend Loves Me Anymore.....

             My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years now and we have two amazing children together, Emilee, 4 and Ella 2 1/2 mo., they are my life. Lately I have felt as though my boyfriend doesnt love me anymore and just stays...
    emileeandellasmommy emileeandellasmommy
    29 Responses Jul 15, 2010

    He can't love me. When we first got together

    in August 2012, he couldn't love me more. It only lasted about two and a half months, but it was the best time in my life. He loved me unconditionally. I had all these problems and he helped me through every single one. He picked me over everything, he put me on a pedestal...
    AmieBeth AmieBeth
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    My boyfriend DOESN'T Try anymore,

    doesn't try to, talk, to hold hands, to Love me, We just stopped talking! Nothing more nothin less but I love him... I don't have the guts to break it off... But he doesn't feel the same way I feel. :(
    Angelinalawrence Angelinalawrence
    16-17, F
    May 8, 2014

    Everything he says, the way he treats me.

    It's just killing my feelings so much. I feel like he's walking all over me. Now he wants space from me, but I already know where this is heading..
    deteste96 deteste96
    18-21, F
    Jul 3, 2014

    Just the way things have been

    and hanging out less and his boring generic texts I feel like he doesn't like me anymore I crazy
    deleted deleted
    Dec 2, 2014

    So Confused

    So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and I feel like he has completely changed. The first year everything was great he always said he loved me and always wanted to see me and cuddle. The last year everything started going downhill. We don't go out he always says he's...
    undecided20 undecided20
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2013
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