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I Think My Boyfriend Doesn't Love Me Anymore

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    Mr. Wrong

    ever since i had mmy frist boyfriend everyones treated me like crap. ive been depressed since 5grade when i would get bullied.. i have si many birth defects and things wrong with me i use to wear a jacket in the 103 degress sun...when i was 14 i met this guy he was my only friend...
    GraciousMaria GraciousMaria 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2013

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    Maybe Just Maybe I"M Over Looking The Situation ... Idk

    NOW ME AND MY BF HAVE BEEN TOGETHER QUITE AWHILE AND THINGS ARE OK I GUESS HE'S CURRENTLY IN THE MILITARY AND OVERSEAS AT THE MOMENT. WHEN TALKING TO HIM I FEEL AS THOUGH HE HAS A NONCHALANT ATTITUDE WHEN I TELL HIM I LOVE HIM OR I MISS HIM HE WOULD SOMETIMES LAUGH AS THOUGH MY...
    ayooxjaelyn ayooxjaelyn 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I don't really know what happened?

    The first 6 months was so much fun. We did things together, we partied and our sex life was amazing. When we moved away together that all changed. We hardly do anything. All he wants to do is nap allll the time. He always turns me down for sex.. Or has some excuse when I try to...
    teeballz teeballz 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I Need Strong Advice, Please Help

    me and my boyfriend have been together nearly two years, i lost my virginity to him, i have supported him 100%, I've helped him, I've nearly lost my family for him, but i just don't see him being there for me.   at the start of our relationship, we where always out and...
    xnikkix1990 xnikkix1990 16-17 15 Responses May 30, 2008

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    I've Been Feeling It For A While...

    Me and my boyfriend have been in an off and on relationship for 3 years. For the first year we were together he was so good to me, we would talk for hours online or on the phone. He was always there for me when I needed him. December of 2009 he left me for a girl when we first...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2011

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    Not Sure If He Still Loves Me

    My story Ive been with him for a yearand one month .. the first 5 or six months were great he was the sweetest he would come visit me wed saturdays nd sometimes sundays nd fridays but only for a little while cuz he works ... hebwoyld pay my fone bill was really genourous .. ok so...
    lexyia lexyia 18-21 Apr 20, 2013

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    When we first got together,

    everything was perfect. We talked, he told me how beautiful I was at my worst, we cuddled, we kissed like there was no tomorrow. 8 months later I feel so unwanted by him, he doesn't make conversation with me, we don't go out anywhere, I barely get a peck on the cheek, we don't...
    jordlaurie93 jordlaurie93 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 19

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    He can't love me. When we first got together

    in August 2012, he couldn't love me more. It only lasted about two and a half months, but it was the best time in my life. He loved me unconditionally. I had all these problems and he helped me through every single one. He picked me over everything, he put me on a pedestal...
    AmieBeth AmieBeth 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Doesn't Care Anymore

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We were each others first boyfriend and girlfriend. We always had ups and downs but it just constantly seems to be down for the past few months. He blames me a lot for all of our relationship problems and says it is because I...
    aaa1s1 aaa1s1 18-21 4 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    K.o. Game Over... Or Is It?

    My boyfriend and I have been together not quite two years. Just like any other relationship, our relationship has gone through many changes since the beginning. At first, my boyfriend was fun loving, happy, and head over heels in love with me as in any other brand new...
    bibliomaniac1266 bibliomaniac1266 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    I Never Thought This Would Be My Story...

    I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 38 at our work 3 years ago. I remember the first time I saw him, I was new and he came up to me and said hi. First it was a crush, then I really liked him and after our first date we were a couple. The beginning was so magical and...
    DeniseS21 DeniseS21 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    So He Is He Keeps Threatening Me..

    He want me to ave a termination really scared..
    halfdead101 halfdead101 26-30 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    Don't Know Where We Stand....

    My fiance and I have been together for 6 years, and I am 35 years old. There was a time when I was sure he loved me, though in retrospect, I believe this was based upon an idealized view he took of me, rather than reality. In this time I have face to relatively serious health...
    laylamariposa laylamariposa 36-40 4 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    I think my boyfriend is in love with someone

    else. He just hasn't realized it yet. He's in constant contact with his best friend Samii , always texting her and always the first to like her pictures and statuses on Facebook. Whenever I'm with him he is texting her back instantly but whenever I'm texting him it always takes...
    always1121 always1121 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    My boyfriend of 7 years has no respect

    for me. We have a beautiful little girl that's about to be 2 next month. I always catch him spying on his exes and other random girls. I've caught him flirting with some too. He has cheated on me plenty of times in the past. I'm still so in love with him. I'm only 22. He was my...
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 27

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    My Love Broke My Heart

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and best friends long before that. I love him with all of my heart, and all throughout our wonderful relationship it seemed that he did too. We went to university together in September, and it has been going really well. He is...
    abbeyisabella abbeyisabella 18-21 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me

    anymore. Hello everyone, me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 2 months now. In the beginning, also before we became a couple, he was very sweet and caring and like he couldn't keep his hands off me. Throughout our relationship we had a lot of fights and...
    blakexoxo blakexoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    Well first of all I love my boyfriend with all

    of my heart but lately I've been feeling like he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I try so hard to be the perfect girlfriend and I know I'm not perfect but it's killing me that I can't make him happy anymore. He's been avoiding me lately and when we do...
    Jayden3 Jayden3 18-21, F Feb 7

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    Love?

    My boyfriend and I have been best friends for 3 years and dating for almost two now.  I know it seems like a relationship can't form that quickly but it honestly can, him and I are inseperable.  He is an amazing swimmer holding records for our state and competing...
    MoveThisMountain MoveThisMountain 13-15 2 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Does He Love Me?

    If he did he would be here right now. If he did he would not leave me every weekend to do drugs. He would not want me to worry about him all the time. He would at least let me know he is ok... If he loved me I would not be crying my eyes out right now. He would not use me for a...
    beerox beerox 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    I've Given My All But My All Was Not Enough

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years. The first year was great. We did everything together and I felt the love. He would hold me in his arms and his eyes would light up when he looked at me. Our energy around each other was amazing. As the second year came to pass...
    Prettylonelygirl Prettylonelygirl 18-21 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Why Is He Treating Me This Way :(

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and he doesnt trust me AT ALL !!!! He cheated on me before and there's so many chicks after him telling me he's talking to them and all this other stuff so it really should be the other way around right ? But no I really trust...
    thehaze thehaze 18-21 3 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Bored With Me

    I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now... he moved here from Germany because of work and we have been together ever since. I moved out of my parents house to get an apartment with him... For the last year he been very smothering and has to know where I have been...
    berry2469 berry2469 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2011

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    I get treated like completely trash

    and he has never been able to be faithful to me and this type of stuff is what keeps me there. I really want to put an end to this cycle. Lord, please give me strength.
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    It's crazy how fast things can change.

    For 3 years I've been so in love with my boyfriend and thought he was the one. And 3 days ago that all changed.
    CookieCloud1 CookieCloud1 18-21, F Jan 3

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    I Don't Know If He Loves Me.

    I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months. We met on the internet and just clicked right from the get-go. There was never a doubt in my mind that he was the one for me. We're happy and seeing eachother as much as possible, and we talk for hours every day. He is my...
    Wounded123 Wounded123 18-21 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    So Confused...

    ​NOW HERE'S MY DILEMMA I HAVE NO FREAKING IDEA WHETHER TO CALL MYSELF SINGLE ?.... OR STILL CLAIM HIM....MY WHOLE THING IS WHEN ASKED WHERE DO WE STAND AS A COUPLE I GET I DON'T KNOW.....LIKE DUDE SERIOUSLY?????????? YOU GOTTA HAVE THE SLIGHTEST CLUE I MEAN LIKE I HAVE NO...
    ayooxjaelyn ayooxjaelyn 22-25, F Oct 16, 2013

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    It Doesn't Feel Like My Boyfriend Loves Me Anymore.....

             My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years now and we have two amazing children together, Emilee, 4 and Ella 2 1/2 mo., they are my life. Lately I have felt as though my boyfriend doesnt love me anymore and just stays...
    emileeandellasmommy emileeandellasmommy 22-25 27 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    Confused

    We've been together about 4 years now and live together.  We've always had our ups and downs and argued a fair bit but things seem to be worse lately and I feel as though he's realised he can be much happier without me. A lot of good things have happened to him lately...
    heartorspade heartorspade 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Is This It?

    My boyfriend and I have will have been together 4 years next month. We moved in together just over a year ago. Everything was going great. I was so happy. I finally found someone who finally got me. Last night he told me he loves me but he doesn't know if he is still in love with...
    bangpowboom bangpowboom 31-35 3 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Im Mot Sure If My Boyfriend Loves Me

    I have been with my bf for 2 years and 6 months. I really love him very much I have given him my whole self. At the beginning like for the first year and couple of months Ipad his world. He would tell me all the time he loves me and call me and says he misses me. With time he...
    bellisimablinda bellisimablinda 18-21 1 Response May 5, 2012

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    My boyfriend DOESN'T Try anymore,

    doesn't try to, talk, to hold hands, to Love me, We just stopped talking! Nothing more nothin less but I love him... I don't have the guts to break it off... But he doesn't feel the same way I feel. :(
    Angelinalawrence Angelinalawrence 13-15, F May 8

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    Confused

    I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years the first years we were unseperable.  Then I got use to everything and everything became a little dull for a while however he recently moved 3 hours away and we are working out this relationship somehow.  I really realize that...
    Plumeria414 Plumeria414 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    So Confused

    So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and I feel like he has completely changed. The first year everything was great he always said he loved me and always wanted to see me and cuddle. The last year everything started going downhill. We don't go out he always says he's...
    undecided20 undecided20 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    I've Tried It All, None Of It Makes A Difference To Him.

    I found this site yesterday when I was feeling down about my boyfriend of 4 years cheating on me a year ago. Confused about the hurt I was still experiencing on and off after a year had already passed had me searching for answers. Today I am feeling worse than yesterday. Not...
    Piper09 Piper09 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    I Don't Think He Cares Anymore...

    For two years and 6 months I've been seeing my boyfriend. Over the summer, I declared a break because I was tired of always fighting and I cheated. I was wrong, but in my defense we were done. I didn't plan on getting back with him, but he came to NY to try to work things out...
    neverdidateachh neverdidateachh 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    So This Is Love?

    We've been together for 9 months. Best friends for almost 3 years. If you were to ask me 6 months ago if he loved me, I wouldn't have skipped a beat. "Yes" would absolutely be my response. But, we had a fall out. He broke up with me about 2 months ago for about 3 weeks.. during...
    GoogleMaps GoogleMaps 18-21, F Apr 11, 2013

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    He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not...

    I met my boyfriend a year and a half ago a my old job. I hadn't really noticed him until one day he decided that he wanted to pursue me. Now, he was not the sort of guy I would have ever been interested in, but he seemed really nice and smart and I needed to take a chance after I...
    luckysheri luckysheri 22-25 2 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    Everything he says, the way he treats me.

    It's just killing my feelings so much. I feel like he's walking all over me. Now he wants space from me, but I already know where this is heading..
    deteste96 deteste96 16-17, F Jul 3

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    Alone

    My partner and I have been together for over 2 years and our relationship hadn't been the best. I found out a few months back that he had cheated on me and it just broke my heart. I decided to stay with him as we has just had a baby but things just don't feel right. He tells me...
    heavanscross heavanscross 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Has Changed The Way He Acts Around Me

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years things started out really good. After being together for almost 2 years I moved in with him then a few months later we got pregnant. After I had the baby things changed between us, he doesnt really talk to me much but when he...
    cupcake22711 cupcake22711 18-21 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    andreaxdrea andreaxdrea 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    He Doesn't Notice Me Anymore

    I have been with my partner for 18 months he is 25 years older than me im 22 and he is 47,at 1st things were great i truly believed that I had met my  soulmate and I loved him because he was different....now I just dont know anymore he never notices me anymore he never tells me...
    XxBlackCat100xX XxBlackCat100xX 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    I've known for a fact

    that my love life has changed. My boyfriend does not love me anymore. In relation to all of your experiences, it would mean things are going differently. Although just recently, I was curious, and frustrated that he may not be telling me the whole truth and story of the love he...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    I just don't know what to do. I found out I'm pregnant and my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex wife all within a few weeks. Oh, in my home, might I add.... On top of all that, he is just as hateful and mean as e ever was. I was so happy when I found out I was pregnant, and...
    tearlock tearlock 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Feeling So Sad & Confused

    I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have been living together the same amount of time too. He is my brother-in-law's 1st cousin, so it is sort of weird how him & I ended up together. He is also 10 years older than I. He has been extremely distant the last 6 or 7...
    sadinaustin1 sadinaustin1 31-35 3 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    My Boyfriend Won'T Listen To Me.

    My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot lately. It usually starts out being about something small, and then it just keeps going until he's shouting at me telling me that I'm making him jump through hoops for me. When I try to tell him that I didn't ask him to he just ignores...
    LittleHurricane LittleHurricane 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Hope

    In the short years of my life I though I had everything figured out but it seems I was wrong. I always though I was gonna find Mr wright and I was gonna have a happily ever after. My ferry tale has ended so soddenly. The person I was supposed to be with does not love me any more...
    Periwinkle88 Periwinkle88 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    I Think My Partner Doesn't Love Me Anymore

    I have been with my boyfriend since we were 18, and now we are 26. After dating for six months I became pregnant. We were very young and took the news quite happily. We thought it was exciting and it was destiny deciding upon us. I have never loved anyone like I love him.When our...
    lonely201111 lonely201111 26-30 1 Response Nov 18, 2011

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    I Just Dont Know Anymore. Do I Give Up Or Fight.

    I dont even know where to start. Well ill start at the very beginning. Im so sorry for the long story i just want to know you everyone thing and hopes you can understnad i am going through.I was in 7th grade and my good friend was going out with this guy. they only dated for two...
    littlemoneky77 littlemoneky77 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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