I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating On Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 303 People

    I don't want to break our trust

    because I trust him I really do it's just that I can't get rid of the thought no matter how hard I try. His ex keeps talking to him and he told me that she told him that she still loves him and wants to be with him and I'm not sure if I'm just being clingy or paranoid but he...
    MockingJade MockingJade
    13-15, F
    Mar 17, 2016

    Me and my bf always look through each other's

    phones but last week he didn't let me look through his phone and then when he went to the bathroom their was text messages like "baby I love come to me" and I took his phone hide it and then once he left I respond "this is his gf who the **** are you" and then she said a "friend...
    Valeriiee Valeriiee
    13-15, F
    Feb 21, 2016

    I Am Really Starting To Wonder

    It's really strange, but my bf and this woman that my bf has been friends with since childhood are all of a sudden calling each other frequently and they've gone out together three times recently. One time being alone in my house. Of course he talks to me about it, and has...
    someotherme someotherme
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2011

    I met him on this site.

    We've been dating for almost 10 months. He's known as deadpan46 or deadpanini. He's always deleting messages off from his phone and I think he even talks to other girls on EP and flirts with them too. In January, he saved this girl's number to his phone under a guy's name...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    So my boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 2 years. I love him and would do anything for him. I am confused whether I should stay with him or break up with him and would appreciate other's opinions. About a year ago, I stayed in Japan for a month to visit my family. When I came back home, I hung out with my bf at my...
    lonelynomoe lonelynomoe
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    He says he loves me. Miss me wants me

    but is always online looking for sex
    sladeru sladeru
    36-40, M
    Mar 21, 2014

    Is My Boyfriend Cheating? What Should I Do?

    My boyfriend and I share everything and we tell each other everything and there is lots of trust in our relationship; so i believed. Last night while on his computer i came across an email account that I've never seen of his before, which is very unusual. I didn't even want to...
    morggxo morggxo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    I cannot talk to anyone about this feel

    so sick inside with fear he is and hurt all over again. Went to his after meeting him from as soon as we get in his room it's like wtf. Someone came in front door dropped key on mat. Claims his sister and.him fallen out. But while in bathroom runs after her but she left..perfume...
    stupid28 stupid28
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2014

    I don't want to jump to conclusions.

    My friend just had a baby tho and it has black hair and tan skin. Considering that the mom is a pale redhead and the dad is blonde and pail. Leads me to think it's not the father. I asked her about it she blushes and says " it's his"
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 5, 2015

    ALL THE TIME. He's done it before

    and now that we're working on things I can't ever get the idea off my mind..
    ashleypaige11 ashleypaige11
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2014
    jabue jabue
    26-30, F
    Aug 1, 2015

    I dont know what to do.

    My boyfriend has been really impatient with me and he doesnt really have anything to talk to me about anymore. He gets really angry or frustrated at me for no reason. He doesn't call or text me like he use to anymore. Every conversation is on phone now. If i don't text or call...
    iwyndi iwyndi
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    Update...after really thinking about it I was

    about to pull the plug. Then I looked at the pros and cons of "us". More pros than cons. He's there for me, always. I've decided to work on us. I didn't tell him I know he talks to other girls. These "girls" are thousand of miles away... He includes me in all his activities. We...
    linda8a linda8a
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    astrudcc11 astrudcc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    Secrets Are the Same As Lying

    Im not sure if my man is cheating or not, but it feels like it to me. I wont say anything to him about it until I know for sure. He's been doing some weird things lately. He erases his call log. Turns his phone off when he's with me & has people calling from a blocked...
    skwyrlnuttbaby skwyrlnuttbaby
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jun 16, 2007

    What Do I Say?

    Well,Im 2 moths pregnant in college. My boyfriend knows,but we have one slight problem,his ex girlfriend has never left us alone. I recently found out that he had one of these but he doesnt know. i saw on there that he said he loves her still,no that it is more then that. I...
    queenofgrace queenofgrace
    18-21, F
    Nov 28, 2011

    Or has cheated in me.

    There was this girl that kept messaging him on Facebook and I read the messages if them calling each other cute and ****. I didn't talk to him about it. A few months later I did and he said he had a small crush on her for a few weeks but nothing happened. But I found out he kept...
    alyssakellner alyssakellner
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    My boyfriend of two years went out on a stag do

    night Saturday and was in fancy dress. He came back at 4 in the morning but did not hear him come in. Yesterday I was tidying up and picked up his outfit he wear that night to wash it and found a girls number in lipstick across the front of it and a flower necklace that smelt of...
    gee1000 gee1000
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    He's always hiding his phone from me

    and never let's me see it. :/
    JessaRayLynn JessaRayLynn
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    Funny how things work out .

    This makes third time a charm , I just read some messages between my man and the girl he just seems to can't get over .. Sucks to know he has feelings for two people. I can't help that or be against it but why complicate things and compromise a relationship trying to maintain...
    Fatalattraction Fatalattraction
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2014

    We have been together

    for 6 months now& On a long distance relationship. He is in his late 30's I'm 22 . I didn't care about his age cause we had such a strong chemistry and attractions when we met . I never been so sure that he was the one for me. we don't have a problem with it being long distance...
    veanus veanus
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    I'm torn. Torn between the fear of IF my

    boyfriend would cheat on me and torn between the fact that he is the furthest thing from a cheater.. Idk if I'm fabricating it all in my head like I seem to sometimes do... But since he got a new job, he seems to have made close friends with a female coworker.. They follow one...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alliecc11 alliecc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 4, 2015
    mermaids312 mermaids312
    18-21, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 2 years & we have a child together. There was a death in my family last week so I have to travel out of state to attend the funeral. So yesterday I logged on to facebook and someone from a fake anonymous page sent me a message asking me if I am having sex with my boyfriend...
    DvineSoul DvineSoul
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    In Shock And Dont Know What To Think

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and I love him with all my heart and he says he feels the same, we even talked about moving in together, he brought it up. But I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I found out today(by snooping) that he has signed up for 2...
    MariellConner MariellConner
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

    My boyfriends sleeping

    and he got a couple text messages from a number asking him to have sex with her and to make her his baby momma he already has two kids with two different girls what should I do :( I love him a lot and seeing that makes my stomach turn
    farmgirl2014 farmgirl2014
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    Last month he cheated on me

    and admitted that he had a lot of feelings for the other girl. (I refuse to call her a woman, she is currently harassing us and we should be filing charges at this point). Despite her harassing us, he still vents to other people about "not knowing what to do". As in leave me to...
    nadiabowls nadiabowls
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    Oh my word. I can't even describe how stupid I

    feel posting this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 year and we get on so well! Like any usual relationship we have the odd argument, but it's never over anything big. But, a few year back I found out he had been at a party with his ex. Now, I'm all for being mates...
    Binkyboo12 Binkyboo12
    1 Response Aug 6, 2014

    I hope it's paranoia,

    but the thought is consuming me. It has gotten to the point where I want to check his phone. I'm normally not one to snoop, but this could change the way I think about him and right now they aren't usually nice thoughts. A "mystery caller"phoned him last night. He tried to...
    OperationHotness OperationHotness
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    We have been together

    for 4 months but I feel like I'm not the only girl he talks to.. I have seen messages on his phone saying hey babe or I miss you from girls that weren't me.. Lately he's been ignoring me or giving me one word answers but claims he's not nor has ever cheated on me.. What should...
    Muppo23 Muppo23
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    I don't necessarily think he's cheating on me.

    ... Like I know he loves me but I think he still likes this girl he use to talk to & I'm not sure what to do about it...my question for this topic is, is it possible for someone to be in love with the person they are committed to but also like/be interested in another person? I...
    isalis37 isalis37
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    My boyfriend and I live together,

    I just recently found out I am pregnant which we did try for even though we thought I couldn't have kids. When I told him he interrupted me and said his favorite baseball team was playing. He is now very supportive about the pregnancy too. He's in the Navy and recently went back...
    LUzunov LUzunov
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    I wish I could believe you

    and I'll be alright but now everything you told me really don't apply to the way I feel inside loving you was easy once upon a time but now my suspicions of you have multiplied and it's all because you lied, just can't seem to get over the way you hurt me?don't know how you gave...
    Yalex Yalex
    18-21, F
    Apr 16, 2015

    And I Just Can't Believe It!

    Ya know I so trusted him! I should know better than to try and date an older guy who is into knights and mountains and guns and is crazier than I am. I saw the signs but I just didn't want to believe it. I mean who would... I guess denial is just so easy sometimes. It's...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 29, 2008

    My boyfriend lied to me about texting

    and messaging an ex girlfriend in the beginning of our relationship. He actually was in prison and he dated her in high school. She looked him up and discovered he was in prison and she began writing him and sending photos. She had not seen him in 13 years. She was visiting his...
    aquarius2383 aquarius2383
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    Hello everybody, and thank you

    for taking the time to read my experience and give me a piece of mind. To start, I'll talk about a little of my background. 5 years ago, I found out my boyfriend at that time, was cheating on me, so I broke up with him after spending 3 years together. That experience was very...
    misschillax misschillax
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    What would I even do

    if I found out it was true?
    ETph0neh0me ETph0neh0me
    22-25, F
    Jan 31, 2016

    I Knew Something Was Up !

    O M G !!!!   i knew something was up.  i've got so many thoughts running threw my head right now!  i need to talk but i can hardly type!  oh trust me i just heard something in the back  ground when we were talking on the phone, that i know his mom...
    ladyvent ladyvent
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Dec 5, 2009

    A couple days ago my bf left his phone near me

    and I happen to see that he received a text. I picked up his phone and looked at the text, keep in mind he's in the other room. I saw the text name under a guys name but as I'm reading the text whoever this is wants to cuddle and he's calling them baby! Wtf, this **** again. He...
    embrace1life embrace1life
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015
    kittyminro kittyminro
    13-15, F
    Aug 22, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    Reasonable Or Paranoid?

    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He always conveyed that he had been cheated on in the past and that it's hard for him to trust people-- but I was "special". He always stressed that he would never want to cheat on someone, for he didn't want someone else to...
    confused707 confused707
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

    This was the closest "experience" I could find

    that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has changed in our relationship. We've been together for almost 5 years, it's both our longest relationship. We have had our ups and downs like every...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2014

    I have been with the

    and guy for 4 years in 22 he is 28. We have had problems in the past and have been on and off. I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant and we decided to stick it out and try to work it out. A few weeks ago we got into a small argument and I told him to leave bc i didn't want to be...
    Shel122193 Shel122193
    22-25, F
    Feb 21, 2016

    I don't feel we're as close

    as we used to be. He always has his job and he's constantly busy, barely having the time for me like he used to. He already confessed that he cheated on me once, and my world came crashing down around me because of it. But I forgive him and took him back, and he was sweet...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 10, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alliecc11 alliecc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 4, 2015

    So I found this on my boyfriends phone the

    other day while me was sleeping . (I know I sound like a psycho) Anyways I confronted him and he said it's his friend and it's not a big deal . I didn't even know my be smoked week . That same day he didn't even try to hangout with me . Opinions anyone ? Is he cheating on me...
    julybeauty julybeauty
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2015
More Stories