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I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating On Me

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    Pain In My Heart

    I have a aching feeling that my bf is not only cheating on me but that he is cheating with another , I even went so far as to ask him and of course he told me no and that I was crazy for even thinking that, but I just cant shake that feeling and I dont know what to do
    nightstalker nightstalker 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2008

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    What If He Is

    Today I was doing some laundry and I was getting Trey clothes, I all was make sure he don’t leave stuff in his pants before I wash them, and I found a purple g-string in them and they are not my, I know he lets me fool around with Eric and my lesbian friends, but why would he...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    I Think My Bf Is Cheating! Advice Needed!!!!

    I usually don't write alot about my personally life on here cause I'm not really all that comfortable. But I'm confused, frustraed and have no one to turn to. (A friend i usually talk to about my problems hasn't been talking to me for whatever reason. And no i don't think its...
    Ashie Ashie 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    lol my boyfriend said he went to the bar last

    night but forgot to mention he was there with our small town ***** I'm thinking he's cheating on me. I don't want it to be true but it is what it is and I think I should get out of it if it's what I think. I can't trust him anymore
    foreverstrong17 foreverstrong17 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I Am Very Disillusioned

    I met my boyfriend online a year ago.  No pic either of us we decided it was better to get to know each other as a person first and then shared pics. Wow it was great!!! Then pics were, of course we met and it was LOVE!!! So I did suspect but everything had an explaination...
    crystal1971 crystal1971 36-40 1 Response Aug 13, 2008

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    I'm Devastated... I Think Hes Cheating.

    We have been together for a little over 6 months. We went on vacation together and on his laptop i saw messages he send to other women. one in particular that i questioned him about and he lied telling me she had a boyfriend when she doesn't. What affects me the most is the way...
    osc0208 osc0208 26-30 1 Response Mar 20, 2011

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    Besides that, he never talks about his day at

    work anymore and he is never happy. He doesn't even want to cuddle with me when we sleep and its been about 4 years. Also he has no sex drive. I dont know what to do? All i know is, he is really intelligent and smart. So i don't know if he is doing something that i dont know...
    iwyndi iwyndi 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    I'm still with my boyfriend

    even though I know he's been talking to other girls on social media sites. I feel stupid saying it, but I snooped on his Facebook and saw he was messaging other women saying "come play with me baby" or talking about seeing them a few weeks ago. It hurts. I love him so much and I...
    bme52 bme52 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    My Boyfriend And His "Friend"

    Okay, So me and my boyfriend have been date for 5 months now. And I think he is cheating. There are alot of reasons. 1. My friends been telling me stuff that they have seen or heard. 2. This girl keeps telling him to text her and posting on his pictures. And before we started...
    xXxJLDxXx xXxJLDxXx 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    And I Just Can't Believe It!

    Ya know I so trusted him! I should know better than to try and date an older guy who is into knights and mountains and guns and is crazier than I am. I saw the signs but I just didn't want to believe it. I mean who would... I guess denial is just so easy sometimes. It's...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 2 years & we have a child together. There was a death in my family last week so I have to travel out of state to attend the funeral. So yesterday I logged on to facebook and someone from a fake anonymous page sent me a message asking me if I am having sex with my boyfriend...
    M0ka M0ka 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    ALL THE TIME. He's done it before

    and now that we're working on things I can't ever get the idea off my mind..
    ayoaddi ayoaddi 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    It just doesn't make sense.

    The only evidence I have are letters from another person with my same first name. He also doesn't want me to look in his phone. He's been cheated on twice himself in the past....he doesn't know that I know about the letters. He is away with the army for another month before I...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    DanaMarshall DanaMarshall 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2010

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    Or has cheated in me.

    There was this girl that kept messaging him on Facebook and I read the messages if them calling each other cute and ****. I didn't talk to him about it. A few months later I did and he said he had a small crush on her for a few weeks but nothing happened. But I found out he kept...
    alyssakellner alyssakellner 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    This was the closest "experience" I could find

    that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has changed in our relationship. We've been together for almost 5 years, it's both our longest relationship. We have had our ups and downs like every...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Too Far?

    I know we all have our doubts and suspicions and insecurities, but something tells me this woman went too far to get hers answered. www.dontfallforthetrap.com Would anyone else do this?
    jess7878 jess7878 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2007

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    Is My Boyfriend Cheating? What Should I Do?

    My boyfriend and I share everything and we tell each other everything and there is lots of trust in our relationship; so i believed. Last night while on his computer i came across an email account that I've never seen of his before, which is very unusual. I didn't even want to...
    morggxo morggxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    Eh it's a possibility.

    . If i ever find out anything though, lol.... All i'll say is good luck to him.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Mar 15

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    I hope it's paranoia,

    but the thought is consuming me. It has gotten to the point where I want to check his phone. I'm normally not one to snoop, but this could change the way I think about him and right now they aren't usually nice thoughts. A "mystery caller"phoned him last night. He tried to...
    OperationHotness OperationHotness 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Update...after really thinking about it I was

    about to pull the plug. Then I looked at the pros and cons of "us". More pros than cons. He's there for me, always. I've decided to work on us. I didn't tell him I know he talks to other girls. These "girls" are thousand of miles away... He includes me in all his activities. We...
    linda8a linda8a 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    it's been 3 year i am with my fiancer!

    couple of months ago i got this guy who was one of is good friend write me on fb saying that my fiancer is cheating on me! at work since he work night ! and he have been with more then 5 girls that suposebly he ask to get suck and **** stuff like that but he never shows doubt he...
    alexee10 alexee10 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Basically I've been with my boyfriend a

    while now and I'm getting a feeling he is cheating on me. I have no proof but he is clingy with his phone/laptop, he is completely off with me lately&its worrying me.He is the love of my life and I don't know what to do, I've asked him about it and he denies it.He had an email...
    chealsey123 chealsey123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Reasonable Or Paranoid?

    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He always conveyed that he had been cheated on in the past and that it's hard for him to trust people-- but I was "special". He always stressed that he would never want to cheat on someone, for he didn't want someone else to...
    confused707 confused707 18-21 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    He says he loves me. Miss me wants me

    but is always online looking for sex
    sladeru sladeru 36-40, M Mar 21

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    I dont know what to do.

    My boyfriend has been really impatient with me and he doesnt really have anything to talk to me about anymore. He gets really angry or frustrated at me for no reason. He doesn't call or text me like he use to anymore. Every conversation is on phone now. If i don't text or call...
    iwyndi iwyndi 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 11

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    I Knew Something Was Up !

    O M G !!!!   i knew something was up.  i've got so many thoughts running threw my head right now!  i need to talk but i can hardly type!  oh trust me i just heard something in the back  ground when we were talking on the phone, that i know his mom...
    ladyvent ladyvent 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    A little background first: I met my current

    boyfriend while he was still dating his ex. I could tell he was into me even though he was dating her. Eventually he got my snapchat and I was his number two best friend on it, she being number one. However, I quickly replaced her as number one. I don't know for sure why they...
    SkinnyJenny420 SkinnyJenny420 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating

    Me and My Boyfriend have bin together for about 4 months and for the first 2 months everything was going great, until the past couple of months he never rings me and when i ring him hes like im busy ring me later or he never answers and he only txts me when he wants to hes always...
    Sammy0079 Sammy0079 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    My bf n I have been together

    for almost a year.. He keeps going on "long drives" n I'm worried he goes to a girls house... Also today he thought I was leaving school early n when he saw me he was like "I thought u were leaving early" n sounded anxious n disappointed
    bigca1697 bigca1697 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Oh my word. I can't even describe how stupid I

    feel posting this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 year and we get on so well! Like any usual relationship we have the odd argument, but it's never over anything big. But, a few year back I found out he had been at a party with his ex. Now, I'm all for being mates...
    Binkyboo12 Binkyboo12 22-25 Aug 6

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    Hi all... I think his cheating on me:(

    for a month now we haven't slept together... I confronted him and all he came up with was stupid replies like it's to hot or we had sex a week ago... I mean like we used to have sex all the time and now he seems so far away... He barely touches or kisses me, this makes me cry...
    Nickipeach Nickipeach 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    I've been noticing that my boyfriend

    and a girl "friend" of his are always on Facebook at the same time, or one will be online and the other will pop up a minute later and then they log off at similar times. It seems to go back and forth, like they are conversing. I don't know if I'm just creating a scenario in my...
    joyfult81 joyfult81 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    My boyfriends sleeping

    and he got a couple text messages from a number asking him to have sex with her and to make her his baby momma he already has two kids with two different girls what should I do :( I love him a lot and seeing that makes my stomach turn
    farmgirl2014 farmgirl2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    What Do I Say?

    Well,Im 2 moths pregnant in college. My boyfriend knows,but we have one slight problem,his ex girlfriend has never left us alone. I recently found out that he had one of these but he doesnt know. i saw on there that he said he loves her still,no that it is more then that. I...
    queenofgrace queenofgrace 18-21, F Nov 28, 2011

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    He's always hiding his phone from me

    and never let's me see it. :/
    JessaRayLynn JessaRayLynn 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I Don't Trust My Boyfriend.

    I have the best boyfriend that anyone could wish for; over the past 2 years we’ve fallen in love and changed/planned our lives around each other, because we couldn’t bear to let each other go. He had previously been in 2 long term, one of them being long distance...
    sillybear22 sillybear22 18-21 2 Responses May 2, 2011

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    It Feels Weird

    I have this horrible feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me he's working "late" way late...way way too late...and I don't know it's just not the same it's hard to put it into words. This has happened before with my ex and because of it I have some trust issues that...
    bubblebubble86 bubblebubble86 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I can help you know for sure.

    If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's going on, no matter if he is cheating, or he isn't. I'm here to help, I want to help, no strings attached, no thanks necessary. I...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I don't necessarily think he's cheating on me.

    ... Like I know he loves me but I think he still likes this girl he use to talk to & I'm not sure what to do about it...my question for this topic is, is it possible for someone to be in love with the person they are committed to but also like/be interested in another person? I...
    isalis37 isalis37 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Funny how things work out .

    This makes third time a charm , I just read some messages between my man and the girl he just seems to can't get over .. Sucks to know he has feelings for two people. I can't help that or be against it but why complicate things and compromise a relationship trying to maintain...
    Fatalattraction Fatalattraction 22-25, F 2 Responses May 27

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    CASTING: ROCKY RELATIONSHIPS!

    Is your relationship on the rocks, and you have to make a decision whether or not to try and make it work or break it off? Is it stagnant and you need help fixing it to make it work, or else you will have to make a clean break? Have you been keeping something from your partner...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F Jan 15

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    So my boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 2 years. I love him and would do anything for him. I am confused whether I should stay with him or break up with him and would appreciate other's opinions. About a year ago, I stayed in Japan for a month to visit my family. When I came back home, I hung out with my bf at my...
    lonelynomoe lonelynomoe 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Too Good To Be True?

    So, I don't even know if we are officially together or not, but I would consider him my boyfriend. I am oh so very glad I found him b/c he respects my christian worldview and he is very gentle and loving and just very much perfect. But I am not sure if I am the only girl in his...
    Fallacia Fallacia 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2010

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    My Bf And My Cousin?

    So I've been dating this guy for 3 months. I met him through my cousin, he's her boyfriends best friend. I really like him, he has his head on straight for a 23 year old in south jersey. But for some reason, I'm damn near convinced him and my cousin have something going on. It...
    wishfulhoping21 wishfulhoping21 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Feeling a little bit sad this morning.

    As I suspected my boyfriend is talking to other girls via fb. We live together and I don't even know what to do. I don't even know how to react. I wish I could read all the messages between them and figure out wtf. Even tho these girls live nowhere near us it upsets me very much...
    linda8a linda8a 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    In Shock And Dont Know What To Think

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and I love him with all my heart and he says he feels the same, we even talked about moving in together, he brought it up. But I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I found out today(by snooping) that he has signed up for 2...
    MariellConner MariellConner 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Secrets Are the Same As Lying

    Im not sure if my man is cheating or not, but it feels like it to me. I wont say anything to him about it until I know for sure. He's been doing some weird things lately. He erases his call log. Turns his phone off when he's with me & has people calling from a blocked...
    skwyrlnuttbaby skwyrlnuttbaby 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I love my boyfriend more than anything, but I don't know if I'd walk away from a situation that would lead to cheating, and that scares me.
    Odessa0310 Odessa0310 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband and i have been together 5 years and the sex has never been great. I do love him but feel sexually unsatisfied. There is a man who I used to see who is also married that...
    kimmyh23 kimmyh23 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    Well, the long drought is officially over!!
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 27

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    I dreamt about my boyfriend cheating with a bob hairstyle girl and that girl was giving ******** for him and he was so enjoying it that I was looking at them and he just ignored me...
    badromance96 badromance96 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Cheating is something I can't even begin to understand why anybody would do. If you aren't happy in your relationship then you shouldn't be in one. If you'd rather mess around with...
    mads225 mads225 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 7