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I Think My Dad Is a Loser

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    Traditionalist

    Since the day I was born, I have always thought that my dad is truly who I tried to be like ;however, now I am 16 and I just realize that my dad is not that type. I mean, he is OK with everything, and he teaches me a lot and always is a decent man, but I hate it a lot when he...
    genivinhkhoa genivinhkhoa 16-17 May 22, 2010

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    A Total Poop-head

    My dad is a real butt-head: he left my mom, brother, and I for some other woman after my mom and I walked in on him packing all of his stuff and trying to sneak out of the house. He lied and told me that he was "going camping" when I asked him where he was going as he was leaving...
    kam2500 kam2500 13-15, F Aug 22, 2013

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    My Loser Dad

    my dad is such a loser he stinks. he just yells at stuff and things and people. he a painintheassinstein.
    germanheimer germanheimer 18-21 Oct 2, 2011

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    my dad hits me and my brother.
    asdfg23 asdfg23 13-15 Feb 21, 2009

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    Steve Royal Griffin

    My dad has even said to me that he has no time for kids I can't even tell you the last time he came to my football games or baseball or motocross unless he had to take me home and he would show up late or drunk he never does anything for me I hate to say it but he is worth more...
    Cgrif78 Cgrif78 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    My Dad Is Such A Loser

    My dad is an alcoholic who smokes at least 30 times a day,yells at me and my little bro for absolutely no reason (and that's no exaggeration),and goes to prostitutes whillie nillie all the time. and i HATE him. Any love/respect for him i had is gone. i remember when i was 10,one...
    Dusty926 Dusty926 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2011

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    Moving to Florida

    My dad, the abusive, manipulative  alcoholic that he has become/always was to me, has decided to move to Florida to go to Harley mechanic school, because he needs "his time," he's needed "his time since I was born practically, only taking it when he and my...
    shaun0h shaun0h 26-30, T 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Car Accident That Changes Everything

    I grew up all around, born in British Columbia, and lived throughout the USA. My mother and I moved down from Vancouver for her, at the time, boyfriend...my dad. She was reluctant, of course, giving up her home, comfort, and friends in Canada to go to Seattle with a man who she...
    intrepidexplorers intrepidexplorers 18-21, M Jun 16, 2013

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    Fml

    My dad is an embarasing idiot. To hell with him
    paytonlynnie paytonlynnie 13-15 Apr 3, 2011

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    T'is The Season

    Wow as if my dead beat dad could not possibly reach a whole notha level of loser-dom. First time in 30 years my sisters and I actually spend a Christmas with our father. The same man who systematically terrorized us and our mother when we were young girls. Everything from...
    lucien79 lucien79 31-35 Dec 29, 2012

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    Laughable

    My dad can be very loving, but my god, the oppisite can be true. he calls me sick, ( i'm 18) so i call him sick back, then he'll scream and stomp his feet telling me not to call him names, then he said he can "call me all the names he likes". well, no he can't. Mum...
    Lalalaaa Lalalaaa 18-21 Aug 3, 2009

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    Loser Is A Understatement

    What kind of father doesn't take care of his family? Instead of working hard to make sure his kids had a roof over their head, he makes his wife go to work, and when she comes home from work, he takes her money and claims it as his. Oh, he's also verbally and emotionally abusive...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Let me start off by saying

    that I don't hate my dad. He just needs to wake up and fix some things in his life. I know its hard to believe but at one point my dad was a pimp(NO JOKE). He recently came from jail and is living off some friends. He is trying to pimp again and it's not going well. What...
    LIVE1098 LIVE1098 16-17, M Dec 29, 2013

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    My Father

    What kind of father would let his family starve to death if he didn't get his drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would verbally abuse his wife for drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would call his own daughters *******? What kind of father would ignore his daughter...
    TheQuietOne12 TheQuietOne12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2012

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    I'm a LOSERRR. But who cares? We can all be losers together and we can make a Loser club for all those kids who feel alone even when they're surrounded by people at the lunch table...
    DepressedButWellDressed DepressedButWellDressed 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I've always been close to my mother simply because she has always been there for me , it's not that my dad is never around , no no no he's around , just watching TV doing nothing...
    Nightingale123 Nightingale123 18-21 9 hrs ago

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    What's missing in my heart and what is making me feel empty . I think it's lack of love, now that I think of it I know why only when I'm with ppl who love me I don't feel empty . I...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm an adopted abused chile and if I ever get to meet my real dad, my exact words would be- " I always wanted to meet you. But why were u never in my life? All I've been in is...
    SweetAlone13 SweetAlone13 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Its been 4 years since my last post. If anyone has read my previous post then a quick update, I finalized my divorce 3 years ago and have sole custody of my 3 kids. The mother is...
    nirmus nirmus 31-35, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    My dream dad: A dad that will do everything with me, go out to eat with me, buy me candy, go shopping with me, tell me I'm beautiful, cry with me, laugh with me, sit at the park...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    My "dad" would get me once a year and when he did I stayed at the apartment or at his house and I would be stuck babysitting or something. When I finally confronted him we had a...
    raykatiem raykatiem 16-17, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I'm socially awkward. I can't do anything without freaking out. I can't go downstairs and get a glass of water without thinking that my parents or siblings might see me and make...
    baeily baeily 13-15, F Jun 30

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    Or so says my mom because she thinks I hangout with losers. Apparently because I hangout with people who are into body modification. And it makes me a loser because I am into body...
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    You know what my fellow losers can become friends and guess what even if we are losers we can rise above and be the coolest peeps you have ever seen so my fellow losers show you...
    birdroks birdroks 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I have recently graduated from Uni. I was there for 3 years. I loved my first 2 years. I had a miserable time in 3rd year, but now its all done I am looking back with regret at the...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm 23 & a loser. I don't have a job, a unfaithful husband and soon to be losing our house. I feel like my friends look at me and think "what a loser!" I've been in community...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    I can remember when I was in elementary school, my dad would joke around and say to me "you don't need to tell anyone you're Muslim; it's our secret" and I would listen. I thought...
    awesomedude347 awesomedude347 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I'm going to ask my uncle to walk me down the isle when my time comes. My dad chose to not engage himself or be involved in my development. He doesn't know what struggles I went...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    He doesn't abuse me but he abuses my dog. He throws cups of water at her for no reason and slaps her and kicks her. I don't see it but I hear it and he denies it. Just now my dad...
    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Why does everyone have to be so judge mental? Sure, maybe I'm content with video games and I don't like parties. That doesn't make me a loser. Yes, I cry a lot, but that's because...
    LoserLibs LoserLibs 13-15, F Jul 5

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    Life is hard if you are a loser. I was allways a loser. Since my school years i spend my days alone. From 1 grade to 7 grade i had 2 best friends. But after i moved out from my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Does my mom love my dad? Ever since I was young I felt no love attraction between them. He has hit her once before and yelled at her but he clams to love her. And you can tell he...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I felt & still have scars . I feel like a loser . Most people I meet leave me . & Also I'm insecure about my looks . I sometimes feel like nothing . I want to improve my...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Jun 25

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    I'm a 45 year old loser that still lives with his mother. I not only hate my life right now, I hated it yesterday, the day before that, 40 years ago, and will hate it tomorrow and...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M Jul 8

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    Who wanta to be my loser sponser? Message me or heart this and ill message u
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I'm 22 years old and I feel like I've been wasting the early part of my adult life. I graduated from high school in 2011 and began attending a community college during the fall of...
    Loser92 Loser92 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Read my profile- profiler of a loser. Nobody wants to do with me, nobody care. People come and go and they hurt me. Now i decided to delete some "friends" who doesnt write and i...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am so sick and tired of feeling like a loser. I wasn't always like this, at one point in my teenage years I even had a good social life. I've only had one boyfriend my when I was...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm totally big loser! Never be wanted never be loved never be kissed .i know I'm not good enough but only thing I ask just a nice person like me back.did I ask to much? I'm 27 now...
    allnotmine allnotmine 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yep it's true y'all i am a loser but I don't give a **** because I hang around people that are my n.i.g.g.a.d and that like the same s.h.i.t as me I used to hang around popular...
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    A major blow to my already self esteem. A person who I thought was my friend doesn't talk to me for 6 months and then doesn't contact me on my birthday. So now I'll end up spending...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 20 hrs ago

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    My fiance says he feels bad for me and that he would never hurt our daughter like how my father hurts me. My dad doesn't even know he hurts me. When I was a kid, I always assumed...
    aw23 aw23 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Its not my dads current girlfriend I hate but his ex. As a kid and out of respect for my dad and being nice I had to do whatever she said. He basically let her control everything...
    WoundedDreamer WoundedDreamer 16-17, F Jul 14

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    I want my parents to respect me and treat me like a fourteen-year-old, not a 2-year-old. Backstory: I hit the teen years and my mom and I started colliding. A lot. We would fight...
    SadFacedDork SadFacedDork 16-17, F Jun 25

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    Okay this is the first time that I have written my story.... . Well typed it . It all started when my mom (who I love so deeply) got married to this man when I was 5 years old ! I...
    shy9723 shy9723 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 47 and have never had a career, only jobs. I am highly educated and talented but haven't accomplished much in life. I've never been married or lived with a man and have no...
    loseriffic loseriffic 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    Adorable: Little girl asks Google to give her daddy a day off work One Google employee will have some extra vacation time this summer, thanks to his daughter. That’s because...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    Sometimes I really want to call you and tell you how damaged I am. How it still hurts when you say that you didn't want to have a girl, especially someone like me. I know you think...