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I Think My Dad Is a Loser

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 63 People

    T'is The Season

    Wow as if my dead beat dad could not possibly reach a whole notha level of loser-dom. First time in 30 years my sisters and I actually spend a Christmas with our father. The same man who systematically terrorized us and our mother when we were young girls. Everything from...
    lucien79 lucien79 31-35 Dec 29, 2012

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    My Father

    What kind of father would let his family starve to death if he didn't get his drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would verbally abuse his wife for drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would call his own daughters *******? What kind of father would ignore his daughter...
    TheQuietOne12 TheQuietOne12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2012

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    Traditionalist

    Since the day I was born, I have always thought that my dad is truly who I tried to be like ;however, now I am 16 and I just realize that my dad is not that type. I mean, he is OK with everything, and he teaches me a lot and always is a decent man, but I hate it a lot when he...
    genivinhkhoa genivinhkhoa 16-17 May 22, 2010

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    Moving to Florida

    My dad, the abusive, manipulative  alcoholic that he has become/always was to me, has decided to move to Florida to go to Harley mechanic school, because he needs "his time," he's needed "his time since I was born practically, only taking it when he and my...
    shaun0h shaun0h 26-30, T 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Steve Royal Griffin

    My dad has even said to me that he has no time for kids I can't even tell you the last time he came to my football games or baseball or motocross unless he had to take me home and he would show up late or drunk he never does anything for me I hate to say it but he is worth more...
    Cgrif78 Cgrif78 16-17, M Feb 20, 2012

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    Car Accident That Changes Everything

    I grew up all around, born in British Columbia, and lived throughout the USA. My mother and I moved down from Vancouver for her, at the time, boyfriend...my dad. She was reluctant, of course, giving up her home, comfort, and friends in Canada to go to Seattle with a man who she...
    intrepidexplorers intrepidexplorers 18-21, M Jun 16, 2013

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    Let me start off by saying

    that I don't hate my dad. He just needs to wake up and fix some things in his life. I know its hard to believe but at one point my dad was a pimp(NO JOKE). He recently came from jail and is living off some friends. He is trying to pimp again and it's not going well. What...
    LIVE1098 LIVE1098 16-17, M Dec 29, 2013

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    I wish my dad would have cared more,

    he has a room outside the house he sits there all day and just comes home when he needs to sleep, sometimes. hes very annoying, immature, I cant even feel like I have a dad, I hate seeing my mum hurt everyday, he literally doesn't give a single damn about us, I'm still 11 years...
    brandshute brandshute 16-17, F Oct 9, 2014

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    My Loser Dad

    my dad is such a loser he stinks. he just yells at stuff and things and people. he a painintheassinstein.
    germanheimer germanheimer 18-21 Oct 2, 2011

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    Laughable

    My dad can be very loving, but my god, the oppisite can be true. he calls me sick, ( i'm 18) so i call him sick back, then he'll scream and stomp his feet telling me not to call him names, then he said he can "call me all the names he likes". well, no he can't. Mum...
    Lalalaaa Lalalaaa 18-21 Aug 3, 2009

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    Loser Is A Understatement

    What kind of father doesn't take care of his family? Instead of working hard to make sure his kids had a roof over their head, he makes his wife go to work, and when she comes home from work, he takes her money and claims it as his. Oh, he's also verbally and emotionally abusive...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    my dad hits me and my brother.
    asdfg23 asdfg23 13-15 Feb 21, 2009

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    Fml

    My dad is an embarasing idiot. To hell with him
    paytonlynnie paytonlynnie 13-15 Apr 3, 2011

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    A Total Poop-head

    My dad is a real butt-head: he left my mom, brother, and I for some other woman after my mom and I walked in on him packing all of his stuff and trying to sneak out of the house. He lied and told me that he was "going camping" when I asked him where he was going as he was leaving...
    kam2500 kam2500 13-15, F Aug 22, 2013

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    When I was thirteen I went to lay in my dads bed because I had a nightmare and was scared. Well let me tell you that was when the nightmare started. It was dark he was asleep, I...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    SO I was typing how to stop being a loser and found this site. Most people were speaking of why they are a loser and I didn't see anything on how to change. I do want to change. I...
    Overit1 Overit1 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    new to this whole thing... looking for a daddy.
    koditrust koditrust 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am a loser because I messed up my studies and got debts for them now... this is not attractive for my partner, i Am a loser because I can not admit my debts infront of him. I am...
    noimport noimport 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am a loser, I am a great loser and I am the biggest loser of this planet. Nothing happened in my life what I wanted. Still I hope that something better will happen. But nothing...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    The honors kids in my school are such self-righteous and arrogant losers. They literally think they're better than everyone else because they have the highest grades when I myself...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 10 Responses Apr 11

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    I have a dad. Technically I have three dads. I am a Christian and I believe God is my Daddy foremost. :) I have a dad who conceived me and I have a stepdad. I also consider my...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F Apr 9

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    Stupid arguments almost everyday and Id ring my mum after each and say "mum dads done this dads don't that" but the days we didn't were fun. Disney land when I was 7. All those...
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I used to think the world of my dad, I loved him so much. I miss that. My mum and dad haven't been together since just after my mum told him she was having me, basically because...
    QueenOfAwkwardness QueenOfAwkwardness 13-15, F Apr 16

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    i will always be a loser and im proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    JolenaMartins JolenaMartins 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I am the biggest loser on the face of the earth.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    ACT two jamming session whats better then loud music ! well if ya got a list like mine Sure jamming wouldn't be all So hard now would it ? Thinking ...such a huge list where to...
    joophomme joophomme 46-50, M Apr 5

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    And I have valid reasons to be. My father passed away March 7 from Carbon monoxide poisoning. He died alone, in the pump room, in his own vomit. The last time I called him was...
    Exhilar8 Exhilar8 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    My Dad has an affair. He's been dating her for a year and maybe more. I moved to America last year for studying and I've just realized I'm losing my Dad.. When I first came here...
    whatsover whatsover 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I don't want to be here anymore. I want to disappear. I think about it all the time, I mimic putting a gun to my head and shooting myself. When I'm driving I imagine driving into a...
    theginger89 theginger89 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    government by suprise. loser and a liar. gutting education, the DNR, tenant rights. I see those signs that say "I stand with walker" and I think to myself "but he doesnt stand...
    DeanGullbury DeanGullbury 41-45, M Apr 24

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    I am going to explain my dad and he is a confusing person, who I have decided that I do not like anymore. I was thinking about moving in with him, but I don't anymore. Here is why...
    Prompous Prompous 16-17, M Apr 6

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    My step dad goes 50 on a road that says 40MPH and he goes 80 on he interstate. My mom goes about 75 on the interstate and 50 on the two lane roads (like my step dad). My step dad...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M Apr 15

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    My parents were kind of teen parents, since they were both 18 by the time. When I was born, my mother had...I don't know, she suddenly started to be mean with my dad, and today, I...
    Vanellopey Vanellopey 16-17, F Apr 21

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    I'm in my 30s and never had a girlfriend. I'm going to die without ever experiencing being on a real date. I think our higher power doesn't want some people to experience love...
    dude2278 dude2278 31-35, M Apr 25

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    Trying to tell myself everything will be ok. Trying to tell myself I should just pretend, just smile at the upcoming family dinner as if nothing's wrong. Try to close one eye and...
    ThisStormShallPass ThisStormShallPass 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    yesterday my dad was looking for money in his car compartment and i saw a condom that he quickly hid, i dont think he knows i saw it. but my mom doesn't get her period anymore and...
    greatperhaps123 greatperhaps123 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I they got me when I was 16 months old I was left at the hospital by my birth mom but it ok I had a great family I had so much fun growing up thanks to my mom an dad an never went...
    commandr1978 commandr1978 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    i just need Dad i don't need money,career,boyfriend,luxury life etc..i just need love from my dad..i love you very much..i just need your hugs..my life just feel empty without you...
    stayme92 stayme92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    My head goes round and around thinking about what my dad would be like now and what my life would be like with him still in it. My cover photo is the only existing pictures of my...
    eibhlinalicejane eibhlinalicejane 22-25, F Apr 24

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    My younger siblings found out before I did. Basically we found out my dad has another woman, worst is from the type of women people here hates. They're known to steal other people...
    ThisStormShallPass ThisStormShallPass 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Me and my dad always had a special bond growing up (currently i am 22). He always used to remind me that we had this special bond and i felt special. A few years ago when i was a...
    seraphimshay seraphimshay 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    In my lifetime, I know I wasn't near perfect with the decision and choices I made. At times, I can be wrecking ball. Other times, I'm just the opposite. As I said in my previous...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    i am lonely without him my dad passed away since i was 12 years old..i don't have much time with him..but the last things i remembered about him..he is inteligent,kind,responsible...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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