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I Think My Dad Is a Loser

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    My Loser Dad

    my dad is such a loser he stinks. he just yells at stuff and things and people. he a painintheassinstein.
    germanheimer germanheimer 18-21 Oct 2, 2011

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    Laughable

    My dad can be very loving, but my god, the oppisite can be true. he calls me sick, ( i'm 18) so i call him sick back, then he'll scream and stomp his feet telling me not to call him names, then he said he can "call me all the names he likes". well, no he can't. Mum...
    Lalalaaa Lalalaaa 18-21 Aug 3, 2009

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    Loser Is A Understatement

    What kind of father doesn't take care of his family? Instead of working hard to make sure his kids had a roof over their head, he makes his wife go to work, and when she comes home from work, he takes her money and claims it as his. Oh, he's also verbally and emotionally abusive...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 27, 2011

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    My Father

    What kind of father would let his family starve to death if he didn't get his drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would verbally abuse his wife for drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would call his own daughters *******? What kind of father would ignore his daughter...
    TheQuietOne12 TheQuietOne12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2012

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    Traditionalist

    Since the day I was born, I have always thought that my dad is truly who I tried to be like ;however, now I am 16 and I just realize that my dad is not that type. I mean, he is OK with everything, and he teaches me a lot and always is a decent man, but I hate it a lot when he...
    genivinhkhoa genivinhkhoa 16-17 May 22, 2010

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    T'is The Season

    Wow as if my dead beat dad could not possibly reach a whole notha level of loser-dom. First time in 30 years my sisters and I actually spend a Christmas with our father. The same man who systematically terrorized us and our mother when we were young girls. Everything from...
    lucien79 lucien79 31-35 Dec 29, 2012

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    Car Accident That Changes Everything

    I grew up all around, born in British Columbia, and lived throughout the USA. My mother and I moved down from Vancouver for her, at the time, boyfriend...my dad. She was reluctant, of course, giving up her home, comfort, and friends in Canada to go to Seattle with a man who she...
    intrepidexplorers intrepidexplorers 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    Steve Royal Griffin

    My dad has even said to me that he has no time for kids I can't even tell you the last time he came to my football games or baseball or motocross unless he had to take me home and he would show up late or drunk he never does anything for me I hate to say it but he is worth more...
    Cgrif78 Cgrif78 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    My Dad Is Such A Loser

    My dad is an alcoholic who smokes at least 30 times a day,yells at me and my little bro for absolutely no reason (and that's no exaggeration),and goes to prostitutes whillie nillie all the time. and i HATE him. Any love/respect for him i had is gone. i remember when i was 10,one...
    Dusty926 Dusty926 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2011

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    Moving to Florida

    My dad, the abusive, manipulative  alcoholic that he has become/always was to me, has decided to move to Florida to go to Harley mechanic school, because he needs "his time," he's needed "his time since I was born practically, only taking it when he and my...
    shaun0h shaun0h 22-25, T 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Let me start off by saying

    that I don't hate my dad. He just needs to wake up and fix some things in his life. I know its hard to believe but at one point my dad was a pimp(NO JOKE). He recently came from jail and is living off some friends. He is trying to pimp again and it's not going well. What...
    LIVE1098 LIVE1098 16-17, M Dec 29, 2013

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    A Total Poop-head

    My dad is a real butt-head: he left my mom, brother, and I for some other woman after my mom and I walked in on him packing all of his stuff and trying to sneak out of the house. He lied and told me that he was "going camping" when I asked him where he was going as he was leaving...
    kam2500 kam2500 13-15, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am just a common person, who used to have large dreams. I would be glad if you have the patience to hear my story. To cut a long story short, I studied at a college, completed...
    commonguy42 commonguy42 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I am literally struggling to pay bills. I still live at home at the age of 29. I am a nanny that makes pennies. I am single. And I am battling with my weight. So I am just soooo...
    Infamousjess Infamousjess 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was reading this self-help book and it was telling me to challenge my negative thought. When I think "I am a loser" I honestly cannot think of anything that proves I am not a...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not loser as in lame or nerd... Although I am a bit nerdy but in the sense that I've lost myself. I'm in a constant battle with my feelings and I lose every time. I feel like I've...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    When I was a teen I did not enjoy school, and it really was my own fault i didn't enjoy it because I constantly jumped to negative conclusions about what others thought of me. This...
    Hincty Hincty 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I feel like a total loser sometimes. I had a great Thursday watching the NCAA basketball tournament. My friend and I took both Thursday and Friday off and set up plans to go out...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 24

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    SUMMARY We were best friends for a while, but then he started traveling a lot. Every other week he was gone and that's when we stopped getting along. Now, he is always going out...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Yesterday, my dad told me that he's just trying to make me a "likable person". Not MORE likeable, just likable. Wow. I'm not popular at school or anything, but, since I've joined...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I am over it, I'm sick of being this loser. Nobody loves me, my family don't even answer my calls. My friends are sick of me, I'm jobless AGAIN, and I might be homeless soon AGAIN...
    imalonelyboy imalonelyboy 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I ****** up my sophomore year, where I basically traded my friends from freshman for popular people, who turned out to be dicks.. I feel like a loser now, because there nobody at...
    lonelyshyguy1995 lonelyshyguy1995 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Everytime I meet a nice girl I end up ruining it cos I'm such a creep and a weirdo everytime I'm such a big pathetic waste of space I'm such a creep and a loser I hate myself...
    greatbritain1 greatbritain1 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I'm such a loser i can't do anything i'm good at nothing i don't know what is my life for :(
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    We're on vacation, and I think he's determined to ruin it for me. The other day, we were at a restaurant and my mom was telling me about a girl who was on Suze Orman. My mom...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    - Back in 2009 is when we first found out that my father had skin cancer but it didn't seem so serious so I wasn't so worried.. They talked about doing a surgery and after that...
    KickRocks KickRocks 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    "I Needed A Dad But He Needed A Needle" This is my first post so bare with me. Before I start. Thanks for reading and caring. Means allot to me. Really does. Now first off.It's...
    UnknownStatistic UnknownStatistic 18-21, M Apr 1

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    I am 23 years old have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend. Obviously I've never had sex either. I am extremely socially awkward and beta and don't think I can overcome it...
    CosmicBaby5555 CosmicBaby5555 22-25, M 5 Responses Apr 8

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    What am I going to say to you? All my life I've probably been suffering because of you. Thinking back, it's pathetic what happened. I don't even know now, I'm tired. Ever since I...
    jxstagirl jxstagirl 13-15, F Mar 24

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    Confused Little Girl- I did not even know I had a biological father until a judge ordered me to his custody in Europe. Before that I lived with my widowed stepfather. My mother had...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 1

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    So I have a love/hate relationship with him. I love him, because he's my dad and I'm supposed to. But if you were to ask me if I like him as a person...no I don't. He was a...
    estrellita75 estrellita75 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Hello. I am a 14 year old girl, and VERY shy. But, I am clever and recently I found out that my dad was cheating on my mom. He is 46 years old, and he shouldn't be having an affair...
    wondur wondur 18-21, F Apr 4

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    This is what someone else posted on FB: "Wanna kill yourself? Imagine this. You come home from school one day. You've had yet another horrible day. You’re just ready to give up...
    phoebegolde phoebegolde 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I can say that all of the people around me say that their dads shared a lot of joy and love towards their sons...but me was different as when dad used to stay at home...he kept...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I've hated my dad since I was 13. He robbed me of my self esteem and my potential- I could have been so much more, I really feel that with every fibre of my being. When I was...
    femmefatality femmefatality 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I hate my step dad. He is literally poisoning my mom. She used to be so nice before she got married to him. It was an arranged marriage, so she didn't even get a say in the...
    agentunicorn agentunicorn 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm such a big failure in life. At 46, I still live with my deceased sister's family. I don't have a job because I don't have skills anymore. Even my writing and speaking skills...
    churchworker churchworker 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Is there some kind of diagnosis or personality defect that would be exhibited by a person having numerous close friends and being a pillar of the community, but having no interest...
    calpeach27 calpeach27 36-40 Mar 24

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    My dad went to jail a long time ago. I have feelings of hate but I don't know if I actually know any real hate towards him. He went to jail for molesting my sisters and I he's been...
    brrodosako brrodosako 16-17, F Mar 25

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    My boyfriend is my daddy. It started off as play but now I don't think I can live without it. I love when he calls me by my special name, and call him daddy and dad so much that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Mar 29

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    Because I'm different. He has told me numerous times over the years that he accepts me but when I go to visit him he screams at me for being this way. I have a teacher who is...
    MattPhoenix MattPhoenix 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I avoid thinking about him sometimes, I intentionally avoid watching the movie Pretty Women because it was his favorite movie (used to be mines too), every time his favorite songs...
    draev draev 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Weird numbered markings on my arm during allergic reaction? Hi, one night before I was going to sleep, in my bed, I wanted to see if I can communicate telepathically to the greys...
    Omniverse087 Omniverse087 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I hate my dad. It's legit. I ******* hate his guts. When I was little I thought he was the best person in the world, but I was a child and I worried over myself having fun more...
    gmaingemail gmaingemail 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The first 3 pics will be my dad. One when he was in grade 10 with my mum and another from a few weeks ago (the one with short hair where he looks older because he is 36 in it lol...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I have had a poor relationship with my father for as long as I can remember. I'm now almost 20 years old and I cannot see it getting any better. The source of my hatred for him...
    aunasi aunasi 18-21, M Mar 26

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    19 Reasons Why I Hate You: 1. You always talk but never listen. It's always about you. You don't care about anything I tell you. When I talk, you either interrupt, roll your eyes...
    tarara0414 tarara0414 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My dad hasn't always been there for me. He's been to prison for drugs, and he's just not a great person. He chose drugs over me as a child, and even after her got me back he still...
    sarah81199 sarah81199 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I want to start out saying that I love and care about my husband, but he has been driving me crazy with what I consider selfishness lately. We have been together for 7 years and...
    cmsjay cmsjay 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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