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I Think My Dad Is a Loser

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    Laughable

    My dad can be very loving, but my god, the oppisite can be true. he calls me sick, ( i'm 18) so i call him sick back, then he'll scream and stomp his feet telling me not to call him names, then he said he can "call me all the names he likes". well, no he can't. Mum...
    Lalalaaa Lalalaaa 18-21 Aug 3, 2009

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    Let me start off by saying

    that I don't hate my dad. He just needs to wake up and fix some things in his life. I know its hard to believe but at one point my dad was a pimp(NO JOKE). He recently came from jail and is living off some friends. He is trying to pimp again and it's not going well. What...
    LIVE1098 LIVE1098 16-17, M Dec 29, 2013

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    My Father

    What kind of father would let his family starve to death if he didn't get his drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would verbally abuse his wife for drugs and cigarettes? What kind of father would call his own daughters *******? What kind of father would ignore his daughter...
    TheQuietOne12 TheQuietOne12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2012

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    My Loser Dad

    my dad is such a loser he stinks. he just yells at stuff and things and people. he a painintheassinstein.
    germanheimer germanheimer 18-21 Oct 2, 2011

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    Car Accident That Changes Everything

    I grew up all around, born in British Columbia, and lived throughout the USA. My mother and I moved down from Vancouver for her, at the time, boyfriend...my dad. She was reluctant, of course, giving up her home, comfort, and friends in Canada to go to Seattle with a man who she...
    intrepidexplorers intrepidexplorers 18-21, M Jun 16, 2013

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    A Total Poop-head

    My dad is a real butt-head: he left my mom, brother, and I for some other woman after my mom and I walked in on him packing all of his stuff and trying to sneak out of the house. He lied and told me that he was "going camping" when I asked him where he was going as he was leaving...
    kam2500 kam2500 13-15, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Steve Royal Griffin

    My dad has even said to me that he has no time for kids I can't even tell you the last time he came to my football games or baseball or motocross unless he had to take me home and he would show up late or drunk he never does anything for me I hate to say it but he is worth more...
    Cgrif78 Cgrif78 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    My Dad Is Such A Loser

    My dad is an alcoholic who smokes at least 30 times a day,yells at me and my little bro for absolutely no reason (and that's no exaggeration),and goes to prostitutes whillie nillie all the time. and i HATE him. Any love/respect for him i had is gone. i remember when i was 10,one...
    Dusty926 Dusty926 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2011

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    T'is The Season

    Wow as if my dead beat dad could not possibly reach a whole notha level of loser-dom. First time in 30 years my sisters and I actually spend a Christmas with our father. The same man who systematically terrorized us and our mother when we were young girls. Everything from...
    lucien79 lucien79 31-35 Dec 29, 2012

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    my dad hits me and my brother.
    asdfg23 asdfg23 13-15 Feb 21, 2009

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    Moving to Florida

    My dad, the abusive, manipulative  alcoholic that he has become/always was to me, has decided to move to Florida to go to Harley mechanic school, because he needs "his time," he's needed "his time since I was born practically, only taking it when he and my...
    shaun0h shaun0h 26-30, T 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Fml

    My dad is an embarasing idiot. To hell with him
    paytonlynnie paytonlynnie 13-15 Apr 3, 2011

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    Traditionalist

    Since the day I was born, I have always thought that my dad is truly who I tried to be like ;however, now I am 16 and I just realize that my dad is not that type. I mean, he is OK with everything, and he teaches me a lot and always is a decent man, but I hate it a lot when he...
    genivinhkhoa genivinhkhoa 16-17 May 22, 2010

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    Loser Is A Understatement

    What kind of father doesn't take care of his family? Instead of working hard to make sure his kids had a roof over their head, he makes his wife go to work, and when she comes home from work, he takes her money and claims it as his. Oh, he's also verbally and emotionally abusive...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Tonight, I will drive to my Dad’s. The drive is only about two hours—an easy drive in good weather. Boring. Ugly. But easy. In the winter, it’s prohibitive. I live in an area...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So last year my family bought a farm in the middle of no where, and I love it; It has almost sixty acres, a pond, and tons of forest. We raise sheep and goats in the fields and...
    Jase586 Jase586 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm a LOSERRR. But who cares? We can all be losers together and we can make a Loser club for all those kids who feel alone even when they're surrounded by people at the lunch table...
    DepressedButWellDressed DepressedButWellDressed 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I'm socially awkward. I can't do anything without freaking out. I can't go downstairs and get a glass of water without thinking that my parents or siblings might see me and make...
    baeily baeily 13-15, F Jun 30

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    Or so says my mom because she thinks I hangout with losers. Apparently because I hangout with people who are into body modification. And it makes me a loser because I am into body...
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    All my dad cares about is money. I thought he changed so I moved back in with him, and now he's pushing and pushing for me to get a job. There hasn't been 1 day where it hasn't...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    You know what my fellow losers can become friends and guess what even if we are losers we can rise above and be the coolest peeps you have ever seen so my fellow losers show you...
    birdroks birdroks 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I have recently graduated from Uni. I was there for 3 years. I loved my first 2 years. I had a miserable time in 3rd year, but now its all done I am looking back with regret at the...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm 23 & a loser. I don't have a job, a unfaithful husband and soon to be losing our house. I feel like my friends look at me and think "what a loser!" I've been in community...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    I can remember when I was in elementary school, my dad would joke around and say to me "you don't need to tell anyone you're Muslim; it's our secret" and I would listen. I thought...
    awesomedude347 awesomedude347 18-21, M Jul 13

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    Why does everyone have to be so judge mental? Sure, maybe I'm content with video games and I don't like parties. That doesn't make me a loser. Yes, I cry a lot, but that's because...
    LoserLibs LoserLibs 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I miss my dad very much, he'll be gone 30 years this November but I still miss him a lot.
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Life is hard if you are a loser. I was allways a loser. Since my school years i spend my days alone. From 1 grade to 7 grade i had 2 best friends. But after i moved out from my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Does my mom love my dad? Ever since I was young I felt no love attraction between them. He has hit her once before and yelled at her but he clams to love her. And you can tell he...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I'm a 45 year old loser that still lives with his mother. I not only hate my life right now, I hated it yesterday, the day before that, 40 years ago, and will hate it tomorrow and...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M Jul 8

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    Who wanta to be my loser sponser? Message me or heart this and ill message u
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I'm 22 years old and I feel like I've been wasting the early part of my adult life. I graduated from high school in 2011 and began attending a community college during the fall of...
    Loser92 Loser92 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Read my profile- profiler of a loser. Nobody wants to do with me, nobody care. People come and go and they hurt me. Now i decided to delete some "friends" who doesnt write and i...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I am so sick and tired of feeling like a loser. I wasn't always like this, at one point in my teenage years I even had a good social life. I've only had one boyfriend my when I was...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jul 16

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    I'm totally big loser! Never be wanted never be loved never be kissed .i know I'm not good enough but only thing I ask just a nice person like me back.did I ask to much? I'm 27 now...
    allnotmine allnotmine 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Yep it's true y'all i am a loser but I don't give a **** because I hang around people that are my n.i.g.g.a.d and that like the same s.h.i.t as me I used to hang around popular...
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M a week ago

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    A major blow to my already self esteem. A person who I thought was my friend doesn't talk to me for 6 months and then doesn't contact me on my birthday. So now I'll end up spending...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    There's no hope for me ill be a loser for the rest of my life
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My fiance says he feels bad for me and that he would never hurt our daughter like how my father hurts me. My dad doesn't even know he hurts me. When I was a kid, I always assumed...
    aw23 aw23 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Its not my dads current girlfriend I hate but his ex. As a kid and out of respect for my dad and being nice I had to do whatever she said. He basically let her control everything...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jul 14

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    My dad is a dead beat. He always has been and I think he always will. When I was younger I only saw my dad about once or twice a year. Now its less than that. I havent seen him in...
    yoloforsho yoloforsho 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Okay this is the first time that I have written my story.... . Well typed it . It all started when my mom (who I love so deeply) got married to this man when I was 5 years old ! I...
    shy9723 shy9723 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I am 47 and have never had a career, only jobs. I am highly educated and talented but haven't accomplished much in life. I've never been married or lived with a man and have no...
    loseriffic loseriffic 41-45, F Jul 20

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    My mum and I used to be close until I turned 13 and we moved to the country. We rented a house from a man named glen who had 3 kids and lived in the shed he owned next to the house...
    nicole1999 nicole1999 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate my dad. I know that most people I say this to will brush it off and just say think this is irrelevant since I'm younger and have no idea what I'm saying or feeling. But the...
    strawberrywonder strawberrywonder 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm new at this so um. I don't know how this will go. Sometimes, my dad can get me really upset. I DO NOT hate my dad. But I do have days I don't necessarily like him. I remember...
    anongirl4ever anongirl4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    My dad is verbally/emotionally abusive... I don't see him now. But he was always really mean. He's called me "fat, annoying, clown" & other stuff... He's also super racist, which...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The film, The Lords Of Flatbush is about four losers growing up in 1950's Brooklyn that will just touch your heart. The music in here is incredible especially the ending song, "the...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Jul 1

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    I'm kinda depressed... (Dear dad.. I thought of you today but that is nothing new... I thought about you yesterday and days before that to...I think of you in silence..and even...
    jdunlap jdunlap 16-17, M Jul 3

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